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Name: nelson
EMail: trejonelson@sbcglobal.net
Comment: dad of 3 girls going to court i want 50% custdy i have 14-16 days off a mouth and wife is bypolor stoped takeing meds for the last 2yr she wants me to have them 10days and for the last yr ive had them on my days off
Name: tommylee
EMail: randmaster@aol.com or selbyc@emwd.org
Comment: I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE. OUR HOUSE IS IN ESCROW AND MY WIFE HIRED AN ATTORNEY AND HAD THE ESCROW ACCOUNT FORZEN FOR FEAR THAT I WILL NOT TAKE CARE OF "MY" DEBT. WE WERE GOING TO ORINALLY SPLIT THE PROFIT 50/50. CAN A JUDGE TELL YOU HOW YOU SHOULD SPEND YOUR SHARE OF THE PROFIT? I AM IN CALIF. THESE DEBTS ARE IN MY NAME NOT HER NAME SO WHY SHOULD SHE CARE... PLEASE HELP ANYONE WHO KNOWS SOMETHING ABOUT THIS.
Name: ARTURO
EMail: charlotte68@cox.net
Comment: I WANT TO KNOW HOW THE MOTHER OF MY CHILDERN WAS ABLE TO CHANGE MY CHIDERNS LAST NAME TO HER NOW MARRIED NAME WITHOUT MY CONSENT? MY CHILDERN NEVER CARRIED MY LAST NAME TO BEGIN WITH THEY ALWAYS HAD THE MOMS LAST NAME,BUT I FEEL CHEATED IN A WAY BECAUSE SHE NEVER GAVE THEM MY LAST NAME BECAUSE WE NEVER MARRIED. IS THAT POSSIBLE FOR HER TO GIVE OUR KIDS HER NEW MARRIED LAST WITHOUT HER HUSBAND LEGALLY ADOPTING THEM, ON SCHOOL DOCUMENTATION SHE HAS HER HUSBAND DOWN AS THE FATHER AND NOT ME?
Name: CLAUDE
EMail: CLAUDEMULLINGS@SBCGLOBAL.NET
Comment: I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW, IF THERE ARE ANY DADS, THAT HAD A BIG ERROR ON THEM FROM CHILDSUPPORT.THAT MESSED UP SIX YAERS OF YOUR RECORDS,WITH OVER A $11,000 DOLLARS,AND YOU FIND OUT IT WAS A BIG ERROR CHARGE ON YOU,ON ARREARAGE. WHO KNOWS A ATTORNEY THAT WILL TAKE A CASE, AND GET PAID WHEN CASE IS WON, NEED HELD TO SUE CHILDSUPPORT IN CT.
Name: george esparza
EMail: tacoburrito@bresnan.net
Comment: i received an adverse decision from csed in montana. i appeal to the district court for judicial review. the judge is trying to hold me to the same standard as a licensed lawyer. i ned some legal help to file the right documents in court.
Name: Mark Trice
EMail: mtricegm@yahoo.com
Comment: Need a loan to hire an attorney to go to court for child support case. I have bad credit and no bank account currently, but I get paid from a consulting contract next Wednesday. I need $1300.00. I have vey few members and am going through a divorce with a mother in a nursing home with alzheimers. Very Desperate!!!! Thanks Mark 314-560-0632
Name: deep
EMail: tdavis74@gmail.com
Comment: Hello Forum,
I am actually having several issues with my childs mother but the main problem is the fact she plans on moving out of state and plans on taking my daughter with her <8months>. I have want to know what is the best course of action to stop this from happening. I am currently not on the birth certificate but she has said she is open to doing such & I also and not paying court ordered child support but I am paying her nevertheless. I am all for sole custodity but I realize that fathers rarely win those situations.
Name: PT
EMail: pt-2222@hotmail.com
Comment: I need to find out what i should do. My ex had a child and said it was mine, however she is refusing to give me a paternity test and she wont let me see him. She says she doesnt want me in his life. I want to know if the kid is mine, so i can be in his life if it is, or be done with her if it isnt. How can i go about getting a court ordered DNA test?
Name: Randy
EMail: wrp27@yahoo.com
Comment: I am currently residing in the state of KS. My girlfriend recently had our baby daughter born 21 Feb, 2007. My problem lies with the Birth Cert. My girlfriend was legally seperated at the time of birth but NOT divorced yet. Due to that circumstance, the state of KS does not recognize me as my daughters legal father. I am asking if anyone knows which form my girlfriend and I need to obtain, to amend my daughters birth cert. I would like to finally have some sort of peace of mind, and LEGALLY be recognized as my daughters true father. Thank you
Name: Seth Smiley
EMail: bigseths@yahoo.com
Comment: My wife is a teacher. She was teaching at a public school when she was offered a dream job at a very prestigious private school here in town. They hired her with th knowledge that she was pregnant. Their maternity leave policy is to offer short term disability insurance for female employees. However becasue she is already pregnant she cannot be covered by this insurance. I know there is no legal action that can be taken, but does anyone have any ideas on how to get this school to do the right thing and pay her for her maternity leave? Or are there any ideas on how she can get paid while out?
Name: Annette
EMail: annette.sas@bankofamerica.com
Comment: Does anyone have experience with disestablishing a father in NC? Both parties are in agreement with this, so we would like to do this as efficiently as possible.
Name: Mike
EMail: mparkinson1@comcast.net
Comment: I have questions about the laws for custody from state to state, I have an order in pennsylvania but I have suspicion my ex-wife plans on moving out of state, what are the laws on that? Thank You
Name: val peek
EMail: a1wreckerselma@aol.com
Comment: my husband has 2 children from his 1st wife. they live about 200 miles away, we dont get to see them often, with the price of gas and the distance its not where we can get them every other weekend, she moved he didnt, shouldnt she have to meet or share the expenses for travel?
Name: john felde
EMail: ejohnelaine@earthlink.net
Comment: i need to know how to make the judge know in childrens court or juvinal court that my ex is lying and to take a good look at her past record and look at mine.shes lost 3out4 kids to cs and now we could possibly lose our boy because of her false alligatons my kids been detained from me and havent seen him for 5 months just got back from the court medieator and she said to me that bitch hates you she really set me up for domestic violene saying that ive gotten physical with her in front of our child and is now in a emergency shelter and is tring to get child support im almost ready to trminate my paretal rights because noe ive got to take a domestic violence class a parenting class drug program and random testing and pay child support all because i told her shes got to get her medical problems fixed so she can go back to work and if she didnt i told her i would take our son to his grandparrent house to live
Name: Greg
EMail: Greggill1@hotmail.com
Comment: Divorced 4 years and remarried. Live in PA. I am pursing shared custody of my daughter and my wife has filed for modification of our current support order which we agreed to at $500.00/month 3 years ago. She makes about 105K and I make about 90K and our 5 year old girl is in daycare ($800/month). I expect to lose and will have to pay around $1300/month. This will be a big hit for me as my current wife and I our pregnant and we are moving into a new home which we budgeted our mortgage based on the old support amount. I really just want to see my daughter more and am angry about how long (and costly) it takes me to try and get shared custody yet my ex-wife and file for modification and get it within a couple of months. I feel like a sitting duck waiting for the modification to increase and there is nothing I can do about it. Any thoughts out there from this group? Thanks for the help
Name: John
EMail: jmsmith186@yahoo.com
Comment: What is the legal age in massachusetts for a child to decide which parent they live with?
Name: clint
EMail: surveysai@hotmail.com
Comment: IN WASHINGTON STATE IF I MARRY MY GIRLFRIEND WITH HER TWO KIDS AND WE SHOULD GET DEVORCED WILL I BE PAYING CHILD SUPORT FOR HER KIDS?
Name: Brandon Bowman
EMail: bowma@tc-gas.com
Comment: MY WIFE FOR 9 YEARS TOLD ME LAST NIGHT THAT SHE WANTED TO SEPERAT AND HAVE SO TIME TO THINK FOR HER SELF. SHE WENT UP TO HER BOYFREINDS HOUS WITH MY THREE KIDS. HE HAS NO HEAT IN THE HOUSE, HE HAS THREE KIDS OF HIS OWN AND HAS HOLES IN THE FLOOR DOWN TO THE GROUND AND THE HOUSE ALSO HAS A MOLD PROBLEM. I WANT TO KNOW IF I CAN CALL THE SHREIF AND HAVE HIM COME UP WITH ME TO THE HOUSE TO GET MY KIDS. I AM A WOUNDERFUL FATHER AND I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR MY KIDS. I DO NOT WANT TO PUT MY LIKELY HOOD OF GET CUSTODY OF THEM ON THE LINE THROUGH. WERE DO I STAND ON THIS. AND CAN I CHANGE THE LOCKES ON MY HOUSE TO KEEP THEM OUT ?
Name: becki
EMail: lushiouslovebug@yahoo.com
Comment: i would like to know what the state law is in illnois for my daughter to decide who she wants to live with? like what age can she decide she wants to come live with me? would it be better if seh tells the judge herself that she want to live with me?
Name: milton lewis
EMail: TRHENSON@YAHOO.COM
Comment: i need help with my son
Name: charlie
EMail: claysad@yahoo.com
Comment: I have two children from my first marriage. I pay support for them. recently my oldest child decided to live with me. I also have two children from my current marriage. I need help finding out about child support when one child is living with you and the other with the mother. Need some help in Wv
Name: olden
EMail: jundenise@aol.com
Comment: im seperated from my wife of ten years and im loseing my mind and im haveing thouhts i dont wont to have.
Name: ursula liverett
EMail: nala4lion@yahoo.com
Comment: how do i find my father?? I m in foster care because my mother dosent want me anymore and Im trying 2 find out how to get in contact with my father.
Name: Samuel
EMail: samtzee@yahoo.com
Comment: i just received temporery custody of my daughter after her mother was put in prison again judge told me i was not allowed to leave the state even though i live in florida and her is in pa what can i do
Name: Brian Cusson
EMail: bmariani@crhc.org
Comment: My ex-wife and I have shared custody of our two children. When we got divorced, we had a child support aggremeet, which is now out of date. My ex-wife is now remarried and has been for some time. They have a new baby and I am in the same boat. I have a new wife and baby as well. I would like to know what my options are in getting my child support reduced or re-evaluated? Any help or direction that you can give me would be wonderful.Thanks
Name: mike
EMail: mikegk10@aol.com
Comment: i have a joint custoty with my sons mom,and she wants to take my son out of state for vication.can she do that by law if i dont say its ok?
Name: steve
EMail: mthood_richguy_4u@yahoo.com
Comment: i need help i have been on (ssdisocial security) for 4 yrs i just got support modified to zero but now im looking at arreareges of a lot of money is the a court order to satisfy with the state or department of helth and wellfare services ? i have talked to 3 probono lawyers and knowone knows about social security law ?
Name: Todd Brewer
EMail: crowdancerlakota@hotmail.com
Comment: Disabled vet with child support issuses. Could use some ideas or help
Name: Jason Badgett
EMail: drzeus79@yahoo.com
Comment: Looking for a good lawyer in the Ames, Iowa area to deal with a visitation issue and/or re-opening the decree. Anyone have a recommindation?
Name: Keith Kirby
EMail: judy12@austin.rr.com
Comment: I would like information on My x-wife given my son now 11 years old drugs for ADD and ADHD FOR SO LONG THAT IT HAS DONE DAMAGE TO HIS LIVER. sHE HAS HIM AND HIS BROTHER WITH HER IN mo. And I just found about the MED Damage to his liver. I havr tried for years to get her to stop with the drugs for him. When I had him I did not give him the drugs because the Doctor told us he could get liver damage from them. now he has. We are getting a divorce because she is into drugs. can I do any thing legal to for the damage to my son. now she has the other son on these drugs also. What can I do to help my kids and get coustdy. Thanks Keith -email judy12@austin.rr.com please email me and let me know.
Name: ted
EMail: demellavia@yahoo.com
Comment: There is a male child born on April 2005 I thought that he was mine I was there though everything and sign for him to carry my name, only to find out there was another youngman involved with this young lady too.How long do I have to clear my name of the responsibility of the child.
Name: jake
EMail: bbestman13@aol.com
Comment: can someone give me avice on my childsuport case gight now
Name: Darryl Webb
EMail: darrylswebb1@msn.com
Comment: Hi, Im darryl webb.I have been living in peoria az for approx 2yrs. On aug 25th 05, my devorce was filed . My soon to be ex was in my house in slidell la. with my three kids.slidell is 30 miles from new orleans. the night of the 28th of august i was working down town phoenix for hunt construction co. at the new convention center. the same night of of the huricane i broke my leg on the job. the next day while going to get a cast put on my leg, i was sitting at a red light and was hit from behind by another truck running approx 60 mph.,so this left me with a flooded house, going through a devorce and no job.I sent all the money i had to my son, and to our still open joint bank account.only to have her depositing checks of mine in the account for deposit only ,written on the back then withdrawing it from atm. on dec 5-05 the community property was settled. she was awarded the house in slidell ,all contents and new vehicle.I had ins.on property and contents which she was awarded all ins.monies witch totaled over 100 k.she was also awarded 20k in annuities of mine. im paying 600 a month for child support and 630 a month for ins. and again i have not worked but two weeks since my devorce. to top it off she is currently working for her lawyer so now she is harassing me by serving me repeatedly so i will have to travel back and forth to la. How do i stop her from serving me on false pretenses. she wants all my bank statements after our comunity property was settled. and this is her cause for me to be served . I have never been late for child support and kept all ins on children . can you help me? Thanks for reading this and there is more to this story ,Darryl
Name: scott
EMail: sectkid@earthlink.net
Comment: I have custdy of my girl and there a mother and the courts want here it. My ex wife father in City Counsler. She kept fraud herself adn charges will come. I would like to have our child say something to the judge but everytime I go I to be blame even have the time it her bring me to court. It very hard on my daughter I just want it to stop as much as possble. Oh do have to be remind of our visition. I have to hold her hands ever step of the way
Name: william hanson
EMail: billyboy5556@hotmail.com
Comment: i have been married for over 14 years and for the last year now my wife has been cheating on me we have 2 children one is 14 and the other is 4 i have been unemployed for the last 2 month and working off and on for the last year and my wife only works a couple of days a week i live in the state of wisconsin and whant to go back to work here soon i am a over the road truck driver and i want to get legally seperated from my wife before i leave home here again and custody of my children i already have discussed this with my 14 year old daughter and she wants to live with me and my 4 year old son is very attatch to me since there mother has not given them the time and attention they have needed for the past year because she has devoted most of her time to how she can come up with the next lie and exuse to have to leave to go have her flings i am pretty sure i can get a judicare lawyer i am alright with her living here with us but i would like to do this before i go back to work because i am afraid when i leave she will try to get tempory custody befoe i get back home and then have to go thew all the trouble and expenses to get them and my home back can you tell me if i am doing the right thing and how do i go about it?
Name: bob
EMail: bguyers@NYCAP.RR.COM
Comment: i AM A STEPFATHER TO A 16 YR OLD MALE TEEN THAT HAS A MINOR DRUG PROBLEM,. hE WAS BECAOME A MAJOR DISTURBANCE IN OUR FAMILY. wHAT RIGHTS DO i HAVE AS A STEPDAD TO DO TO DEAL WITH THE VERBAL ABUSE AND VILENT OUTBURSTS?
bOB IN neW yORK
Name: Jason Rolle
EMail: caribbeanj1@aol.com
Comment: i need help with this bias child support and visitation proceedings my case is in NY but i now live in Orlando,FL
Name: maria
EMail: maria55therese@hotmail.co.uk
Comment: Hi just like to now if any one can help.my son has just sarted work and has his child living with him.up untill now he has had legel aid.He is only working part time and getting working tax credit.any one now what amount it is befor his has to pay and come off legel aid.
Name: marcus
EMail: perfectbluesole@aol.com
Comment: Hello, my name is Marcus and I briefly had a relationship with this woman. A year latter she is going around telling people that I am the father of her now 1 year old child. I do not believe this child is mine. She is now trying to seek child support from me. I want to take a paternity test, if this child is mine I have no choice but to pay child support and I will do that no question. My main question is, even if I pay child support can I terminate my rights as a father to this child. I do not want to be involved in any aspect of this womans or childs life. Can I terminate all rights and claims to this child and still pay child support even if I am proven to be the father? Do I have the right to do that? Other than paying child suppport I want nothing to do with this child bottom line. I was trying to seek help or advice before I seek legal counsel, any insight you can provide will be greatly appreciated and I live in the State of Ohio if that helps at all. Thank you.
Name: Todd
EMail: Tshoote30@yahoo.com
Comment: Hi, I have a 13 year old daughter and a 14 year old son with my ex-wife.we live in washington state, and i thought at the age of 12 if the child wanted to move in with the other parent that that was there choice. what is the age a child needs to be in the state of Washington to make the choice of where he/she wants to live. My son (14 now) wants to move in with me (the father) and my new wife necause he wants a fresh start. my ex-wife is thowing a fit saying it will never happen. any advise would be great. especially the age of a childs choice. thanks and have a great night.
Todd
Name: Stephanie Bray
EMail: swuubby@yahoo.com
Comment: i need some advice. my sons father gave his rights up. doesnt he still have to pay for child support since we never signed anything?
Name: Eddie Harmon
EMail: peachpac83@yahoo.com
Comment: The mother of my two kids is putting me on child support although I live with her and provide for my two kids that I have with her and her two kids before me. I also help with the bills and car note that she has accumulated I am the sole source of income at her residence. She is unemployed and is recieving monetary assistance. Why she is trying to put me on child support is clueless to me. So since you know my situation please help in any way you can.
Name: omar torres
EMail: elmextorres_elmexicano@yahoo.com
Comment: i need advice on getting full custody o a 2 year old girl
Name: Sophy
EMail: sophy5k@yahoo.com
Comment: My exboyfriend has not supported our son for the past 8 years. He has always told me he needs to get himself to gether first. I have never denied him the privelige to see our son. Last month I told him I was planning to move SC from NYS. He has filed a paternity as well as custody papers. Can the NYS court prevent me from moving?
Name: Paul
EMail: GaDog66@aol.com
Comment: I am recently remarried did not tell my ex-wife till after the fact, I told her and she threaten to sue for full custody of my 2 children. She does not want my kids any where near my new wife. My new wife make 5 times as much money as me, paid off all my debt, plays with the kids and the kids love her, but the ex-wife apparently has not gotten over the relationship, she is currently in theraphy and has been for years and does not work, we are her sole support. I recently left the USMC after 12 years since my son was having so many problems, we have been divorced for 3 years. Currently we have joint legal custody, but she has full custodial custody. Any suggestions, my wife states let her sue and we should counter sue for full custody, she believes we could provide a more stable and loving enviroment,, my ex would yell at the kids alot. Any suggestions, I am afraid of losing my kids I am a very active dad and get them every weekend.
Name: jerry
EMail: j.bean@fuse.net
Comment: I cant afford a lawyer. I pay her but i have my daughter all the time, all she does is give her a bed to sleep in a few nights a week . i took her to court without lawyer but case got dissmissed be cause of paper work not being filed right. i live in ohio
Name: Roger Day
EMail: rjtcz@aol.com
Comment: I have caught my 15 year daughter having sex. Need help in dealing with it. Thanks in advance!
Roger Day
Name: mike
EMail: eckmd@casshealth.org
Comment: I need information about stopping my exwife from moving my two kids out of school district. We have joint physical and legal custody. Divorce decree states must give 45 days notice.
Name: K DeBolt
EMail: Art4tsc@aol.com
Comment: I am a non-custodial father who recently had an accident that has left me temporarily disabled and cannot work until I am medically cleared by the doctors. My X is demanding that I try to find health coverage for my daughter and I would like help in trying to find a way to get my daughter health coverage until I am able to start working again. I am currently insured through the State since I have been unable to work and have no others of an income. Any resources or information would be helpful. Thanks
Name: charles berry
EMail: throwercm@sbcglobal.net
Comment: my name is charles i need halp on geting a divoece my wife took my chhildren and i havent sean them in 2y
Name: daniel
EMail: daniel45882@yahoo.com
Comment: i am still married but i been too court fore full custdy and i have full custdy now can she file in anther state
Name: oldmilton
EMail: atlsmotherman@netzero.com
Comment: Well, I pay child support for my 2 children. They live in Missouri and I live in Georgia. My visitation is up to her whim, notheing is court order, yet.I am about to get A LAWYER in both states. If anyone knows a good aattorney in either state, please let me know. Does amyone have any dealings with a situation like this.And,is Missouri father freindly? I could use any help!!!
Name: Demetrius
EMail: slickprice@yahoo.com
Comment: My ex-wife and I have been divorced for a year. I recently had DNA test on our five children and found out that three of them are not mine. One is 11 and the twins are about to be five. After cutting child support, she has since moved in with her mother and stepfather into a three bedroom mobile home. She is also expecting another baby soon. My two children say ther mother is never home and that their grandmother takes care of them. They want to live with me, but she will not allow them to. They also have came to my home with bruises, their clothes are always dirty, and they tell me they sometimes go to bed without eating. I have contacted social services several times, but have never gotten any response. What can I do in order to get custody of my kids?
Name: Jason
EMail: judip38@hotmail.com
Comment: I am currently living in Kentucky,my wife and I are separating and I am thinking of going to live with my grandparents in Fla. for awhile.We have 2-sons,if I take them to FLa. and she decides she wants to fight me for custody,will she have to come to FLa. to do that?
Name: Christina
EMail: christiewhit@bellsouth.net
Comment: Hi my fiance has 2 children in Florida. He was laid off and got behind on his court ordered child support. They suspended in drivers license. Does anyone know what we can do to get the license back?
Name: CJ Bowder
EMail: gunsel02@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a recently divorced father of twin girls. The court system just granted me temporary full custody with a motion for full and permanent custody in the works. This is absolutely what I want, but I need to find out what resources are out there available to me regarding childcare assistance.
Name: lee ecclesfield
EMail: leeaddjustapull@netzero.com
Comment: my wife is lieing in our divorce of 20 years.trying to take my furniture store i had 2 years before we were married.i believe she has been taking money through checks to her parents that dont add up.
Name: Donald
EMail: Donaldjr352003@yahoo.com
Comment: Hello FOL, I live in albama and I was divorced once all ready. I agreeded to pay 600 a month for one child 5yrs ago, and currently facing divorce number 2; I cant support the family I have now paying that amount that is a big part of the problem. My present spouse an I have 1 child together, if we do divoce what will that do to the child support i already pay. I need to know what I can do to fix this issue in a timely and appropriate manner
thank you for your help
Name: james
EMail: lobs1@hotmail.com
Comment: Hi Im a single father who has had custody of my 3 year old son fo 8 monaths nowin canada. Can anyone tell me what my chanaces are of winning custoday. and how i should go about this matter.
Name: Joe
EMail: houstonkeebler@yahoo.com
Comment: I need help. I have a child support case in Texas. Actually i have several there. But I need help, or information with being able to sign over my rights, and cancel out future child support payments. The reason i have come to this decision, which is not a light one, My daughter is now almost 10 yrs old, I know nothing of her, and she knows nothing of me, have not seen each other since she was 6 months old. I do not see the point in continueing to pay Child support, barely living myself, if i am not even gettin to know anything about my daughter. The mother refuses to let me see her, even though she is court ordered to do so, and the law does nothing about it. Im tired of it all, please someone send me information regarding this issue.
Name: ollieollie
EMail: bvzhandson@yahoo.com
Comment: My girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. Because of the Bias court system she dont beleive in taking child support and taking a man for everything he has and going through the headach of doing all that stuff, my girlfriend would like to voluntary give me SOLE CUSTODY of the child and relinquish her rights so " quote on quote" "IF" she ever decides to leave me in the future that I would not be responsable for anything because I would have the child in my poession. So basicly it would all fall on her. My question is, we live together and want to stay together and get married someday and i dont want child support from her if anything should ever happen. Can this be done??????
Name: brandon
EMail: brandonperry_14@hotmail.com
Comment: hi my name is Christine I am writing you on behalf of my husband. he has a hard time sharing his problems with other people. but we do need some advice. he is still battling his ex- wife.
Name: Phil
EMail: ddancing5@comcast.net
Comment: i would like to know what i can do to get full custody of my six year old son. his mother has an eating disorder and has to live with her grandma to make sure she is not vomiting. my son has cought her so he thinks its ok to throw up him food. she also has to live with her grandma to have someone watch over her to make sure she isnt throwing up and to make sure she eats. My son doesnt have his own room there and has to sleep on the floor. she also screws with my visition i am supposed to have him every weekend and she calls on firday right before i am comming to get him saying that he is sick or that he has plans with his other family members so he cant come. what can i do there?
Name: Jeff Smtih
EMail: dairyfarms@msn.com
Comment: i have a court order to see my daugher and the x will not let me see her i have her on tape saying so i have the law on tape saying the court order is no good and will not do anything and telling me i will be put in jail if i keep asking for my daugher
Name: David Browne
EMail: heyitsme2262YAHOO.COM
Comment: i AM IN JAIL FOR CUSTODIAL INTERFERANCE. cLASS D FELONY. tHEY BROKE DUE PROCESS LAWS AND NEVER SERVED ME. tHEY ARRESTED MY WIFE IN OHIO AND i WAS OUT OF sTATE NOWHERE NEAR HER i NEED HELP i AM IN hARDIN COUNTY DETENTION CENTER IN ELIZABETHTOWN, KY WITH NO MONEY OR LAWYER PLEASE COULD U TELL ME HOW TO GET A LAWYER OT HELP
Name: tammy anderson
EMail: tamifay88@hotmail.com
Comment: my son and his parents want custody of his daughter .she is living from one house to another when she isnt here with us and we want to know what we can do to prove to the court her 16 yr old mom is not capble of raising her.
Name: Steve Leiper
EMail: rleiper@beaumont.k12.tx.us
Comment: My daughter has been taken to another state without my permission. Her mother remarried and they said they were moving to Sulpher, Louisiana. But never would give me the address. I found out that they have actually moved somewhere in Lake Charles, Louisiana. I believe she has no intentions of ever letting me see my daughter again. What can I do to get my daughter back. She makes my daughter call me by my first name and her new husband Daddy. My finances are very limited since I pay child support and have four of my own at home. My parents help as much as they can, but they are stretched financially too. How can I get my daughter? What do I need to do?
Name: lisa
EMail: rockdog717@yahoo.com
Comment: Can my ex sign custady of our son away without consulting the court
Name: Steve
EMail: HILLTOP25@peoplepc.com
Comment: I live in NY and my ex and I are finally trying to work together in the best interest of our 3 children. The oldest, 13, wants to live with me and after much disagreement, my ex agreed. Now we are having issues with the court and the law guardian. When can my son decide where he wants to live and how can we make the court and law guardian listen to his wants and needs?
Name: tammy
EMail: tammyfrisky4u@yahoo.com
Comment: sisterinlaw put restraining order on brother her husband to get custody of children while he was in another state at the time and came to the state to get kids and behinde his back and got an order from state to get them back from him an children didnt want to go with her cause she was an still is a bad mom .left her 11 year old boy to watch her 6 year old home alone in florida way out in the woods where they lived alone all night .help please.
