Guestbook Entries

7/23/08
papababy4@yahoo.com
My name is Patrick Fletcher. I am supposedly the son of one Mr.Roland Martins Fletcher. My father came to Nigeria where he worked for eldar Dempster shipping line, one of the first in west Africa. As a result of so much presure from his family in UK especialy through his bethrotted child hood girl friend, my father disppeared at the time i was born. He went back to England and i believe married that woman and raised Children with her. I have documented evidence of his death of birth and equally his father's marriage certificate all recovered from the UK records office through my own daugther who is presently there in UK.I have reliable information that my father eventually died in the year 1966. So far i have not been able to reach out to any body with regards to him. My father had two sons and two daugthers. I am the last child. I have been in Nigeria but one thing that will please me so much will be for me to visit my fathers country and his county to see if i can reach out with any body that is connected with him.I can give more details if required because i need help. Patrick Fletcher.

6/24/08
rkt483@aol.com
I sure hope I can find some helpful information here.

6/19/08
jhalley@co.clarke.ga.us
Advise needed...I've been divorced 3 yrs, have joint custody, we pay same amount into a joint account. I pay medical and she pays dental which is a fraction of the medical. She make 78% more money than me but refuses to agree to a percent of our gross salary to go into the account. Do I have a case to fight. What is the right thing to do and how do I go about it?

4/9/08
suzenright@aol.com
Don't blame all mothers. My X husband is like a lot of mean folks out here planing head games with me and our sons.

2/10/08
VICKYBARTZ@YAHOO.COM
WOMAN THAT HAVE CUSTODY OF CHILDREN AND THEY DO NOT LET THE DAD SEE THEM AND NOT ENCOURAGE THEIR CHILDREN TO SEE THEIR FATHERS SHOULD LOSE THEIR CUSTODY OF THEIR CHILDREN ESPECIALLY THISE WHO SUPPOSELY CHANGE THIE CHILDS LAST WITHOUT THE FATHERS PERMISSION ESPECIALLY WHEN PATERNITY WAS ADJUDICATED. THEY SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEM SELVES. THE FATHERS HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO SEE THEIR CHILDREN NO MATTER WHAT THE OTHER PARENT SAYS. IT MAKES ME SICK THAT THEIR ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE THAT ARE SELFISH AND THEY WONT GROW-UP. SOMETIMES I WONDER IF THESE SO CALLES PARENTS THAT KEEP THE KIDS AWAY FROM THE FATHERS DIDNT HAVE A FATHER FIGURE IN THEIR LIVES SO THEY WANT THEIR KIDS TO GROW TO BE JUST LIKE THEM.

2/1/08
waterangel34@hotmail.com
I need some advise if possible my two children one 13 and one 9 dont want to go to there fathers anymore due to having strangers living with him at the moment there is a lady with 4 kids there and another man has just left my son has to sleep with his sister and a 12 year old girl the house is dirty and all the people having family probs with police being there kids are scared and they get there belongings brocken or stolen there dad smokes drugs and on medication I dont know what to do theres been 7 different people in last few months one stole there clothes toys and now a women with 4 kids on medication and police keeping her husband away and my children getting afraid and upset they begging me not to send them Im happely married they are in a private school and they have a clean stabble enviroment here Im scared for dealing with drugs and all these unstable people staying hope you can help thought I ask another father on there view. Kind regards Mel

1/5/08
tonevann3746@yahoo.com
iam a 42 yr old male we 6 kids. three by one wife and 1 by a girldfriend after the wife, and 2 by an ex after her, this is years ago. and ive always suported all of them, now child suport takes all my money, and i dont owe any childsuport and i have proof of that they say its not coming to them and i owe over 100,000 back rarers, i live in new york city and i need a lawyer, i have my 12 yr old son and iam homless now because child suport took everything from if you know a lawyer plse call me at 203-843-5117

11/25/07
howard.neil@hotmail.com
can anyone tell me if there is sucessful litigation freeing the accused father after a DNA test proves that his father is the father of the child in question. Also has there been successful civil damages paid to the accused father from the proven father(his natural father) or the mother of the child who falsely accused the natural son not the natural father. Lastly, are there any lawyers willing to tackle such cases.

10/1/07
lovegloria@bellsouth.net
x wife is very abrusive with my daugther court gave her custody for the second time in alabama

9/8/07
EDCHAMPAGNE@YAHOO.COM
MEN MUST ORGANIZE AND TARGET JUDGES,LAWYERS AND LAWMAKERS

4/29/07
skullwolf3000@yahoo.com
i am new to this site. i am going through hell with north carolina dept of social services. my ex girlfriend gave birth to my daughter and abandoned her.now i'm fighting for custody.the judge is only listening to social service and my lawyer is one of those court appointed jobs. they are useing my past and my new wifes againist us. i looked up some of my states laws and found out that in north carolina there are several laws my lawyer is not useing to help me. please someone email me with something or advice i can use. my other email address is chward2007@aol.com thank you for this site.

4/26/07
cvasquez@ptd.net
Great Page to have, but will there ever be JUSTICE for us with ex wives, especially greedy ones?

2/24/07
yolfrnnd@aol.com
I have recently divorced and I need help from other fathers regarding children visition rights and child support. Please command.

1/31/07
schwab_chuck@yahoo.com
need leagal help.

1/19/07
nanjjames@yahoo.com
great to see a sight for fathers

12/19/06
love@family.com
testing the new guestbook. hope you enjoy the site.

11/29/06
gerald_mcmillanjr@yahoo.com
i need legal advice

11/27/06
previa25@bellsouth.net
fathers have rights to and this is coming from a mother of a son who wants custody (full custody of his 12 year old daughter who is physically abused by her mother and it has been proven throught child protective services.

11/7/06
lynnette.wilson1@btinternet.com
fathers for justice where is mothers for justice

9/29/06
bobbyhazen1@aol.com
I am a retired Union Iron Worker on Social Security Disbility due to an Industrial Accident that left me totally disabled. Admittedly I had gotten behind in my child support payments for my daughter who is now 20 and a full-time student in the University Of Minnesota. I paid in full all the child Support payments. I emphasized the need to pay the support up through the time that she would come of age, that would close out my account. I paid a total of $37,000 dollars at that time and included her on my Social Security Disability Claim and subsequent Award. In the interim the account showed a short fall of $2,300 dollars. Finally I was able to convince her mother that my daughter needed only to go to the nearest Social Security Administraion Office and apply under my name. Once they did this she recieved a monthly allottment and back pay. The back pay totalled $8,000 dollars. Now my monthly benefit has been garnishied by almost $100/month. It seems to me that the Back pay she recieved should more than cover those interim arrearages for which I am being docked. I am forced to live on a fixed Income and feel this is totally unfair? Does anyone have an answer or possible solution? Bob S. Evansville,In.

9/24/06
tigerlilie05@yahoo.com
I am proud to be the fiance of a man who has fought for and has gained domicilary custody of his three daughter's aged 5,6, and 8 in Louisiana. I am very excited that others have a place to come to such as FOL to discuss their fears, hopes and thoughts concerning their children that they fight for each day. Keep fighting DADS!!!!!!!

9/22/06
lou22@hotmail.com
My fiance has been going through a difficult time with his ex. They have a daugther, now 8 years old. They seperated when the child was a baby. My fiance was away working, while she had an affair with the neighbor guy (who was also married at the time, who she's married to now) His ex has done nothing but harass him. He pays almost $600 a month in child support, provides medical and dental, and has to pay 75% of the out-of-pocket. She constantly takes the child to the doctor, just to spite him. She took her to the orthodotist a few months ago for expensive comsetic surgery stating "if she has it done she won't need braces. (the child doesn't even have her adult teeth, yet!) We are left with a $400 bill because his insurance doesn't pay well on things like that. She calls him non-stop at work and makes threats if the bills are not paid fast enough. He told her not to do the surgery right now, we just bought a house and couldn't afford it, and her reply was "well, maybe you shouldn't have bought a house then!" Even though her now husband had to pay his ex back $1500 in back child support before they could finance their house(this she told me herself!) The guy only pays $200 a month as is! My fiance continues working and pays every month (he has the state take it out of his checks)Why is it he has no decisions regarding medical bills? If it's a cavity or something serious, fine, but a surgery that might not even work? Our lawyer even said his 2 daughters had it done, it didn't do a thing,they still needed braces. I think if my fiance has to pay 75%, he should have some say! We both love the little girl so much! His ex plays "keep away" and my fiance did not get even a phone call the last 2 father's days. We tried calling her for about 2 weeks before father's day weekend and she would not answer her phone! I know there are some "dead-beat dad's" out there, my father left when I was 9 years old, never paid a dime to my mother who had to support two kids on her own. I also think there are mothers out there who take advantage. She now has 2 other kids with this man, and how funny on the last med statement she sent us her 2 other kids have 3 charges total, my fiance's daughter has 15! It seems there are a lot of loopholes in the system. I know a lot of families where the parents are still married, and they have to both pinch and scrape and put off things like braces until the funds are available. Why is it the non-custodial parent is just "expected" to be able to give out money on demand?

8/14/06
wseeley@mchsi.com
Look I am going to say this upfront: I am not a father, however I am a single mom and have alot of the same issues as some of you. I have learned alot by dealing with my issues and helping other families out. If you think I might be able to help you please feel free to contact me at wseeley@mchsi.com. Just to tell you a little about me. I lost my 2 yr old daughter after my mother died in an accident. I was young and dumb then. That was almost 8 yrs ago. Since then Division of Family Services has tried to come in and take my second daughter (who by the way is 2 and half). They have taken me to court to try and prove me unfit, they have done investigations, you name it they have done it or tried it. I have won this battle. I have also went through the state rep to get some of my issues resolved. I would like to help anyone out there that wants to get their children in a better condition or get their children back. Thanks for your time Misty in Missouri

8/4/06
admess@adelphia.net
going thru leagally ligitmating my son while incarserated. trying to keep family intact v.s adoption

5/5/06
sboarderblitz@yahoo.com
There are millions of books and sites to help SINGLE MOTHERS...I am relieved to know there is at least one place to get some advice! I hope you guys can help me...support is what I think we all need!

5/3/06
budwiser032005@yahoo.com
courts have no mursey i the man i pay 145 a week i bring home 115 how am i suppose to pay the rest of my bill they dont give a shit i would like to know about goverment childsupport kickbacks. hang in there guys even know you might have a rough story to tell remember theres alway a story out there that makes your not look so bad bye ronnie jordan

4/7/06
ysalatall@yahoo.com
dads have rights also this is the place to stand together and network our experiences child support contract to pay instead of jail just ask me .