Name: john
EMail: fonzi6@verizon.net
Comment: i an paying child support to new hampshire for a child i believe is not mine how can i get a court ordered dna test? i have lived in ny for 10 years
Name: Dan Bardell
EMail: dodgeboy67@sbcglobal.net
Comment: My son is 8 years old and his mother pawns him off to anyone and even lets him wonder around Sabula Iowa by himself. THis past weekend, Oct 1,2006, his mother called the police after arriving home at 2am and noticed he was missing. Apparently no one was watching him. After calling the police his mother became uncooperative according to the police. He went 15 hours missing before found with a stranger, an old lady with a bunch of unknown,unrelated kids. DCSF is investigating and I was told that this is the perfect time to pursue custody. Please help me!
Name: frank folio
EMail: frankfolio532@msn.com
Comment: hello my problem is that we are still in tempory matters after 11 months. i only get every other weekend with my daughters ages 3 and 5 i really mis them and want to get shared custody but it is hard in west virginia please help me get more time with my daughters
Name: mslater
EMail: mrebick66@hotmail.com
Comment: What are the ramifications if any, if the father will not follow the parenting visitation schedule. It says in our decree that whoever has the children in there custody that it is that parents responsability to get the child or children to there sports or school activities. He is trying to refuse to do this due to the fact that he lives 120 miles away. We got lucky with the judge who use to be a footbal coach and finds this very important for the children. It does make it almost impossible for the father to have a normal visitation. As the stepfather I have tried to make this a good situation, it is truley impossible with this man. He does everything he can to screw his ex over. Doesnt matter how it will effect his kids. Can we hold him in contempt? and if i can what are the ramifications to this?
Name: billy
EMail: billy_fshr@yahoo.com
Comment: i paid childsupport for 18 years,she move out from her mothers about year ago my girl is will be 19 in feb.all ready finish school,how should i get the childsupport stop, because her mom want go stop it at the court house.what could i do?
Name: roger mezzulo
EMail: sun7714@aol.com
Comment: would like to reunite my daughters after twenty two years of them being kept away and trying to destroy my image with them , i am now establish again after all these years and would like them in our family again. please ansewer only to e mail address and not put on view notices
Name: angela
EMail: dolfin31@sbc global.net
Comment: yes i am trying to get some help for my brother tht is in the pen (jail) whatever u call it. but his wife kinda more less had him put there. well every since he has been in there she has been from guy to guy and house to house . she doensnt ever have a stable place to live or well stay .she has had cps called on her and had her kids taken away from her for numerouse count of drug abuse .this second to the last time she had moved in with my dad, and then well my dad ( her fatherinlaw) had so called custody of the kids at this time. well they was supp. to abide by some rules and regulations . well to kinda shorten in a lil. bit . well my dad went to church and took her kids with him like supp. to be. well he got home and all you could smell was paint she had been huffing ,sniffing paint. it was so strong in that house they had to open all the dorrs and windows . well my dad talk to her and told her well u know tht u are not supp. to be doing this. i will give u one more chance . so he did. well a few days later he found her doing this again but by the 3 rd time he called there cps workeer and was trying to tell her about well it took a few days to get ahold of her well she finally got back to him. she said tht she was gonna come out there tht day . well she didnt come tht day a few days or so later cops and them come out there and took teh kids from them they said tht there will be a 14 day trial hearing and then u can try or something to come get the kids back . but i am there aunt too and they did call me got info. from me about them coming here and all tht. but c my point again is tht is kinda where i need help or info. or something. i ahve 3 kids my self not a problem. but well my oldest daughters dad used to call cps on me all the time. well they would come out and investigate and then it would be closed and dropped but he only done to try to take her from me he was not man enough anyways. but mine was not about drugs or none of tht is what i am saying and all my cases were closed . i ahve talked to them about that and they said well after every caes they should send you paper or somethign to close it out well thts another thing that never happen too. tht is the only thing i have on my record . but i am trying to get the kids for my brother and for a better place for them to live . cus again i know every since my brother has been locked up and they have been in amd out of this cps battle since then and tht was like 4 yrs. ago. my bro. has done wkrd and got his ged and now taking mech. class and i do know tht he betterd himself and he knows now what he has done wrong and all tht he needs to be with his children too. but he does come up for parole about this time next yr so we are trying to get help tht we can to figure what to do please help us i think tht they go to court on the 21 this wk.i do have to call and get more info. on tht too. please ver concerned aunt
Name: sterling
EMail: jdozer2000@netzero.com
Comment: I need help with my rights in child custody issues my ex wont even budge on helping with the transportation issues to see my kids she knows that i am strugling but rather than comrimising with me on getting them to visit me she says that since i cant afford to pay for my half of the day care that she cant afford to even meet me half way to visit with my kids. my side of it is i am already paying $743 a month for child suport and my income is around $2000 a month so it leaves me with a take home of around $800 to 900 a month with a rent payment of $320, car payment of $320, insurance of $80 a month plus you other incudentals is the leagal sytam realy so screwed up that weather or not you wanted to get divorced the man always gets "screwed". Our marrage ended becuse she had affairs on several occasions i did everything i could to keep us toghether but she dident want to...any way she filed for divorce in febuary 2005 I wont ever forget that birthday present. and she got remaried in august of the same year. so not only is she messing with my emotions but my kids as well but the leagal system seems to look the other way when its the woman that doesn the diry things. at least that has been my experience over the last 2 years. obveouly i cant afford to get an atterony to help me and the ors is so biased in this state its a waist of time so if there is any one that can help please let me know.
Name: david raup
EMail: reif78@yahoo.com
Comment: i need advice on child custody.
my ex wife and i have joint custody of 2 children we have together. primarily the children lived with my ex wife and they came to see me holidays and summers. well last year my fiance and i noticed she was either quitting every job she had or getting fired from every job she had with in 7 months
there fore jumping her and the kids from 3 different schools and staying in friends homes instead of a place of her own for her and the kids.So my fiance made a decision even though i did not agree with it to much . But for the childrens sake to let my ex wife and children live with us until my ex was able to get a job and find a stable place. So the kids could be in a stable home and school environment. So while she is staying with us we make her help with the bills.But she is not putting her priorites and children first . year she pays us money for the bills only because we bitch at her to. and instead for putting 50 dollars back out of her paycheck or helping when it comes to stuff her children need she blows her money left from her checks on herself there for not saving to get a place of her own . She is taking advantage of my fiance opening up her house to her and the kids. My fiance feels that if she is not responsible enough to do that or pay us money for bills without us bitching at her to do it how can she do it on her own. my ex wife is more concerned about how she looks rather than her priorites and children. my fiance wants her to go now. but says the kids stay here until she finds a place. and is settled. How can we go about getting custody and telling her she has to go?
Name: Leo
EMail: valrvm@sbcglobal.net
Comment: do I need a lawyer to get visitations rights for my 3 children, I have always paid child support, but know the mothers are controlling when and if I can get my children?
Name: charlie
EMail: tturner@asbsystems.com
Comment: I need information on obtaining custady of my son. We go back to court in January.
Name: kim
EMail: rebalheart509@bellsouth.com
Comment: i am friends with both the girlfriend and boyfriend and they are about to split up and he wants to get custody of there 5 mon. old little boy and she is saying that if she leaves he is going to not because she loves him but to hurt him she is bipolar and it is the worse type so we are afraid for her to take him because when she gets mad she gets violent even i hate to see her get him because i fear the worse and because of the bipolar disorder she is not allowed to work because the doc will not release her for work so she has no income and no way of getting income so with all of this against her what do you think the judge will rule?and she resents him because he takes time away from her daughter from a previous relationships and has told me several times. thanks if you could just e-mail me and tell me you opinion kim
Name: Adam
EMail: lil_blu_butterfly1984@yahoo.com
Comment: I am divorced and my ex-wife has custody of our sons, in the divorce it came that I was to carry the insurance on the boys, how ever I recently was given a bill for $600.00 and do not know who is required to pay the bill. I pay for the insurance coverage and thought that was all I had to do, she is now telling me that I am required to pay anything above the insurance and anything not covered by the insurance...is this correct?
Name: TEE
EMail: PKELLY1260
Comment: HELLO,WHEN MY DAUGHTER WAS BORN APPROXIAMTELY 12 YEARS AGO, HER MOTHER TOLD ME SHE WAS DIVORCED.I LATER FOUND OUT WHEN MY CHILD WAS 3 THAT IN FACT SHE WAS STILL MARRIED. AT THE TIME OF MY DAUGHTERS BIRTH I SIGNED THE VOLUNTARY ACKNOWLEDGEMENT IN THE HOSPITAL IN LA. SHE GOT THE DIVORCE AND WE MARRIED AND THEN LATER DIVORCED WE WERE TOGETHER MARRIED PROBABLY TWO YEARS. SINCE THE DIVORCE I HAVE BEEN REPEATEDLEY TRYING TO ESTABLISH A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAUGHTER BUT THE MOTHER WILL JUST NOT COMPRIMISE, I HAVE REMMARRIED SINCE. I HAVE SEEN MY DAUGHTER ONE TIME SINCE THE DIVORCE AND THAT WAS WHEN SHE WAS 8 AND SHE IS NOW 12. HER MOTHER TELL ME IM NOT A SIGNIFICATE PART OF HER LIFE AND THAT THE ONLY WAY TO SEE HER IS TO VISIT HER, UNDER THE CIRCUMSTANCE IM NOT ABLE TO MAKE THE TRIP. SHE LIVES IN VA AND I LIVE IN KY. I PAY CHILD SUPPORT ON TIME AND TRY TO CALL HER BUT STILL NO HEADWAY. MY QUESTION IS I DONT THINK A WAIVER OF PARENTAGE WAS SIGNED BY HER HUSBAND AND SINCE THE LAWS SAYS THAT THE HUSBAND IS THE PRESUMED FATHER WHERE DO WE STAND. IM IN THE PROCESS OF TAKING HER TO COURT FOR VISITATION BUT GET THIS. SHE ALLOWS MY DAUGHTER TO VISIT AND KNOW HER FIRST HUSBAND AND THROWS IT IN MY FACE. I KNOW THAT SHE IS NOT HIS KID BUT IM NOT SURE IF SHE IS MINE. I WANT TO GET A PATERNITY TEST BUT WHEN CHILD SUPPORT WAS ESTABLISHED SHE PRESENTED THE ACKNOWLEDGEMENT OF PATERNITY SO MY REQUEST WAS DENIED. I AM GOING TO ASK THE COURT FOR ONE BUT WHAT ARE MY CHANCES. AND IS ALL OF THIS LEGAL IF THE WAIVER WASNT SIGNED. WHAT CAN I DO.SHE HAS MADE MY LIFE A LIVING HELL NOT TO MENTION DENY ME AND MY FAMILY A RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS CHILD WHICH LEADS ME TO BELIEVE IF SHE IS EVEN MINE. ANY SUGGESTIONS OR ADVICE WOULD BE TRUELY APPRECIATED.
Name: Vernon Caldwell
EMail: vernoncaldwell@comcast.net
Comment: My gril called the police we where haveing words I told her to get out side she went to the back house and with out knowing.The police jailed my on DV.I bailed after some time the case was dismissed.Mother comes back after 30 or so.CPS shows up at the door Nicole had trouble she wouldnt file with the DA office.The CPS ask if i wanted help i told the no.I was told eather take service or thy would file WIC 300.I had never been around welfare did understand .CPS took us into family court and made up what danger to my to babies Opal 5 months new baby was taken from the hospial.By the time I finished with DV case i had little money left.I kept try ing to get thi pretender to turn in evidence got the run around.I contested and again stone walled.There a people that was in the home there was no one ask what happen.Stuied be knowing little about court the pretebder told me if waved my rights along with the mother it would help get the babies home and it was not like saying you did anything and in fact very little did happen, but the mother was mad and told the police i hit her.The police took pictures i have a cope there are nothing wrong with the mother .Next the mother is Bipolar and wasnt takeing med due to haveind a baby,and just having the other understandabe she was haveing a hard time.Anyway the case work said she evidenced the fathers violent behavior toward the mother and that i had kicked the mother in the side.Mother was hurt will working away from home have hospial report.My son was taken because they said i kick Nicle.Even in police feport no kick to side. the mothe did say that i had kick her in the groin befor she left bull.The mother came and the courts are using prema facia evidence,bad speller,anyway with out getting any evidece to the courts and little understaning we are getting the shaft.There is no dought if i could get just a little help things could be working out better.Nicle and i are just finished with the service ,we busted butt and the are hard cases.I afraid there going to shaft us need so help bad.The father Vernon have had good record and this is second family.I had no problems in the pastI a, 58 ,the mother is 26 this may play a part of the hard time.Nicole has had drug problems in past.Clean as long as with me.I was testing,but was droped.There is custody papers date dec 5,2005.This wrong to do to my kids.Vernon Caldwell 9164571510 Sact CA 95820 Thank you hope to hear so thing.
Name: carl sanchez
EMail: carlandtheresasanchez@yahoo.com
Comment: I am $63.000 dollars in arrears including penalties.The case is 17 years old based on an old job I had at that time.The child is now 21 years old.I cant ever pay this off.They are not looking for me yet and I have payed on and off over the years.The child was taken from me under false allegations.the counselours who made the allegations were arrested years later for child molest. It,s a mess ,is there any hope for me I am at my wits end help.....The case started on a default decision years ago..
Name: chadc1[chad coffman]
EMail: chadc1@charter.net
Comment: she wont let me talk or see the kids and no leagall action has been taking bby her what can i do
Name: wayne
EMail: wds42361@yahoo.com
Comment: i need to know how to get custody of my 7 year old daughter her mother is a persciption drug addict and i feel like my daughter is in danger
Name: milke maul
EMail: cljqualified@bresnan.net
Comment: I lost my kids to cps in may of last year I did everything possible the judge still took my kids because i could not go to drug rehab because of health reasons so do you know any places that could help me with the fight of my life
Name: Gerald Rice
EMail: squirt1964@hotmail.com
Comment: Age the children have to be to decide which parent they want to live with.
Name: jaymesdad
EMail: tia.m7@bigpond.com
Comment: i am the father of a 3 yr old girl who i dont get to see often,due to my ex not puting me on birth certificate.she claims that i have no rights to her though she admits she is mine.my ex and daughter live with her mother and when thay allow me to see her i cant leave the house with her or do anything apart from sit in there lounge.how do i get the rights to be able to be a dad to my little girl and do the things that a father should.
Name: Donald
EMail: undecided895@yahoo.com
Comment: I would like to know if I can file for visitation of my daughter in the state of north carolina, or do I need a lawyer. I was told that I would have to file a motion, but when I called the court in Gaston County the clerk told me I couldnt do it myself. My ex and I were never married and there is no custody agreement or visitation agreement. She lives in NC and I live in NH. I have not seen my daughter in 2 years because of her new bf. Any help you can offer would be greatly appreciated.
Name: yloanda barhams
EMail: mdye04@comcast.cnt
Comment: looking for on line srvice that prvides free documents for temporay cosudy for children
Name: John
EMail: jferrarelli1@cogeco.ca
Comment: Do you have to pay for your children education after a divorce
Name: travis demont
EMail: murray_262@hotmail.com
Comment: i have been married for three months and have a 2 month last week i came home from work and my things were packed and said she wanted a divorce we lived with her mom so i moved back in with my mother apparently she has not been home just comes and goes takes my son over this guys home that just got out of prison and shes out of control i call her to see my son and he answers i need help please she takes my son out all hours of the night please help me
Name: Steven Wakefield
EMail: stevenwakefield@hotmail.com
Comment: I am from a British Citizen and my wife is a US citizen and our 5 year old son (izzy) was born in London and has joint citizenship. I went to India with my wife and child (izzy) for 3 years on a project that was a joint business for me and my wife.
We have our home in London and everything in London is active (pay local taxes, doctors, Bank accounts, Doctors, power, Telephone etc). In India we have nothing but we rented a house and as our son was small we put him in an international school that was tied to the UK curriculum and our child was never emerged in the local culture as it was always European, even the head master was from the UK. We did not receive any wages either of us while we were there. We also never stayed longer than the 180 day that was needed for foreigners to register. We were to return home to the UK within the next few months.
I woke 1 day to find my wife and child gone and eventually found them in the US were I followed and kept in contact with the missing kid (US &UK) and eventually found. In the mean time my wife upon her return to the US (she is not resident in the US as she has not lived here for over 5 years and is a permanent resident of the UK) she filed a separation (as no jurisdiction for divorce) and took out a temporary custody order (but giving me access to my son but only with her father present).
My wife would not make contact and eventually through a 3rd party I was allowed to see my son and had to go to Oregon but of course there was a twist to this and it was to served to me the papers even though I had almost beg to have these served.
I went alone to the hearing date but it was stayed because I submitted a Hague petition which halted everything. My wife father then attempted to make a deal but I said no and a few days later I was offered to have my son the whole day without supervision…This is what I had dreamt of for the past 8 weeks. It happened and we spent the whole day together which was so emotional. Then the next day my wife and her father and myself met up to discuss our sons future which they wanted me to drop the Hague and live and work in the US even though I do not have a green card or anything then I would get to see him. Basically I refused and then they said if I now want to see Izzy I would have to go through the courts and get a supervision order with a 3rd party and then they left.
Because of the Hague it seems that I cannot ask the courts anything otherwise I am accepting jurisdiction but I want some how to change the temporary custody order so at least I can see him while I am in the US as I am only here waiting and waiting. They (and I use the word they) have already let me see him without supervision so they are not worried I will run off with him.
She is the one that abducted our son but it is my son and me that suffer and it’s at her whim what happens.
I feel like my son had died and now I have found him and he is 15 miles from me and I cannot even see him.
How can I appeal to the local family court to have at least some custody while I am here in the US?
Name: carl well
EMail: skulll454@sbcglobal.com
Comment: need to know how to file for temperary custedy papers right away
Name: Fred
EMail: runltd3@yahoo.com
Comment: I am looking for reiable references (leagle or othewise)about my case for Child support against me ..... far past due. I wuld like to get it reduced and even negotiate a lumpsum amount to put the judgement aside in the view that the subject children are well past the age of majority.
Name: timothy pierce
EMail: djsocca@aol.com
Comment: i have always paid my child suport about 8 years ago i was out of work due to a injury and fell behind since that time i have returned to work and paid thousands of back child suport . i have been laid off on unemployment and the suport for 6 years has come directly out of my check even while i am unemployed.the child suport has taken my federal return .for deliquent payments i owe some back money but how is it considerd deliquent when the payments have been taken out for 6 years is this legal can i get my money back my son is 22 years now and working. outside dads get no respect i have a six year old daughter who i am also suporting on a unemployment check
Name: Paralegal
EMail: galaxycb77@yahoo.com
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Name: rosenow75
EMail: robrosenow@yahoo.com
Comment: I have an exwife whos live in boyfriend is verbally violent towards me and then bashes me in front of my children. How do I request for him to be removed from the household or at least get angermanagement. I live in ILLINOIS. what are the laws?
Name: salvador s.
EMail: sasisa65@yahoo.com
Comment: How can I inforce parenting time of minor child. In a joint legal custody (mother being designated as the primary residential parent).From 1 state Az. to other State Ca. (Mother,Child and Dad moved to Ca. same city).
Name: sabrina
EMail: sheasotight83@aol.com
Comment: i would like to know Ga law on giving up rights as a father
Name: Larry Gamblin
EMail: zaletta_2000@yahoo.com
Comment: How to file in Texas (Dallas County courts)
25.03 Interference with child Custody . Children were not returned after 42 days summer visitation
Name: Michael G
EMail: all5@warwick.net
Comment: My daughter will be 20 in october she has currently left college in florida and planned on going to school in NY but as of yet she has not signed up. She is currently working in Manhattan full time. Does anyone know if this is considered emancipation?
She is still living with her mother .
Name: Jamie Hammack
EMail: shannon.tropak@compass-usa.com
Comment: I am an unmarried father, have worked at the same steady job for almost 3 years, and the mother of my 4 month old daughter and I are no longer together. Although we still live together, she does not work, I pay everything for our daughter, but she is young and selfish, and tries to say that I have no say in how our daughter is raised. I am the legal father of our daughter, I am on the birth certificate and she has my last name. All I want to know is what rights I have if we ever had to go to court for who would get primary custody of our daughter. Please help.
Name: Christopher
EMail: sapperdavis@hotmail.com
Comment: I need advice on how to get my son to listen or to inter act with me. He is 8 yrs. old. He runs to his mother for everything. I failed to mention that my wife had him before we were married. I have been married for 2 yrs now. I am in need of either a miracle or more patience.
Name: Lamont
EMail: hughfamily123@netzero.com
Comment: I need to know how to get my child removed from foster care and i am in another state.
Name: wesley johnson
EMail: johnswc@chevrontexaco.com
Comment: My child is six years old I just founsd out he is not mine by DNA testing. Do I still have to suppoet this child. Can I sue the mother, state of Texas? can I get my money back with compounded interest? Am I intitled to mental anguish? should I ask for a jury trial or trail by the judge?
Thanks
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Name: Tom
EMail: tjeatjea@gmail.com
Comment: Wife sited for dv poilce arrested me because i addmitted drinking wine and was a few feet off my porch.Public intox.
Spent night in jail.Wife in morning filed a restraining order.Went to court and Judge made it 3 year order with no visitation for me and 2 children.
Thanks for any help you can provide.
Name: Charles Rivas
EMail: charlesrivas76@yahoo.com
Comment: hello i am going threw a tuff time right now well i been going threw it sence febuary me and my sons mother are not together right now and i keep pushing the perternaty test and she dosent want to its not because i think hes not mine its more what if things dont work out between us i still have rights even thougt im not there at this point and time am i wrong
Name: michaelmackiesr
EMail: michaelmackiesr@yahoo.com
Comment: my situation is this i have been going through my devorce for over a year now there are many D.H.S complaints from myself, neighbors,school system and even police. My children live in a discusting home they never have clean clothes they are told to make sandwiches while mom is eating meat and potatoes. mom is always on the computer the only attention they recieve is when she comes out of her room to yell at them. since i have had visitations i have treated them for headlice, ringworm,cuts and scrapes that have never been taking care of even by the school nurse telling mom to do so, they havent even been to the doctors since 10/24/2004 if this isnt abuse i dont know what is. they take one shower a week when i recieve them i need to put them immediatly in the shower and wash there clothes and sneakers. my children were recently sexually harrassed by a neighbor my 6 year old son was asked by this man how big his penus is and my 10 year old daughter was actually touched by this man. my concern is that i took all the right steps by calling the police, the gardian ad litum and youth alternatives and even filed a protection from abuse order they are all agreeing with me and on my side yet the state of maine does not seem to be complient with there job and leaveing my children in this very unsafe invornment. im stating to believe my children are going to end up seriously hurt (raped,beaten,kidnapped or even worse dead) all due to the fact that my ex wife does not take care of them. no supervision, love, happieness or protection considering she has called my children compulsive liers because my daughter told her about this insident and she chose to ignore it. im seriously wondering what exact actions i can take to ensure their saftey and get them home were they belong and will be safe and loved and nurtured. I do not understand this i have seen children get taken out of the home for far less than this, yet my children have to deal with this shitty upbringing when they want a good upbringing with dad. please help with any legal or personal advice Sincerley. k a loving father needs help
Name: Phil Dorr
EMail: Frickindizzle@yahoo.com
Comment: I live in Idaho. My son is 20 months old. The mother of my son and I were never married, but lived together until our son was 13 months old. While living together Health & Welfare/ Child Support Services of Idaho decalared her the custodial parent and made our finacial responsibility 37%mine & 63% hers. Child support was automatically set by the state, neither of us made a request for it. We have never filled a custody agreement with any state. Over memorial day weekend she moved, with our son, to Virginia without my knowledge. My questions are... As the custodial parent does she have the right to move out of state without filling any kind of custody agreement? What kind of rights as a father do I have?
Name: kelechi okoro
EMail: pakelly4real@yahoo.co.uk
Comment: jennifer_2737857 at yahoo .com. i will like her to contact me through my e-mail address so as to tell her my sufferings
Name: Larry Fowler
EMail: stroken96@hotmail.com
Comment: Howdy! i need advice. I lost my job and had to move in with family and got behind on child support bout $1,000 dollars and i have got a new job now but css keeps hounding me and they have raised my support and threating me about taking my DL away. What should i do? I live in Oklahoma. Thanks, Larry
Name: Ruby Thompson
EMail: sweetlady6767@aol.com
Comment: Me and my ex is divorced and we have joined custedly of my ten year old daugther and what, I need help with is he does not come around to see her are send any time with her what so ever.So how do, I go about getting full custedly of mine daugther. Please help if you can.
Name: Martin Manandik
EMail: matthiessen.amanda@principal.com
Comment: Ex wife has refused visitation since 12/05. On 5/13/06 I was served with a protection order from her and it includes my daughter. I have not seen my daughter since a week before Christmas. I have been paying child support. She also claims she is moving to Oregon which would give me no chance of ever seeing my daughter again. I do not have the money to pay my lawyer any more money and get no where.
Name: PATRICK
EMail: SRLIRA27@EARTHLINK.NET
Comment: MY BROTHER IS CURRENTLY SEPARATED AND HIS WIFE WILL NOT LET HIM SEE HIS CHILDREN. HE IS HEARTBROKEN AND DOES NOT KNOW WHERE TO TURN TO IN ORDER TO SEE HIS KIDS UNTIL THE DIVORCE IS FINAL. HIS WIFE IS UNWILLING TO WORK SO HE STILL SUPPORTS THEM ALL FINANCIALLY. HE IS A GOOD FATHER AND CARES VERY MUCH FOR THE WELL BEING OF HIS CHILDREN. WHAT CAN HE DO FOR TEMPORARY CUSTODY?
Name: nick
EMail: ginarod@frontiernet.net
Comment: if im a minor am i required to pay child support
Name: Peter
EMail: peter@letq.com
Comment: I need urgently an attorney, who is able to fight a biased judge in White Plains Supreme court.
I prefer the attorney not to be from White Plains, NY - a WP attorney will be afraid he get disciplined if he fights the judge well.
Name: Lonnie Whipple
EMail: pwhipple@iowatelecom.net
Comment: Who can I contact to get some help? Right now I am on unemployment and I have to pay two different women child support for the same child that has lived with me over a year and he is my biological son, my exwife, has claimed both my sons and our son since the divorce and the two boys have never lived with her. I could use the money sent to them to help raise the boys. One of the boys turned 18 but is going to college.
Name: wannabeagooddad
EMail: sboarderblitz@yahoo.com
Comment: I am partially disabled. I stay active and can do a lot of different sports. The mother of my child is not willing to have me take care of my daughter w/ out her supervision as she thinks I will "fall" or somehow not be able to take care of her if something happened. I pay my child support and live MEAGERLY can she really do this. slowly loosing hope here...
Name: melissa
EMail: atloml@aol.com
Comment: Hi i am not wrighting for my self.i am righting for my boyfriend.we have been in a stabel relashonship for 3 years.
i have 3 boys from a preves marage and he has 2 from her. i domt get any thing from my ex.my boyfriend pays his c.s. faithfully and we get the kids 2 weeks out of the month. this year i let her put not only the two kids he has with her but her two older kids in school where we live so it would be ezer on her. and he could get the kids when he gets home .well me and her got in a fight over the way she treats him. what can we do get custad of his kid who she dont wont any way. there is more to the story but i dont have the time to wright we are despret to git the kids.
Name: R
EMail: rmcaballero@hotmail.com
Comment: Does any one know how to file in pa a court visitation order from another state. My x moved to pa from a different state closer to me and i have to register my visitation court order there? Please let me know. Thanks
Name: robert bullock
EMail: txkeithusa@yahoo.com
Comment: I was married in 1979 divorced in 1984 due to the fact my wife was pregnet by another man.my childsupport was thirty dollars a week/they came back on me now i owe 39000.00 in back support/they garnished my paycheck 14 years and then they said we made a mistake you owe twenty more thousand in interest/i have lost everything i own/and has drove me once to attemted suicide,I have to put water in my peanut butter to make it last wy she and her husband flys to Vegas on my money.
Name: sandy pittman
EMail: sandy.pittman@la.gov
Comment: Hello, my son age 20 is Army Infantry Active duty, headed for Iraq. A girl had a baby yesterday & says he is the father. The only parenity test I can find cost $570.00 here in Baton Rouge. Do you know of another route we can go to get this accomplished. He is home from Ft.Lewis for 2 wks. Pls advise, thanks
Name: pieter brits
EMail: pieterbrits5@ananzi.co.za
Comment: i am sepperated from my wife and daughter for 2 years now, not devorced yet. ex has boofriend who live with them for a year.they slept in the same bed for 6 months before they built my daughter a bedroom. ex allow daughter 3years and 11months old, to be left allone with boyfriend, he pics her up at school, drive around with my daughter, bath her and even shower naked with my daughter. he does not have my permission to take on parrental responsabilities and neighter was it discussed with me. ex and i agreed on joint custedy after a custedy battle for the first 6 months after sepperation. i felt that my daughter would be better off placed under my custedy since i was her caretaker 90% of the time,we have a verry strong bond, and the fact that ex is suffering from cronic deppression wich she would not take medication for.she used to get violant in front of our child and lost control of her self for minor reasons. she even attacted me fisically while our child was in my arms. i am affraid for my childs life and future. im seek advice, need to know what my rights are and who i can contack to help me in this matter so i can get custedy of my daugter. unfortunately dont have the finances to get a attorney but i need to help my child getting the life she deserves.
Name: Joe Smith
EMail: 159357@verizon.net
Comment: Is there a law against being charged almost $4,000 year for so called "work related" childcare when she (custodial parent)claims minimum wage or 10,720 year income? Also, does anyone know the age limit childcare or daycare expenses are allowed? I have two children and one is thirteen years old and the other is ten. Does anyone know what is really required from the mom (as far as proof of payment such as receipts or bank account payments for daycare) for a state to deduct childcare expenses on top of child support? I do know that she has another baby that is not mine and I think I am paying daycare for it. I would really appreciate any help anyone might offer, I need help dealing with a modification through the state to get this corrected. Does anyone know if her tax refund is considered before allowing such charges against the NCP?Thank you for your time
Name: robert
EMail: smokeater4543@aol.com
Comment: My fiance was divorced in 2004, she shares joint custody of her 2 children, but the father is custodial parent. Both kids wants to come live with us permanently, one is 12 yrs and the other is 7 yrs old. The father will fight me in court, what will i have to do and we live in Texas. Do I have to prove him unfit to gain custodial parental rights?
Name: robert
EMail: smokeater4543@aol.com
Comment: As a stepfather to two children, I am soon to be divorced from their mother and the bio-father wants me to adopt the youngest child, he will sign whatever is needed to be sign for me to adopt him, both the child and the mother wants this to happen. Can it be done and what do i have to do to do it?
Name: Bill Lockner
EMail: Kim-lee.lockner@harley-davidson.com
Comment: I need advice-my ex wife was living with a man who she said was the father of her daughter. We had a paternity test and the girl is mine.It is 6 months later and still no papers have been filed in the court. I have custoday of our 7 year old son, that is court ordred. She does not work and has no way to support the child,Can I legally take my daughter into my care without the mothers consent since there is no legal custoday arrangements made within the courts of PA?
Name: josh
EMail: waynesboron@aol.com
Comment: how long does it take to get served with a pfa
Name: Tree Rat
EMail: treerat_lives@hotmail.com
Comment: i have been divorced for 2 years and two sons (12 and 9)neither of them like living with their mother anymore.We have joint custody but she is the costodial parent.how old does a child have to be in alabama before he is able to choose which parent to live with?
Name: americoperez
EMail: americod_perez@hotmail.com
Comment: I had a relationship with a minor, under 18. I am much older than she is. Let us call her the expecting mom.
She is pregnant with my baby. I want to to be legally recognized as the father. I gladly pay child support. I am paying for a medical plan for her. I want visitation rights.
The parents of the expecting mom does not want anyone to know that I am the father. They already made plans to prevent the hospital to write down my name as the father. They will simply say, we do not know who the father is. The expecting mom will NOT deny the truth but feels coerced to please her parents.
What legal actions can I take before the birth to make sure the birth certificate lists me as the father?
Does the hospital will write down what the expecting mother says, or will the hospital believe what the parents say?
I live in South Carolina.
Name: marcus
EMail: cross.marcus@sea.sysco.com
Comment: my son lives out of state, his mother never keeps a job, there is no phone, I have no way of getting in touch with him, is there anything i can do
Name: bryan Chapman
EMail: schapman@auburnhills.org
Comment: how do you modify custody to full custody , mother is using drugs and have called Child protective services.
Name: Michael A. McVey
EMail: robot34@juno.com
Comment: My Ex has made it very difficult to survive and live.She takes me to court alot and makes every effort to harass me
I recently moved outa state and now she told the children I am running from the law witch isnt true.I pay my support and caqll my kids on a regular basis and she puts me on intercom and the kids feel uncomfortable talking to me.
She has tried to make my wife look like a drunk and wouldnt let the kids be left alone with them.Her pastor send me emails saying I am a bad father and I called him and told him to stop saying bad stuff about me.
And she constantly is trying to take away my rights as there father like visitation .How can I stop her
Name: ronnie healey
EMail: rachelbeddow@yahoo.co.uk
Comment: how do i go about representing myself in court over access to children with no solicitor due to outstanding payments to the legal services commission
Name: David Graza
EMail: Turnwauchula@aol.com
Comment: Trying to get Costudy of my son that lives in another stata
Name: Lonnie
EMail: LPATZNER2185@MSN.COM
Comment: need legal advice on parental alienation
Name: lonnie
EMail: knightriderlc@yahoo.com
Comment: i got my daughter back and when she come home she made all sorts of treouble for me and my wife so now i live with my daughter and her income and she has a sex disorder and adhd and add and cdd and very rude to peers and wife i have been gone for 16 months from wife and i didnt want tyo leave but i did not want to lose my daughters love either so i left and now want to go back home because my daughter continues to lie to me and cause trouble,and wants me to live with her she says i do not need to have a wife that i should be with my daughter i have not seen in 17 years. that i should want to be with her and if i did go back she wants to come every other day and my wife says no that she can come on the weekends like her children do i agree but then i feel lost without my daughter if she stays away very long, but i miss my wife and im afraid if i do not go home soon she will lose love for me please help me with suggestions my daughter i think sometimes is faking a lot of disorders.
Name: Delanda
EMail: SHAE1010@MSN.COM
Comment: My friend Scott really needs some help and I am trying to do everything I can to help him. He has been divorced about 4 yrs now and he has full custody of his two boys, 10 and 13. His ex-wife has 2 hours supervised visitation once a week and its on friday evenings from 5 -7. She pays no child support. Can someone talk to me about the situation.
Name: Alex
EMail: murpha64@yahoo.com
Comment: I have a son at sixteen my ex wife sent him to job corps because she could not handle him he stayed up there eight mouths.He was supported by the state while he was there food,clothes,shelter and spending money.He meet a girl at job corps quit and moved in with her he lived up there for ten more mouths before moving back to his mothers.Meanwhile i was paying child support for him. Can i get compensated for the eighteen mouths that i payed when he was not living with or being supported by his mother.
Name: Warren Williams
EMail: tazmaine62@bham.rr.com
Comment: In the past year or so, I have been fighting for custody of my 3 minor children. Recently I obtained custody of my fifteen (15) year old due to the fact that a child molestr has been living in the home. He molested my baby child who is now seven(7) years old. A couple of weeks later I had to go back to court. The judge finally awarded custody of the younger two(2) to me. It took a lot of praying by my wife and I along with help from a friend to finally make this happen. Now this convicted child preditor is walking free. The fiftenn(15) year old has warned that her mother asked her boyfriend to kill me. I know that this is a threat, but where do I go for help?
If there is someone who can help me, email me at,tazmaine62@bham.rr.com. Thank you
Name: Clint Bryant
EMail: clintbryant828@yahoo.com
Comment: I pay child support,but the mother of my child refuses to let me visit my one year old child. I live in Saginaw, Michigan in Saginaw County Friend of the Court said I must hire a lawyer to get rights of parenting time. Please help! I do not have the money to hire a lawyer.
Name: lisa smith
EMail: nicholesmom4@yahoo.com
Comment: well, my husband and i were apart for awile. during this tyetyet but how do we terminate parental rights ime he was with someone else and shes now claming pregnancy.he told her no kids she knew he was married.and that if his wife wanted him back he was gone well thats what happened now he dont want this kid . its not here yet but how do we terminate parental rights to this kid
we are a familly again and we dont want this in our life
Name: BlueJayed
EMail: tiltothkilt@yahoo.com
Comment: I am married, My wife had an affair. She is pregnant. I was not in town. In NY, is the child legally mine? (In wedlock) does the sperm doner have rights to child? Can I force child support w/o giving up rights?
Name: Robert Bullock
EMail: Txkeithusa@yahoo.com
Comment: My pay check was garnish for 14 years for back child support now they said they did not take out the right amount so my back child support whent up twenty thousand dollars in two months
Name: Robert Quintavalle
EMail: www.ub4war@msn.com
Comment: i need to know if i can have a paternity test done----16 years ago i signed a voluntary support agreement but i was young and stupider and i have requested the childs address as i have not seen him in 12 years but the court cant help me----also if i file for a petetion for paternity
or rather can i? and if so is that grounds to contiune a show cause hearing against me for non support?
thanks and i hope i hear from you----robert
ps i live in wilson n.c. usa 27896
Name: Michael Elliott
EMail: melliott0628@yahoo.com
Comment: I need to know if there is any fathers out there who is currently or who recently went through a custody battle. Im most likely getting ready to go through one and need some advise. I havent even been allowed to see the baby yet but was named as the father and told to leave them alone. I dont see this is being right but who out there helps us!!
Name: Tim
EMail: hemidodgeman04@yahoo.com
Comment: I am needing advise on an issue. I am currently deployed in Iraq. My wife decided that she wanted a divorce so she took it upon herself to move my things out for me. Now the lease is in my name and the owner has died. The y gave her a new lease and it is in her name now. Is there anyway that the lease can be taken out of my name due to the fact that i am deployed. She is also trying to get the court to give her primary custody of our children before i get back and is it possible for the court to make that decision without me there.
Name: Kyle
EMail: jpenney@nlamerica.com
Comment: Do I need a lawyer to obtain visitation rights to see my child?How can I make her let me see my child without having to go to court?She kidnapped my child!
Name: elijah
EMail: odbh12AOL.COM
Comment: THIS IS MY SITUATION I HAVE MY DAUGHTER AT THE MOMENT AND IF I DONT HAVE HER HER GRAND MOTHER HAS HER . MY DAUGHTERS MOTHER CURRENTLY HAS A WARENT OUT FOR HER ARREST AND IS INTO DRUGS I WANT TO KNOW HOW I SHOULD GO ABOUT GETTING FULL CUSTEDY PLEASE HELP
Name: robert
EMail: bobcrazy@2000hayoo.com
Comment: need help to get my son from his mother who is in a nursing home.
Name: dave mehta
EMail: purtorican2005@yahoo.com
Comment: I NEED TO FIND OUT CAN MY SONS MOTHER TAKE SOLE CUSTODY OF MY SON EVEN THOUGH I HAVE NOT BEEN IN HIS LIFE CAUSE SHE DONT LET ME SEE HIM. I PAY CHILD SUPPORT AND WANT TO BE A LEADING ROLE IN MY SONS LIFE. HE IS 7 YRS OLD CAN SOMEONE GUIDE ME PLEASE. SHE SAID SHE CAN GET SOLE CUSTODY OF HIM IN COURT WHEN WE GO THIS MONTH AND I HAVE NO LAWYER AND NO HELP. HE IS EVERYTHING TO ME AND I WANT TO BE A BETTER FATHER. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME?
Name: derek desantis
EMail: ddesantis72@yahoo.com
Comment: I am in the process of filing for divorce. My problem is my wife bought a house with her boyfriend while married to me. DO I have any legal right to this house?
Name: Robbie
EMail: lilnessa_1981@yahoo.com
Comment: I am going through a custody battle over my two minor children, not with their mother but Their Uncles. My Ex and I separated after seven years together, when then she kept the kids with her and I moved out of town. I called the kids every other day and brought them back to stay with me for a week at a time about once a month. I would also come to see them at their house when ever I could. I sent cloths and toys and gave their mother cash when ever I could. There was never any child support set. About a year after my Ex and I separated she gave the kids to her Uncle without even telling me. When I found out they were with the Uncle I called, they said I was going to have to pay them child support, I told them no, that I was going to just come get the kids. I was also in the middle of a move at this time. The Uncle then told me no, its not about the money, he just wanted to make sure that the kids were taken care of in a loving environment, and that when I was able to I could come pick them up at any time. I told him as soon as I get into a place big enough I would come get them. He agreed. I went to the Uncles house to see the kids and to enroll them in school because the uncle was unable to. I also signed a paper giving TEMPORY care of the children, which included giving them permission to seek medical care if needed. At First everything seemed to be going well I called the kids, came to see them and the uncles even brought them to stay with me for weeks at a time. After Two months I was getting into a place that would be big enough for me to have my children. I called and said that we would need to start making plans for me to come pick up the kids. The Uncle then became very angry, he said no! And that if I ever wanted to see the kids again I would have to bring the police to his door. Which I did just that. But when the police and I were standing outside of the uncle’s house, they told me they could not take them out of the house unless they were in danger, that I would have to take them to court. I started to look into getting an Attorney but all wanted $1500 just to start the paper work. I could not afford this. I talked to the mother several times begging her to help me, all she ever said is that she would talk to the uncles and that it would change. during all this time The uncles cut off all of my calls with the children did not allow me to see them did not accept mail I sent to them, and even lied about what state they were in for a two week period. I continued to call even though they would never answer leaving messages telling my kids that I love them and miss them very much. I was able to talk to them one more time since all of this where my 6 year old little girl asked me “how come you don’t come see me anymore daddy, do you not love me” and I could hear the Uncle telling her what to say. This tore my heart apart!!!! The mother did not help, until now A YEAR later, because the Uncles have now cut her off. The Uncles told both of us that we could come see the kids if we gave them money and that we could not take them out of his house. I looked into legal assistance but when I called they said they could not help me because The Uncles have already talked to them. I know that they make too much money to get legal assistance but just because they talked to them it’s a conflict of interest. Now they Uncles are taking me and the mother to court for Custody of our children. We have already been to one conference in front of a Judge. Where now I am aloud to talk to my children on the phone and see them for four hours every other weekend until our next court date. The children are all over me when I come to pick them up I love them and they love me so very much! It is so hard for me when I have to take them back in only four hours. Please please if anyone can give me advice for when I go back to court anything will help, I can not afford an Attorney I am representing myself. Please email me.
Name: RACHAEL SEGELI N
EMail: SEGELIN@SBCGLOBAL,NET
Comment: PLEASE READ MY WEBSITE AND HELP ME www.DCCCA-INJUSTICE-KS.COM
Name: hugh
EMail: hughcooldog@yahoo.com
Comment: i am going through a very bad time in my life.i am going through a divorse that i never wanted to see my married end.we have 2 kids that i love very much.i dont want to get a divorse but their aint nothing i can do to save it.i have been uneployed since of aug,2005.i cant find a job and i see myself taking it out on our boys.i wish i could find work but its been very hard.a day doesnt go by that i dont cry.i dont sleep very good and eat much when its just me here.i even thought about killing myself.
Name: Kenneth Scott Allen
EMail: scottallens@earthlink.net
Comment: I am really confused regarding my daughter, she looks and acts like my cousin more and more, I do not have a relationship with her, because of this, and her mother still will not give me a DNA test to put the issue to rest. I have spoken in the past to an attorney he wanted $5000.00 just to get the paperwork filed, He stated even if the DNA proved she is not mine the state ,still will not remove my name from her birth certificate, as they do not basterized a child. I was very young when all this happened, I did not know about the law or my rights at that time, making the state prove paternity. By all means if she is mine I would do my best to make up the time that was lost, but sadly I know in my heart she is not mine.
Is this true what the attorney stated, I do not mind going to court and paying for the cost of the fees, But I do not want to pay all this and find out she is not mine, and have to keep paying for a child that is not mine.
Please let me know your thoughts or advise on how to handle this issue.
Name: Jeff
EMail: jdwhitaker1@comcast.net
Comment: I need help with visitation enforcement across state lines. I am in Texas and ex is in Louisiana. Have been to court locally and a useless arrest warrant was issued for ex for not showing up to court. Have not been able to get any enforcement and visitation has been denied for almost 2 years. If anyone knows of what can be done in situations like this, please help. Have yet to find an attorney that can help. I have good records and evidence.
Name: Horace d Tate 3rd
EMail: mr_tate2000@yahoo.com
Comment: i would like to get my child suport at a set rate and never go up. im married now and my childsuport payment are to high for me. what can i do to get help and who do i need to talk to about this.
Name: shelly
EMail: atwitsendalso@msn.com
Comment: my brothers son 20yrs of age just died of a drug overdose on the 14th of january if someone had called 911 he would still be with us but the two people that were with him called two hours after they knew he was in trouble iknow we cant bring him back but my brother is in need of some kind of support from other familys that have lost children in this manner if anyone knows of a support group with other families i would greatly appreciate any help you guys out there can give me thank you lost young soul forever
Name: Rene
EMail: renelabra@yahoo.com
Comment: I am in the middle of a divorse. I have two kids that I love very much and would like to get custody. I feel the justice system is against me and would like to get help.
Name: J. Bruce
EMail: kbruce1960@yahoo.com
Comment: I am in need of finding a place where I can get a DNA test done for a decent price in the state of georgia. Does anyone know where I can go?
Name: John
EMail: mn1463@yahoo.com
Comment: Im 55 years old & my youngest child is 26. Through many factors I am in arrears of child support- work injury, lost job & couldnt work, homeless for a while. Now Im working & child support is being taken out of my pay check, but I never contacted the dept of human services. I just opened and savings account and that has been garnished. Not sure if I can pay my rent now. What should I do?
Name: Marty Bloom
EMail: im_ur_huckleberry_32@yahoo.com
Comment: I currently have custody of my two boys, but my ex keeps trying to cause trouble, turn my kids agaist me, take me to family court to gain custody ( because of jealousy of my new wife)......u name it....she does it!!! My ex abanndoned my boys several times when we were married....even gave them to me when we were divorced. She never wanted anything to do with them ...until I remarried! How Do I get her to stop taking me to court over ridiculous matters???!! How could I get her rights terminated? She is not a fit parent to begin with. She doesnt take care of my boys when they visit....they return with horrible hygien & they tell me they are her personal slaves when they visit. I dunooo what to do. Im just fed up. Please help!!!
Name: FRANK
EMail: frank.l.robles1@us.army.mil
Comment: I WANT TO KNOW WHAT ARE MY RIGHTS AS A FATHER AND HOW THE CHILD SUPPOTS SYSTEM WORKS. I AM HAVING A HARD TIME TRYING TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAUGHTER BECAUSE THE MOTHER HAS TURNED HER AGANIST ME. AND ITS HARD BECAUSE I AM A DEPLOYED SOLIDER. AND WHEN CALL TO TALK TO MY DAUGHJTER SHE ONLY TALK TO ME FOR 1 MINUITE. I FEEL LIKE GIVING UP BECAUSE I FEEL THAT THE MOTHER USED ME IN THE BEGINNING TO GET HOLD OF THE CHILD SUPPORT, THEN TURN HER AGASIST ME AND NOT GIVE ME ANY RIGHTS. I NEED HELP AND WHAT TO DO AND HOW TO GET CUSTORY.
Name: travis brenton
EMail: glidewells@charter.net
Comment: i pay back and present child support for my daughter who lives in another state. her mother relinquished custody to her sister without notifying me. i just found out, and want to get custudy of my daughter. i dont know where anyone is living, i havnt been allowed to see her for over a year now what can i do im lost.
Name: William
EMail: wplongbeach@verizon.net
Comment: I received physical custody of my child (75%-25%)at my divorce.The mother addmitted that she quit her job just prior to us going to court but because she had no income I have to pay her child support.Its been 2 years and to my knowledge she still isnt working.She has low income housing and receives welfare so she is in no need of working.I am seeking a modification but cant afford a lawyer.What should I argue in court to be sure I get this injustice reversed?
Name: ronald walker
EMail: ronald_walker3176@sbcglobal.net
Comment: how many ways to avoid the 50% garnishments without quitting my job thats too much !
Name: jeff casper
EMail: jcasper05@aol.com
Comment: at what age can children decide what parent they want to live with in the state of Georgia?
Name: Mr. Holt
EMail: BAMMA_TIDE@netscape.com
Comment: is there any way that I can stop my tax refund from being taken due to arrears that I owe? I recently began having
child support garnished from my wages and can hardly take care of the family I have now. I desparatly need this refund.
Name: Sirbradley
EMail: duroc@swissinfo.org
Comment: Years ago, I paid child support until my child turned 18.
However, I avoided paying astronomical amounts after following the advice of a very fine Family Attorney. Keep in mind that the system is unfair. Everyone wins at the expense of the divorced dad. Judges, Attorneys, Child support enforcment personell from top level to clerks, Social Workers, Psychologists, court reporters, etc.
The list goes on and on. This is an industry. Are you going to sit there and be raped and punished for your success.
MAKE YOUR LIFE PRIVATE.
duroc(at)swissinfo(dot)org
Name: Ramon Martinez
EMail: rmartinez1015@yahoo.com
Comment: I just came out of jail on parole for robbery. my child mother receive sole custody while I was incarcerated. I would like to know what are my options for visitation and child surport. I live in the state of Ct. so does my child.
Name: Robert McChargue
EMail: insanity4u@juno.com
Comment: INFO ON STOPPING ONGOING CHILD SUPPORT (AFDC) INTEREST LOAN SHARK SYNDROME. NEVER ENDING PIT OF REBUILDING AMOUNT DUE TO JOB LOSS.
Name: torio
EMail: gflagg@verizon.net
Comment: my question is this I am 100 percent va disabled and my wife and i and her 2 sons get maine care and i need health care for my daughter who lives in another state where do I look?I pay my child support every month 277.00 plus 100.00 alimony which I told my lawyer I didnt wanna pay .I have a new life a new family the ex wife is harressing us non stop we are seeking a lawyer tomorrow and I am worried about my daughters well being. any comments or help I need thank you.
Name: nelson
EMail: blankojr@aol.com
Comment: i need help.im 18and my babys mom is 16.im in my sons life i brought him everything he needs.yesterday i got in a agreement with my girls dad he kicked me out his house and told me i cant see my son until my girl turns 18 .my girl is tellin him he cant do that just cuz he doseent like me but he dosent care cuz she lives with him.can u send me something about child custerdy information or anything that could help me.please help me i cant live with out my son i love him with all my hart il kill myself without him
Name: brandon
EMail: jwiles0824@aol.com
Comment: i need age limits for the state of maryland
Name: Bill Barfield
EMail: www.bllbarfield@yahoo.com
Comment: I want God to reveal himself to me and tell me he will get me my son back
Name: Robert
EMail: seguyarobert@yahoo.com
Comment: My dad has more than 10 wives,we are 50 children and he still adds more,he was getting enough salary from his job but now he is getting less.some of us are now staying at home because there is no enough school fees,and the bad thing is that he is still producing more kids.so what can we do?is there anyone to help?
Name: mitchell murray
EMail: mazinmadison@hotmail.com
Comment: i live in georgia and need to know how to give my son my last name. he is 11 months old and i was told that i had 1 year to do so without charge.can someone please help me ?
Name: DAVID ALFRED
EMail: david.alfred@protravelinc.com
Comment: I need to know what to carry to a child support hearing and what to tell the Judge because I have been taking care of my son from day one the only reason why this hearing was scheduled is because my exgirlfriend is on welfare and she says they are the one taking me to court but she never informed them that i was giving her money and right now i am afraid they are going to gouge my pay checkcan some one reply to me soon the hearing is scheduled for the 21stdec05 thank you
Name: John McEntire
EMail: macjohnny@cox.net
Comment: My soon to be ex wife is sharing the same bed with her ex boyfriend and my two year old dauhter is ther anything I can do ?
Name: Bryan
EMail: Pert_N_Perky2001@hotmail.com
Comment: I need to know if i could go pick my daughter up from her mothers go get temp custody and not take her back untill everything is went through court.
Name: Kathleen
EMail: PENNER617@msn.com
Comment: My fiancé has a 6 year old wonderful little girl. His ex has been very difficult to deal with for over a year. She told him he is the father, and he wants to be, but also told him that his name is not on the birth certificate. He wants to pay child support but has been told he has no rights until his name is on the birth certificate. How does he go about getting that done? Without having to pay tons of money to a lawyer? Please help us!
Name: mike lanham
EMail: nutintodo05@hotmail.com
Comment: Getting a divorce and my children and I will be apart for our first Christmas in 10 yrs. feeling lonely and depressed.
Name: robert bacon
EMail: robertsears@bellsouth.net
Comment: im going to court next week and they gave my sone to the mother and never even gave me a chance to get him, when i asked for the chance they told me no now im going to court the 21st and what do i say to get a lawyer and custdy
Name: Eric
EMail: hockeydad@watchcom.net
Comment: I need my son and cant afford legal costs. Is there any agency that supports dads who are caring and paying to support their children?
Name: Daniel
EMail: daniel_welbourne@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been in a custody battle for over two years now. I have brought my ex to court now twice in the last year alone. I am the custodial parent now, and he goes to school where I live not his mom. Recently in September I went to court again for contempt on her part. She has not been financially providing for our child, nor has she taken him to the doctor in over three years. She has been turned into CPS, and they will do nothing. Now I found out after she told the judge with no lawyer (she represented herself, I have a lawyer) she was not living with the new guy she was dating. Two days after the court date she went to get a marriage license, and married him exactly a week after the court date. She has only been with this guy for a few months,(this is one of many diiferent men around my kid) Pergury is what she did. Amongest other things my child told me he does not see his child except for thirty minutes at a time. I take that as if he has supervised visitation. I have such a problem just getting my child for the holidays if at all. Is there anything I can do about all of this. Why is it men have to pay thousands to get custody, but women sit back and do what ever they want. She has not had to pay an attorney yet. Even the child evaluater said me and my wife are better for him, and he told the courts we should have custody. Still I have not received my vertict from the September trial, what could possibly be taking so long. Until I get full custody, instead of joint she will only continue to be a psycho.
Name: Micheal Hunter
EMail: smithvillefaye@yahoo.com
Comment: I,m a disabled father of two girls and a disabled husband as well.In FEB it will be 5 years since I became disabled.I,m in a huge lawsuit against the railroad were I got disabled.We have proven that it was the railroads fault,but there is no sight in end to this lawsuit.I use to work all the time and had a part time miltary career as well.I made a very good living than one day it was all gone.I struggle from day to day trying to take care of my family.Which is very hard to do that on disablity and no other income.I can,t start to began to tell anyone how bad it hurts to watch your wife and kids go without ,and there is,nt anything you can do about it.Ican,t find any help out there but i,ll never give up on trying to find some kind of help.Because I owe that to my family.Because since i,ve been disabled we have lost everything home cars and most of all my ablity to take care of them.