3/15/06
maga@juno.com
please maga is dey oooooooooooooooooooooo

3/11/06
kid702@yahoo.com
please post more updates

3/9/06
virtalex@gmail.com
Excuse for intrusion, but at me not the big question. How you think how many people on the ground smoke and how many have ceased?

3/4/06
homiie@aol.com
I just wanted to give a warm hello.

3/2/06
brit454@aol.com
Just wanted to say hi.

2/9/06
saintsalts@yahoo.com
I have joint custody of my son and my ex is or has moved to another state. Is there something I can do to stop the move, so i can still see my son, can she move why out my concent?

1/23/06
Julien0246@yahoo.com
Tis site is great but im looking for more, Im 26 and father of twins with a unrealistic ex.Im just starting the process for custody. This is a small start. Thanks

1/11/06
thefireman@gci.net
the problems that all noncustodial parents, and even some of the custodial parenst depending on what state or county you live in can be led to one thing, it is called the state plan and the contracts between the courts and the office of child suppoprt in or within jurisdiction of youre hometown.Yep youre judges are bound by contract to perform in the favor of CSED and the administrative state abd no its not for the best interest of the child. Would you like more, have lots of it and we are giving it all out to anyone and everyone, for youo cant fight if you dont realy know what youre fighting

12/29/05
www.bllbarfield@yahoo.com
This goes to all the fathers out there who are not getting the time with their children, HANG IN THERE

12/28/05
Alijarmon@msn.com
There should be away to send a message to everyone at the same time if needed that a member of Fathersonline.com

12/19/05
srt5657@aol.com
I am so glad found this site. so many unaswered Qs. hope i can be help to other dads and also get help for my situation through other fathers. thank you all. Steve

12/7/05
cezgg@comcast.net
I have three year old son and a nine month old daughter and i've been handed down and child support order with is okay but i'm looking for a lawyer to get me full or joint custdy if you know a good one please let me know via email

11/23/05
woodmongrel_trimman@yahoo.com
My heart goes out to you gentlemen,I myself are trying to keep my step kids from dhr

11/21/05
kj20052@verizon.net
it's wrong when the mother holds your children from you,for the stupidest smallest reasons, it's important that fathers be part of their childrens life, and not for mothers to use our childrens for there own personal issuses against their ex's, married or not. It doesn't make sence how the laws work it shouldn't just favor mothers, fathers should have the same rights equal rights. Congress should really open thier eyes and look in whats happening in many cases were our kids are be used to hurt fathers, and mothers not realizing what their doing to our childrens mental health by doing what thier doing. THANK YOU

11/20/05
bootlegerama@hotmail.com
should i bee concerned when future x telles 6yr old they are moving away when i am seeking temp cust

11/17/05
hncburris@verizon.net
What do you do about a bias judge that takes away your midweek visits becuae 20 minutes is too far for the custodial parent to drive after I have been doing all the driving for a year for midweeks and every other weekends to and from. I proved her to be unfit to take care of the kids because of poor hygeine - they are failing in school - her boyfriend sits around all night in front of my 11 yr old daughter and 8 year old son and she has withheld visitation and phone calls and the judge takes time away from me and never did anything about what I proved. She took custody away from me a year when she had me arrested on trumped up drugs charges that we all dismissed because they could never come up with any eveidence. Until then I had the kids since birth while she was was never around.

10/26/05
sugarplum0@hotmail.com
I am looking for my daughter's father for the past six years. He is very successful at hiding at the expense of living as a fugutive. He does not have a bank account...he has not filed income tax in the past few years and he does not have a drivers license. I work two jobs and my daughter and I barley get by...all I need is at least transportation for her to go to school and that will be a great help. She is now 14 and is the female version of him. Who cares if he doesn't want to see her...or if he is broke..he was broke when whe had her..I don't know how to get a hold of him...$20 a week is great by me.

10/25/05
usatoolman@msn.com
I would like to know if anyone out there has a hard time getting the divorce and then the ex wife soaking him dry. I live in the great state of Connecticut and I do not have any children but my life is at stake. My belongings and house is up for sale and I have nothing or no one. Just want justice for the person filing for a divorce because the partner could not keep her clothes on.

10/21/05
emax@telus.net
i am a mom going thru courts and stuff is hard on 'everyone'! Gods plan was that parents stay together and 'work things out' marriage is never easy even for the best couples there are times when things are 'very' hard. I know there are times and situations beyond our control. It 'is' heartwrenching anytime one or both parents and the kids have to be seperated from each other. God helps me get through things I dont know how but He works! things that would have driven most people nuts He has brought me 'through' i have found that the only thing i could do ---i better do! Teach them how to be decent people that don't give up on their problems but work them through so they won't inherit 'our' mistakes. 'when' they are with you .... give them quality time that is self sacrificing to yourself and benefical to them. Give them memories of their dad or mom that are positive if you aren't sure what that is look at other successful families and try to copy what they have done. Do unto others as you would have them do to you. Would you want someone to take them away more? Probably not. If there is more than one child consider timesharing with when one is with mom the other is with you that will ease your suffering and make you feel less lonely. Even if the other parent is bad...it hurts our kids to reenforce it after all they are half of both of you and they did not turn out so bad so maybe there is something good there after all even if it did not work for you. And guess what...we all make mistakes no one is perfect.If you try to make the best of the situation the way it is now and trust the Lord to help you, He can and will give you good things in your life He wants to.

10/8/05
scotts68c10@hotmail.com
Im looking

10/6/05
marywhite04@hotmail.com
I have 3 boys, 14, 11 and 6 with different dads. AS WELL AS 2yr old twins with hubby. I get along with the oldest and youngest ones father extrodinarily well, almost unbelievable but it works wonders for a mutual parenting relationship. my 11 year old however- i have joint custody, 2 weeks with dad, 2 weeks with mom. in the same school district. his father and i have struggled for 9 years. this past january he lost his other 4 year old son in a house fire and my 11 yr old was also devestated by this. i sought counseling but dad would never agree to take him during his custody. so in july of this year he injured himself on his bike with eye witnesses, his dad filed a protection from abuse against me and turned me in to CYS, it was unfounded after three weeks of investigation, CYS accompanied me to court on my behalf. my son insisted that I beat him so a PFA was granted for a year. his father has been arrested 4 times for DUI, is on house arrest, on state(not County) parole, was arressted for posession of drug paraphenilia, possession of a contolled substance and has a pattern of making false reports against me. however they cant be proven so the authorities dont do anything. I AM DEVESTATED AND GRIEVE EVERYDAY KNOWING I CANT SEE, TALK TO, HUG/KISS, SEND CARDS OR LETTERS OR GIFTS, I AM LOST WITHOUT MY SON AND HEARTBROKEN HE WOULD SAY SOMETHING LIKE THAT. NO HALLOWEEN, THANKSGIVING, CHRISTMAS, NEW YEARS, MOTHERS DAY, HIS 12TH B-DAY, 4TH OF JULY.......I CANT SEE HIM AGAIN UNTIL AUG OF 2006. ICANT AFFORD TO PAY A LAWYER AND DONT QUALIFY FOR LEGAL AID OR I WOULD FILE AN APPEAL. How can this happen, any advice from you dads would be great or if you know of a good lawyer in PA or NY that would work with me?PLEASE HELP!!!!!! my email is marywhite04@hotmail.com

10/4/05
aluttrell@tc3net.com
I have 2 girls ages 14, and 15 whom live with there mother. The mother was supposed to be in court for domestic assualt on the older sister on Monday October 3, 2005, unsure if she went. On Sunday Oct. 2, 2005, I recieved a call about the older sister, and my 15 year old missing, the mothers boyfriend had beaten up the older sister and her and my older daughter had fled the home. This was at approximatly 8:40 pm. Eventually the 2 girls showed up at there aunts house in the country in their pajamas and my daughter had no shoes on. They were exhausted and hysterical. To make a long story short, I contacted CPS, our local Friend of the Court office, and the County sheriff himself, and nothing has been done except the older sister has been removed from the home leaving my 2 daughters to fend for themselves. I need help to recieve temporary custody until I can afford an attorney to try to gain fulll custody. ALl 3 of the girls and they have a 5 year old brother who belongs to the mother and boyfriend have been in this abusive situation for several years. I could tell you stories that would raise the hair on your neck, but I will not go there right now. If there is anyone who can help me out there, please cantact me.

10/2/05
Spunky_84@hotmail.com
When one pays childsupport and they change jobs do to their doing ,the System WILL hold that person to what they have been paying on support prior to the change ,if it is more then what they get paid on their new Job ,when they have held a good paying Job and quit them on their own and or caused there being fired .They don't care ,the System, if the one who pays childsupport has to work two Jobs or not to pay what he has been paying .Beating the System I doubt it very much. there is ONE way ONLY that is if health keeps someone from working .By the way . Loving your Children is NOT ,Not caring what their needs are . Loving them is being with them as much as possible and caring for their needs .

9/23/05
Jacg@hotmail.com
Don't feel bad all you guys out there! Before I filed for a divorce 9 yrs ago, I got a job paying $5.50. I only paid $95 for my 3 girls for going on 9 yrs now. I beat the system!!! HAHAHA! F them. Who cares if my 3 girls need things...their mom had to get 2 fulltime jobs to make ends meet. I'm a creative accountant. My ex says that I'll get mine one day, but I could care less whether all 3 need braces, girl stuff, or food. Don't get me wrong, I love the girls very much but I hate their mother. People say how lucky I am to pay so little for 3 girls but I tell them that I have my own business and I'm an accountant. Good luck to all you guys out there!!

9/20/05
laurel_moss@yahoo.com
After reading your Dad to Dad section I realize that there are plenty of men going through the same situation my brother is with his estranged wife. We will be posting on the Dad to Dad in hopes of getting legal help. Thanks for a great site.

9/18/05
mcgee1488@yahoo.com
I missed the court date to get my child {it was on accident}. They gave them to a lady that had no rights to her. The court date was the 14th of sept. Its the 19th of sept. please give any info. on what to do to get her!

9/13/05
b.amey@sbcglobal.net
child custody issue my boyfriend is having

9/13/05
lilynpapo@yahoo.com
HI MY NAME IS LILIANA. MY HUSBAND AND I ARE BOTH IN THE NAVY. HE WAS MARRIED BEFORE AND HAD A SON THAT MIGHT NOT EVEN BE HIS. I MEET HIS FOR THE FIRST TIME 1 MONTH AGO. MY HUSBAND PAYS FOR CHILD SUPPORT AND ALSO FOR MEDICAL AND DENTAL INSURANCE. WE EVEN WENT ALL THE WAY TO GETTING HIM A MILITARY ID INCASE OF AN ACCIDENT. IN ANOTHER WORDS WE DO PAY FOR EVERYTHING. I JUST GOT BACK FROM IRAQ AND HIS EX-WIFE IS DRIVING ME UP THE WALL. FROM THE LATE NIGHT CALLS THAT SHE MAKE AND HANGING UP ON ME WHEN I ANSWER THE PHONE. SHE STILL TELLS MY HUSBAND THAT SHE LOVES HIM BUT SHE IS ABOUT TO GET MARRIED AND HAS BEEN PREGNANT FROM OTHER MEN BEFORE. WHAT CAN I DO TO GET THIS LADY OUT OF MY LIFE. I AM A HAPPY PERSON AND ALL I WANT TO DO IS TALK TO HER AND SPEAK MY PEACE. BUT SHE WONT LET ME CALLING ME BAD NAMES AND LYEING TO MY HUSBAND THAT I HANGUP THE PHONE ON HER. I HAVE NEVER DONE SUCH THING. I NEED HELP IN STOPING THIS INSANE PERSON AND WANT FOR HER TO LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE. I HAVE ENOUGHT STRESS IN MY LIFE LEAVING OUT TO WAR AND LEAVING MY FAMILY BEHIND. I JUST WANT ALL THIS TO STOP AND I JUST HOPE IN THE FUTURE THIS PERSON AND I COULD GET ALLONG. I DO WISH HER THE BEST IN HER NEW MARRAGE BUT I FEEL BAD FOR THE NEW GROOM TO BE. LOL IF SOMEONE IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME PLEASE E-MAIL ME.

9/9/05
MGBADAJOE@ABA.COM
I LOVE THIS PAGE.

8/31/05
thecinderellaaaa@yahoo.com
Im nead the information in spanish

8/19/05
metalic@yahoo.com
I am a divorced man of one year now. We have a 5 yearold son. He is my world. My ex-wife tried to get 100% custody. But, thanks to the great State of Arizona, I was thankful to know that; Arizona likes the idea of men who want to be fathers, lets them. If we would've been in California (which the holy matrimony began) she could've burned me for everything. God Bless Arizona. If anybody files for divorce, do it in Arizona where the law is FAIR. Not one sided like they are in other states. I'm sorry to all my fellow males out there, I guess my situation could be worse. Goodluck to you all.

8/16/05
rudesoundproductions@yahoo.com
My ex wife Natalee Barracks won'tlet me see my daughters and I've hadf court ordered visitation for the last 4 years but she has not let me see them, talk to them, and conceals their address. I don't know where my children live or who they live with. There was already a family incident where Natalee's younger cousin Andre who moved to Chicago from Jamaica was caught in the basement of Natalee's mothers house, on top of my then only 4 year old daughter. That situation was swept under the rug cause it was a family issue. But I'm scared for my daughters who are 15 and 13 now. And every since the fall of 1997 I've hasd a hard time seeing my children. I have an extensive criminal history involving the sale of drugs (1989) unlawful possesion of a weapon (1997) and I've had other past issues with the law in Chicago, but nothing was ever involving child endangement, murder or any sexual crimes. So what is the reason as a good father who was always there for my daughters, not be allowed to have a relationship with his children because the mother hates me and her way to pay me back is to keep my children from me any means necessary. She has lied in court several times, never complied with court orders and has no intention on ever respecting the courts decision to let me see my children. My problem is that I live in Atlanta, Georgia and they live in Chicago. Natalee can afford good crooked lawyers and I can't. I used to travel to Chicago for court from Atlanta, retain lawyers and get burned after 2 court dates and they want more money every time you see them and I feel I can't win. She is a church going liar and I'm an ex street kid that hasn't broke the law in years and I have no intention of doing so. I raise my 4 sons. Darrius (17), Mystery (4), Musiq (3) and Magic (2) I work very hard to keep my family together. My wife is very supportive but she see's my pain quite often. Not being able to have a relationship with my daughters is killing me. The lost time and special moments I'm missing out on, cause the mother has a new love interest and feels that I shouldn't be involved in their lives. It's ridiculous and I feel like I have nobody to turn to cause the judicial system is not set up in our favor. Fathers need rights. My kids won't be kids forever! I need a life with them to instill my values, and teach them my ways and how challeging this world is for females and how to handle all of this complication the world has in store for our children. My name is Darrick J.Clemons and my phone number is (770) 621-4640 and I need help obtaining justice, legal assistance, advice, etc. NO OTHER MAN CAN RAISE MY KIDS LIKE I WILL OR LOVE THEM THE SAME WAY.

8/16/05
steve077@telus.net
I am a male adoptee looking for my birth father. His name is Gordon McInroy or MacInroy.Please contact me as I have some medical questions for you. Thank you.

8/9/05
myflipper2@comcast.net
My son was arrested for failure to comply with a court order. He in fact did comply and the child support office worker lost the paper work (PGC Form 4412?) that should have been turned in to the courts. He was arrested, paid a first party cash bond of $500 dollars then he received a letter (motion to quash writ of attachment) from the circuit court for Prince Georges county child support enforcement office. Now he is having a problem trying to get the $500 bond returned. In addition, is there something that can be done about the caseworker losing the paperwork,I'm his mother and tried to sit in on a meeting at the child support office so he would have a witness to what these people had to say and I was not allowed. My son told me that the worker had two supervisors in the meeting and told him they lost the paperwork and wanted him to sign another paper. Someone's mistake caused my son to be aressted and I believe my son may have a law suit.

7/29/05
namtac100@yahoo.com
I can not get help for I am on disability and I am poor I have a custady case on going my sons mother is addicted to pills and I fear for my sons well being I don't know where to ture to please some one help me.I never knew my father and it will kill me if I can't give my son the father he deserves Some one please help I am desparate and do not want to make any mistakes that will hurt my cances of being in my sons life Thank you

7/24/05
mark_ww354@mail.com
Congratulations on the new layout. Keep it up to date as a celebrity :)

7/17/05
alex_mm453@mail.com
Where are the updates? i cant seem to find them. But anyway, nice job.

7/17/05
rdeaton@mchsi.com
looking for advice in dealing with non-custodial parent issues and how to advoid conflict within the family

7/16/05
james194r@yahoo.com
really good one, but i would stick more with updating and fresh data. this will help a lot to play.

7/13/05
cmills358@hotmail.com
unwed fathers rights

7/13/05
jcalimee@sandiegosymphony.org
I am a 47 year old father. my xwife made false statments to the courts and got a restraining order against me, now it has bee almost 2 years since i seen my little girl. please help!!!!!!!

7/13/05
keithecap@yahoo.com
Good luck fathers, remain an active participant in your childrens lives.

7/13/05
stanfield_gary@yahoo.com
I am a 26 yr old father of 2 girls both different mothers.i pay 200 to each mother.i am 10000 behind becuz i started behind like 7000 and then i got sick and could not work. now i am working full time again and i am paying alot back which is no big deal to me.but today there was money taken out of my account is this for real child support srvs can just come in and take $ from someone and leave them w/ nothing to live off of so they can get back and forth to work.i have no $ now and i dont think im going to be able to make it to work for the rest of the pay period.what is this country coming too....im in the army national guard in ca.....and if this is the freedom im fighting for forget it!I see no freedom to fight for anymore....this country is sad and it makes me sad that i might have to die to keep letting the system screw ppl that pay child support over....WHAT SHOULD I DO?

7/3/05
leahpr@verizon.net
Im a 40 year old father with 1 boys, 1 girl with a X that left me 20 years ago.and who i only had my first 2 kids with. she in 20 years got welfare in 5 differt states.6 years ago are son ran away and I had are daughter for the last 6 years.I have a welfare case worker in Alabama calling me.trying to say I owe for back cild suport from 1997 to 2004 she never had either one of them,and I and my wife had my daughter. when I ask him why they dont do a background check to see if she scaming the state. he said they dont have the people for that so that I owe.i payed lets fight.she left them for 10 year with other people in sperts hooked on meth.

6/30/05
donkeydick1995@yahoo.com
what do I got to do to get full custody

6/25/05
idemili oba mumu@yahoo.com
i like to be a good man

6/24/05
palmam88@yahoo.com
I have an daughter who is 9 years old, and when I got divorced in 2001, my ex-wife and I were granted Joint Custody (my ex-wife was appointed as her Primary Managing Conservator). Since our divorce, my ex-wife has gone from fair to really, really, really badly addicted to drugs, Methamphetamine, Cocaine, Crack (all I.V.) in addition to Marijuana, and Chronic Alcoholism. In 10/2004, I found out that my ex-wife had her two other kids (both from her first and third marriage) taken away from her by CPS. I had then (in contempt of court orders) kept my daughter from going to live back with her mother, and "hid her out" for two weeks while I hired an attorney, and filed a motion to modify the Child Custody in our final divorce orders. My daughter had been strangled by my ex-wife's common-law husband, who is on probation for drug charges, and is over twenty years older than my ex-wife and myself (We are 33). I have been very firm abut my daughter having contact with her mother, as i only allow her visitation in a supervised setting(basically ONLY when I am present). I have done this due to my child's horror stories about her being at "crack houses", witnessing her mother having sexual intercourse, using I.V. and additional alcohol and drugs in her presence, and literally living in feces, and a complete disregard for my daughter's welfare and best interest. Now my daughter is very upset because her mother refuses to get help or enter rehab, and even telephone her. The last conversation she had with her mother (3 weeks ago) I monitored (as I have in addition to extensive written documentation). My ex-wife tld my daughter "she was raped by 4 black guys, while she was walking in a predominately "drug active' neighborhod, and was robbed, tied up, beaten, and then finally freed after 6 days." I immeadiately ceased the conversation and scolded my ex-wife for her content of discussion with my daughter. I later found out the truth-she went on her free will to a "crack house' and was shooting up crack(which I did not know was feasible), and after spending $700.00 (from her unemployment check, she consensually had sex with several african american men in return for more crack, then returned to her common-law husband, and told him "the lie she told my daughter". I now have my daughter (for the second time in 4 years in Counseling, as she tells me "I hate my mom, she doesn't love me", and I am telling her "that her mother is sick, and has a disease (drug addiction). I am ging about this the right way, or should I stop defending her mother, and allow her to continue her behavior.? She has madea 360 degre turn in the positive direction, academically, physically, and spiritualy. I was addicted to Prescription Meds (Vicodin, Lortab, Norco, Hydrocodone, etc.., but hae been clean over 3 years now. I would really like to have someone share their thoughts, comments, and/or suggestion() they may have. I appreciate any reply. palmam88@yahoo.com

6/22/05
jbstrings@hotmail.com
my ex wife had a child that has been having problems and she used that as an excuse to move to florida where her ex husband that she was in contact lives and she hasnt let me see the child at all and i dont think he is mine and my children have seen him and he has red hair and i have black hair and he has blue eyes and i have brown and they said he doesnt look anything like me.. well what should i do because i am tired of paying for a kid they might not be mine when i could use that money for my 13 year old daughter?