Name: robert power
EMail: truckermave@aol.com
Comment: What is the age in North Carolina that a child can decide which parent they would like to live with?
Name: andrea
EMail: Houstonemun@aol.com
Comment: my boyfriend has a 10 yr. old son that he is currently paying child support for and he is not sure if it is his or not his name is not on the birth cert. and the child does not have his last name we live in texas and the mother and child live in florida how can we go about getting a D.N.A test please help
Name: Rafael
EMail: rafael.rodriguez@pinnaclehm.com
Comment: Hello;
My name is -----and I have 3 kids in wich I owe Child Support. I want to pay my debt and be able to see my kids if I can. My debt is over $48,000 dolars,
Name: kenneth morrison
EMail: kenjmor@juno.com
Comment: I was behind in missouri for child support,they are still taking half of my social security,my youngest was amancipated at 18 in 1992,my oldest was 21 in 1991,I only have two children that I am paying for,I asked for a price from a attorney and got a $850 price,its hard to come up with that much when my half of social security is less than $300 a month,I live in the state of washington and would have to have a attorney in missouri,I called child support in missouri,they informed me ex is collecting illegally but I would have to retain a attorney and go to court,where is justice??? Its ok to collect child support illegally,but you better not get behind when paying. Thanks guys,any Ideas? ken
Name: israel ruelas
EMail: lilizzy0134@msn.com
Comment: i need to find an attorney today court tommorow have not been able to find a good lawyer who is affordable and is willing to make payment arraingments please help
Name: Darrell Craven
EMail: justdiz@hotmail.com
Comment: Anyone who has experienced depression around a new born baby and has experienced irrational thoughts of harming that child but didnt carry out those thoughts, please contact me.
Also anyone with knowledge of research done into this subject. Thankyou.
Name: omar2
EMail: omar2@comcast
Comment: I GAVE MY LAST NAME TO MY STEPDAUTHERS SON IBEEN ON DISABILATY BEFOR HE WAS BORN I SUFER FROM DEPRESTION AN OTHER PROBLEMS NO SHE WANTS ME TO PAID CHILD SOPORT I WASNT SURE WHAT I WAS DOING CAUSE IM SICK DO I HAVE TO PAID
Name: Warren
EMail: tazmaine62@bham.rr.com
Comment: My daughter wrote a letter to the govener of Alabama. She explained to the govener that I had molested her and her two(2) sisters all thier lives. The fact is I never touched my children in that way, ever. It has been proven that I never touched my kids. But now I am in fear of hugging my kids because of this. My soon to be thinks I do not know how to be a father. I must tell you, I have given my heart to God, my LORD and Savior. If there is any fathers out there who understand or has been in this situation, please contact me. The bad part is thier mom speaks very padly of me to my kids. What should I do? Contact me at, tazmaine62@bham.rr.com.
Warren Williams
Name: Rachel
EMail: blondie1893@yahoo.com
Comment: ok i know im not a father but my fiance is. He is a father, supposedly, to this 1 1/2 yr old girl and the mother is just now taking him for child support. he just wants to sign his rights off as a parental gaurdian to this girl can he do this without the mother having someone else adopt her to. he just wants his name taken off and when she turns 18 she can come find him. he hasnt seen this child since she was born because of the mother.
Name: Royal Shearer
EMail: cazamirovzatar@yahoo.com
Comment: Im an unwed father of atwo year old daughter. Im also a member of our societys lower-class.When My fiancee and i split up six months ago,I had no idea what I was doing.Apparently I am not my childs father!!My ex and I get along and I see my child several times a week.But, that can all change at moms discrection.
Im poor,Not well enough informed,and in need of help.
Where do I aquire a form to establish parentity,support,visitation,and all that other good stuff?
I dont believe she would deny me any of those.Defenantly not parentity.The others I can work out with her with the proper amount of groveling.I live in mcdonald county, missouri,I would greatly appreciate any advice or info from
fellow fathers in the same situation. thank you
Name: James Gore
EMail: Jamesgore@wanadoo.com
Comment: I have been devorced for three years and have been seeing my two son two weekend out of a month which has been great up until now;now my x wife wants to go and live in New zealand and take my sons with her ;which of course i am totale against ;would like to no how i stand in the eyes of the english law.and what kind of powers i have to stop her.
Name: Reggie Quintana
EMail: ahopelesromantic123@yahoo.com
Comment: ive been with this girl for almost 2 and a half years and then right as i was about to ask her parents if i could marry thier daughter ( sheys over 18) they put a restraing order on me and we hav a 7 mo. old daugter what do i do espically when i want to see my daughter
Name: mike jensen
EMail: nolimit_81_mike@yahoo.com
Comment: I need to file papers to get my son we are not married she took son and left while I was at work. what do i need to do to get papers two get temp custady till court i want a police officer with me when i have papers to get my son help me what do I have to do to get papers and where.I LIVE IN LEBANON,OR PLEASE EMAIL ME AN ANSWER ASAS
Name: jeff-n-jenn
EMail: jennifer_2737857@yahoo.com
Comment: I need to know what would happen to someone for not cashing child support checks and not letting someone see their kids when it tells them that they can have them in the divorce papers. PLEASE HELP!
Name: Jenn
EMail: jennifer_2737857@yahoo.com
Comment: I need to know what would happen to someone for not cashing child support checks and not letting someone see their kids when it tells them that they can have them in the divorce papers. PLEASE HELP!
Name: mayvene walley
EMail: m.walley2@ntlworld.com
Comment: my son has a child with lukemia. he would like to speak to someone in the same position as him
Name: charles
EMail: clear_veiw@yahoo.com
Comment: my ex girlfriend says she is having our baby but she will not take the test to prove it to me what should i do?and has been busted for drugs can i get full custody of our child when itt is born
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Name: shayne
EMail: shayne.morrison@fsworld5400.com
Comment: i was married for four years from start to finish i was in the navy when we married and she fell for a son i was over the moon but i have just found out that she is telling people i am not the father i have asked csa for a dna test but they said she has refused and csa will not take it any further i need to know what can i do i still have to pay father or not i have not seen im in a year now as she will not let me if i try he gets punished and put in his room
Name: shayne
EMail: shayne.morrison@fsworld5400.com
Comment: i was married for four years from start to finish i was in the navy when we married and she fell for a son i was over the moon but i have just found out that she is telling people i am not the father i have asked csa for a dna test but they said she has refused and csa will not take it any further i need to know what can i do i still have to pay father or not
Name: aaron
EMail: bootlegerama@hotmail.com
Comment: going throug child custidy temmp im seeking cust of 6 yr girl future ex told 6yr that they were moving away should i bee concerned
Name: Kevin
EMail: kevinmcallister@mail.com
Comment: My wife and I are getting a divorce we have not filed yet we have a one yr old son, I have not seen eitherof them in 5 days. Is this a case of kidnapping
Name: winston faxon
EMail: spanishangel77@yahoo.com
Comment: I dont have a clue how someone could help me .
I almost feel at the end of a rope with my exwife I feel like Im going insane.I am on workers compensation and she knows im truley hurt and only making 200 a week and I live in North Carolina and I still send my son big boxes of gifts and clothes and pay prescription medication and he is on my benefits plan.So I wanted to give her 500 bucks when i went to visit my son and her but i wanted to send it through child support to protect myself , she threatened me she would not let me see him if i sent it through child support she said it would take forever for her to get that way .So i gave it to her by check, so then I visit my son and find out from him her boyfriend abuses him, beating him with a stick until he cant sit down, my wifes boyfriend is a vietnamese man and he doesnt like my son who is white and only 7 yrs old and when I visited my wifes apt I found a rolling paper and I asked my son about it and he said the boyfriend and his friends smoke that together and its pot and that the boyfriend gambles and makes his mom mad , he heard his mom on the phone yelling at boyfriend, so I tell my wife to tell him not to hurt my son , next thing i know she yelling and cussing and calling the cops saying i hit her and so I left my grandma was with me too we were both shocked at my exwife .now she is sueing me for money back child support and trying to terminate my parental rights she got me to pay for her lawer fees 1500 bucks and im broke as it is she made me have to pay a lawyer 200 to represent me who I dont think gives a crap leaves me feeling hopeless still, my other lawer the workers comp lawer says my exwifes lawer keep sending letters trying to get the sttlement of mine so they get paid sooner i feel harrassed and pushed to the limit she is unfit and allows abuse and drug use in the home I hate my life right now, She has refused to let him come here to visit me in the past even when i was working and paying child support
Name: Ron
EMail: roncargusr@yahoo.com
Comment: I been order to pay child suppot to a child that a DNA TEST prove that I AM NOT THE FATHER 99.9%.
Name: Scott Swantic
EMail: sswantic@franklin.k12.ga.us
Comment: I am going throgh a divorce with 3 children involved. My wife and I agreed to move to another town and take jobs in the same school system. Two weeks before going she backs out. Doing the responsible thing and insuring an income for my family I decided to go anyway. Then she files divorce sighting Ireconsilable differences. She is still in our house and all the children are with her. What can I do to get my 9 year old son to live with me and the 5 and 4 year old girls to live with their Mother. He begs to live with me because she does nothing with him. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Name: Kerry
EMail: totaso1@yahoo.com
Comment: Hi my name is Kerry Harvey and I have 2 kids 6 and 8 Ever since me and my ex wife divorce she change on me real bad, first of all she is charging me $600 a month for child support and I have my kids under my insurance, I can only take them every other weekend and now she is trying to increase my payments to $1000 a month, she runs her own business and has a new husband I only have one job and I am a darn good dad to my kids but its getting ridiculous. I mean I have a life to and the system does not seem to see that. Also she just bought a new house which honestly i am for my kids but why cant the system tell when a father is trying? is there anything you can do to help please? I am desperate I cant even afford to pay my bills and she wants to increase if anything I need to lower my payments. Help pls!!! Father in need!
Name: Don
EMail: duck-man34@hotmail.com
Comment: I am a biolical father of a 2 yr old boy. My ex girl friend was married and he ex is the leagal father. When he was born he had a trace of meth in his blood. Is there anyway that I could go for full custidy being the biological father. Pleas let me know..
Name: t
EMail: anthony_ever@yahoo.com
Comment: HELLO MY NAME IS ANTHONY I SIGN A REVIEW ORDER FOR THE SAME AMOUNT TO LOWER MY INTREST RATE ON A TX CHILD SUPPORT ORDER WITHOUT KNOWING THAT WOULD KILL ALL MY RIGHTS TO APPEAL IT LATER.
Name: raven
EMail: ravenzac@hotmail.com
Comment: i live in wa state and owe @8,000in back child support . my ex ,per divorce decree, sold our house and was supposed to pay many joint liabilities with the proceeds . she paid none of them and pocketed the proceeds and has now filed for bankruptcy leaving me soley accountable for said liabilities . with the new bankruptcy laws in effect , i do not qualify to file for a ch. 7 and would have to do a 13 . what are the legal grounds , if any , to go into family court and ask for an order quashing back support with the claim she has already recieved it when she ignored the court order and kept the proceeds ??? please help !!
Name: GAGE1
EMail: gage1@fuse.net
Comment: can someone help me find a free form for petition of child custody.
Name: jonathan b jones
EMail: njdjones@omnitelcom.com
Comment: i have a friend whose ex-girlfriend wont let him see their son and i was wanting to find out what the fathers rights laws are on this issue because he really wants to spend time with his son and she says not unless he gives her money if any one can offer help it will be greatly appreciated
Name: Aaron Stone
EMail: adale_aaron_jan272005@yahoo.com
Comment: Me and my Ex girlfreind were together from2001to2003 well in the time that we were together we had a son together. we were never Married. I found out that she was arrested on Oct, 3,2005 on failier to appear in court and 2 counts of child neglect. well I went and got my son from her family cause Im the second dery parent for him and last nightNov,3,2005 my ex girlfreinds mom and dad showed up at my house and wanted to visit with my son well I went inside my house to get my sons coat and i went back outside and my son was gone my exs parents took off with him. I called the cops and said that her parents kidnapped my son well the cop showed up and said who has custudy of the boy well neither her or her family or me or my family have custudy of him we never went to court for it.Im trying to find a free child custudy form to fill out so i can get full custudy of my son without having to have my Ex filling out anything on the form I want to do it behind her back while she is in jail still.can anybody send me one of these forms or tell me where i can get one in the state of Indiana please i really need all the help i can get.THANKS
Name: Brian Reneau
EMail: rubberhead9798@comcast.net
Comment: I have been divorced from my x for about 3 years now. and for the last year she has denied me visitation,i pay my child support weekly and they take alot of my check so i dont have money to just go out and get a lawyer. because of my divorce i was forced to move back with my arents. Also i have no phone numbers for contact for my children. so what i need help with first, is how would i establish paternity for both children. and if they are my kids how can i get visitation established other than it is set up now. like i said i have not seen either child in a year now. please take the time to guide me to someone that can help me. thank you for your time. sincerely, Brian
Name: Sam Childress
EMail: sisterhenderson@sbcglobal.net
Comment: If I was in a Texas Prison for 18 months, and I was released by my conviction being overturned, and my wife abandoned me and my child, can my house still be foreclosed on, and can I still get custody of my daughter because my soon to be ex-wife is living with a still married man, as well as being married to me still?
Name: JAMES
EMail: MOM19952005@YAHOO.COM
Comment: MY OLDEST DAUGHTER 15 WAS KILLED IN A CAR ACCIDENT. I NEED HELP PAYING FOR HER FUNERAL IS THERE ANY GRANTS OR FINACIAL SUPORT GROUPS I CAN CONTACT THAT CAN HELP IN THIS TIME OF NEED.
Name: khalid
EMail: khalid_aziz98@hotmail.com
Comment: I belongs to PAKISTAN I have very much loans for that reason i face to much problem in whole month.my children education is also suffering i am not able to give their education fees.not effording food stuff i am living in a rent house but not able to pay its four month rent.on behalf of u I AM REQUESTING THE RICHES PEOPLE OF WORLD TO HELP ME.SEND ME AMOUNT IN MY ACCOUNTAS MUCH AS THEIR POCKET ALLOW MY ACCOUNT NO IS IN
STANDARD CHARTERED BANK PAKISTAN
ACCT NO 01 6188311 01
KINDLY HELP ME I AM VERY MUCH NEED FULL.KINDLY CONTACT TO WORLD WIDE WELFARES ASSOCIATIONS TO HELP ME.THANKS
KHALID AZIZ
khalid_aziz98@hotmail.com
Name: Lorenzo Disalvo
EMail: hd122550@aol.com
Comment: My wife and I have been separated for 2 1/2 months at which time she left our two children with me and my mother. One is 6 years old and is not my birth daughter but has been with me for three years. The other is 2 yrs. old and is my birth daughter. My wife is now threatening to move to another state with the children. We are only separated at this time. Do I have any legal right to prevent her from moving the children out of state at this time? I am planning on filing for custody of both children but feel I do not have any rights for the child that is not mine even though I have been the main caregiver to both children, Please help,
Name: DESTENE HARRIS
EMail: OUTLAWJESSEJ@AOL.COM
Comment: MY GIRLFRIEND OF4 YRS AND MYSELF HAVE A ONE YR DAUGHTER SHE HAS LEFT ME AND TOOK OUR LITTLE GIRL MY LITTLE GIRL IS THE REASON I TAKE A BREATHE CAN SHE DO THAT WHAT RIGHTS DO I HAVE NEITHER HER NOR ME CAN AFFORD A LAWYER RIGHT NOW WHAT CAN I DO
Name: ushnakamran
EMail: ushnakamra@yahoo.com
Comment: sir i want help about my ear my ear is under infection from 2 year some time from my ear blood and peep coming plz tell me what i do
Name: rey
EMail: cperez1208@yahoo.com
Comment: i have a warrent in texas i have a job dont pay mush if that warrent was not there i could get a better paying job theres two sepret oders on me difrent mothers plus im married with wo kids the orders are for about 200.00 a pieace please help i cant wait to see my sons im in fl its two years since ive seen them
Name: steven hardman
EMail: steve27101974@yahoo.co.uk
Comment: i won custody of my son 5 years ago the csa have now put a order on my wages they say i owe 12 thousand can they take money off us now the money is for us to live what can i do.
Name: John
EMail: jlowandjhigh@yahoo.com
Comment: Need help finding a reasonable lawyer in Multnomah County
Portland Oregon
Name: Tim Garza
EMail: aluttrell@tc3net.com
Comment: I have 2 girls ages 14, and 15 whom live with there mother. The mother was supposed to be in court for domestic assualt on the older sister on Monday October 3, 2005, unsure if she went. On Sunday Oct. 2, 2005, I recieved a call about the older sister, and my 15 year old missing, the mothers boyfriend had beaten up the older sister and her and my older daughter had fled the home. This was at approximatly 8:40 pm. Eventually the 2 girls showed up at there aunts house in the country in their pajamas and my daughter had no shoes on. They were exhausted and hysterical. To make a long story short, I contacted CPS, our local Friend of the Court office, and the County sheriff himself, and nothing has been done except the older sister has been removed from the home leaving my 2 daughters to fend for themselves. I need help to recieve temporary custody until I can afford an attorney to try to gain fulll custody. ALl 3 of the girls and they have a 5 year old brother who belongs to the mother and boyfriend have been in this abusive situation for several years. I could tell you stories that would raise the hair on your neck, but I will not go there right now. If there is anyone who can help me out there, please contact me.
Name: John
EMail: jlowandjhigh@yahoo.com
Comment: can get message sent
Name: jerry crossman
EMail: rositaed@hotmail.com
Comment: i live in alta canada and my ex and i wrote an agreement out so that we have a guideline to base our seperation i was supposed to have my son for a year now she claims to have custudy papers which were sent on a saturday? and says she will not give my son back she has played head games with me and i have nearly broken down i dont think she is mentally stable she told me she has had someone murdered :long story: i have contacted the crown prosicuter whith her story and he checked into it and said no such thing has happend she is i believe a pathilogical lyer and i have been told that is a sign of someone that is bipolar i dont have any way too prove this as it is my word against hers she lies about every thing i need to get my son out of that house and back home with me how can i legally do that and how can i get custidy of my son back at least until the hearing
please help me
Name: Dan
EMail: www.cookingal71@msn.com
Comment: I live in Delaware and pay $900.00 a month for child suport.My children have been living with me since July 10. I can not seem to get any help from the courts or any other state offices.My ex will not give me the child suport back or any other moneys not a cent.We are living on $200.00 a week.Please help me please.
Name: Gary Johnson
EMail: GaryRJohnson@verizon.net
Comment: My wife lost custody of our two children to cps last January and I have had to do several clasees just to be part of there life but CPS has been biased from the very beginning and continues to try to delay reunification. I need some legal help. I live in Honolulu
Name: monte e lee
EMail: tlee5000@yahoo.com
Comment: how do i find out how much child support i am behind?
Name: MO
EMail: margal1900@yahoo.com
Comment: Please remove my email address.
Name: greg
EMail: smokey6@charter.net
Comment: I live in wi my son 16 now, lives with me, now for a year. oregon had stoped child suport 2 months ago on him.now they started takeing out again.have 3 kids, 18,17,16. I only make 100.something a week, they want me to pay 289.a month for child suport plus 57. for back. but said they are going to still take out full amont for all 3 kids, plus the 57. for back pay. I wont have any to suport my self and my son. dont know what to do.
Name: anthony coniglio
EMail: anthonycngl@netscape.net
Comment: court in 2-days im not the father ineed help
Name: Concerned Parent
EMail: nesbitttammy@yahoo.com
Comment: In 2000 my husband filed for a divorce he actually beat me in filing for the divorce. This was a abusive relationship for years. Finally, we divorced in 2002 but he was still fighting me because he was in and out of jail for non-payment for childsupport. In 2005 he now was visitation with his daughter. He was last locked up November of 2004 for non-payment of childsupport. This man and his family was doing their best to kick my daughter and I off the property were our mobile home sit it took a long time before I was able to move. The mobile home was in my husband name after he refinance it he had my name removed. He kept breaking in destorying things like the air condition I prove this, then he broke in one night while we were at a basketball game and he took the locks off the doors front and back and he had told me earilier that if I change the locks that I would be sorry. The police and I arrived back to the trailor to see him replacing the doornobs back on the trailor. He refused to leave so my daughter and I had to leave and stay in a shelter. Now all of a sudden he was to modify visitation and he was granted temporary visitation but the Judge who granted thid did not view our whole file and the Judge saw my daughter expression she was in tears. Can this Judge grant such a thing this way. My daughter was 7 the last time she saw her father and it not my fault that she has bad memories of her father and do not want to see him. My daughter is 12 now and she do not want to see him . Please tell me what I can do to termnate his visitation for good. Let me know somethings before Saturday,October 1st because this will be the meeting date at 10am.
Thank You!
P.S. Do not display my note on this site or any site./ Thanks
Name: Kerry Shouse
EMail: ruby007@frontiernet.net
Comment: I have been offered a buyout to retire ealy from Ford Motor
I have two years left I have cancer. Can I get my support lowered if I accept the retirement buyouts. Need Lenawee County Adrian, Michigan or Jackson County attorney for help
any advice as to what my ex can take from my retirement for support for two children
Name: austinsdad
EMail: jeffdecker1964@hotmail.com
Comment: I live in Council Bluffs Iowa , I have a 2 year old son , My wife of 3 years and I are going threw a divorce , custody is the only thing left , I asked for 50/50 physical custody .She keeps making statments to the court to cause problems for me , none of them are true , her only reason for doing so is that she is very vindictive and does not want to share custody of our son , it is costing me alot of money in attorney fees to prove her statments wrong , and they are clouding the issues , she has two other children and her ex husband has told me several stories that I now know are true , about how she has no problem useing her kids and putting them in the middle just to hurt the man in her life . I need to find a way to make her stop putting our son in the middle . I need alot of help with this , I am a great father and do not deserve to have my son and I put threw this , Please help . thank you .
Name: DANIEL CHRZANOWSKI
EMail: CTYOFANGELS@MSN.COM (WIFES EMAIL)
Comment: I married wife at 18 15 years ago had affair in 1rst year lasted 2 years early on they both became pregnant mistress(Sandy) kept baby normal woman wanted me to leave my wife she tried to trap me i worked things out with wife shortly after I started to see baby things got bad I started to bring my daughter to house instead of at Sandys wife got beat up by sandys friends hospitalized her i called quits for 7 months wife incouraged me to see Gina I couldnt find her mother. went looking for years in 2002 found them not far from where they where before started to see daughter then sandy made thingd difficult of course child support was filed a week later she now files religously every nov for increase. last year i was ordered to pay what i didnt even make what the judge thought i should be making. in 2002 she started holding Gina back from seeing me because she remarried and didnt need me i went to court to get visitation and got everyother week saturday night bring home 6pm sunday. the master said when i come back that i would get joint custody and holiday and i shooul know every important thing in her life report cards etc Sandy has been in contempt for 2 years this year ive seen my daughter 6 times this summer i saw her once. i have no money to file i have to other kids to support and 600 support payment to make. my wife tries so hard but gets flustered with sandy as do i i dont see report cards dont get phone calls and told me i should have never came back she is her daughter she has a father im just a sperm donor. i want my daughter my daughter wants to spend time with me. im being punished for not staying with her. how do i get this back in court with no lawyer or money in pa where sandy lives you can only file with a lawyer and it costs 800 to 1,000 dollars to file I want holidays and joint custody Ive written the master with my diary my children want to see their sister please anybody help.
Its not fair for fathers that want to be with their kids all i want is a relationship to be dad to my daughter
Name: mike
EMail: mdish_2@msn.com
Comment: my 12 year old son does not want to live with his mother any more and she does not want him to live with me i tried to talk to her but she just says no she has costody and will not let him go being afraid of losing him him and i have a great relationship we are together every weekend and sometimes during the week i dont want to go to court for the fear of losing, everything i read about getting costody says that the court will not change costody without a dramatic reason my x is not that bad she is not abusive just a little wacky very demanding and a cronic depressive everything is a problem in her eyes can anyone steer me in the right direction ??
Name: kenneth
EMail: mann@sbcglobal.net
Comment: going to pre-trial with out a lawyer
Name: Matthew
EMail: reactiverush@comcast.net
Comment: I need help my daughters have been taken and kept from me by there mothers by useing lies and stories now the town i live in follow me everywear i go keeping me from finding them and harrassing me local police are involved dont know what to do
Name: frank oliva
EMail: frankjoliva
Comment: Can a judge order a mother and infant son to return to fathers and childs home state. If proper notice was not served to father prior to leaving and not in the interest of the child. VA cases preferred
Name: jeff boyer
EMail: jmboyer2212YAHOO.COM
Comment: IM TRYING TO FIND OUT AT WHAT AGE A CHILD CAN DECIDE WHO HE WANTS TO LIVE WITH IN PA
Name: Tanya Traufield
EMail: Jeremy2004G@peoplepc.com
Comment: I need to find a lawyer that will do pro bono. I owe 33,000 in back child. There is alot to the story, so please help.
Name: John Meislahn Jr.
EMail: dmi_thizzle@yahoo.com
Comment: I got into some trouble and lost an appeal. the girl i was with took off and was pregnant. i need to know how to establish custody and find her so i can see my kid
Name: tony leach
EMail: tonyleach@boltblue.com
Comment: well i have a meeting with child protection coming up, now at the moment i hav supervised access to my daughter, the mother made accusations but withdrew them, now the meeting says its down to neglect from the mother and physical abuse from me which i have NOT done, there is no evidence and she withdrew her accusations ages ago. can social services hold that against me if there is no evidence? they also wont let us be assessed as a family, how could that be resolved?
Name: Gene Reynolds
EMail: genedr@juno.com
Comment: I recently learned that my 31 year old son is not my biological child. How do I cope?
Name: David Kinard
EMail: kinard@se.rr.com
Comment: need legal advise,ex sent 8yr. son to a boysranch very sudden dont have much money....
Name: Dre S.
EMail: mustlvturbostang@yahoo.com
Comment: I need to find out how much back chid support I owe so that I can start making payments now
Name: Tom
EMail: tomjackson@charter.net
Comment: I am seperated from my wife and she has filed for divorce and a court date has ben set..She wants costody of both kids... But she a a two pack a day smoker and I do not want them around it..But i can not afford to fight for costody either....Des any one know of any groups that help with this?