6/22/05
tbird1940@aol.com
had 2 children taken from me 40 years ago,i tracked them to milwuakee wisconson my ex remarried to a childabuser they adopted them even though i had them percourt order in nyc hon curtis wilwaukee childrens court should go back to law school

6/20/05
erfdf@earthlink.comkeep up the good work
keep up the good work

6/19/05
markarcher1@btinternet.com
my ex wife wanted me out of my daughters life 5 years ago,my daughter is now 10 years old. I do not now where she is even living as we speak. Thanks to british justice i do not see my daughter.birthdays and christmas are very hard .

6/16/05
bsi-international@earthlink.net
FATHERS: FIRED UP AND FED UP! PHILADELPHIA, PA. (U.S.A.) � 16 June 2005 � This Father�s Day weekend will mark the third anniversary of the Million Dad March � an event that was first launched on Father�s Day in Calendar Year 2003 by Thomas Lessman, of Topeka, Kansas, a Father�s Rights activist and Chairman of the Million Dads March. During this Father�s Day weekend, Fathers will take to the streets in cities throughout our global village to engage in peaceful demonstrations that celebrate Fatherhood and call attention to the unique parenting and health needs of Men. In the United States, men are scheduled to participate in a peaceful demonstration in Washington, D.C. during this Father�s Day weekend. In the days leading up to Father�s Day Weekend 2005, a National Father�s Rights Conference will be held in Detroit, Michigan on 16 June 2005 and 17 June 2005. And the Second National Men�s Congress will be held in Washington, D.C. on 15 July 2005 and 16 July 2005. So what�s up with Dad? Why are Fathers fired up and fed up? �Married Fathers, Divorced Fathers, Single Fathers, Custodial Fathers, Non-Custodial Fathers, �Long Distance� Fathers and �Stay-At-Home� Fathers are not only shaping the minds and souls of our children, but they are seriously examining the causes of the breakdown of the family as they redefine their roles and responsibilities as parents. Men � especially Men who are Fathers are shouting at the top of their lungs: �Hey, I am a man! I�m not a wallet. I�m a human being. I laugh. I love. I cry. I dream. I hurt. I am a man! I am quite capable of loving, nurturing and mentoring my children � even if it means that I have to do it alone � as a Single Father, a Non-Custodial Father or a �Stay-At-Home Father�! I am tired of being made to feel that I have no value . . . that I am not needed! There are not enough resources and support services available to me that will help me move my family forward. There is not enough research and research funding being devoted to my unique health issues. And I want to be treated fairly by the courts in child custody and child support matters. I want the courts to look at me and see that I, too, am worthy of being given sole custody of my children,� says Diane A. Sears, a member of the University Council of Akamai University�s Fatherhood and Men�s Studies Program; author of IN SEARCH OF FATHERHOOD� -- TRANSCENDING BOUNDARIES; and Managing Editor of IN SEARCH OF FATHERHOOD� Forum For and About the Fathers of the World, a quarterly male parenting journal which is exclusively published and distributed by BSI International, Inc. in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. Sears who has been at the helm of the international quarterly parenting journal since its launch in October 1999, has interviewed over 100 Fathers from diverse backgrounds and geographic locations. Sears says that Men � especially Men who are Fathers � are not just sitting around chatting about what they need and want. According to Sears, Men are taking action. What kind of action? �In September 2004, the Indiana Civil Rights Council launched a federal class action suit on behalf of Non-Custodial Fathers in the United States against the states of Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, the District of Columbia, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Indiana, Kentucky, Louisiana, Maine, Maryland, Massachusetts, Michigan, Minnesota, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Jersey, New Mexico, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, Vermont and Virginia. Why? The federal class action lawsuit takes the position that states, through Family Court and agencies of the family court system, are denying liberty, privacy and family interest protection to non-Custodial parents � specifically � Non-Custodial Fathers. The lawsuit views this denial as a violation of the United States Constitution. On 17 January 2005, a Dutch Father in the City of Utrecht in The Netherlands � dressed in a Batman costume � staged a protest for several hours on a rooftop balcony atop a courthouse to call attention to the unfair treatment that Divorced Fathers experience in courts in The Netherlands. Men � especially Men who are Fathers � are talking to one another, supporting one another and forming coalitions which extend beyond geographic borders.� Sears observed. �Fathers are also flexing their �political muscles.� In August 2003, Warren Farrell, Ph.D., a prolific author of books on Fatherhood and Men�s issues announced his candidacy for the 7 October 2003 California Gubernatorial Recall Election. Dr. Farrell ran on a �Father�s Rights� platform. In the months leading up to the 2004 Presidential Election, a debate raged in Internet online discussion groups among Men in the United States concerning which Presidential candidate � Mr. Bush or Mr. Kerry -- would fight for fathers,� added Sears. # # #

6/13/05
faithwins@optonline,net
Hello: My Name is Kevin Holmes I have a 8 year old son,and I work at night, in as a Law enforcement Officer. My wife left and is now married again, it's been 6-7 year and I have not gone there not even a date. I love God and I want to be an example for my son

5/29/05
dougfleszar@hotmail.com
NATIONAL CONGRESS OF FATHERS AND CHILDREN helping Fathers in Pennsylvania.

5/25/05
jjcleaning248@hotmail.com
i am in a very bad situation i buy everything for my son but the mother takes a way my visitation let her boyfriend who attacks my son be around him their is no custudy establish i have been every where tring to get help no sicial services no legal aid will help me can not afford a lawyer can anybody tell me how can i get the legel document needed to do it myself for custudy

5/24/05
j_seversen @yahoo.com
hi there. we had a little boy that my love fathered with a nutty chic. he is only 8 and lives in a pay by the day motel. she is a crack head .we live in IN and she in AZ. just wanted to know if that was we can get this little boy to take care of him her family has alot of money also we somewhat do but not as much [please help

5/23/05
shelton9566@bellsouth.net
need to know of an attorney who will actually fight for fathers rights. i live in lebanon,tn 30 miles east of nashville

5/19/05
getapril2003@yahoo.com
Mothers please stop putting men up for chld suppt when they are trying just b/c you don't like the new love of his life and please stop keeping the kid/s away from him they will only grown up to resent you for it is only a matter of time before they start to understand what's going on. Fathers stop disowning your child/ren b/c of something they said or b/c they are dating your homie, which is not cool moms Stay away from baby daddy's best-friend/s. Get alone for the child and saying bad things about each other or allowing new loves to talk down on their parents is a no, no. We have to pull together and mothers know that a man who loves his child will let no woman mistreat them and vise-versa. I love you all. If one stand we all we soon be standing.

5/19/05
STEPHEN@RYELEA1960.FSNET.CO.UK
HOW DO I GO ABOUT CUSTERDY OF MY 14 YR OLD GIRL SHE LIVES WITH ME ALL THE TIME BUT HER MOM IS TELLING ME NOW WHO & WHO SHE CAN SEE NOT SEE & THINGS R GETTING IN A MESS SO CAN I GET SOLE CUSTERDY OF ME GIRL ?

5/15/05
fazer0012000@yahoo.com
Need help locating my daughter

5/15/05
acusniper@yahoo.com
Oh boy, i just got served with divorce papers from my wifes attorney. I took it well, and even offered to help the guy who served the papers with his supposed "flat tire"... Anyway my wife was very controlling during our 10 year relationship. Her mother died of aids when my wife was only 15, and my father died of aids a year and a half ago. Our marriage was cursed from the start. We gave up our first daughter for "open" adoption, see: http://www.cnn.com/US/9610/02/adoption/ Yes! the parents in the story at the bottom is my wife and I... We had a baby boy march 2003...She has been addicted to hydrocodone, and klonapin, and actively saught out these drugs through friends, dentists, psychs, hospitals, even my mom traded pills with her. One day I came home from a job i had in a college. It was 2:00am and i heard my son crying as i came up the stairs. I ran to the door of my apartment and opened the door to see my wife sleep on the floor in the living room by the phone... I quickly ran to my son and gave him a bottle and he was fine. So i tried to wake my wife up, but she wouldnt wake up!...I clapped, I stomped, i yelled, then i got a 2 liter bottle of coca cola and dropped it on the floor by her head....she still wouldnt wake up.. I shook her, and she was still out... I was in a panic and i though she was dead so I checked her pulse... she was alive thank god, and I got some water and splashed her with it...She moved and finally woke up. She was on a drug called klonapin, a drug that they give to people who have seizures, and it reduces your heart rate and breathing. anyway. she came out of the hospital on monday in april 2005 and took my son on tuesday, i called cps and told them about all the prescription drugs, weed, and drinking, i even told them about the time she needed to go to the emergency room for a head ache, and the nurse would not prescribe her anything for pain as she wanted, but the nurse suggested a spinal tap to find out what was wrong with her supposed headache...i knew she was in there trying tho get prescription pills and when she fell asleep i went home to walk the dog... Ring ring, "hello?" It was the hospital telling me that my wife took the I.V. out of her arm and left the hospital, and they were going to send the cops if she did not return, i drove down the street that night on the way to the hospital, and there she was walking down the street, going home, with NO head ache... It was only fitting that our marriage ended in the hospital were she was admitted into the psyc ward for trying to commit suicide with pills just 3 years earlier, and 3 months earlier than that she was getting her stomach pumped in that same hospital... so after cps got her signature for a release of HER medical records, she hired a lawyer and served me with divorce papers, for cruel and inhuman treatment, and constuctive abandonment...lol e-mail me gents...i wanted to talk to the guy with the bad back, cuz he inspired me...i dont know how he is still able to type with all the stuff he's going through... talk to ya later jw aka ayatollah

5/12/05
willyosopitt@yahoo.com
father looking for info. on child custody & visit.

5/6/05
fairy_kisses82@yahoo.com
I would like to become a member. I tried signing up, but there is an error everytime I try. What am I doing wrong?

5/5/05
knightriderlc@yahoo.com
please help me did i make the right choice leave my wife because of the screamings and fusses and name calling my daughter caused i feel like i let my wife down i feel like im a dead beat dad my wife has payed my child support for 6 years and i just broke inside and left my wife is now sick with cancer and numerous of other sicknesses please help me get my head straight.

4/26/05
really_sweet_princess@yahoo.com
It hurts to see my husband having to give up his college hopes because he hasd to get two jobs to support our famuly and a woman who has his child thats NOT working because she is getting her "masters"degree! Does a father not have the option to better4 himself also?

4/25/05
lovedloser09@yahoo.com
well i would like to get testing done to see my medical history and who my father is for sure.. please help

4/22/05
ftbliss69@yahoo.com
GREAT JOB; AND INFO

4/19/05
cljensen25@yahoo.com
hi need help

4/13/05
krystle3185@netzero.net
I am a concerned mother of two beatiful daughters. There real father doesn't feel that he needs to help me support the girls finically or have anything to do with them. I dont know what to do. I see my older daughter who is six, cry all the time what should I do?

4/11/05
SYEDMASOODSHAHSYED@YAHOO.CO.UK
i m pakistani and i m male 33 years i m primary school teacher n.w.f.p.government in pakistan. i live hand to mouth as teaching in pakistan is thankless job. for bright future i want to settle in your country. i need your help far said purpose i want to merry you in this way you will easily call me to your country we will live for ever if you are not willing to marry me then do favour far me in this regard and arrange my marrige with some one your friends or arrange work permit for me. i m ready to marry with 15years to 45 years old woman i candidly write every thing to you it is up to you do pity upon nead help me i hope you will not disappoint me i shall ever remember your this kind act thx from shah e-mail:syedmasoodshahsyed@yahoo.co.uk

4/11/05
susanneb1984@yahoo.co.uk
My daughter is 2 years old and her father hasn't seen her since October 2003, he now is engaged and has another child by his current girlfriend. There is a dispute over paternity but he signed the birth certificate and as there was violence in the relationship, I didn't argue. How can I get him out of our lives? I am with a new partner, and I am 20 weeks pregnant with our child, and we have been looking into adoption but we'd like to wait until my daughter is old enough to have a say. Any advice would be much appreciated.

4/1/05
Carracer135@aol.com
I was married to a woman that was 1 month pregant, when I married her! She told me that the father didnt want the child. So I signed the birth certificate.I was born with spinenbifida,and can-not have kids.So worked out ok untill she left me.. She withdrew the intyer bank acc,and took a new car I bought for her.Then charged all the credit cards to there max, after are divorce was final she filed bankrupe.So im paying back those to.I have taken care of the child as my own, she is 10 now.Just got papers the other day for child support.hum I dont no my rights help.Do I have to pay,I did sign the birth certificate in 1995. I can claim S.S.I BUT CHOOSE TO WORK.IM in Oregon..And need some help

3/30/05
marmstrong@hvc.rr.com
I am in desperate need of some help.My ex took my daughter to venice florida five yrs. ago and now has just turned off the only phone number I had to call my child.I am now being told I have to get an attorney down in florida to fight her for any type of visition with my little girl I spoke to my girl 5&6 times a week and am now on disability recovering from a injuries from a car accident and cannot afford to come down to florida I need to find legal help fast. I don't want my little girl who is only 7 to think her daddy has forgotten her Please is there anyone out there who can help me

3/30/05
sublime5373@yahoo.com
My husband has a son from his X and he is now 11, my husband has not seen him in 10 years.... We pay child support every pay day and she will not let us talk to him or even visit him.... When the got divorced he did sign some papers and he does not remember what he signed... needless to say she will not let us visit with him.... we have other children and he has never met them.... we have heard that he wants to see us but his X will not let him.... We do not know what to do.... I feel that we pay we should be able to see or even talk to him on the phone. We talked to his X and she told us she only want our money and that my husband has NO rights to him, Tell me if you think that I am wrong cause we want to get to know him.... We told her that we wanted to see him as long as it does not interfear with his schooling..... WHAT SHOULD I DO????? I want to call her and talk (should I??) I just do NOT think that she is being fair........PLEASE HELP....ANYONE

3/29/05
ccforadory@comcast.net
I share custody of my daughter who unknown by me has now missed so much school, she is indefinately expelled. I'm talking about an A-B student going into her senour year, who's mother writes false excuses for her being absent at school and a school who failed to contact me. She just turned 18 and now my arms are tied. Is there any legal recourse? Please respond!

3/22/05
TPNETX@HOTMAIL.COM
SINGLE FATHER OF TWO TRY TO GET BACK ON TRACK BUT HAVE KNOW PLACE TO START OR TO STAY. IM AT GROUND ZERO.

3/22/05
sconepower@hotmail.com
My X has custody of my 8-year-old daughter and 11-year-old son but for the last 7 month my son was living with me. He went home for spring break and his mother kept him and refused to send him back. At the same time she has recently moved and refused to give me her new address and home #. I live in Texas and she lives in Oregon. What can I do and how can I file contempt for not giving me contact info for the kids?

3/19/05
twoscrews40@aol.com
The state of MN needs to change there laws. Since I wasnt married to the mother of my child, I have no rights to her, but I have to pay child support and right now I have no visitation.

3/17/05
spellbinder_69@hotmail.com
My ex has bipolar. she is keeping the baby from me I am not aloud to see him. she refuses to do a blood test or a dna test. she use to tell me everyday that our son is not mine when she was mad. now she says that he is not mine and that he already has a father. what should i do he is not even 3 months old. she is already with another man after only 1 week of seperation and we are involde with cas

3/14/05
suzierunt@yahoo.com
I know that some people feel that fathers play an important part of a childs life, I don't completely disagree. If the father is an alcoholic and bi-polar I believe he needs strict supervision when caring for the child. Unfortunately the courts and my lawyer don't feel he will further neglect his child other than not changing her diaper in a three hour period. If there are any other Moms facing these issues, please email me at the above address.

3/11/05
blankphase@yahoo.com
i was charged w negelect abuse endangerment etc... after invest. all droped because of no proff. however court app. law. and AGAL (guard.) for son but still want me to make dicis. but get override.whats up? asked today what to do i said keep locked up till 16 then 30 treat center then see how he acts they said no asked step mom what and they turned him loose to her friend and sister till then well i suppose he gets what everyone else figures is best Where is MY right to whats best?

3/10/05
dreams@ardenentertainment.com
Hi there! Though I am not yet a parent and cannot relate to some of the events that have taken place in your life, I do sympathize with you. I am working on a mini-series that will be airing nationally and internationally later this year. I am looking for people who have had a dream, or nightmare, that they would like our "Dream Experts" (psychologists who specialize in the analysis of dreams) to help them understand. If you are interested, please go to our website at www.ardenentertainment.com for more information. I wish you all the best.

3/6/05
milesoner@aol.com
im legeal sperated my fife whants to take my son out of the country with out me but i dont agree what can i do. i have one more question i make 9 an hour every 2 weeks and im paying 406 is that fare what can i do im a good father and a good husdand never cheated please help me

3/5/05
nathanialbatson@yahoo.com
Hi I am a father that gave my son to dhs to keep him safe from his mother but know dhs will knot give him back and know they are going totake my son from . thet have know charges agenst me at all I have done all the class they have asked me to but they still will knot lett me have my son bake so is thaer any one that can help me to get my son back . I live in tulsa oklahoma And I dont have the money to get a good lawer I am a good father and to my son he is 4 and dhs has had him for a year now so if you think that you can help pless contaked me

3/3/05
erickverikas@yahoo.com
I am looking for a web site. The site has free legal forms. I need to patitaion health and wealfair to lower my childsuport.

3/2/05
krawl76@hotmail.com
I am the father of a 3 yr old. mY EX WONT LET ME SEE HER. unless i pay 66$ for getting her this is due to the fact that my ex signed a contract for a babysitter. She being my ex, just in the past 5 months got a job after 3 years without one. she got assistance (welfare) during this time. i was just wondering am i liable for this babysitters fee or not. email me and let me know

3/1/05
monkruzltd@hotmail.com
Anyone out there willing to share info on Child visitation issues and child visitaton interference issues, please email me.

2/28/05
freakaleaze@yahoo.com
i am a father that had his children taking from him about 2years ago by the mother that gave them to me 8years ago know i have to fight a very one sided memphis court what we call the whole affair is legal parental kidnapping. no luck in sight

2/26/05
fathermugu@yahoo.fr
i am a father of 78 children i want sell them out please if you want to buy some contact me eze mugu

2/25/05
ps_parsons@bellsouth.net
I'm a mother w/sole custody of our children. I'm trying to help get my ex-husbands monthly payments lowered, but having problems finding the cheapest way. Any suggestions? We live in Birmingham, AL.

2/24/05
leonbrady@rogers.com
i need to find a family law lawyer with experience in dealing with the childrens aid society, My children were wongfully apprehended and I am desperate to get them back. PLEASE can someone direct me to anyone who can help

2/14/05
badguykiller@yahoo.com
This is a great idea. A place for fathers to ban together and help one another. We must stick together.

2/14/05
wcc@merichem.com
Is there anyone here that can give much needed help and advise to a Father in TX. that wants to get custody of my two kids?I am just a Dad that wants the best for my kids and to give them the opportunities that I didn't have as a child. Pleas Help

2/14/05
pps0001@hotmail.com
where can I view German child support rules in brief? I'm an Aussie father & shes German- our son was born in Germany- I 've heard their rules are much tougher than in Australia? thanks

2/12/05
jrudedog2005@yahoo.com
I am a 53 yr old father of a 1 yr old girl. I have been going through hell for the last 3 months trying to get over the love of my ex girlfriend and trying to spend the most time with my daughter. I am also trying to get equal parenting time. I need some moral support. Somebody please help me.

2/7/05
mugu@mugu.com
it is very nice site keep it on

2/6/05
dotti51_1954@hotmail.com
hello all. i am not a daddy.. but a grand mother. a daddy's mom.. my son is going trew a bad divore. his wife if you want to call her a wife. has had four affair. and brought one of tem whom was his cousin. right into his home while he was at work. she has been gone now for almost eight months. living with hercrack head boy friend. my grand babys visit every other week. until judge will do some thing. she gets them a week my son gets them a week. my two grand daughters. age 3 and 5 need their dad. the person who cooks.. keeps their home clean. washes their cloths. gets them off to school.she sends them to school dirty. they say they go to bed with out a snack.. all babys needs a glass of milk before bed time. mine always did. i have seen her push them away. say get the f.... out my face. if judge gives her them babys. i will go off on a bunch.sheis a crack user.. but court sucks any more. guess what im really saying is. my son need your prayer. and god bless all the father. whom is not getting do right. a granny in south eastern kentucky.

2/4/05
drewsaxton@yahoo.com
i will be a new father sep 5 2005

2/2/05
Raine3@aol.com
Obviously this site is in great demand which in itself reflects the discrimination Father's are dealt no matter the geographical location. I tried unsucessfully to register as a member, but received repeated error message concerning an invalid e-mail adress. I think the reason I wasn't allowed in was b/c I didn't fill out the "optional" questions. Thanks for nothing gentlemen. I will seek advice elsewhere.