Name: RObert L Hayward
EMail: sirhayward78209@men.com
Comment: 2001 Got Divorced In Colorado Mother got one I got One mine was disabled. Revice no child support at all We lived in Texas she stayed in Colorado. I was ordered by Colorado to Pay her support. Then the Co judge took my sons SSI DI and called it income jacked up my Child Support payments. This went on for Over three years I over paid over 3000.00 to The Ex then I went back and fought her in Colorado based on the Fd telling me it was unlaswful ffor the Jude CO to call my Son SSI DI income Refilled in CO for Reduction told the Judge illegal he say yes this of course was a differnt Jude He Reduced Child Support but would order repayment rather he called it a reduction in Support I owed her motnly/ Then I filed in Texas for Child support for my Disbled Son Texas attgen screwed me aroung delayed refused ect ect ect Lip Service becase i Have a Penis. Then I go Back in July 05 Fight her again due to Extreme emotional abuse of the Child she did have I won and was give full custody pof both Chilren agan got screwed by Col No Child Support order have both Now In Texas. Again talk to AG get screwed again in the Mean time i am now real broke due to all th Stress and crap that the alleged agencys say they will help you ( IE HINT only if youre a woman) Still No Support nothig Files in Tx to reg the Decree and then want a Transfer of Jur to Texas Colorado Say of if Tex Will accept Jurid Try to File and Do and the Staff attorney Comes after me for Filing fees 155.00 to Reg the Decree I say Look i make 968.00 Before takes and expenses and the Staff att give me crap Over talk me in front of the Judge say oh youre honor we dont have jurisdiction what heel is it with women they expect to get handed Cs Ext when they have the Kids and then If a Father has the Kids they say The y dont have to Pay child support Jeasus wht the Hell is the Matter I cant get one person to lift one finger at all I get nothing bu lipe service I NEED HELP all Tx att say hell ya we can help we can get back support current order ect that will be 2500.00 Crap com eon Id not ask for Support if I did not need it Syatem is Gender Bios
Name: benjamin
EMail: banzaldua2000@hotmail.com
Comment: well this is my story
ok first of all my name is Benjamin Anzaldua and I owe about 11,000 in child support and have a court date for failing to pay child support on august 16 2005 ok first of all let me start from the beginning even though I am just going to court for failing to pay you should know that in Michigan in 2001 I found out that my 18 year old babys mother was dating a 35 year old drug dealer/sex offender and taking my daughter over his house repeatedly even after I asked her not to I thought she was using cocaine too because she lost like 30 lbs in a month and was always looking glassy eyed. I went to legal aid to see what I could do to try to get custody of my daughter (I was taking care of her most of the time anyway and she would have somebody watch her every time I didn’t) legal aid told me that it was a DS case and no custody was established she said I could file in florida if I was going to be moving there to live with my mom and go to school because I couldn’t afford to live I was making about a thousand a month making 7$/hr and paying 70$ a week in child support 280 a month wich left me with about 720$ for bills and rent which were about 650 which left me with about 70-80 bucks to eat and get gas each month I was struggleing and had to sell my trailer and move in with my aunt for a couple months legal aid said that since my aunt wouldn’t let me claim her adress as my residence that I would have to file for custody in florida at my moms. I was very worried about my daughters welfare and decided to take her to florida with me and try to file for custody (bad idea I know). I did not know that I had to tell her that I was leaving or that by the child support order and the affidavid of parentage she was granted custody and that I had to live in florida for 6 months to apply for custody. it was a big mistake I know I mad the decisin too fast I should have called CPS and just reported he but I dint so I called her dad and told him that me and the baby were safe and to tell my babys mother to call me (this was like 5 days later since it took 2 days to drive dawn to florida and she was looking for her daughter the whole time getting madder and madder at me I just didnt know what to do she never cared about her till she was gone I guess she got a lawyer and picked up my daughter at my moms house with a sherrif present I gave her my daughter no fighting I gave my daughter a kiss goodbye and told her I loved her and everything was gonna be alright she got a temporary order of custody with supervised visitation for me in the state of michigan only. about a week later I got a letter stating their was going to be a concilation hearing so we could work out our issues and try to agree on a order of the court for sole custody of my daughter. I couldn’t afford to fly back up to michigan to go to this hearing so I tried to have it reschedueled but was told that she would have to agree which she did not so I wrote a long letter tellin the courts and the conciliator that she was being and unfit parent he said he read it but still gave her exactly what she wanted sole physical custody and me only having supervised visitations in michigan as I would try to kiddnapp her if I were given unsupervised visitation. I know I made a bad decision leaving mich and going to fla
but I never tried to kiddnapp my daughter and hide her from her mother I stated in the letter to the conciliator and judge that my intention was to protect my daughter and have them look into how she was living and treating our child not to keep her away from my babys mother forever I just wanted her to be a responsible parent and know that my daughter was safe and not over some 35yr old drug dealers house. I stated that I would let her see ariannah as long as she could prove that she was being a fit parent.
ok now that you know a lil bit of the back story which happened in 2001 its now 2005 and I haven seen my or talked to my baby girl since nov 2001
and I owe 11k in child support. I was very depressed after I got the news that she got everything she wanted and I got the shaft because I coulnt afford to fight her in court over these issues. I didt leave the house for a year and the child support kept building so I decided I was going to just join the army and start paying it back I scored a 98% on the ASVAB test so they wanted me bad and told me I could choose any job I wanted so I signed up and went to take my physical where they said I was underweight I would have to gain weight which I tried for months and couldn’t do ive always been skinny as hell don’t know why but I eventually gave up on the army nad just tried to get a regular job which I only worked seasonally for 2 months at the orange factory which I only made 2549 in 2002 and was struggling to make more than 6$/hr so in feb 2003 I decided since I know a lot about computers I would go to college for computer tech and networking which I graduated in sept 2004 with a 3.0gpa at florida carrer intitute and had one year to restudy and take my certification tests I got my a+ certification (2 tests) on may 3 2005 on may 6th they took my florida drivers licence and I coulnt drive I live in lake wales florida there are no computer jobs here I would have to commute to orlando or tampa to get a good job so Ive been kinda stuck I sill have to take my net+ and mcsa tests by 9/24/05 and was planning n getting a job after I take all my cert tests but have no licence nether does my mom which has been going through drug problems since 2002 and went to jail the summer of 2004 and lost her 2 kids. I have tried hard to do everything I can to help her but its been hard dealing with a drug addict who is disabled my mom sold her hose and weve moved twice because of her fincial situation we just moved to this adress in june and ive gotten settled enough to take the rest of my tests.im the only one my mom has to take care of her now that my brother(15) sister(14) have been gone she is disabled and has bi polarism which makes it really hard to deal with her sometimes. she has gotten of drugs and it almost ready for her kids to come back after they get out of summer school this summer.I have been through so much since 2001 and miss my daughter very much its like a pice of me is missing and I would pay if I had the money but I havent I made 2549 in 2002 1040 in 2003 and nothing in 04-05 I paid 2500 in may 2003 that was my income tax return for 02 I think and now owe 11,000 and have no driver licence but I have an education and plan on moving to phx arizona in november with my good friend who lives their currently and it’s a big city so I would be able to take the bus to work if needed and make 35-40k a year and start paying back my child support and start a decent life of my own and my mom will have her kids and not need me to do everything for her anymore and I can start my carrer and my new life.
I need to know how bad will I look going to court?
will I do jail time?
can I ever get unsupervised visitation or is it hopeless?
will I have a perge amount?
can I get my licence back (so I can at least get a job in orlando)?
what should I do?
I don’t think I should not have to pay child support at all I would if I could but I just need a while to get a good job and start paying and I accept that I cant see my daughter even though it hurts me very much but I just wanted to get a good carrier going so that I can support my daughter better when she gets older and wants to see me she can and ill have a good job and a house and not have to make 6-8 $ an hour and stuggle in poverty I want a better future for me and my daughter and want a good life for her?
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
if you read this thank you for taking the time to listen to my story
Ben Anzaldua
i went to coutr the 16th of august and was held in contempt i have to pay 1000 dollars by sept 30th which is impossible for me i just graduated from florida carier institute and want to work in a good computer job but my drivers licece was took and i live in the country i cant get anywhere i want to pay i just cant get to work help please!!!!! i dont know what to do i dont want to go to jail this will solve nothing
Name: jerry
EMail: jeral64@yahoo.com
Comment: I am in Iowa, divorced 11 years, My 14 yr old son wants to live with me, he has told both me and his mother while we were on a three way call. She wants to go to court, even though as parents we both told him that when he became 14 we would honor where ever he decided to live, now my ex is pushing the court issue. My son is not very happy with her and is on the edge. I am worried about him. what can I do for him. Jerry
Name: edgar
EMail: edgaranderson@msn.com
Comment: I need help finding an attorney that is pro bono, i need help in having custody for my 11 year old son. he has lived with me for the past 6 months. i have already served his mother papers requesting custody. she is an unfit mother and i want my son to live with me, i am tired of her threatening move out of state and take my son, every time i do not do what she demands. for years i had fears that if i didnt do what she demands she would not allow me to see my son, but i could not live in fear anylonger. So when she told me to pick up my son 6 months ago, i decided that now is the right time to fight for custody
Name: Jeffrey Pedrin
EMail: barb1957@lighthouse.net
Comment: I have child support the courts will not take off for being in prison they are taking my social security monthy check half this was back in 1980 to 1988 can you please help i live in michigan
Name: charles w. mcnair
EMail: amerbadass30@yahoo.com
Comment: i am a memeber of a bar-b-que cooking team. we had a cook off back in sept. of 2003. i got intoxicated and past out in the front seat of my truck. i have witnesses that say i went alone. i also woke up alone. that is all i can remember. 13 months later, a young girl says she had my baby and wants me to take responsibility. this girl knew the same people i knew,why didnt she say anything when she knew she was pregnant. i got married to my pregnant wife in nov. of 2003. one month later after this girl said she had slept with me. she called my wife and told her this. my wife gave me the benifit of the doubt.now this young girl (20 yrs, old) is trying to take me to the attourny generals office for child support and medicle support and back child support. the dna results say the child is mine. i need help on this matter please. i know if the tables were turned i would be sittin in jail right now for rape. i feel this matter is not right.what are my legal rights and how should i handle this matter properly. thank you charles w. mcnair
Name: Aaron
EMail: Christina42783@aol.com
Comment: support and answers
Name: sean hobbs
EMail: donnabyrne184@hotmail.com
Comment: I am an unwed father who is going through a hard time with my ex girlfriend who is the mother of my daughter. She keeps saying that she will not let me see my child if i dont give her most of my money every week which is not much as i am currently on the dole. I severly need help please.
Name: Matthew W. McCane
EMail: mmccane@gpinet.com
Comment: I am a father who is trying to make his marriage work. My wife and I are going through very rocky times and we have two young children. We tried counseling for 4 months with only one of us really trying to work on improving the marriage. I need a support network in my area to talk with fathers that can talk with me during this very difficult period.
Name: MONTE WHITNEY
EMail: MONTWHITNEY@HOTMAIL.COM
Comment: I HAVE BEEN SEPRATED FROM MY WIFE OVER A YEAR..SHE HAS CUSTODY OF MY DAUGHTER ...SHE FASLEY ACCUSED ME OF CHILD PORN AND THEN WHEN THAT WAS DROPPED,SHE TRIED TO SAY I DID THINGS TO MY DAUGHTER{SEXUALY}...AND AFTER ALL THESE THINGS WERE DROPPED SHE STILL TRYING TO KEPT HER FROM ME EVEN THOUGH THE COURTS HAVE GIVEN ME THE RIGHT TO SEE HER..PLEASE PRAY FOR ME AND I WILL PRAY FOR ALL YOU FATHERS..GOD BE WITH ALL
Name: remi huyen
EMail: remi_huyen@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a father going through a divorce. My wife got a hearing in a conservative county and she has legal aid lawyer. I want custody of both my children physical but I am going to go bankrupt paying for the lawyer. Is there any way to get relief
Name: scott
EMail: garmojodi09@aol.com
Comment: accesss rights for fathers in scotland
Name: donald
EMail: gargoyle2991@yahoo.com
Comment: i have a three year old little girl and her mother has handed her over to her mother and she wont let me see my daughter my ex says she still has costudy but her mother is running things i havent seen my daughter since easter since my ex dosent have my daughter what are the chances of myself getting costudy and how would i go about doni it
Name: william franklin
EMail: franklin_estate@msn.com
Comment: how can i give up my rights
Name: Dave Kinard
EMail: davemelony@peoplepc.com
Comment: I was in prison for 5 years in Florida,while there my child support kept adding up also my ex turned my boys againest me.they are also making me pay for her being on welfare and she is very able to work,but is a junkie.My one son went and lived with some very nice christen people and my other son stayed wherever he could,and i still have to pay this money to her to shoot in her arm.I have told this to the child support people,but they say there is nothing they can do,but want my money or they are going to lock me up.I had no way to pay them 5 years, is this legal to charge me?I am willing to pay for my sons now but they want 46,000 from when i was locked up.
Name: ignacio
EMail: ignacioresendez8@msn.com
Comment: my wife took my kids her sister tells me there in a shelter what do i do
Name: victor
EMail: jayr2132000@yahoo.com
Comment: ive been separated for about 2years and have 3 beutiful daughters i understand how important their mother is to them but have a problem with their living conditions at home that being one of the main reasons i decided to leave my home .i feel real guilty because my daughters are still living in those conditions .i pay $900 monthly of child support faithfully plus the rent for the apt as i am the supervisor for the management co. that owens the property but i have visitation rights when ever i want to see them
but the problem is that every time i go see them i have to go thrue the pain of seeing how they live i want custody for them . i know that they love their mom and are real young and do not understand that how they live is not exceptable .but i cannot bare to see them in that situation any longer i really want their custudy can anyone give me any advise please help..
Name: Mona-jo Douglas
EMail: jojorhodes21@hotmail.com
Comment: My fiance has been fighting with his X before is daughter was born they broke before his daughter was born he is unable to see her when he wants, if he wants to visit he has to go to her home he cannot see his daughter of side of her home.He spends alot of money to take care of his daughter.It all happened when she found out that he was dating another woman she started acting out and telling him that he is not going to see his daughter and she doesnt want her daughter around me. Please help us he is going crazy and they keep fighting, i dont know how much more i can bare.HELP
Name: Dana
EMail: dana_peterson@hotmail.com
Comment: I need legal representation and with paying child support for the past 3 + years I cannot afford it. My spouse is now trying to move the children out of state. I have a pre-trial hearing of Aug 29th, 2005 and no lawyer to represent me. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Name: Dana
EMail: dana_peterson@hotmail.com
Comment: I need legal representation and with paying child support for the past 3 + years I cannot afford it. My spouse is now trying to move the children out of state. I have a pre-trial hearing of Aug 29th, 2005 and no lawyer to represent me. Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Name: travis mehaffey
EMail: travisandjanna@yahoo.com
Comment: well i have a 10 yr old daughterthat i ahve raised since she was born.i was with their mother for the first 4 yrs of her life then we split and went our seperate ways.i took her and my son to live with me and never looked back.at the age of 6 her mother came to get them and never brought them back to me.my son didnt like being there so he screamed till he got to come back to my house.my daughter stayed because her mom was telling her that she wouldnt love her if she came back to me.well i filed for custody and went to court.during the case she told that my daughter wasnt mine because she thought that was the only chance she had of winning.the judge granted paternity testing on the grounds that she pay for it herself.she never did and after six months of extensions giving her time to get the money she settled out of court askin htat i just dont as kfor child support. i didnt and i got my kids back and she got every other weekend visitation.well now shes tellin my daughter that when she turns 13 she has something important to tell her and she knows it will break her heart.i know what the something is and i feel like it would sound better coming from me to her then from her mom and am interested in having the paternity test done just to prove how stupid she is or so i can tell my dughter the truth without her mom knowing it.im just wondering if any other father out there has been in a similar situation or can just offer some advice on the implications of having this done.no matter what the results whether or not im her legall father ill always be her daddt and shell always be my little girl.
Name: Gary
EMail: gary_e28110@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been married to a drug addict for 10 years. We rushed into marriage without researching my spouses past. She is addicted to Opiods (Vicodin, Hydrocodone, Heroin) and has ruined us financially. While trying to negotiate a separation, she has demanded spousal support to keep up her lifestyle. We do not own our home and I have been on my knees begging her to work and help us financially to no avail for the length of our marriage. We have a business together and I am willing to give it to her solely (Design & Construction) knowing all the while she has never contributed the first minute to assist in any way.
I have a 15-year-old stepson who is a “B” student and an overall exceptional good moral person. How do I prove the drug addiction and financial burden on our family? I have pleaded no contest to two counts of spousal abuse for each time I have confronted her with the financial ramifications due to abuse (she was the striking person). I was found not guilty of Domestic violence last week again, being the beginning of the end of our marriage I must protect my rights. Help
Name: Larry
EMail: kimby@amerytel.net
Comment: Arrears,,children 19 and 25,,,,Xwife just passed away,,,do I still owe the 'alledeged' arrears..
Name: Er ic Riggs
EMail: riggse70@bellsouth.net
Comment: I am concerned about my daughter’s wellbeing, which lives with her mother. We are divorced, I share joint custody but she is listed as the primary parent. My daughter is eight and I love her very much. I never thought of my ex-wife as a great mother but never thought of her as a bad mother either. Recently my daughter started to confess to us all, that she has been sexually active with several children who are the fiends of her mothers. One was a boy about the same age; another was the brother’s sister who is a couple of years older and the last was another girl who is also a little older. I do know however that these people are the friends of my ex-wife and she still takes her around these people and leaves her alone for considerable amounts of time while she does whatever it is she does. Also the boy friend of one of these people has been charged with the molestation of one of the girls. And after the charge was made, the mother still let the boyfriend live with her and the daughter. And of course my ex was always around with my daughter. Most recently my daughter made a most serious accusation, that the live in boyfriend of my ex had molested her! As soon as I heard this I called the police. They said they could only investigate it since it had happened a few years ago. My daughter, Faith, said he made her commit felatio on a couple occasions. The police said there is no physical evidence to prove that this happened so an immediate arrest is out of the question. But they would investigate. And they did. Therapy and interviews and voice analysis, the whole works. We’re waiting for them to bring this before the grand jury right now. I guess I’m asking if u think I can win custody if I were to try and fight for Faith. My daughter has confessed this to my family, mom, sister, current girlfriend. But don’t know if I’ll win. I have a nice house, a good job, two new cars and somewhat good credit. I’m engaged to a nice girl who also has a good job. My ex-wife has nothing, not a job, she has a car I gave her, and she now lives with her mother with 3 kids all from different guys I don’t have a lot of money and can’t afford a long legal battle. Has anyone got any advice? Is there a way I might use the state in this process. I’ve talked to juvenile court and they weren’t too helpful, more aggravated by my question I think. I live in Tennessee and would appreciate some help if you have some. Is there some way to get an attorney for free? Plz help
Name: frank pruett
EMail: leahpr@verizon.net
Comment: please help link to FatersOnline.com
Name: anthony rivers
EMail: tonynlorraine@hotmial.co.uk
Comment: please help us. My ex-wife is totally trying to screw us into the ground. She lies she cheats and all she thinks about is money and not the kids. My son lives with me and my new wife, she has our daughter, who because of her nastiness I hardly ever see. She is under the old rules of the CSA, so my wife has had to leave her job we struggle and as a family are happy apart from this knife hanging over our heads. We have no money from her for my son, I am happy to provide for him, and I was until for my daughter until the CSA said that I did not have to pay anything towards my daughter due to our circumstances. My ex lives with her partner and they are to be married this year. I offered her 40 a month for my daughter eventhough I did not have to, but she will not accept what they say and has made our family life almost intolerable since. I have tried to take an overdose, cut my wrists and am currently under a phychiatrist as it is affecting me so badly. Between them they are ruining my life and I feel so helpless. My wife loves me and my children and has had to suffer the indignity of being dependent on me financially and has had to suffer the abuse from my ex on top of everything else. We are at the end of our tether, why is that our lives are under scruitiny while she can fiddle the system, claim benefits as a single parent and fleece us into the bargain. No one seems to be able to offer us any help or advice, no one cares!! We are desperate, please can you help us.
Thanks
Tony and Lorraine Rivers
Name: Larry Rush
EMail: larryrush001@yahoo.com
Comment: ***Please Help Me***
I filed for divorce in the state of PA in Nov. 2002 and the case is still not finalized. I have spent over $110,000 in attorney fees, support and APL. We are in the last phase now - of equitable distribution. The court system in PA is horrible and they just keep dragging out the process. I only get to see my son 2 weeks a year and the court is requiring me to pay $2,250.00 for support and APL. In addition I owe approx. $10,000 in legal fees and I am on the verge of declaring bankrupcy... I cannot afford this anymore. If anyone has any advise please e-mail me... Sincerely I thank you for your time and listening to my situation.
Name: Patrick DeLaney
EMail: Wolverine1967@yahoo.com
Comment: I Have a question about the child support?
I make it short and sweet, My daughter was born in ny,but now lives in mississippi,How Does the law work when she there,and I paying up here???
Name: Randall LeMay
EMail: rlemays@yahoo.com
Comment: I am suppose to be getting custody of my two boys here in the next few weeks. I need all the assistance i can get.
Name: Paul Anthony Gardner
EMail: modestopaul@aol.com
Comment: in 1981 officer galliano of oregon state police admitted under oath that when I asked for an attorny that her denied me an attorny.i was convicted of crime that happened when Iwas sixteen.Iam 41 now and disabledand social secrity cut me off for be a fugative from justice,and arrest warrant states will not exteadite out of state of california.
Name: Jim
EMail: bigblockregal@yahoo.com
Comment: I need legal assistance. I am disabled and cannot afford an attorney. I already lost custody over this problem and now she is threatening me again with loss of visitation. She is a bad person and using the kids in an inappropriate manner. Someone PLEASE tell me how I can get legal assistance, For the sake and well being of my kids!
Name: DAVID MCMURRER
EMail: MCMURRERD@AOL.COM
Comment: MY GIRLFRIEND AND I HAD A BABY GIRL ON JUNE 8 2005, WE HAD AN ARGUMENT ON JUNE10, WHEN I CALLED HER ON JUNE 11 TO CHECK ON THE BABY AND HER SHE SAID NOT TO COME TO THE HOSPITAL. THEY LEFT HOSPITAL WITHOUT ME KNOWING. SHE CALLED ON JUNE 17 TO TELL ME BABY IS OK, BUT DENIED ME PERMISSION TO SEE THE BABY WHAT CAN I DO?
Name: Linda Nelson
EMail: lmn1again@yahoo.com
Comment: My husband filed for a protective order and divorce all at once and obtained by default both although I was not notified of hearing date on divorce and my lawyer quit 3 weeks prior to trial so I had no legal rep and was not present and got nothing as most of our assets were hidden by my spouse I was not allowed to go to house or our business we jointly owned for two years finally expired Aapril 2004 my spouse died Aug 2004 and I never got my belongings and our house is being sold and all assets dispursed without me having right to any can you help me stp this ND RECLAIM MY RIGHTFUL QWNERSHIP
Name: jimmy strong
EMail: eranaheim@aol.com
Comment: i would like information on how to file a complaint against nys child support collection agency
Name: Tommy
EMail: tommysurfs@excite.com
Comment: My ex filed a perjured restraining order against me in 2003 and it was granted and she took away my visitations. Child protective services investigated her allegations and they closed the case in 2003 stating that it appeared to be custody issue. The Family court ordered supervised visits and my ex countinued to manipulate the visits and the court when there was no violence or abuse in this case whatsoever. I was having the supervised visits every 2 weeks at the PACT visitation center here in Hawaii and all was going well and then my ex made friends with the visitation supervisor and they made an agreement to "take it one visit at a time". PACT then canacled my next visit and then asked my son if he would "like to have a visit today" and he said no. I havent seen him in over 1 year because PACT gave my 8 yr old son a choice to violate a court order for visitations when PACT knew in fact that there was ongoing hostility and the mother was attempting alienate my son from me. I have filed a law suit against PACT and filed a motion in family court to hold my ex in contempt of court for this outrageous conduct. My son is now making up fairytales about how scared he is of me.
PACT facilitated the ailenation by placing my son in the middle of this mess and allowing him to refuse a court order for visitation. This is all well documented and I am looking for a sharp attorney or legal advise on this issue.
PLEASE HELP. Thomas L. Honolulu, Hawaii tommysurfs@excite.com
Name: Joshua Tucker
EMail: crazyj7930@aol.com
Comment: tell me ways to make the court inforce my visitation rights for my daughter. Mother leaves when i go to pick up my daughter and does not care about being held in contempt.
Name: sandy
EMail: sdwitt651@aol.com
Comment: paternity test for my son in the state of Minnesota he wants to find out if he is the father
Name: Michael Cabral
EMail: redraw@sbcglobal.net
Comment: please in the last 137 days ihave only seen my two little dughters 4 hours!They need there daddy , there mother has lied and munipulated the court system ,know is attempting to allinate me from them
Name: Greg
EMail: greg.Hatfield@earthlink.net
Comment: I live in colorado and i sell real estate..which means that i dont get a check every month..which means child support goes in a rears but gets caught up when i sell a house..thats not good enough for child support..they have revoked my driver and fishing licenses..heres where i need help does anyone know of a alternate way of getting a fishings licenses..Im tired of giving money to attorneys..Any help would be great thanks for your time.
Name: dave
EMail: dave@s1701.fsnet.co.uk
Comment: Hi my ex wife has taken my son abroad to live, i oringinally gave consent(verbally0 for her to go on the provision that i was able to visit and my son would be able to visit england to enable him to see his family here
she is now refusing to let my son return to england to visit his family my son is 6 years old please help
regards
Dave Shaw
PS my ex is not yet a resident of France however she is staying with her family there and has to means to support herself or my son they are relying on her family to support her.
Name: kenny
EMail: mygoblersnob@yahoo.com
Comment: i would like to know how to go about getting visitation rights to see my daughter. the mother has sole custody. I was in prison when she was born. A restraining order was put on me while in prison by the mother upon completion of my parole in 2003 i made contact with the mother so i could meet my daughter. All went fine for the first 10 months, but the mom was interested in more than just me visiting my daughter. She has now stopped all visits and all phone calls. Could you please tell me how to go about getting my rights as her father.
Name: edward o haller
EMail: likitight@yahoo.com
Comment: my boy is know a man with two kids of his own he is 19 and has not been in school for 5 or 6 years i have allway paid my suport 16 thout when he was 16 and not in school i didnot have to pay but he is 19 with kids and marion oh say i still have to pay why help
Name: andrew rennie
EMail: adamant28@aol.com
Comment: divorced 2 months, 17 yr daughter was sent packing by ex she now wants to be with me.ex called missing persons when she came here in ga . ex lives in fl. divorce was here in ga april 12.
Name: John smith jr.
EMail: junyah7042002@hotmail.com
Comment: Im a VFW tring to get my doughter from her mother. I dont know who to talk to and thing are getting worse then thay should be. She is not even a year old yet and her mother is betten her. help me get my child. Rigth now Im in Iraq. It hurts me that ther is nothing I can do for a year.
Name: Ryan OConnor
EMail: k9doctor2b@sbcglobal.net
Comment: We currently have a temporary court order granting me liberal parenting time. Since our separation, my wife has been accusing me of increasingly serious crimes, including hitting our son. These allegations are not true and no evidence exists. My parenting time was suspended based on her accusations, I had a psychological evaluation done, parenting time was reinstated. Since then, my wife has not shown up to exchange our son as stated in the order. I have filed with FOC for denial of parenting time and we have a show cause hearing with the judge on June 14. The police in the town she lives in keep saying there is nothing they can do because this is civil, not criminal. Is there anything I can do to get the parenting time order enforced prior to going to court on June 14?