1/27/05
www.pimpdog98801@yahoo.com
i have questions

1/25/05
jwmehnert@aol.com
My name is Jeff and I impregnated my x girlfriend who is also 24 in sept or oct of 04. I freaked out and told her I did't want anything to do with her or the baby. I now have changed my mind and want to try and work things out with her and be there for her and the baby. She told me recently she didn't want me to have anything to do with her or the baby she will call after she has it. She wouldn't even tell me when the due date is or if it was a boy or girl. I feel helpless, please help. Thank you. Jeff

1/22/05
jamana1432004@yahoo.com
i would like to seek some legal advice for my brother?

1/12/05
shortgirlsweet22@aol.com
hi this is ileana velazquez i am sorry i am forget put on the note

1/11/05
cindy@a-family-affair.org
I am a true believer that parents who love their children and spend time with them make a more productive, loving adult.

1/9/05
SHORTGIRLSWEET22@AOL.COM
HI INEED TO MY FATHER IS LUIS M VELAZQUEZ IT IS 12 YEAR NOT SEE THEM . PLEASE INFO ME I AM DEAF

1/8/05
aylaanddustin@aol.com
My name is Greg. I am 32yrs old. In November of 2004 I had gotten my rights to see my 2kids unsupervised. Ever since then, the mother has giving me nothing but problems. She now has the child protection involved and they are asking me ??? about what has happened with my kids in my home. She accused me of beating up our 3 year old son. When in fact; I recorded my 5 year old daughter saying that their older half brother beats them all the time. I just want them in a safe home, where they will not be abused

1/4/05
eandmpinson@aol.com
IM a hurt father trying to stop a mother from letting me be a dad. Ihave papers but she keeps tyying to contest the rules we made because of I met someone,She has a problem with some one els caring about my daughter.She has defied the papers we drew up about 10 times She is contemp of court when she took thanksgiving day away from me because she wanted her,thers been plenty of nasty coments, taking her out of daycare when im in custidy saying she has a fever when it goes against daycare advice not to mention contemp of court. She makes coments like sence you left im going to make your life a living HeLL,what do yo do in a situation like this.

12/31/04
spicenutts@yahoo.com
Hello. My name is christopher. I have a commen problem with fathers today. We have a son together but she won't let me see or talk to hime . I don't even know where is lives or have no number to call. We had a parternity test done and i was 99.9% his dad. The judge issued a min. visit of 4 times a year, and altornate holidays. The other guy who thought he was excluded from the case as the judge said to her. She tells him that he is your farther not me . I live in florida and its hard to go back and forth to court. I need some help to fight for my son and what is right. To love and to share him equally. Thank you for under standing.

12/27/04
trouble929@msn.com
I just start paying child support last year .I had the judge tack on an additional 80,000.00 on my salary just imagine that nightmare .... I need help

12/8/04
CharleMust@aol.com
I know this is just for men on here but I need help ..I'm an 18 yr old female and my bf is 26 he has been married 2x and has a child from the 1st marriage and is going through divorce right now of a second marriage ... he just signed divorce papers 2 weeks ago and is really sad and depressed and he's an alcoholic bad he already has a health problem with the alocoholism he refuses help from me and his family and his ex wants to take his son and leave and it's killing him and drinks everyday until he falls asleep and he can get his head above water he's trying to get a place of his own and and his son and she's trying to charge him with abuse of his son ...i've told him about the laws for father but he thinks it won't work and he's very prideful ... our relationship is new somewhat and iunno what to do to help out of the depression and alcoholism it's like he doesn't care if he lives or dies and it's breaking my heart...please reply back and help me!!!

12/8/04
shelleyv@centurytel.net
Child SUPPORT,Paying too much over the last 6 month's and have not been geting littel cooperation from C.R.U.I. AND AR lost 600.00 = witch had to be compland about to be sent to IA R.E.V. I Have 5 child in keokuk IA I live in AR

12/2/04
adampierson_99@yahoo.com
I am seeking a mentor to help me deal with issues concerning women and to be a better father to my child. I found out on Wednesday that my child will be a girl. I am looking forward to it and being a first time father. Looking forward to hearing from you.

12/1/04
kelly.miller@nextstudent.com
Hey this is a nice site! If you ever need a student loan check out our student loan site!

11/16/04
ejjigga@hotmail.com
i hope this site is able to help the fathers that are doing their job like myself and is being stepped on by mothers that abuse their rights

11/16/04
John Morris
Is there a time limit on when your employer has to send in your support payment? If yes then is there a fine they get for not doing it? or they just get a tap on the hand Your system won't let me post!!!!

11/16/04
randylayne@hotmail.com
my then 16 y.o. daughter had a baby before she turned 17, her mother has both now, and wants me to pay support, do i legally need to pay a third of my pay, take away from my 2nd family of 4?

11/10/04
Chris.landers@verizon.net
I have a girlfrend who has two kids. She doesn't want them, but can't get the dad to take them. Help.

6/11/04
GENCO2003@optonline.net
HAVEING A HARD TIME COPING WITH DIVORCE AND ALL THE SLANDER MY MY WIFES HIGH PRICED LAWYER COMPARED TO MY EVERY DAY LAWYER HELP

6/9/04
krissyforrester@yahoo.com
I need some help with dealing with an ex wife? My husband got a divorce 5yrs ago, and has a 8 yr old daughter. the daughter comes to our house every other week, he has 50% legal and 50% physical custody, and still pays support(not a problem), the problem is that the ex wife is so controling,nd makes 2 times the amount of money we do. she continues to hide income, and lie about everything. we are always the bad guys no matter what we say or do. the system seems to always side with her. we have to pay 50 50 of everything, medical dental, and have to provide the insurance. the mother tells us all the time, oh its paid in full, and even writes it down "paid in full", and still she can guarnish his wages....the system sucks. its not fair, that the mother gets all the control. were good ppl, and we love the daughter very much. the mother just recently posed as myself, to get information from the insurance company, and the court dosent see a problem with that. she continues to do what ever she wants, useing his social number and other personal info to get her own info. is there some way to stop her from knowing everything?????? she has more money that god, and we are a single income family........when is it our turn to have a private some what normal life? its not fair...the court always sides with her......someone please help me with some advice on how to stop her form destroying us, and still be parents to the daughter with out the fighting?????krissy

5/25/04
vosburg1@aol.com
please help need help get custody of my 1 year old daughter in the state of pa

5/17/04
royalplus4@hotmail.com
my daughters mother and i were never married. We split up when my daughter was 14 months old. when i went to the f.o.c to establish paymants i was told that i didn't have to pay because my name was not entered on the birth certificate. i went to the local welfare dept. and asked them to issue a paternity test and was told that i just wanted a freebie and was denied. my daughters mother never contacted me for me to see my daughter and her parents refused to tell me where she was. i ran into her when my daughter was 22 months old and told her that i wanted to see her and her mother promised me contact but she had lied to me. shortly after my daughters 2nd birthday i discovered that her mother had signed over guardianship to her parents - just as she had previously done with her oldest son. i was constantly denied visitation with my daughter and was threatened with the law. i did not have the means to pay for any paternity testing to gain custody of her nor could i afford an attorney. in 2000 she petitioned the courts to get custody back from her parents and was denied several times before the courts allowed her to have custody. in aug. 2001 she contacted me and told me that i could start seeing my daughter. i lived in nevada at that time with my wife and we decided to move back to michigan the following year so that i could be closer to my daughter. since we have moved back this woman has made our lives a living hell. she has attacked my wife, tried to get her fired from her job, has belittled and called my other daughters names (my step-daughters) has lied to the court system so many times that she cannot keep a straight story. we have established paternity - finally in jan. 2003. my wife (and the local police dept.) seems to think that my daughters mother is highly jealous of her. everytime i try to see my daughter it is on her terms or if i try to contact my daughter i am told that shes not available and never lets her return my calls. as a result of all this i have had to change my home phone # because of the incessant calls from her she still has a cell phone number to reach me - i have not had a visit with my daughter in 6 weeks. the judge set time and place of pickup and delivery to the both of us to which she has decided that she doesn't have to follow. she insists that she come to my home, change time/days weekends. i just cannot win in this situation. my wife does not allow her to come to our home because of the attack to which she is telling the f.o.c that we tried to kidnap my daughter. i do not want to return her calls simply because i do not want to talk to her but to my daughter who will soon be 9. i feel that i have to talk to her first to get or win her approval. she is a very controlling person with some issues of her own. if shes happy then she leaves me and my wife alone if she unhappy the whole friggen world pays for it. the last phone call she made to my wife was telling her that if we can't take my daughter when its convenient for her then we need to sign off on her which is complete and utter bullshit. anyone else in michigan going through th8is? i need help now before i'm forced to take other actions

5/1/04
yourresearcher2004@yahoo.com
http://www.geocities.com/yourresearcher2004/LEGALRESEARCH.html this is our website ,check us out!!!

5/1/04
yourresearcher2004@yahoo.com
experiencing difficulties with web site ,but you can still e-mail me for answers to many family law questions.

5/1/04
http://www.geocities.com/yourresearcher2004/LEGALRESEARCH.html
we want to help you find the infomation to help with family law issues in your state.

4/29/04
originalcloudtown@yahoo.com
I am a single mom of 1, my boyfriend is the non-custodial parents to 4. I see both sides to all arguments. His ex's hurt him by not letting him see his kids and getting the court to overcharge him for support. My ex plays no-pay and pop in dad. neither of us can win. the System needs to be changed.

4/28/04
loco_oso@iwon.com
I'm not a father ,but a soon to be stepmom trying to find help for my fience. his ex-wife ran away with his babies claiming that he beat her.He NEVER touched her ,she's the one with the violent temper. She is refusing to let him see his kids. Because of the way she ran to a battered womens shelter ,she has full custody and total say-so in the visitations. He can't afford to hire a lawyer,but needs serious legal help. If there is anyone in california that has any info that might help us out.Not seeing the kids is killing both of us. I have four of my own ,so I understand how important it is for a child to see both parents.

4/21/04
jeffery.kiech@eglin.af.mil
I am a 26 year old father of four. Two of my boys live in Arkansas and I am unable to see them. Thier mother and her family have refused me any rights. Because Arkansas is still in the "old way" of doing things I stand little to no chance of even getting visitation rights. Not to mention her father has a judge in his back pocket. I am looking for a lawyer in Arkansa that specializes in Family law that is willing to put in long hours. Monmey ios no objest. I just want to see my boys, and because I am in the military i am unable to leave and go to Araknsas often. My current lawywer took my money and caused me to go default on a the child support issue. Please if there anyone who can help email me at Jeffery.kiech@eglin.af.mil

4/17/04
timc_33@yahoo.com
how to get paper severd to mother if she is runing

4/17/04
aaronsmith691@yahoo.com
hope some one can help me

4/14/04
eli02@yahoo.com
I just want to say that your site is really cool.I like it a lot. Thanks. By the way I recommend you to go to SingleParents Matcher.com. This site is good too. Good luck everybody!

4/12/04
jdayle83@hotmail.com
My ex wife and I have had a pretty good relationship since the divorce. We have a two and a half year old daughter, and she has two daughters who are older who also think of me as daddy. She has been in a bad relationship for two plus years. The man is abusive to her, and the children, especially my daughter. I turned him in last year for hitting my daughter in the face, which left the entire left side of her face bruised for a week. The sheriffs dept. was unable to prove that he did it, though I know he did. Now my Ex wife has informed me that she is getting married to this man this week, dispite breaking up with him two months ago, and she tells me at the end of may, she and the kids will be moving to Arkansas, over 1000 miles away from me. I am dumbfounded by her poor judgement! She has asked the court for permission to move, and I am currently filing a counter motion for a change of custody of my daughter! Money is a big issue! I have the $2000 for the initial retainer, but if the cost goes much higher, I'm not sure if I can come up with it in time! Is there any help available financially? And what can I do to try to protect my duaghters from this looser?

4/10/04
STARBRIGHTCLEANING@msn.com
I am happy for all the dads that want to be in their childrens lives. My dad raised me since i was 2 months old. Now i have custody of my 20 month twin daughters.

4/9/04
rgdadio@hotmail.com
Please visit www.cnbp.info if you're in Iowa or surrounding states. We're working to change the system! Children Need Both Parents!

4/6/04
jencar23@msn.com
Hi , I have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs now. He has tired his hardest to see his daughter.

4/4/04
jaredmelissa2001@yahoo.com
I need help! My Wife and I are not getting along I have two daughters and I want save my marrige.

3/30/04
badnewstrucker2003@yahoo.com
my daughter ran away from home to be with her boyfriend. she is 14 and he is 18. we recovered her but she wants to be with him so bad and i took her out of state so she could try to get over him and she cant . thats all she talks about and i dont know what to do or what to say to her. should i let them see each other or keep them apart if anyone has any answers please email me and let me know.

3/28/04
Houge16_@MSN.COm
i just want to see what u have to offer here. I am currently going through court to get joint custody and visitation with my 7year old son

3/22/04
erica_316@yahoo.com
I am a college student in california and for my socialogy project, I have chosen to write about father involvent during pregnancy. I just want to know basic question toward a woman being pregnant and the mans feelings towards it. If anyone is interested in answering a few question, please email me asap. Thanks

3/3/04
gregory@clministries.com
It would be greeat if iowa was a true state that really cared about the fathers (DADS) and not take a womans word over the fathers. I could use real help as well. dhs has to much power and the laws for fathers that really want to be with their children suck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !

3/3/04
mugu@yahoo.com
i love this siteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

2/27/04
freechat@mail.com
Thanks! Enjoed the time on your site! Sincerly yours, Bilder

2/25/04
helentheriault@hotmail.com
I absolutely sympathize with any man who cannot see his children....what I do not understand is my son's father who wants nothing to do with him at all.

2/21/04
jdjraceway@yahoo.com
i think this is a very great web site

1/30/04
jnewland14@hotmail.com
HELP! I dont know what else to do!!!

1/26/04
asmith@yahoo.com
All of you need to learn how to spell....

1/21/04
Grdian50@aol.com
I currently live in Dallas,TX and have a beautiful daughter in Louisville, KY. I'm desperate to find a lawyer who can consult how I can get better/any rights being in another state and also possible custody (partial) who can represent me being in TX. $$$ negotiable.

1/16/04
TUTU2MUCH@YAHOO.COM
I'M TRYING TO FIND MY SON FATHER. MY SON WHO IS 13 YEARS OLD NOW WOULD LOVE TO JUST MEET HIM.(NO STRINGS ATTACHED) UNLESS HE WOULD LIKE TO GET TO KNOW HIS SON BETTER. HIS FATHER'S NAME IS VINCENT POE - LAST SEEN IN ST.LOUIS MO. ALMOST 14 YEARS AGO,HE USED TO WORK ON THE MCDONALD'S RIVER BOAT IN 1988 OR 1989 HE SHOULD BE ABOUT 33 OR 34 YEARS OLD NOW. WE LIVED AT 1318 GATY IN EAST ST. LOUIS IL.THEN ANY INFO WILL BE GRATELY APPRECIATED

1/14/04
Tazz602@zoominternet.net
I am new to this site. I would appreciate any advise ya'll have. Thanks!!

12/30/03
marabukhader@msn.com
I need some help please see my help me too much to retype but i have a rich boyfriend who is ruining me financially by filing frivilous motion through my ex-wifes attorney he hasnt even been around that long and knows nithing of our situation.

12/20/03
richardd08@aol.com
i need the best lawyer in the state of kentucky.my little girl is 13 and her mom tells her that she don't have to come over my house, know after 1 year she won't come over,she came over all the time.her mother is pulling her away from me. I NEED HELP.what is the law on joint custudy.

12/18/03
Wilderfull@aol.com
Thank you for having a place that men can come for help.

12/17/03
roedevoo@hotmail.com
Greetings Everyone, If anybody needs some straight answers and/or advice, do not hesitate to write an e-mail. You will always get a response, no matter what the question(s) is (are), or will be.. Can I be in service to you? Best regards, Rob (from the Netherlands / Holland..) E-mail adres: roedevoo@hotmail.com

12/16/03
jb55359@msn.com
Great thing that is going on here.Guys need support too.No pun intended.

12/12/03
tina_664@yahoo.com
i am here to seek advice from anyone willing to give it.

12/4/03
mrehenry@yahoo.com
I need help dealing with maximus child support agency in atlanta GA, and a good attorney

11/7/03
redevil187@aol.com
hey my name is tim i was told 2 weeks ago that my girlfriend is pregnant and her and her dad are already dicided the date of the abortion its tommorow the 8 of november, i am feeling so depressed right now. i am one of these people who have said they could never see the point in suicide but right now it looks good, it would take away my pain and that would be great.but im a man and i tink that would be the pussy way out, i want this child so badly but tommorow i loose my first unborn child that just sounds so wrong but now it accutally make since. i mean thats the only context i can put it in unborn child this hurts worse than any thing in the world and if i could have the child without her participation i would but i can so im out of luck, one dead two scared forever not one dead one wounded how do people think the fathers of these children fee. its what it is it feels like some one is hurting your children

11/5/03
randrfla@aol.com
I would like to hear from anyone that has or had a problem with NJ child support enforcement.

10/20/03
KJAKEELER@AOL.COM
THIS IS MY MOTHERS ADDRESS BUT I USE IT.PLEASE SEE MY HELP ME MEMO

10/16/03
cjluv2000@yahoo.com
glad to find this web hope someone out there can help me through this and hope i can help others

10/15/03
steven_duggan@yahoo.co.uk
sorry ment STEP DAD !!!!!!!!??? i type so fast

10/15/03
steven_duggan@yahoo.co.uk
hi iam 16 , from scotland and so talented in music ! i HATE my dad very much !! and would love to have a spet dad aged 30 to 39 from the USA ! iam studing music at uinversity 1st year! and play the violin and piano .I also have won 1st in contest in scotland .i just some can help me out!!! before its to late . Must have light greem eyes and cool intrests.thanks

10/15/03
steven_duggan2003@yahoo.co.uk
sorry the two last things have been wrong as my email is the one above not the others.What i am saying is what is in the last message but made a few mistakes as i was typing to fast. i am not doing this as a joke i am being serious hope someone can help! steven. sorry about the spelling.!!

10/13/03
shawnnabear@outlookexpress.com
hi im not a dad or not even a man but i want to ask you guys sence your dads. My dad left me about 1 year ago he abandon me and my mom and brother! he would yell at me and scream and try to hit me but i always done the same back cause he has no right to do that to me so i done it back to him. He found somebody on the computer and talk to the person on the internet on the phone to! my dad never really was the type of dad who would love you for who u r or wht u r! or wht u wanna be when u grow up. Then one day he said he was going to MI for a job interview but he was going there to se the person he meant online! he lied to all of us and i new all along what he was really up to!! i new about the phone i new abut the internet i new about everything he done!!!! He was a scik man he got all this crap and pills and blamed me that i got tham! he would go on all this nasty websites and blame tham on me and how can i go on them at 4:00am in the morning when i have school! he never calls or writes or does nothing!! Do you think that i made him leave cause i yelled alot at him? Do you think i should have told someone that i new wht he was doing? please emial thank you shawnna age 14

10/13/03
www.sierramadretraders.com
He would rather travel & have fun then pay child support. His name is Don Sorensen. Email him at these links & remind him how important it is to pay child support. sierra_madre_traders@yahoo.com www.sierramadretraders.com Srngravity@aol.com

10/12/03
rn22113@aol.com
IM 44 WHEN I GOT DEVORCED I WAS 32 THIS IS WHEN I PAD OFF WHAT 15,000 IN BACK PAYMENTS. THAT WAS FOR 5 YEARS.BUT WHEN WE WENT TO THE DA.OFFICE WITH MY EX. I TOLD THE DA THAT PAYING HER 250.00 A WEEK CASH.AND MY EX COMFRERMED THAT THIS WAS TRUE. HES SAID THAT DID NOT COUNT FOR WHAT WAS DO SHE WAS BACK WITH HER PERENTS AND GETING WELFAR PLUS NOT HAVING TO PAY FOR A THING.WHY DID THE DA ALSO HAVE PAY BACK 360.00 PLUS SURPORT OF 360.00

10/10/03
TMacDad73@aol.com
I have been fighting to be a part of my daughters life for 8years. Only 3 states have mandatory joint custody! That is appalling, and demonstrates the bias against fathers. If anyone has any helpful information or advice please contact me.

10/9/03
bunappeal@hotmail.com
I have a friend that is getting ready to sign divorce papers. His soon to be ex wife is stating that Michigan Law says that even though he is taking care of all of the medical insurance and making large support payments, that he will have to pay 90% of medical and dental bills. Is this true? Anyone have experience with this? Please email me if you know.

9/25/03
ponygirl1970@yahoo.com
I salute the good fathers out there. You are very hard to come by. I do have a question for some of you... My daughter is almost 13, her father and I have been divorced since she was 13 months old. He continues to use her as a pawn to get to me. Several years ago, I quit letting it get to me emotionally, however he has more money and keeps me struggling. I don't understand, he is making our daughter miserable. The money I spend on court fees for little things, could be used to better her. He knit picks one silly thing after another, "I want to split her birthday" , " I want her every spring break", etc. We live about 15 miles form each other and I have told her she is welcome to go visit anytime she would like. He has every other weekend, 1 night per week, summer visit, Christmas visit, I haven't re-evaluated child support since our divorce. What can I do to get along with him? I try and nothing seems to work. She is beginning to hate him for constantly stirring things up. Any suggestions????