Name: ADAM ANGULO
EMail: urnotlikeme79@yahoo.com
Comment: I NEED HELP OBTAINING A RELEASE FROM CHILD SUPPORT AS I PAID OFF 2 JUDGEMENTS THROUGH ESCROW AND MY CHECKS ARE STILL BEING GARNISHED ABOUT $1,000.00 PER MONTH AND I CANT GET ANY HELP RESOLVING THIS. YOUR HELP WUOLD BE SO GREATLY APPRECIATED AS I HAVE FULL CUSTODY OF ANOTHER DAUGHTER AND I NEED THE MONEY IN MY HOUSEHOLD. PLEASE HELP ME. RESPECTFULLY, ADAM ANGULO (602 468-0055 OR 602 486-5144)
Name: wayne rudd
EMail: lkw102@netzero.com
Comment: im trying to get my childsupport straigten out and fight to have vistion with my children and be able to bring them up to ohio from kentucky instead of taking and having to try to have a motel time with them i would like to have them during the summer and every other hoilday i need help they have never met my new wife or my new child who is now eight months old
Name: Martin Fergusson
EMail: erins_paw@hotmail.co.uk
Comment: we are not married. so can the mother of my child change my childs surname name without my consent.
Name: AjsDaddy
EMail: mimi412@bellsouth.net
Comment: I need to know how I can stop my ex from taking my two yr. old son from California to Ohio. This will make my being involved in his life impossible. And a realy financial strain for him to be involved in his siblings life... Any help would be much appreciated Thanks
Name: jerry k lewis
EMail: jjcleaning248@hotmail.com
Comment: i need to get legal forms to file for custudy myself
Name: jayme seversen
EMail: j_seversen@yahoo.com
Comment: get rights to visit with his son. or better yet have custudy of his son. They were never mariaged, but were together about 10 years The mother is a serious drug addcited person. she has lived in her car before with the child. now she and her mate and the child,stay in a pay by the day motel. the problem is that we are in IN. and she and the child are in AZ. the father has been in trouble much of his life but they are not for drugs . i have been in trouble also but it was an alcohol offense. we have a beautiful house and we both work everyday. I have had the same job as a lab tech for 4 years and before then I worked at an upscale rest. for 6 years. we do have rights correct? thanks much jayme
Name: anthony
EMail: medrano
Comment: i need help. i am fighting for custody of 4 children.can not find a good lawyer to help. i have no cash.
Name: marc brown
EMail: lostinlife71@yahoo.com
Comment: i am trying to get my two girls.there mom went to jail for drugs and other charges in alabama.she will be in there for a long time.the state of alabama never contacted me.this was about a year ago.since then they have been moved about alot.they now live in iowa,alabama has the case with them,i live in mi.i dont have alotta money to get a lawyer to fight for them.i have a clean record and there no reason they should have over looked me.alabama wont even return my calls.i have even contacted the governor in alabama with no response.im lost here i love my little girls very much and could give them a good life in a safe environment.i dont know what to do.please help me out here.thank you
Name: terry
EMail: cubby @ronan.neti am going thro
Comment: i am going through a divorce in kalispell montana. my ex wife is a life long resident of this small town she had me put in jail for braking some windows at our house i set there for 47 days all this time my attorney hade a video tape shoing i was some whear else during the time of the crime but the judge and the districk att would not look at the evidence theay finley droped that charge if i agreed to plead guilty to calling her on the phone . the judge ordered me to leave the county for 18 monts .my ex wife wont even let me talk to my children on the phone my ex met a guy on the net and brough him home my 8 year old dotter stated to a counceler that she was afraid of this man and a few other things my ex wife was turned in to child protecieve the cortdenied to put that in the cort papers theay even stated that i was abushing the children by them being turned in. i cant get eney where in this cort house theay are all frends please help
Name: pnlvrd
EMail: pnlvrd@yahoo.com
Comment: Ive been paying child supprt for many years now. My ex wife gets all my tax returns. Can this be changed? My new wife is livid. If we file jointly will that help or do anything to help us recieve the returns instead of my ex?
Name: Anthony Sanford
EMail: mom0660@aol.com
Comment: I just took my ex-wife to court for custady of my son, but lost the Judge said that because his mother was making an efford she could keep him. I have had to go into back rup because of it. My son was taken to the hospital for evaluation the school thinks he is a threat to him self and others. This is all his mothers fault, I need to get custady of him before he does kill himself, and I need to do it quick. I can not afford to appeal the case. He is only 12 and I life in Philisburg NJ. but the case was in Morristown court. Some one help where do I go from Here?
Name: Graham Haynes
EMail: grahamh@prodigy.net
Comment: Is it true if you are not married you have to prove the child is yours or you have no rights??
My ex girlfreind is due to have our daughter any day now.She refuses to tell me the date,the doctor and the hospital where she`ll be admitted.
I fell like I need to at least know where she is and who her doctor is.
Can you help me with this.
Thank you
Graham Haynes
Name: iqbal
EMail: mayasusa@yahoo.com
Comment: i want to marrige any age but nice and modestey
Name: dyquil
EMail: dyquil@sbcglobal.net
Comment: Well...first where to begin...I have not seen my daughter in over 4 years... I have been trying to pay my child support but because my ex did not change her information with the court I have been getting Checks back saying failute on attempt to deliever. Does this mean that I can not be accountable for back child support?
Second is my ex has moved, and my duaghter has started school... in the final order my ex is suppose to let me know that she has movied and also inform me of medical conditions and Schooling.which she has yet to do... does she fall under a contempt?
Name: J. Chris Peterson
EMail: JChris020754@aol.com
Comment: I used to live and was divorced in Dupage County, Illinois. I am trying to get my child support lowered to be more in line with what I currently earn, which is substantially lower than when I was divorced; consequently, I am CHOKING!! I do not have the money to hire an attorney because after my child support is taken out of my paycheck, this leaves me with approximately $60 - $70 a week take-home pay. I need to talk to someone....
QUICK!!!...Please????
My email is JChris020754@aol.com
Name: chris
EMail: madmim_51@msn.com
Comment: hi my ex girlfriend has had a baby recently and she dosnt know who the farther is she is going to have a dna test done to find out but i think she has already put her new partners name on the birth certificate and give her baby his surname without knowing whos baby it really is yet what would happen if the baby is mine how could i change the certificate and what would happen to her for giving a false statement?
Name: bill quigley
EMail: doreyhaines@hotmail.com
Comment: i am the step dad of three lil girls, their father and his gf are making our lives miserable, the girl friend is so mentally abusive to the girls and talks so badly about my wife and I, it went so far that the girlfriend got mad durin a visitation day and chopped off the twins hair, my wife and I are at our wits end, what can we do?
Name: David
EMail: thetek@msn.com
Comment: I need lots of help.I have a chids lawyer Sandra Scovino who keeps liying and says no one called her on my behalf, I was sitting next to my sister when she called. My UI has run out and I cant pay the suport. You know the rest. The judge allways remands the case when my faily come to court, and goes above his jobe with meen rud and just wrong coments to me when my family cant come to court.
Name: anthony
EMail: www.da_bohl@yahoo.com
Comment: im a 18 year old father, that wants to have custody of my 15 month old daughter. my daughters mother gave my daughter to this women she has known since she was young. this women will not let me see my daughter. i want to know my rights. oh yeah, me and my daughters mother were unwed when my daughter was born. so, i dont have anything legally stating im the father. i just want to have my daughter, so i can raise her right. if you can help me please email me
thank you
Name: andy
EMail: joannetonkiss@joannetonkiss.karoo.co.uk
Comment: i removed my daughter of 4yrs from her mum cos she was been sexually and physically abused by mums parterner in jan 2004. i have now got parental responsbilitly of her with my new partner, but i have been back and forward to court with mum. my daughter now doesnt want to see her mum cos she if frightend and is now going for an inforsment and more contact of see her daughter. we are struggeling our selfs with my daughters behavior but cannot get any legal aid as we both work to earn a living and support us and 3 kids in total, we are at court again on 19th may 2005 and who can we get to support us? my adaughter has spoke to her teacher at school and social service(which i must say have been totaly crap) and she has told them herself that she doesnt want to see her mother. please who can help us any ideas please?
Name: mick
EMail: mickhaas@aol.com
Comment: ineed help with getting my visitation back with my daughter.
Name: lonnie cooper
EMail: knightriderlc@yahoo.com
Comment: please i need help: my daughter was taking from me when she was 4 and now she is 19 and she came home when she was 18, october 27th 2004. my wife has done all she can do show love and affection towards my daughter but to no end disrespected her in everyway my daughter is bi-polar and interllectual maturity disorder and wants to stay a child and not grow up my wife told her long as she respected her thehouse and me she would help her but she didnt and i couldnot say a word. because i felt like my daughter would leave and i would lose contact..now i have moved out and live with my daughter lived with her since jan.25th 2005 my wife is still holding on.my daughter wants me not to go back to my wife she thinks i should be with her am i making a mistake? what can i do?
Name: LOUISE MORALES
EMail: LMORALES@WM.COM
Comment: MY SON HAS BOTH HIS CHILDREN COVERED ON HIS MEDICAL INSURANCE AT WORK. WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE COPAY? THIS IS CAUSING A BIG DISPUTE BETWEEN MY SON AND HIS EX, SHE FEELS SHE SHOULD NOT PAY ANY AND ALL OF INSURANCE MATTERS.
Name: Quintin
EMail: qtriggs@hotmail.com
Comment: I am a honorably discharged disable verteran, that has been convicted of FELONY CRIMINAL NON-SUPPORT. I informed my court appoiont attourny and provided proof of the scheduled sugery to correct the employment inpairment. There were a lot of injustices committed againsted me during the two jury trials, and I need assistanced to remove the felony or get a reversal. I will explain more and provide documents to support my claims of injustices that were committed. Pleased help
Name: Jeff Savarin
EMail: Savj1@aol.com
Comment:
My goal is to have the original divorce thrown out of court so I may be on an even playing field with getting my life back in order. If I cannot do this then I need either full custody or shared custody. If not shared custody then I need to modify the visitation to allow for more time with my children. I need to modify child support based on new visitation terms and the credit I should receive for that. Her income needs to be brought into question with the paperwork I will provide. I need to also address false charges that have been filed against me causing my contempt charges. I also need to file contempt charges on her for not allow me visitation as well as keeping personal belongings of mine given back to me per the divorce decree. I need something done about the man she has
Living in the house with my children. I am now being called by my first name as well as his name by my own son.
I would be thankful the rest of my life, as my children will be as well if you can help. If I am not available for whatever reason please feel free to speak with my mother at the (901) 759-3722 day or night. My mobile phone number is (901) 314-8539.
Desperate Dad
Name: Antuan Davis
EMail: atdinc@hotmail.com or atdcorp28@yahoo.com
Comment: I pay child support for my daughter but i am denied vistation. I our papers(in which i was shafted) i must cntact her before i come to visit. She has no working phone and does not respond to emails, yet she wants me to give her my current address when she deciceds to get in touch with me. I want a relationship with my daugther. I also found there was a protectve order filed against me. I have no histroy o abuse towards a child or spouse. What can i do to get this fight off the ground?
Name: Scott johnson
EMail: deeder_u@yahoo.com
Comment: I have a 10 year old son, im making $13.50 per hour, the county is taking me back to court for a child support increase of 20 percent, which will have me paying over $700.00 a month in support, i need help with finding resources for a cheap, but good lawyer, can anyone help, thanks, i live in saint paul, mn.
Name: james wright
EMail: sugw@hotmail.com
Comment: need information on how to change my sons last name to my last name
Name: donald harrington
EMail: marcia27540@yahoo.com
Comment: I need help with child custody order. I also need help with my parental rights, and giveing up my parental rights?
Name: Armen Muradyan
EMail: armenp8@aol.com
Comment: I have been going through a un-real relationship. I have been married for two years and my wife gave birth on April Fools day of 2004. Since the day of our sons birth. My wife has systematically caused mental abuse on me by verbally accusing me of such things that are trivial at best and non-bearing. She assumes everything I say as bad for her. She creates things out of nothing. She left and has taken our baby with her to her mothers apartment and will not allow me to visit our son. This is the third time she has walked out for strange reasons. Although not diagnosed, my understanding is that she borderline personality disorder. My question is, is there anything I can do legally to see my son prior to custody hearing scheduled for late June?
Name: Randy wallace
EMail: randywllc@yahoo.com
Comment: I need free legalaid the friend of the cort is chargeing me back pay for a thirteen year old child that is not mine.The mother of the child has told the cort that the child was never mine PS way do i have to pay for that? And thay take half of my check I no money to pay my other bills PLEASE HELP
Name: ivan
EMail: sucharican@yahoo.com
Comment: I have 6 kids with my ex wife of 13 years. last year she started using heroin and the kids have been with me since. she was getting foodstamps in their name and cashing them in for drugs. I called the authorities and reported her for fraud. they advised me to apply in april which i did and now that she knows that she is in trouble she wants the kids back. yesterday she went and withdrew my smaller children from school with the intention of placing them in the school in her area, her sister went later last night and talked her into giving her the children. NOw my children have been split up and are confused. two of them are with me and the two oldest are with her and two are with her sister. This has been very stressful to me knowing that my kids are suffering because of their mothers actions. I called child protective services and they told me that without evidence of neglect or abuse theres nothing they can really do. How can i go about getting my children back and have her stay away from them considering that she is a heroin addict who has the marks to show and severe emotional problems. can you please help?
desperate father. Ivan.
Name: Jay Hartman
EMail: Jay@queenannepainting.com
Comment: My ex wife relocated my daughter to CO I live in WA. I am having great emotional distress and depression and it is affecting my new marriage. I need to know where to go to get some help from others who have faced the same situation
Name: troy everett
EMail: chopperxyz2000@yahoo.com
Comment: my oldest wants to change here last name she was born in ca, and now lives in az, is az, laws the same can she do this with outmy say so.
Name: marina
EMail: marinaaj@comcast.net
Comment: do you ever think that the are times when it not good for kids to see their father can you help with this issue or in your opinion fathers never do anythig wrong and it always mother fault,this fathers should stop pretend that they are the victoms.
Name: Jim
EMail: jjen8951@yahoo.com
Comment: If I have joint custody of my children can my ex-wife move to another state and if so how far can she go?
Name: doug
EMail: texastornado18020@yahoo.com
Comment: i need help i paid an attorny 1500 dollars and 1 week later he backed out of my case i have only seen my daughter 3 times since she was 3 months old and she is 13yrs now can any one tell me how to do this without hiring an attorny again and i do pay my child support
Name: Gary
EMail: danceing_wolf@yahoo.com
Comment: i have got back owed child suport. i am fighting disabilty and the rewes keep going up and up because i am unable to pay any thing now and for the last few years. i need a good attorny that lives in louisiana and would be willing to help me with info on this matter are defend me to help get it lowerd are some thing
man in need of help bad
Name: robert markle
EMail: atomcake@msn.com
Comment: sign up formkeeps saying theres something wrong with my email address I have entered it three times correctly and it keeps saying oops
Name: Michael
EMail: Yserscapecre8r@aol.com
Comment: my wife is abusive and one step ahead of me using AZ. laws to manipulate my record in public and now thinks she will be leaving the state in the next two days with my prize and driving force factor son, wesley. this morning I was served with a protection order that was given to her on another night by an officer who decided at the alleged crime scene to play judge and jury. Ill tell you in the law of domestic violence the one who makes a phone call is the victim and dont leave if ever theatened by your spouse. In this case the officer would not return my calls and i requested to have pictures taken of my injuries(7 in total)officer did not respond ever and lied about trying to contact me at home where he was standing while making his second call to my cell phone. there are five absolute lies in the report, witness verifiable lies,and still not an attourney will touch defending me.Which leads back to the order of protection i was served with by a co-operating officer because i told my wife she was not leaving the state with my son. fifteen minutes after saying this to her the boys in blue show up giving me 10 minutes to pack my belongings and vacate MY house. Is this going to give her the opp. to leave the state and what are my rights of visitation if im not able to go to my house.
Name: steven
EMail: steven50320@msn.com
Comment: I work 40 hours a week
My ex wifes does not work or so she says
is child support baes on both the ex husband and ex wife income
Name: Dale
EMail: dtomlin@ercot.com
Comment: Oklahoma Law and Guideline for visitation for fathers - unmarried if this makes a difference. I need a web site that states the law and forms. Also, need info Birth Certificate modifications to include the father .. un-contested. Respectfully
Name: Dale
EMail: dtomlin@ercot.com
Comment: Oklahoma Law and Guideline for visitation for fathers - unmarried if this makes a difference. I need a web site that states the law and forms. Also, need info Birth Certificate modifications to include the father .. un-contested.
Name: larry washington
EMail: washington712002@yahoo.com
Comment: someone could help me by giving me advice.
Name: Jon Moses
EMail: jonmoses@sbcglobal.net
Comment: I was just served with divorce papers. I need to know how to respond to the court, documents and such. I do not have the financial means to get a lawyer because my "wife" has taken control of all the money and finances. Can some one pleas walk me through some of these troubled waters?
Name: Donald Bloxam
EMail: donaldbloxam@hotmail.com
Comment: After our divorse I fell off the deep end for a year doing drugs. I have been clean for four years and have repaired much of the damage I have done to myself and now I need to repair my relationships with my daughters. I can not tell them why I fell into that life because it would harm the image they have of their mother, deserved or not. Any ideas??
Name: Donald Bloxam
EMail: donaldbloxam@hotmail.com
Comment: I need ideas on how to explain to my daughters I left the family for valid resaons but with not telling them their mother was having an affair with her current partner. Our differences should never come up in discussions with the children.
Name: Donald Bloxam
EMail: donaldbloxam@hotmail.com
Comment: I need help in bringing my support payments in line with my current job situation.
Name: Doug
EMail: cneverstr8_les@sbcglobal.net
Comment: i am going to court to see bout visation for my child, but i need to know how to write a proper letter to the judge..is there some1 that can help me out in writing this letter to the judge in the correct way...Thank You Doug
Name: Larry Howells
EMail: LHowells@aol.com
Comment: I need to find a pro bon* lawyer for obtaining paturnity bloodwork from my ex. HELP.
Larry
Name: Weston Dennis
EMail: wdennis0714@hotmail.com
Comment: My son is going to be eight in may his mother is having her third child. Things are changing around his house he now has to take care of his brother who is five. He was told that he can not play sports this spring due to the fact that she will be to busy with the baby and that she will need my son step father there with her In my eyes that is telling my son that he needs to get out of the way so that she can spend all her time with the baby I belive that he is to young to be taking care of anyone Am I wrong I also belive that his lack of discipline is his way to rebell against this Is he to young for therapy are do I need to do somthing else We have never been to court to finalize custody I will not lie I have a arrest record for assault third (in the state of WA that is touching someone without their consent and that was the case)years ago and some driving on suspendeds and a felony of possesion of counterfiat curracy I was sentenced to probation and community service I served both without any troubles I Know have a good job I pay my support and I see my son every other weekend and more if possible I need to know if this would couse me not to be able to go for custody I have only had a traffic ticket in the last five years My wife of Four years keeps me in check and I have learned that I need to live my life for my son and her I have also told her that he is number one and will always be number 1 in my life she is fine with that
We rent a house in Tacoma and we have had the same residence for over two years he has his own room. I am willing to get off work and drive down to Chehalis which is a hour drive to take him to his extra activities like sports are what ever he wants to do can she refuse me contact from him if I do this I know her husband real well we were good friends before all of this should I tell him the way I feel
I am sorry if I keep rambling on I am up late and these issues are getting to me Please give me some advice
Name: Ricky
EMail: lateresa_rawls@hotmail.com
Comment: in the process of going thru florida court system. Requesting full custody of child son(13yrs old) and joint custody of 9 year old daughter. In search of affordable attorney and any information that can be given regarding florida court system. asap
Name: Andre
EMail: blackstorm73@hotmail.com
Comment: I want to relinquish my parental right in the state of Texas.I want to do the forms myself but cannot seem to find what I need online.Can you direct me?
Name: darryl ficarella
EMail: tazwemtcrazy2005@hotmail.com
Comment: The state o9f Or. has coustody of my daughter and they plan to give her up for adoption. they havent tried to put her back with me. I was forced out of her life at gun point by her moms boy-friend. someone please help. i dont have much time or money!
Name: DELARNAS MCGHEE
EMail: NAMAR3@NETZERO.COM
Comment: I HAVE CUSTODY OF MY CHILD AND THEY GETTING CHILDSUSPORT FROM ME.AND THEY DID THAT FOR TWO YEARS AND THINK I SHOULD GET THAT MONEY BACK.AND I CAN NOT FINE HER MOTHER TO GET CHILDSUSPORT FROM HER.AND THE CHILD SUSPORT DIVISION TOLD ME THAT THEY CAN`T FINE HER TO GIVE HER SOME MONEY FROM THE THE SUSPORT THAT THEY BEEN TAKEN OUT MY CHECK FOR THE LAST TWO YEARS . AND I HAVE A SON TO I`M HAVING PROBLEM WITH HIS MOTHER . SO IF YOU CAN PLEASE HELP ME.
Name: nathan neuling
EMail: nate10232001@yahoo.com
Comment: i need you to refer me to a lawyer involved in fol. i have been cutt off from my son entirely and i need to be represented.
Name: kurt kujawa
EMail: kekujawa@aol.com
Comment: in 1992 i was convicted of domestic violence (2nd-ex)i served some time. i have not contacted my ex since then. i found her phone no. where she works.( womanspace inc. of trenton n.j.} i called 3 times,i never talked to her,i identified who i was, why i was calling(to apologize for being such a punk while we were married. etc.), and i said i would call back. her assistant answered the phone each time. i was nice to her, she was nice to me(too nice...) so the next morning i called one more time, and was rudely asked not to call ever again. (no problem) at one in the afternoon i was searved a restraining order from the police in my town (san diego)from new jersey?!!!!!!. saying that i annoyed and alarmed her?,and she filed a criminal harassment charge against me. if i dont show up, they will issue a bench warrent against me, and the s.d. police will have to arrest me. there is a lot of bogus stuff happening with this case. i have no money for an attorney etc. etc. and (as you can imagine) im really pissed. i need an attorney from new jersey that can help me . im running out of time. i want to beat both of these court dates, so i can sue her for malicious prosecution. if i dont, i will have to pay court cost and fines (on the spot) or go to jail!!!! her job at womanspace inc. is to assist women in getting restraining orders. she knows all the cops and judges in trenton. someone please help me this is such a powerplay on her part. kekujawa@aol.com
Name: floyd harold
EMail: freebird123004@wmconnect.com
Comment: I would just like some advice or some info on laws i have daughter 3yrs was never married to mother we broke up and now she will not let me see her for over 6 months i am taking her to court and have recieved a letter from her lawyer she is trying to stop me from seeing child also i have injured my back and have no income at this time cannot afford a lawyer also i have fell way behind on my support they are using this against me but i am not physically able to work i am seeking education so i can work with my mind insteed of my back meanwhile my child support is falling way behind i just want to see my daughter again want to no what i can do thanks
Name: Richard
EMail: angelafwhite@hotmail.com
Comment: I am 16 years old and just found out my girlfriend is 3 month pregnant . Her parents want to abort the baby but I want to keep it. What can be done in the state of colorado to protect me un-born baby? My girlfriend wants the baby as well. Can we become Emancipated so that we may move to the state on New Mexico? Please Help!!!!!
Name: David Gallinger
EMail: dgallinger2004@comcast.net
Comment: I am looking for any and all information regarding cases that have presented or used "equal protection under the law approach" , and or have dealt with "the peoples republic of boulder, colorado" Thanks in advance David Gallinger
Name: eddie
EMail: 7headgms@verizon.net
Comment: LOOKING FOR ATTORNEY TO ASK IF THEIR IS STATUE OF LIMATAIONS ON MONEYS NEVER RECEIVED SO LOST HOME.
Name: RICARDO BALLESTEROS
EMail: DIANA_BALLESTEROS359@HOTMAIL.COM
Comment: IM TRYING TO GET FULL CUSTEDY OF MY DAUGHTER BECAUSE SHE WAY
THAT HER MOTHER ABUSE HER TO MUCH. HOW CAN I GET CUSTEDY.
Name: Monte L. Kruzan
EMail: monkruzltd@hotmail.com
Comment: I need legal advice concerning visitation rights with daughter from previous marriage and with current birth of new daughter not in marriage. I am aware of the Legal Statutes in Illinois, but need assistance in these cases.
Name: lillian
EMail: lillianorozco@aol.com
Comment: i am looking for a support group for my 45yr.old brother who owes back child support has no job ... in trouble iwth the D.A. depressed..... living at home with Mother who is ill.any info you can give me i will pass on. he has no computer.He lives in La Mirada, California 90638. thank you
Name: daniel jones
EMail: danielk742001@yahoo.com
Comment: I need some info on what to do ..I have full custady of my 2 boys and my x wife has visatation.. the problem is she has no job and is liveing with some friends of hers that i dont want my kids around they are not good people at all.. How do i legaly as a full custodal parent keep them out of that house but still fullfill my legal part of granting her judge appointed visatation????
Name: larry
EMail: farmgirlfre@yahoo.com
Comment: i need to know how my wittness in child custody battle should write up their affidavit for iowa court
Name: matt
EMail: densat@optmonline.com
Comment: she wont let me see my kid,and she petitiond me and said a lot of lies so i would have supervised visits,what should i do
Name: ricky eldreth
EMail: ogsleepe@yahoo.com
Comment: I need legal advice so I can get my child support payments lowered and rights to see my daughter.
Name: Israel L. Newcomb
EMail: safeguardchimneysweepco@comcast.net
Comment: Please, I really need legal advise and representation. My ex-wife has repeatedly filed for protection orders for the past 18 months based on false allegations in an attempt to excuse the true fact of which she was abusive party, not only towards myself but our son as well. The first two orders were denied, however she kept changing her story of "incidents", adding more false allegations in attempt to hide the fact she was the abusive party in the relationship. This resulted in loss time with my son and has ultimately devestated my profession in law enforcement. I failed to file for a vacate of protection order in a timely fashion, as I am simply ignorant of family law. I have studied and practice criminal law, however, family laws is completely different. I was recently able to vacate a modification of the order, however the commissioner decided not to vacate the original order due to the fact I failed to file the motion in a timely manner. I was finnally able to get a parenting plan in place and my exwife was supposed to terminate the order. We conducted the exchange of our son personally for a period of two months. However, she had still yet to terminate the order and said she changed her mind. Since then I have been charge with violation of the order for allowing my son to call his mother from my phone. she has not only abused the law/judicial system but has decieved the systems, as well. There is alot more to this story and alot more evidence of her continued false allegations. This has devestated our son (3 years), as well. I strongly believe she will never stop. If you can help? Please contact me! Thank you!
sincerely,
Israel L. Newcomb
Name: ryan
EMail: rscharp@sbcglobal.net
Comment: i have been seperated from my wife for over two yrs.. and she goes into hiding and i cant seen to find her or my daughter, i havent seen my daughter in 22 months i go to the police for help and they say there is no law in hiding your child if you are married.. is there anything i can do to find my duaghter? please help!
Name: Bryan Burzycki
EMail: burzyckib@yahoo.com
Comment: i need to find out how to start a visitation hearing or motion to the friend of court to get visitation rights to see my daughter. i live in wayne county michigan
Name: LaMont Lowery
EMail: Nemesiskayto@yahoo.com
Comment: I bring home around $250.00, out of $785.00. I have two kids the boy is 3 years old and 8 years old (Q)Needs legal advise
Name: mitchel
EMail: lance_jones25@yahoo.com
Comment: would like to talk with anybody who has dealt with interest on arrears. I have all documents which do not indicate my repsonsibility of interest.