9/25/03
iammarino7@sbcglobal.com
I am a mother of twins my husband I feel needs a friend to talk to about our boys I belong to SCMOTC mother of multiples clubs is there a club for men like we mothers have?we live in Ca.

9/19/03
medeiros26@shaw.ca
Divorce is an ugly monster that murders the hearts of young children and devours the soul of a loving father.

9/17/03
guy@mugu.com
Please you should note that i have visited this site,i mean my fellows. Guyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

8/27/03
reply2003@ukr.net
It's realy good site! Best wishes, Eric, http://posters.diallink.net

8/7/03
estaven44@yahoo.com
if i turn over all legal rights to amy child do i have to pay child support

8/5/03
ALA OWERRI@ABA.COM
I PASS HERE FROM NIGER,ABA

8/5/03
j33thro@msn.com
I am a displaced father that fears my daughter might be sufering from parental allianation syndrom

7/25/03
rbriggs@shabangexhibits.com
Hello my name is Ron and I too am in the same situation. I would like to hear what kind of advice you have gotten back. I do not make the same as I did in the other state. I pay my child support and plus more if I have it and I try everything to stay in contact with my child but I am not getting anything in return like photos, phone calls, letters. I feel like I am the bank only and she has no responsibility to make this as smooth as it should be. I feel if I am paying my full child support I should at least get some hellos out of it from my kid. Now she is asking for more and threading to call the DA and have my wage taking out of the my company each week. Need help in what can I do to make this a happy going environment for both my child and I.

7/22/03
palerider461@msn.com
As much as I miss my daughters. They live with their mother in Maryland and I live in Ohio. I will never stop loving them and I know that they will never stop loving me. Remember that all you Daddy's out there our babies still love us and we love them. But I also know that doesn't stop the pain of not having them with us. God bless us all.

7/1/03
heyjud6855@aol.com
Iam a mother of 3 sons.we need to get together and change the law.there is good fathers out there.That are getting the raw end of the court system. what about these dead beat moms that uses the children .Uses the child support for her drug hadit.AND the court system just slaps her hand and tells her not to do it again. and then she does it again over and over again.And CPS knows about it and they do the same .Nothing . It is not fare to the children or the father.

6/7/03
steveb2ld@yahoo.com
I really hate the Friend of the Court. They say they have the best interest of the child in mind, but yet they don't enforce visitation with the fathers until you scream bloody murder at them,WHY? They sure come after the fathers when we're late with our payments. I think the F.O.C. needs a kick in the pants, or dress, 'cause it sure is always for the mom's view, at least here in Houghton County of MI.

6/2/03
Haubitze1947@aol.com
i want to thank the jersey court system for holding me hostage for the past 11 yrs. 9 of which i havent seen my daughter although i continue to pay. not the mention that my ex is married for a 3rd time to an ex friend. is there no escape im 56 & need to retire. my ex/wife uses the court sysyem vary well to her advantage. again thanks new jersey for castrating us divorced dads

5/29/03
btmacneal@aol.com
i am a proud father of a beautiful 5 year old girl. Her mom decided she wanted to divorce me, to "find her identity". Her plan was to up and leave with our daughter. I found the best lawyer in the state of Ohio, and i am now proud to say that i won custody of my little angel. There is a God!

5/29/03
roysolis@pro_linefreight.com
need help or advice on back pay child support

5/23/03
aydicee@yahoo.com
i'm from NC and i have a question...

5/16/03
MOM6502POP@AOL.COM
JUST A GOOD DAD THAT LOVES HIS BOYS AND PAYS HIS CHILD SUPORT

5/6/03
hilling1@cox.net
Do you know about Proud Dads and my book "The Man Who Would Be Dad" Capital Books? For more info log on to www.prouddads.com. Below is a brief bio. Sincerely, Hogan Hilling Proud Dads Founder/Author Hilling has appeared on the Oprah Winfrey Show, ABC's Fathers and Sons Documentary, and NBC's The Other Half. He was a featured speaker at the 2003 Lamaze International Conference. In 1995, Hilling received the California Courage to Care Award for helping to strengthen California families. He lives in Irvine, California with his wife, Tina, and three boys, Grant, 15, Wesley, 13, and Matthew, 9.

5/5/03
billgreen_3@msn.com
This is the best site i have been to that seem to help me.

5/5/03
charles.lewis@gmac.com
My daughter will be 5 years of age and I have only seen her three times. For the past year and a half, I have been paying child support through the courts. Lack of income made it impossible to appear in court out of my city, as a result the highest amount is deducted from my checks! At the time I felt as if I would have more of a chance to see my daughter, so I never argued about how much the courts were taking even if I was struggling. The only time that my daughters mother would let me talk to her was if I had any money to send her. She has restricted all of my rights as a father and it hurts. She is married with two other children with my daughter being the oldest, and she calls her husband dad! Even when my money has been deducted,She has a problem with visitations, saying your child does not know you. How can my child know who I'am and that I want to be a part of her life when her mother dictates everything. Getting an attorney is not an option (lack of income) and talking to the mother is not working.These problems have been going on for 5 years and now we face a new one. I moved to North Carolina with my fiance and my daughters mother do not like her,as a result, I'm still being denied visitation rights. When I asked to speak to my daughter, She said "I have to explain to her that she has to fathers before she speaks to you, she does'nt know who you are. I'm crying out for help,if there is someone that can help me please let me know.

4/24/03
LostMoto@yahoo.com
Well Let Me start by saying First time Here, And finally starting to realize What a financial mess I've created. For myself , I've Been ignoring my mail and all family service related Letters for about ten years. they've garnished my wages for years and all Tax returns . Which I knew was going to happen anyway. What I'am looking for is a Fathers Orginization that Might be will help me with a Few matters. I'am Not wealthy and have A Enormous amount of back child support. Signed, OverWhelmed

4/24/03
mandome1@emailaccount.com
hello im just looking for information on how to give up parental rights and without paying child suport. Is it even posible? I live in the state of California. please help.

4/9/03
waltwood2@yahoo.com
You are providing a REAL service to others. Please make a correction in the email address of Walter Wood author of CONFESSIONS OF AN ABSENTEE FATHER. Walter's email is waltwood2@yahoo.com (It needs the number "2" after "waltwood". Thank you. Walt Wood

4/9/03
mikeamycluck@hotmail.com
need help to change my support amount and to be able to see them again, need to know how to do this

4/7/03
evalinetyler@sbcglobal.net
man can yo help me find a person with good personal or not

4/3/03
sixkids477@yahoo.com
been on both sides of the coin and i know how the court can srew both parents. So if you live in Ny Depending on the problem i may be able to help with some imfo for ya .

3/28/03
malevolent@qwest.net
I'm glad to see that most of you are active loving Fathers and hope that you will all contuinee to love and atleast try to be a part of your child(rens) life(ves) may you all be the best parents you can

3/22/03
xanthanotus@hotmail.com
Hi I�m a year 12 student (in Australia), and as part of my HSC society and culture class, I much perform a personal interest project........... mine is on dads (past, present and future, including stay at home dads, and dads who didnt) as well as public opinions on them.........I would greatly appreciate it if you would be able to reply to this email.......and answer a few question.......every thing will remain completely confidential, this will allow me to gain a better idea of why men are choosing to stay at home / not stay home........and how they feel about their positions. Thanks for you time. Bec Davis P.S. I despretly need your help...so please take the time to email me...., i want to be able to give a just and concise representation of fathers and to do this i need replys, which i havent been able to get that many of, so please dont delete this........ xanthanotus@hotmail.com

3/16/03
jambulaya2003@yahoo.com
need information on back child support

3/4/03
edservicemaster2@aol.com
Hello; I have 4 kids the oldest is on her own she is 19.We lived in Fl. all our 20 years marriage then last year we decided to move to Pa. where my wife is from, but within 3 months she started to cheat on us and within six months she wants a divorce and lets me to just get out and leave. Is it possible to take the kids and some things and move back to Fl. and file for custody and divorce with out getting in any trouble. Right now we there is no papers of any kind not we are not even seperated . PLease help,what can we do and is it safe to go back to our friends and family and all our roots in Florida.

2/16/03
Chris.landers@verizon.net
Fathersonline has been very useful.... Thank you. Chris

2/13/03
jrgasser@earthlink.net
I got custody of my son when he was six. Since then he has been wetting the bed. I found out that his mother forced him to stay in bed and not leave the bed. He was also abused and neglected by his mother and his step father. He has been condition to wet him self at night. I have tried going to the docters, see a counsler, bed wetting alarm,pull ups and so on. But the only way he can stop the bed wetting his to not see his mother. She still does the same stuff when he lived with her. He gets to do what ever he wants with her. I do not know what to do anymore my wife and I are at are wits end. Help!

2/11/03
paul@greatdanepetroleum.com
I am a father of three great kids,plus two step kids. Two of "my" kids are from a previous marriage and one "girl 7" with my current marriage. One of my kids from my previous marriage "girl 14" lives with us,and one of my step kids is in collage and the other " boy 14" lives with us. To sum it up I have my Daughter 14, Her Son 14 and our Daughter 7 living with my wife and I. Sorry if this was confusing. We are a blended family and are coming apart at the seams. We can not function as a family and I know I am heading for yet another divorce. This is not why I'm here. I need help to help my nephew with a daughter "15" who has dated a boy "19" agaist her fathers wishes. He tried to stop them and now his daughter has tried to commit suicide. I live in South Florida, Ft. Lauderdale area. What can I do to help them?

2/1/03
jat@tyler.net
What does the Bible say about women having childrern out of marriage

1/30/03
lowrydr@aol.com
hello today

1/26/03
johnevans@tds.net
HOW DO I GET A COPY OF VISITATON RIGHTS IN OKLAHOMA.

1/26/03
johnevans@tds.net
I have a 6 year old daughter and I live near Tulsa Ok and she live in Enid,Ok my xgirl freind has custodial. I have court order visitaton. but any time the mother wants to changes my weekend she dose and keeps me from seeing my daughter,and the courts in Ok. just don't look at the father side of it. the father in OK.has no rights it allways the mother side the judges takes how come the father allways get the short end is there some one out there that cares about the child and father I pay my surport like order,every mouth on time.thanks Johnny

1/26/03
kcmadman59@aol.com
she use the kids to control me

1/23/03
Andre@attcanada.ca
child support robs fathers of suporting our children

1/14/03
jason230@bellsouth.net
I just found out that my ex had our baby, I'v tried to talk and mail her stuff with a no response. I want too