Name: s.vijaya sekhar
EMail: svsganesh@yahoo.com
Comment: un management of profit from business (railway signalling contratual works mainly supply and part ly physcial work)
Name: jason wheeler
EMail: jholmberg@trane.com
Comment: Hi my name is jason and i have a daughter and my ex-girl friend will not let me see out daughter what right do I have where do i start my ex lets my father see our daughter and also she lets my grandmother see her if i want to see her i have to go to their house to see which i do but i want to take her to the movies spend time with my family i want her to be able to spend holidays weekends ill take when ever i can she wont let me see her its even hard to talk to my daughter on the phone she is only 7 yeast old please help he thank you
Name: kYLE H
EMail: TRONZ_311@YAHOO.COM
Comment: I JUST WANNA KNOW WHAT REQUIREMENTS I HAVE TO MEET TO GAIN FULL CUSTODY OF MY DAUGHTER
Name: anthony
EMail: astaylor101@msn.com
Comment: I have a son , he is 21 . He is a young adult that has friends that are all on drugs . He also is on drugs . I believe if we could find some clean people his age he would possibly quit the drugs. Do you know of any big brother programs or something so he could get possitive clean people in his life ?
Name: Christopher Bayze
EMail: Bayze029@aol.com,
Comment: I work and I give every penny I earn to the mother for my two sons which are 1and2 years old every time I ask her to see my sons she tells me now,Ive been patient but I cant handle it no more,somebody help me I love my sons to much so please someone that believes in GOD Help me(760)246-5534
Name: Anthony Wiley
EMail: Habbeee24@aol.com
Comment: I have custady of my child after a out come of a paternity test was done and the mothers rights was taken away.I would like to know what i have to do to change the fathers name on the birth and how to change his last name.I live in the state of w.v thanks
hope someone can help me
Name: Bennett Massey
EMail: frustratedinc@bellsouth.com
Comment: I was recently pulled over for speeding in Bleckley Co. GA. I was charged and arrested for driving with a suspended liscence. I have 5 children and need my liscence for obvious reasons. I had no idea my liscence were suspended. The officer said they were suspended in 2001. I have been in a wreck, ran a red light and gotten pulled over for no seat belt sincce 2001 and it was never brought to my attention the liscence were or are suspended. Do I have a leg to stand on in court? Thankyou ~Bennett Massey georgia
Name: Adam Hunsicker
EMail: adam_hunsicker@yahoo.com
Comment: My father passed away in December of 2004 and I lost it for a little while. As a result my wife has filed a restraining order against me and is filing for divorce. During the restraining order proceedings she has attempted to have my visitation with our 18 month old daughter revoked. I have already lost almost everything I own and I just want to protect what I still have. Anybody that can give me some insight into California Divorce and Custody laws PLEASE respond. Thank you in advance for your time and assistance.
Name: Ray
EMail: rgonzalez60@austin.rr.com
Comment: Long story but my wife has filed for divorce in Mexico where we got married. I tried by all means to save my marriage. We are borned and raised in Monterrey, Mx and she wants to stay in Texas because she want to live her life. We have a son who will be 5 in a couple of months. All of our family is in Monterrey, Mx and I am trying to get my son back to Mexico so he can have more love from both sides of the family. Can someone help me with ideas ? I am desperate since now she is living a new life and she is doing all this without seeking the best for our Son. I do not want to keep him here in the US. IDEAS PLEASE !
Name: justin sharp
EMail: emptyshell_18@hotmail.com
Comment: i cant get into this program and i just wont some body to help me deal with not having my kids around. i also am looking for a loyer that will take payments so i could afored to get leagal help. thank you justin
Name: Jeremy
EMail: cam3882@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a dad in florida who has joint custody with my daughters mom. We were never married. She wants to move about 6 hours away to GA to be near her family. Can I keep her from moving to GA with my 2 daughters and if so what is it?
Name: Jeremy
EMail: jshug90@hotmail.com
Comment: Anyone know any probono lawyers that want to take on an international abduction case?
Name: BRENDA RANGEL
EMail: casa2490@yahoo.com
Comment: i need to know if a husband and wife could file seperate bankruptcy?
Name: William Pixley
EMail: desertkingw@hotmail.com
Comment: Iwould like information about filing for joint custody.
Name: ronald gibbs
EMail: boilerman1942@yahoo.com
Comment: my wife drinks and drives with my kids in the car and also stays out all night keaveing the kids on there own without telling them just leaveing them with one of her boyfriends
Name: ronald gibbs
EMail: boilerman1942@yahoo.com
Comment: my wife is an whore and a drunk in spain i have 3 kids one is back in the uk with me but i got a phone call from my other two one 15 and one of 10 saying that my wife has told then to leave also my wife phoned me telling me that she wants the kids gone but there is more to my story that i have not told you about the reason i left spain with my 11 year old daughter but i realy do need help please
Name: ronald gibbs
EMail: boilerman1942@yahoo.com
Comment: i had a fight with one of her boyfriends on my sons birthday when i went round to give him his card and found then in bed and they told a pack of lies to the police and i had to run from spain fearing that i would be put in prison and at 62 years old i could not face that so my 11 year old daughter said that she wanted to come with me my wife still thinks that we are in spain
Name: bruce fowler
EMail: hometownboy@verzion. net
Comment: My wife and I were married 12 years and while we were living in tn 4 the last 2.5years back in july when was in the hospital she took my kids and left we have 5 kids and I filed for divorce in tn she wil not allow me to see the kids and claims that I was very abusive to them which is not true. she has moved them to NH wants me to drop the divorce in tn I want to be in there life again she is making hell on me I love them very much all she has done is lye what can I do? Is the venue of the kids now where they been for the last 6 mo.
Name: Erin
EMail: shortygurl314@yahoo.com
Comment: i need infomation on dna testing....... i need to grt one done so i can go and live with my dad...the only problem i that i and am the foster care system. how can i get this done and be able to go and live with my dad.....ASAP?
Name: dan
EMail: roostergallo@yahoo,com
Comment: im looking for advise or personal experiencs. i have a son who is 4 months old his name is dom, i am not 2gether with my sons mother and havent since the first 2 moths she was prenant she has hated me for no reason since then and continues to hate me to this day i did nothing but show her love she ,she dictates who i am and what i do saying im a horrible person or a psyco, which couldnt be farther from the truth and argues with me everytime i call to check up on my son i call like once a month. i dont understand why she hates me so much, she hasnt been single since ive known her which has been a year she doesnt want me in my sons life and claims that her boyfriend is my sons new father. i get so mad and do not understand anything that is happening it seems that i was ok with me and her not being together so shes taking it a step further and saying that my son cannot be with me. it seems like shes attacking me. help.
Name: Nathan
EMail: jl-paflynn@juno.com
Comment: My son is being railroaded by the Oklahoma DHS. He went to them for help and protection of his son from ex-girlfriends family. My son has cooperated and fulfilled all the requirements from the DHS, and they have still petitioned the court to terminate his parental rights. He has an attorney who I feel has not given his best and my son cannot affort any more money. He goes back to court in Feb. for a jury trial, and needs help quick.
Name: Bob fletcher
EMail: sdcharger65@netscape.net
Comment: My son is now 13 years old. I have been fightin allof those 13 years for cutody and visitation but the mother has always moved and tried to alienate me from my son. I want my son to hve my last name which the mother has always refused to allow. How can I do this and is she allowed to deny this even though I am the biologiccal father and she denied me as the father until he was 9 and there was a paternity test which proved I was the father. She put no father on the birth certificate so she could collect welfare and not allow me my parental rights. What Can I do?
Name: ALBERTO FIERRO
EMail: YOGOLV@YAHOO.COM
Comment: I NEED HELP TO SSE MY KIDS I CAN NOT AFFORD A LAWYER . I PAY ALL MY CHILD SUPPORT BUT THE COURTS DONT WANT TO LISTEN TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY. I HAVE NO0T SEEN MY KIDS FOR 2 MONTHS AND I STILL DONT HAVE A TIME TO SEE THEM. CALL ATT 917-678-1001
Name: MICHAEL
EMail: walkermlw9@prodigy.net
Comment: i would like to know. i have been paying child suppoprt for 12 years and my daughter mother took me to court again. i am up to date with my payment but what i dont like is my daughter dont carry my last name and i ask why and her mother said with a smart remark you should have came to th e hospital and sign the papers. this is my second time going to court. i dont get any respect from my daughter because of her mom but she still call me when she wants somethins. what could be the problem were ask my child not carring my last name.
Name: shravya
EMail: coolgal_747@hotmail.com
Comment: i was just wondering as to what a dosage of 5 sleeping pills would do to a female of 18yrs of age with blood group o-negative?
Name: Edward Spiers
EMail: mr2partime@excite.com
Comment: I am seeking a good lawyer that specializes in custody and fathers rights. My ex tried to commit suicide a few months ago so my lawyer decided it was time to go for custody, but she has done nothing but accept my check since then please get me in touch with a local father rights group and a new lawyer. Thank you Ed Spiers Jacksonville, Florida
Name: Edward Spiers
EMail: mr2partime@excite.com
Comment: I am seeking a good lawyer that specializes in custody and fathers rights. My ex tried to commit suicide a few months ago so my lawyer decided it was time to go for custody, but she has done nothing butr accept my check since then please get me in touch with a local father rirght group and a new lawyer. Thank you Ed Spiers Jacksonville, Florida
Name: logan l brown
EMail: yolanda@sbcglobal.net
Comment: the cort has ored me to come in and to see is this little girl is mine, but i dont thingkshe is,and they say that i owe $11154dollars. but i think we need to get a dna done to see if the little girl is mine or not. i have to go to cort on the 17thof febuary so what do i need to do please help me out thank you logan
Name: gbotemi
EMail: pamig@walla.com
Comment: i am an orphan and am in a sch in nigeria my daddy and mummy died in the last war of libariaso since then i have no parent to catter dor my liveing so i will be glad if i can get one from this site ok
thanks
gbotemi
Name: Ron Rush
EMail: darkr@mchsi.com
Comment: I have tried 5 times to become a member and when I hit submit all I get is an error screen.
Name: Benjamin Soto
EMail: mr_latino_98@yahoo.com
Comment: Just need info (legal advice) as to what I need to do on getting my childsuport waived this month. I have been out of work for 3 weeks going on my 4th before I am released back to work (do to medical reasons-surgeory). I will be unable to make a payment do to no income coming in. I need to be safe than sorry, as to why my payment was not met this month. I have an idea as what to do, but just curious as to what kind of other info (advice) is out there. Thank you, sincerely "Good Daddy", Benjamin
Name: Joe
EMail: Eye29Green2003@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a male that has no GED, dropped out of school in the ninth grade when my daughter was born. I have a past criminal record and no one will give me a chance at a job. I owe almost over 8,000 dollars in child support. I have no income at all, I pay what I can. I have not seen my daughter for over 9 years, even though we live in the same state. Her mother has remiarried and will not abide by the visitation agreeement. What can I do ?
Name: clint tibbens
EMail: tedwards3@msn.com
Comment: i want to know how to sign my rights over and not have to pay what i owe
Name: david crosswell
EMail: angelndave@msn.com
Comment: My child support order was issued in ny in 2000 when i was makeing $42,000 a year and it was for two kids $206,00 week; since then i have lost my job, remarried, have another child, and one on the way. I tryed to have the support reduced in NY they said they had no jurisdiction and could not help me. I now make $29,000 a year and am still paying $206,00 a week. I need a LAWYER that can sourt this out and get my payments reduced. Hearein lies the problem EX wife lives in North Carolina - I live in Florida-Child support was issued in New York,,,,,I want to know wher can i get my day in court and who is going torepresent me. PS; have not seen my 17yr old daughter or 12yr old son in 4YEARS. Divorce decree states that visitation would be discused between parents because I was in the Armed Forces and was deployable at any time.
Name: chris
EMail: ckey07@charter.net
Comment: i am going to be served divorce papers soon please give some advice on ways to keep child support as low as possible
Name: Len
EMail: Rockmank10@yahoo.com
Comment: What course of action can I take if my x continues to not complie with the mediation agreements that we agreed on and were enter in as court ordered.
Name: John Johnson
EMail: adviceneeded@hotmail.com
Comment: Hello,
I am searching for any advice how I may negotiate arrearages in california. I have no idea where to start.
To make a long story short The child is over 18 now when the child was 3 I was named the father a judgement was made for approximately $320 dollars a month while I was unemployed. Based upon a capabilty to pay. I had previously left my job on a mental disability which I was unable to conquer. I have lived working with churches etc..all of my life never having a paying job. My father is now getting older and wanting me to help him with daily life and is willing to help with some monies in order to pay off arrearages. He is not a wealthy man so I was just wondering what experiences , pitfalls and successes anyone may have had to finalize arrears , possibly a lumpsum ? Is there any negotiation? from what I understand they are not very honest with negotiations and interest.Any personal insights or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
God Bless, John
Name: ILEANA VELAZQUEZ
EMail: SHORTGIRLSWEET22@AOL.COM
Comment: HELLO PLEASE I NEED TO KNOW MY FATHER IS LUIS MANUEL VELAZQUEZ I DONT KNOW NOT SEE THEM LONG TIME . IT IS 12 YEAR OK
Name: lee pettit
EMail: ljpettit@nascr.net
Comment: can any one tell me how much i should be paying in matenace to my x i have two children 8 and 6 i have them 3 nights a week 1 i am self employed and and earn about 9 thousand a year
Name: Greg
EMail: aylaanddustin@aol.com
Comment: I need to know what i can do about my son and daughter being abused by their rage full older half brother. He is six and my two are five and three. My son got punched in the head by him when i droped my kids back off with their mom after a visit and the mother called the cops and made a report that i beat my son up when he was with me. because of all this i had to talk to child protection. when i picked my kids up the next visit i got on recorder my kids telling me that their older brother beats on them all the time and that he punched my son in his head when their mom went to the apartment up stairs. So not only is she letting her oldest son hurt my kids she is leaving them home alone. Can i get a OFP on her son and get my kids taken out of the home? should i bring the tape to child protection? Please help me and my children!?!?!
Name: patrick
EMail: jon_davis85@yahoo.com
Comment: iam in nc my with left me 3 months ago and took kids i went to countsuling alone she wouldnt gonow she got me kicked out of the house with a court order said she was scared i would hurt her iam not voilant i want to see kids
need free legal help
Name: Donald L Moseley
EMail: donal_dm@yahoo.com
Comment: I’m 41 years old divorcing a women who was arrested in July 2004 for fraudgelent prescription of a controlled substance with 3 years probation second time offense
I have online drug receipts of her’s my insurance claims and recordings of her Admitting she broke probation, child abuse if of allowed visitation of my son with my mom she would bruise him and say my mom did it, she has worked under two different social numbers maintains 65.000 to 150.000 dollars in her bank account and has not worked since marriage in 1995. and the courts here in Houston Texas seem to not have a problem giving her custody the drugs on conviction was vicoden, hydrocoden And more. Why would I have a hard time getting custody from someone like that I have no record and I have a profession and have never been out of work.
Name: margaret
EMail: ladynichols46@msn.com
Comment: My brother is in prison so he is limited to what he can do. His ex-wife was ordered by the judge to have some kind of communication (like a phone) available for his kids to answer his calls and in the beginning she did but now it has been disconnected. What makes me so mad is when he did get into trouble with the drugs she was also just as much involved as he but because she was the mother of his kids he asked law enforcement to keep her out fo it. When he went to prison they were still married and she would take the kids for visits but now she has divorced him and thinks she is so much better them him.Is there any help for him? We can not afford any more attornys. Thank-you!
Name: Dan
EMail: tcgdan@cfl.rr.com
Comment: My wife, we are not legally divorced, was given custody of my son. In New York State the primary care taker is granted full custody. Recently she fled the country with him at 4 years of age and told me she is not coming back. I have tried contacting law enforcement & government agencies to report him missing and or kidnapped. From what I have gathered thus far I have no recourse. I could never get her to sign a visitation schedule. What rights if any do I have as his father. To further complicate matters she is a Dutch citizen. My son born in American. She must have violated some immigration policy. Over the past 45 days of her disappearance, I was not contacted for the holidays, my birthday and his 5th birthday on Jan 3. Any suggestions?
Name: Mike
EMail: mreynolds3@hotmail.com
Comment: Could you please email me with an answer???
Name: Chuck Benner
EMail: Cbenner@swmail.sw.org
Comment: Me and my ex have been divorced for over 4 years now and have joint coustody of my 8 year old daughter. she has been remaried had a babby that is two years old and now shacking with that babys fathers best freind and pregnant by him . my daughter seeks to live with me but her mothers tells her know way and has recently had me served to pay her child support . I dont have a problem with paying for my daughter I have always made sure she has what she needs. But somethings wrong my daughter tells me Dad i want to live with you and my brothers and sister at your house see I have had coustody of my three kids from my first marrige since they where real little so I know how to raise kids and can relate more to mothers when I here there sad stories about raiseing kids right from wrong. Please help what can I do if anything to get coustody of my daughter who wants to live with dad.
Name: darren
EMail: lydias
Comment: need advice on how to win custidy of my son
Name: darren
EMail: lydiasnana@yahoo.com
Comment: need help on how to win custidy of my son.
Name: robert chavous
EMail: springbdc@yahoo.com
Comment: My ex-wife is getting away without paying child support. there is a court order for her to pay a certain amount. she has quit her job and is now working under the table. I have been going to court once a month. The judge keeps telling her to pay th back and current support but we leave court and the same old thing. she falls more behind. My question is, If i keep going to court, will anything ever get done about this? How does the law protect my childrens right of child support? Can the law make her work leagally? Is there anything else i can do to force her to pay? Does anyone know of anyone more than my lawyer to help me?
Name: Carl Nelson
EMail: Nelson20_05@hotmail.com
Comment: Hi, i have a 6mo old little girl and i really need someones help am 19yrs old and the mother of my little girl and her mother is taking control over my little girl and i have tried to take them to court but as you know lawyers cost alot around here so i had to do it on my own. and so i tried and they told me that my little girl must reside at the mothers and now shes using my little girl to control me because if i dont listen i dont get to see my little girl and i have found out that the mother has been stripping for guys at there houses and doing stuff other then be a mother i really need your guys help...plz im begging someone to help before something happenes to my little girl thanks to all of you thats reading this and listening to me and you all no how i feel if your a dad and worried about you little girl or boy...drives your mind completely nutz well thanks again...
Name: Timothy Michael John Jamieson
EMail: timinatorbots@yahoo.co.uk
Comment: I have very limited access to my daughter. i would like much more access, even full or shered custody. she devorsed me 24/06/04 but moved out with my child 16/03/02. I have fought every way I know, but the she and the courts dont care that my daughter is growing up without a father. she wants me to pay school fees but wont let me chose the school. please help me, Im going crazy. I love her so much.
Name: Matt McKinney
EMail: mckinneymattj@hotmail.com
Comment: My ex wife is changing the divorce decree on what we are supposed to do and on visitation. She continues to change when I can see my boys. She moved out of state to Missouri. I have a difficult time trying to get down there because it costs 300.00 everytime. After the essentials from my check: child support, car, rent. I am left with 200.00. This makes it impossible because I have to skip paying bills to go down there. Everyone: lawyer and child support agency said I have to pay what I pay. This stinks because she makes 10 to 15 thousand more than me. What can I do? I have been told that I can relinquish my parental rights, but I love my boys and dont want to do it. I have emailed the Governor, Federal legislator, and State legislators. Help please.
Name: Willmar
EMail: wcuartas@yahoo.com
Comment: I have a son, 3 years old, since 2 months ago, I have not pay child support because I am unemployed, his mother does not want to let me see him, I can not pay $400.40 dollar because I am not working, What should I do?
Name: joe
EMail: kooksterjoe@aol.com
Comment: the child support people years ago sent me paper work showing that this women was claiming i was the father of her child and was looking for support i inturn wrote back to th e child support people letting them know thatwasent the father and that this person had also claimed three other men to be the father of the same child and that the claim was false.They inturn sent me back a letter in regards to mine that showed a relase a letter of non responceability.the letter said you are releasd from any responceability in this matter.For years i never heard or recieved anything concerning this matter ever again untill i tried getting a home loan a was denied due to owed support
Name: Richie
EMail: irichieci@aol.com
Comment: Need a Lawyer.
Name: John Hewitt
EMail: Johnhewittusmc87@aol.com
Comment: I am a 23 year old who is going through child support and coustody problems in North Carolina. There are 2 children involved. The court order only says visitaion but gives no times or dates. She and I can not agree on anything and I want to see my kids. any advice is welcome and thank you for your time.
Name: Cecil Green
EMail: lbrill@mahaska.org
Comment: Hello, I am requesting advice on how to find the location of my 14 year old daughter who I have never seen. After a paternity test four years ago I was told I was this child’s father and began paying child support. I would like to know if anyone has dealt with this issue in the past and what is the best route find her location. Thanks in advance, Cecil Green
Name: k downard
EMail: jjohnston19@cox.net
Comment: my ex girlfriend is trying to move out of state with my daughter what type of temp. orders should i file to stop her from being able to leave im suppose to start visitation with my daughter soon
Name: Greg Pink
EMail: gpink@esc.cr.k12.ia.us
Comment: I have always sent the whole amount in one check....though it has been past the first of the month many times.....I have NEVER missed a payment!) she has gone behind my back (again!!!) and had my pay checks garnished, just to tic me off!! HOW can she do this??!! Does this not go on my credit report?
Name: Peter
EMail: harkward.westcliff@btconnect.com
Comment: My daughter is 6 days old and her mother and I are not together anymore, she will not let me see her without unsupervised (by her) access. Can you help me please ? What are my rights etc?
Name: Mark
EMail: moriarty1108@msn.com
Comment: I am a father of two children age 1 and 2, and have great concerns that childsupport will take too much out of my paycheck and the mother will use it for her own pleasures
Name: Winston
EMail: probow1@yahoo.com
Comment: is there someone in ontario canada that is farmiliar with the custody laws and when a parent moves out of province. my children are 12 and 15. i hsve a settle ment brief i have to fill and submit. thank you for any reply
Name: Nick
EMail: Nick_g_123@yahoo.com
Comment: I am involved in a child protective case in maine. I am fighting for custody of my daughter. I lost custody on the grounds that my childs mother and I had a volatile relation ship which could have "potentially" led to domestic violence. We are young parents and yes we fought a lot, but always had the common sense not to fight around our child. Sarahs(my childs mother) parents are fighting for custody and are the ones who initially involved DHS. Im 20 years old and work in the Social work field as a MHRT-1. I am certified to work with children who are placed into DHS custody, but I am deemed unfit to care for my own child. This situation has been ongoing for the past 9 months. I am emotionally, financially, and physically exhausted. If there is anyone out there that knows anything about this, whether you have been through this or you work with people going through this PLEASE help me out...
Name: James jaramillo
EMail: pausq98@yhoo.com
Comment: I would like some info on my rights as a parent my daughter is living with her grandmother her mother is out of state. I have went to court and have recived my daughter 30% I would like to have her 100%,however the mother and Grandmother keep hitting me with false accusations of drug use or sales. How do you deal with this and how do I talk to the medator to make them understand I am a good father.
Name: Travis
EMail: carla91778@yahoo.com
Comment: What are Fathers rights in Indiana.... how do I go about getting someone to take my case seriously, I want custody of my daughters.... There is not one website that just tells me what fathers rights are in my state ( Indiana- La Porte county).
Name: Brooke
EMail: FunyBuny2u@aol.com
Comment: First of all, I am a mom, but on the same side as you fathers are, My ex-husband has all the control. H has primary custudy, (I had my daughter every other weekend and all summer long) until last year. My ex is remarried and my 15 year old daughter and his new wife did not get along and he kicked our daughter out. After finding out she was at a girlfiends house from school, I got her, and for 9 months, she has been living with me and my fiance. Her father has for the most part moved on, and wasnt even keeping his every other weekend visits. Here is my question. My daughter was caught holding weed for a friend of hers at school, she wasnt smoking it, even offered to take a drug test to prove it, but with a zero tolerance program most schools have, she was expelled. My fiance and I were dissapointed in her, but we went along with the school districts rules, and she would be able to return the next school year. Well, my daughter called her dad and told him what had happened, and he was very pissed, and blamed me, blamed her, and all of a sudden showed a need to see her. I thought maybe she was acting out and her dad being part of her life again might be just what she needed. He picked her up, and promised to have her home to me by 4 the next night. That was over three months ago. Without my knowledge or consent, he enrolled her into a religious troubled girls school that she cannot get out of for 18 months. I tried to get her back, and in the schools eyes, I have no rights to do so. She is not alowed to see me, or use a phone. So from the day she hugged me and walked out the door to her dads car, I havent seen or talked or hugged my baby. The local DA has not been helpful, and if anything was condisending and nasty. The school just moved out of the county, and now she is really far away. Isnt this violating my custudy rights? Although I wasnt able to change the child custudy orders before she was taken from me, I still had the original order of every other weekend and all summer. Doesnt that mean he has gone against judge ordered visitation by sending her away? Please, if any of you could help me, I would be so thankful. My daughter is my life, and I cannot afford a lawyer> I just want to know what I can do to get her back, and what my rights are. I live in Fresno, California. Thank you for your time. BM
Name: norwood
EMail: norwoodp@earthlink.net
Comment: how do i obtain custudy of my daugther from her grandmother who has legal gaurdianship ,after her mothers death.
Name: jeremy spink
EMail: jspink02@sprintpcs.com
Comment: recently my babys mom took my son to california on vication and said once she got there she wasnt coming back. I have tried talking to the courts but. They keep giving me the runaround.how do i get them interested in my case? Also how to get info to bring her back to michigan
Name: thomas
EMail: protectorx2@webtv.net
Comment: I plead guilty in 1997 to child molestation and resently compleated my prison sentence of 80 months.at the time of my conviction my daughter was 4 years old(my daughter was not a victom of my crime)yet my attorney never discussed my rights if Ihad any,regarding visitation with my daughter,and I was not aware of back ten ,It was possable that Icould of had supervised visits,I was released from prison 02-29-04,and I still have not yet been allowed to see my chiled as the restrictions/condition of my release state no contact of any form,mail,photoes ect. with any one under the age of 16.my probation officer will not approve my request for visitation,untill I compleat a sex offender evaluation.which requires a total cost 1,000 dollars,unfortunately I AM living on bare mimimum of 509.00 per.month.financially there,s know way I will be able to save up, that amount to soon.witch means that much longer I am with out my daughter.she does not rember much of me from back then,as well I do not know much about her.my daughter is aware That I am out, and as epresed he need to se me,no understanding why cant go se her as,far a she has knon all thesr years from her mom was I walked out,one to never return,this is my situation,please let me know,the case law # of any cases simular or any imformation you may have to help me understand what if any parental rights I do have,how I go about fighting for that right.
Name: carlos
EMail: solutiions2002@sbcglobal.net
Comment: my ex wife of 2 yrs wants to take my child out of the state to live....what can i do?
Name: ted vosburg
EMail: vosburg1@aol.com
Comment: 1st i,m have problem verfing my email address to become a member. i am tring to get custody of my one year old daughter in the state of pa. here mother left about a month before she was born. when she left she was on bed rest, she went to her parents home witch is on the other side of the state and i have been tring to get custody of her but have had problems with the county courts in jefferson county.while she was out at my home she was found drunk by one freind and about a week later she asked this same friend to buy her achol because she was not old enought, the freind who had the same obgyn because she was also pregent said no, and told her she should not be drink,and that she would take her home. my ex left and hit the friends car. since the baby has been born she has been bitten by her mother 100 lbs dog across the eyes. they have but the dog down but their is still another dog in the house about the same size. my ex has vever lived on her own and now leaves with her parents. she was married for about a year then moved back to her parents home . they had her move out to ,where i live ,and her sister live she moved into her sister home then meet me and said she was having problems with her sister so i let her stay at my home as a friend then one thing led to another and we descide to have a baby, please help there is lots more info this is just the start but i need help soon
Name: matthew
EMail: matthew_567@hotmail.com
Comment: i cant seem to sign up for an account it just keeps saying my email account cant be verifyed....... thanx please help i need to get on to your site for some advice
Name: james foreman
EMail: jamesforeman95@hotmail.com
Comment: Im 24 year old I have just start to pay child support .Im working on get my high diploma. I attend a job trainning school in washington dc.now here the problem they call me dead beat dad because im in school and I pay 75.00 every two week .write the court to explain my problem they brush me off and our lock me up . they have warrant for my arrest. The mother is enable to support my child she has no job no place to at stay. so what do I do im stuck and I need help. thank you
Name: edf
EMail: duckles39@aol.com
Comment: please answer below
Question: I am seperated from my soon to be ex of 20 yrs. I have 2 kids, one 19 and one 11. If I sign over the house and all contents and take all the debt on by myself from the marriage, is this considered alimony to the court or if I do this will I also have to pay alimony? She seems to think that even if I do this she will still get alimony on top of me giving her everything. I live in NC and currently I am paying her 1800.00 a month on a 36k yr salary. This amount includes the child support of 1 daughter underage. I am finding it difficult to live myself while she works FT and spends money on anything. She is not struggling but feels she deserves to live the way she was prior to our Seperation. Will the courts look at this in my favor and tell her no alimony or will they rape me in court because I am the one that ended the marraige because I was not happy anymore. please advise!!! Our divorce is set for the fall of this yr.
Name: Frustrated
EMail: mouse406@msn.com
Comment: Any suggestions on how to deal with a parttime mother who receives all the praise for little of the work? My (now) wife and I try very hard to do all the thankless things that are best for our children. We continuously see my ex-wife getting all the love and attention for our hard work. We will continue doing what is best for them but having a hard time with the unequal division of love and affection that is going on. I am open to any suggestion that would not be harmful to the children (no matter how devious).
Name: DEREK
EMail: SEPLUTROTT@YAHOO.COM
Comment: IM THE FATHER OF A 16 MONTH OLD SON HE RESIDES WITH HIS MOTHER ABOUT 5 HOURS AWAY AS OF NOW THERE HAS BEEN NO COUSTODY HEARING AND I CANNOT AFFORD A LAWYER ,I AM GOING TO SEE MY SON FOR THE FIRST TIME THIS WEEKEND IN 9 MONTHS , SHE WILL NOT LET ME SEE MY SON ALONE ONLY UNDER MY M0THERS SUPERVISION AND SHE BASICALLY THINKS SHES RUNNING THE SHOW I HAVE NEVER HAD A VIOLENT HISTORY OR ANY VIOLENT CRIMES OR THE LIKE I JUST FEEL LOST I PAY MY SUPPPORT I DO WHAT I CAN AND HERE SHE IS SAYING SHES NOT KEEPING HIM FROM ME BUT SHE IS SHE WOULDNT GIVE ME A PHONE # OR THE ADDRESS WHERE SHE LIVES WHAT DO I DO WHO DO I CONTACT WHERE DO I GO I JUST WANT AN EQUALL SHOT AT BEING A FATHER TO MY SON BEFORE HER NEW BOYFRIEND COMPLETELY MOVES IN AND PUSHES ME OUT
Name: victor
EMail: vman_usmc@yahoo.com
Comment: ok i got an ex parte for custody of my three boys in mo where we all live my wife went to arkansas an said she was an resident and filed on down there and got it now i dont no what to do she is a resident of mo she has a mo linse she check herself and my kids into a womans shelter it has been 2 weeks since i seen are spoke with my children
Name: Joe Huffman
EMail: huffmanjs@nvc.net
Comment: I need to know how to fight paternity. I have had joint legal and physical coustody of my daughter for 11 years. My ex wife has informed me that she obtained a dna sample and can now prove that I am not the biological father of Linda. will the court remove me as her father and would I lose coustody. can you explain how paturnity plays in coustody
thanks Joe
Name: scott lancaster
EMail: LOVERS12@XTRA.CO.NZ
Comment: I AM CURRENTLY LIVING IN N.Z. i have been seeing my 6 y old son in bris every couple of months i have planed to move back to bris to be close to him and his mom tells me she is moving to tasmania.every time i try to get close to him she moves.i need to find out how to get some legal custody .as she will not do anything without legal action.
Name: ron gantt
EMail: floridajigga05@aol.com
Comment: i would like an inexpensive lawyer in jacksonville florida, for visitation, and joint custody
Name: JIM CANNON
EMail: JNSCANNON@YAHOO.COM
Comment: I AM TRYING TO FIND AN INEXPENSIVE OR FREE LAWYER TO HELP WITH WITH GETTING MY CHILD SUPPORT LOWERED IN IOWA. THEY ARE TAKING HALF OF MY SALARY AND HALF OF MY COMMISION. WITH THE ECONOMY NOW THAT MAKES IT VERY HARD TO PAY THE BILLS. SOMETIMES ME AND MY WIFE HAVE TO DECIDE IF WE PAY BILLS OR PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE. I OWE ALOT IN BACK CHILD SUPPORT ALSO. I AM JUST TRYING TO FIND A WAY WHERE WE CAN SURVIVE AND MAKE END MEET. I AM NOT TRYING TO SHIRK MY DUTIES AS A FATHER OR NOT PAY ANY SUPPORT AT ALL. PLEASE HELP WITH ANY ADVICE OR WHO TO TURN TO THANK YOU!!
Name: Anthony Fernandez
EMail: afernand@stout.navy.mil
Comment: Me an my wife are having a lot of personnel issues, I am looking for some way we can go to Marriage Councling, but everywhere I go its too expensive. Do you have any other means of Councling or anywhere we can go so we can find help?
Name: greg
EMail: grgoff@accessatc.net
Comment: Its a long story,but I will try nto shorten it up.I do not owe back child support,I have over paid about 7000.00,but now they say I owe an additional amount,I have paid 3 lawyers good monet to straighten out but as usual I got the shaft again.thanks greg
Name: paul
EMail: kaudun@ticon.net
Comment: I lost my job this week. I need to know how to have my fixed rate order lowerd. I got a new job but it pays a lot less.please help!I am totaly lost
Name: Mark
EMail: markt@villarin.com
Comment: I have joint mangement conservatorship with ex-wife as primary on my 2 children but visitation is setup so I have them about 55% of the time and pay child support so I am with my children more than half the year. My question is Do I have a legal right to claim atleast one of my children on tax returns?
Name: Randy
EMail: dwarfman007@yahoo.com
Comment: I have custody of my 2 boys.Is there a law where my x-wifes new husband has to pay chid suport,or go after his income with my x..income????
Name: Brian Pheaton
EMail: Pieman88@hotmail.com
Comment: Legal advice with child support And child Custody.
Name: Jeff Crothers
EMail: jjcrothers1@charter.net
Comment: how do i get through the friend of the court when the friend of the court wont even look at the case the way that it is layed out
Name: mike
EMail: augie0216@aol.com
Comment: I have custudy of my two children , my ex wife was paying child support but now has cancer and cannot work child support cannot do anything further , is there anything i can do , child support has put a lean on her tax returns but I never have recieved anything.....???
Name: Seeking help
EMail: Micron2032@netzero.net
Comment: I have 3 children and I have not seen them at all even at birth ,but yet I am ordered to pay child support for these children when I had no say In the pregnancy ,and the wemon left after finding out they were pregnant . when I track them down they either move or threaten my life in one way or another ,But I cannot afford to hire someone to go to court for me and represent my feelings thru this . I feel if I have to pay atleast I should know what state they live in ,there well being ,and how they are being raised,I should have some say in this ,and no I am not a criminal or been in prison ,jail etc, But I do find it hard to pay child support and offten end up not paying several months until I can afford to even eat or have shelter. I would like to know if there is a way to go to court and reliquish my rights and child support ,I am almost to the point of becoming a transient (bum) and or may do somthing to myself that I wish never came to mind please if you have any ideas please let me know.
Name: owen
EMail: scarlettkroll@yahoo.com
Comment: i need to know how to enforce a visatation plan and keep it enforced so i can see my son i havent seen in a long time
Name: deanpeiffer
EMail: deanpeiffer@netzero.net
Comment: she says she is pregnet by me,How do I make her prove it?
Name: Shawn Brathwaite
EMail: kamauwiseman2001@yahoo.com
Comment: I would like help with custody of my children do to child abuse in my wife home in Fort Lauderdale Florida.I have my children every summer or since I have been here in Florida for 3 years.Last summer my children came to my soon to be fiance and told her some horrible stories that have been going on in the home there in fort Lauderdale.I am looking to get other alternative beside children and families who did not help with the situation much so i had to send the children back to Fort Lauderdale.please let me know what can I do I have not heard from my children since because the mother is being spiteful and put me on childsupport 3mo. ago and I took pictures of my children when they were with me last summer.I talk to the mother about the abuse of the children and she cusses me and never give an answer on why she is doing this.oh! and I have all my papers from Western Union from when I was sending money to her monthly with a verbal agreement that me and her had,I sent these stubs to childsupport to let them know I been paying before they were involve. thank you,Shawn Brathwaite
P.s.here is my telephone number 352-249-1013 in case of more info is needed.Adress-63 S.Lincoln Ave,Beverly hills,fl 34465 thank you again.
Name: Shawn Brathwaite
EMail: kamauwiseman2001@yahoo.com
Comment: I would like help with custody of my children do to child abuse in my wife home in Fort Lauderdale Florida.I have my children every summer or since I have been here in Florida for 3 years.Last summer my children came to my soon to be fiance and told her some horrible stories that have been going on in the home there in fort Lauderdale.I am looking to get other alternative beside children and families who did not help with the situation much so i had to send the children back to Fort Lauderdale.please let me know what can I do I have not heard from my children since because the mother is being spiteful and put me on childsupport 3mo. ago and I took pictures of my children when they were with me last summer.I talk to the mother about the abuse of the children and she cusses me and never give an answer on why she is doing this.oh! and I have all my papers from Western Union from when I was sending money to her monthly with a verbal agreement that me and her had,I sent these stubs to childsupport to let them know I been paying before they were involve. thank you,Shawn Brathwaite
P.s.here is my telephone number 352-249-1013 in case of more info is needed.Adress-63 S.Lincoln Ave,Beverly hills,fl 34465 thank you again.
Name: aaron smith
EMail: aaronsmith691@yahoo.com
Comment: i have been there every day in my little girls life that is untill a year ago in aug. i pay support not be hind but my ex girl friend of 6 years still wont let me see her . i miss her so much that i want to die!!!!! i know i have to go to court but after child support i really dont have the money for an attorny can any one help me !!!!!!!!!
Name: Kacey E
EMail: tomandkacey@cox.net
Comment: Hello, My name is Kacey, and I am a full-time student attending classes at Chandler-Gilbert Community College in Chandler, Arizona. As a part of my cirriculum, I am currently gathering information for a research project entitled, "Fatherless in America." The project will show the other side of the custody debate, and family courts: the all-too forgotten father. I myself was left fatherless after my parents divorce, and did not find out how hard my father fought for me until my adult life. I wish to forward you, and anyone who would be willing to assist me, a series of brief questions that I can include within my final project. Any assistance you can offer me is greatly appreciated, and I thank you in advance. Unfortunately, there is a time limit, so the sooner someone can respond, the better. Thank you for time- Kacey Ewald
Name: Josh
EMail: Babyboybabygirl8285@webtv.net
Comment: hi I am stuggling with my first newborn and it been kinda of hard for me to undertand the pregncy is there any tips or adivce you could give me cuz this is the newest thing in my life and I am only 21 year of age and soon to be father and I would like to get some tips or advice from fathers who experince pregancy and how can I managa to be there for my feature wife.. she is a great lady and I really care for her but how the pregancy thing work on soon to be father ?? well hope I get some help in here thanks for ready and taking this understad consideration smile :) hope to hear from one of you guys take care bye for now smile :)
Name: Jimmy Jens
EMail: cjenson666@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a singel father of 3 & my sisters seem to think I am not the dad I should be they r tring to get the kids taken away from me. Need help looking for "ADAM" a fathers legel support group in jackson co. mi or close
Name: Mack
EMail: mackhd@aol.com
Comment: My ex claimed our child on her taxes when i have custody.
What else can i do beside calling the I.R.S?
Mackhd@aol.com
Name: Chad Regalado Jr.
EMail: chadregaladojr@msn.com
Comment: When I try to become a member under the "Member Services" it will not accept my email address, it states that my email address is invalid, can you please help? Thanks
Name: jason kipp
EMail: chefjlk@wmconnect.com
Comment: My best freind is going through a divource and needs representation in the court room but cannot afford it with his alamoney payments. He has not been able to see his children in over a year. do you know any organizations that may be able to help him.
Name: DAN
EMail: moniatbpd@hotmail.com
Comment: i need to know the time lenght someone can come back and try to collect child support... child is 25 yoa and now ex wife wants child support from back when he was 15 yao for 3 years ... of course she was supposed to have had him adopted by her new husband and i was not allowed to see the child... but now 12 years later i find out from the child he was not adopted and she wants to make me pay the money... she waited from 1985 when i stopped paying... as the adoption was supposed to have taken place till now and iam just wondering if she can come back now...or does the child since he is a adult have to be the one to do this... My son does not want her to do this, but she of course said she was doing it for him... he wont see the money and he knows that.... will i have to end up paying her.... please help me
Name: steve
EMail: yourbodyisawonderlandillneverlet@yahoo.com
Comment: i am in the middle of a divorce, and have a 3 month old son. my wife cheated on me, and still hasnt told me about it, but i have caught her with the guy, more than once. can i use this to some how get custody of my son? or to reduce alimony? i live in michigan. thanks
Name: Joe Guy
EMail: joerguy1@hotmail.com
Comment: I am in Arizona and my ex girlfriend(never married) has sole custody of my daughter.I have been paying all my child support from day one and been falsely accused of beating and molesting my daughter just so her mother can take her away from me, which has caused me to have supervised visitations. She is planning a trip to California without my permission. What can I do to make sure she does not take my daughter,and if she does, what can I do to put her in jail for kidnapping?
Name: Steve Gonzalez
EMail: zues_g@hoymail.com
Comment: Will Ineed to get some info on how I can reduce my child
support
Name: Andre
EMail: andre@allstream.net
Comment: I have not see my 2 kids in over seven years. For the last year their mother has been plasying cat and mouse, or hide and come seek us. I do pay support when I can, for now it has brought me down to the level of I am on government assistance.I have been abjle to follow my kids through the school system. That has been hard but not imposable. they have move schools 5 times in 6 years. Until I can make it the courts(over 250 milels away) I am more happy to receive their school reports, and have still hadve the desire to be apart of their young lives. All it cost is time and money.To stop the garnishing of wages I have two choices,the courts(out of my finacial means) or a joint signed peice of paper from the former and; my self( hard to find her when she is in hidding). What can be done? Grin and baer the abuse, or let them go and continue on with my own life the best I can. Think about guys, invite abuse into your life, or let it go. The choice is yours
Name: Lynn
EMail: lejohnson2003@comcast.net
Comment: I live in California and my child lives in germany, What are the laws pertaining to child support in this matter.
Name: michael metcalf
EMail: SVictoria2003@valornet.com
Comment: figuring out these child support laws in Oklahoma
Name: merlin lee
EMail: jesus4@demco.net
Comment: merlin lee please send any information or help to 519 porters loop greensburgh louisiana zip 70441 please help
Name: merlin lee
EMail: jesus4@demco.net
Comment: need phone numbers for agengencies that could help some one who awaits disabilty case to be approved havent worked since june3of 2003 really needs help wife only one working dont make enough income topay all of the bills and i donthave enough money even to get percriptions filled please tell me what i can do
Name: james maglier
EMail: jpmarine93@aol.com
Comment: need help getting a divorce and protecting my rights as a father
Name: Jeremy
EMail: sammie76us@yahoo.com
Comment: My ex and I (not ever married) have 2 childeren 4 and 6 one girl one boy we have been seprated for around 3 years I just got married in Jan my wife also has two children (not mine) what i need is advice my ex goes through men like water they move in she changes them and she dumps them she is the one with custy of our children i never went to try, but she was married last march, they also have 1 kid she left her husband in april was with another man that moved in with her at her mom and dads in two days she broke up with him in jan and his with another man know the kids get very attached to the men in her life and it hurts them. I have the kids everyweek end and most holidays i moved into the sasme town as them last aug and then my wife and i had them most of the time my ex calls all the time and wants to drop them off we take them of course we love to have them I pay 500 a month to her and dec jan and march my wife and i have had them about 90 % of the time what can i do I live in Minnesota. Could I go for custudy? should I i dont want to rock the boat and loose the tiem i get with them we have no aggrement in place she just lets me have them. My wife spends lots of time with them she says we should not have to pay her the support if we have them all the time we have cloths shoes and everything they need at our house that we buy were is the money going. please help.
Name: Darren White
EMail: DarrenDWHite@aol.com
Comment: I need a good divorce laywer in san antonio texas. There are children involved and I am seeking custady. Any help?
Name: Jarod
EMail: fashyne2000@msn.com
Comment: I need a phone number of a law firm that is not costly.
Name: Kyle Campbell
EMail: deranged1981@yahoo.com
Comment: I need to know if i can get a divorce if my wife is pregnet. We are currently seperated. She lives in ohio and I live in Kentucky. Please i need help fast. Thanks Oh plus i am in the military!!!!!!
Name: kamber
EMail: kamhellu@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been married to my husband for almost 2 yaers and we just recentlygained 50 percent joint custody of his daughter who he has only known as his daughter since she was 4 she is now 6 the @#*&! his ex never told him he was even in te running for fatherhood they were together once and he was protected any way to make a long story short she has 3 children by three men and does not take care of any of them properly (like bathing ECT....)she is on permanant dis. for some trumped up crap (our great doctors)she brings in with all child sapport live in boyfriend and disablity $4203.00 and my husband who has me and our two daughters(my girls)and me a laid off state employee now going to to school and himself to sapport makes $2900.00 gross(before taxes after-900.00)and still pays 88 percent of his daughters care i dont think we should pay no child sapport i just think this is a little bit redicules how can we fix this what do we do HELP WE ARE DROWNING HERE!!!!
Name: Doug
EMail: Herman
Comment: My Wife Has A order of protection against me. I went to court about it and it was held without findings. So we can have contact only about my ten month old son and any bill that affect him. Well saturday at 3-27-04 I contacted her about my son the next day she called the cops and said I was harrassing her on the phone and she feared for her life so now I am looking at looosing all chances of custody or even joint custody of my son What Can I dooo Please Help Me it is tearing me apart
Name: André
EMail: andre@all3stream.net
Comment: Life seems to be full of a catch 22. I discovered no matter what I do to be apart of my childrens life, The out come is I have to be happy with my efforts. The mother of our Children is playing Cat and mouse hide and go seek games . I am not after custody. WHAT I want is for Jenny and Matt to know they have a dad that loves them. The rest will take its own place. The intent of this letter is to give hope to all that have misplased theirs.
Name: Jose R. Vargas
EMail: jbrowncurl@aol.com
Comment: I need information on how to go about trying to see my daughter. I do not know were she is and i want to be abel to have her for the weekend i need to know how to get visitations with her so i can show her that i care
Name: Robert
EMail: rw_bowman@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been getting visitation with my daughter that my ex and I have worked out on our own she has barely stuck to it but we have been making it work mostly because I am a man and am natually persecuted in these matters I am a little scared to push the issue legally my daughter (supposedly) has asthma so I am not supposed to smoke around her I smoke in my house but in a different room with the door closed my x and I got into an argument and she called child services and filed a neglect report
they are now trying to charge me with neglect please advise I live in Illinois
Name: Greg Van Auken
EMail: Wolfman28_1999@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been divorced for over 3 years. I used to work for Winnebago and I was getting a good amount for my work. I was working there when my child support order went into place. So of course at the time I was making a significant amount. Since that time, I have had back surgery and I have moved outside of the state my kids live in. I am currently in a job that doesnt pay close enough to what I was making at Winnebago. So of course I have gotten in arrears and I havent been able to afford to go see my kids in over 2 years. I am also trying to get my amount lowered. But of course I cant afford a lawyer and I have yet to find a "pro bono" Lawyer in Iowa to help me out with that case. I am hoping to find some help here. This is the first "PRO" site for fathers . I am happy to finaly be apart of this.
Name: Ray Felch
EMail: lowlevelkoder@cox.net
Comment: I have been divorced just over 3 years (after an 18 year marriage). Due to my salary being $80k/yr when the court ordered child-support was established, my monthly allotment for two children was $1100.
Within 2 months of the order, I lost my position of employment, and remained unemeployed for more than a year.
Along with making a few other "bad choices", I am now close to $70,000 in arrears, and barely make $900/month working the local Walmart. Facing warrants and pay garnishments, and with little hope of resolving this bad situation that I have allowed to go on for three years, my ex-wife has afforded to help me by dropping all of the arrears.
Please advise me in any way that you can, particularily with regard to what agency and what required forms my wife wiil need. Also, I would appreciate knowing the ramifications of going this route, both for my benefit, as well as hers.
Thank you.
Sincerely,
Ray
Name: Raul Rosario
EMail: Queenof Bataa@aol.com
Comment: I have been divorced for 3 years and my ex-wife and the court systems have been unfair. She took my son to live in PA. and has been stating lies to the courts about me. Just beauce I have been unemployed for the past 5 months she is giving me hell about seeing my son. My older son is now going to be living with me and all I want is to be in my sons life because I have been there since he was born. I love my son and will do anything to have this situation settled. She doesnt realize that the person shes hurting the most is my son and Iwant him to know who I am and how much Daddy loves him!!!!!!!
A shout out to Both my sons Raul Jr. and Jacob Rosario, Daddy Love You Babies!!!!!!!!
Name: Stan Baynard
EMail: formosus_amare@hotmail.com
Comment: I have been seperated from my ex for about four years.For Tax purposes I would like to know if there is a law for legal seperation in the State of Oregon.I would like to have this as soon as possible. Thank you
Name: Theodore Tuon
EMail: tuon@msn.com
Comment: I dont get to see my 4 yr old daughter. Ony time I get to see her is if her mother needs something. I used to pay the childsupport but feel like why should I pay when I dont get to see my daughter. I work for cash full time and as a park time job on weekends 20 hrs for childsupport and health insurace for my daughter. I recently quit the weekend job and now child support is taking everything they even took my daughters money from her savings account half my money from checking and savings the thing is though my duaghter had more money than I did. Since I dont get to see her I opened an account for her for her future even though I dont get to see her but now the childsupport people took it. her mother and I dont get along at all every time we see each other we argue. thats one of the reasons why i dont get to see my daughter that often. I JUST NEED SOME HELP!! VERY FRUSTRATED WITH HER!
Name: terrell
EMail: terrellcole15@yahoo.com
Comment: i need to get a dna test how do i go about it
Name: jimmy
EMail: xxjimmy82xx
Comment: there was a girl i dated and now she has come to me and told me she was pregnant with my child. first of all i need to find out how to have a dna test done to find out if the baby is mine or not. also if it is i would like to get some advice on how to go about getting full custody of the child. she has another child already and has had defax called several times on her. she also left the kid with her parents for like 9 months went on a drug binge. she is not a very good mother and i have a lot of people who will vouch for that also defax records where they were called and alot of other things i think would help me. im in ga if that is important to what i am asking. please write back soon so hopefully if it is my child it can be with me so it will be provided for and taken care of. thanks
Name: Gary
EMail: Gcurtis23@bak.rr.com
Comment: I am resently devorced and my x wife is preparing to move out of state with my daughter. When we go to court i want to fight this with everything there is, but i have little financial ability to do so. I have waisted all my money on a paper typer that gives bad advise. PLEASE HELP ME I love my daughter and i do not know what to do.
Name: jmdesales
EMail: Jmdesales@verizon.net
Comment: procees of divorce wife has not been served yet she took my 2 year old daughter do not know her where abouts has turn off her cell phone no one knows where she is. can i do something to help the law find her, she left me because she wants to be a singer model and goes out drinking and smoking everynight which is why my 2 year old was with me. i live in california, danger she has gone to arizona or mexico. child is citizen so im i, she is now illegal as of 2/11/04
Name: geraldo martinez
EMail: felixthecat32867@msn.com
Comment: Child Support - I am informed that a child for whom I am ordered to pay support is not my child. What may I do?
the child is 15 years old I did a DNA test because someone
in my x-wife family called me and told me the child is not me
Name: eugene godley
EMail: gharlem123@aol.com
Comment: I am paying child support for my twins age 9 mos and I an only see them because of the mother I am married but I want help in putting visitation in place and I cannot afford an attorny my father just passed and she has 4 other children by someone else I want to see then and keep them with out her just coming to take them when I want to have them for a weekend or if I want to keep them with my wife or other family we have been so good to her my mom has been great but the mother is just vendictive and mean I want to spend time with my kids and show then=m how muchI love them they are precious t me and a comfort with my dad passing so please help me I am 25 yrs old and these oare my only kids.
Name: Jeff
EMail: orangewash3@comcast.net
Comment: My wife left me. Please pray for her return
Name: roger
EMail: lizlegs2@msn.com
Comment: How do I get my name added to my sons birth certificate. I have been awarded custody and legal paternity was established. The department of vital records declined application since my name is not on the certificate. What steps do I need to take or what organization/department do I need to contact?
Name: Phil DUchesne
EMail: youngbudda@hotmail.com
Comment: I need help in becoming employable, I am in recovery from alcohol now for 2 yrs.I had over 120 jobs(seriously) My credit stinks because of child support. I want to go back to college and get a degree in graphic arts. I have no money and owe $500 on a stafford loan. I am fustrated,please help
Name: Jeremy
EMail: accordstyling@hotmail.com
Comment: Getting the upper hand in a custidy battle. The mother uses drugs in front of the child and brings differnt men home all the time. She has a no contact order on me and has made it hard to see my daughter. I see my child once a week for 8 hours at a time
Name: Dallas
EMail: boboman59@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a father of four children who live in CA with their mother, and I am now living in Texas. My ex-wife (the mother) is a drug user and is very unstable. Her mother has stepped in & taken the youngest three to care for them herself. She wants temporary gaurdianship to protect them from their mom. How do I do this?
Name: gerald arndt
EMail: countryblue@comcast.net
Comment: I have a son and daughter in south carolina, and their mom will not let them come visit out of state. My Mother never saw her granddaughter, and it shames me. I am wondering how I can get help from Michigan to fight for my rights to visatation/custody. The only way I can see them is if I go to South Carolina, and I cannot afford to do that all the time. My son wants to come up for Spring Break and wants to pay for half of the ticket, but she refuses to let him unless I some there and get visation rights. How can I get help?
Name: david neal
EMail: balboa912@yahoo.com
Comment: i am paying $ 100.oo dolars aweek in back child suport it doesnt give me much to live on have to gou to pl aces to get help on paying rent need to really talk to someone about this noone seems to want to listen,ty very much.
Name: Dale R. Franklin
EMail: rhea1954@msn.com
Comment: I would like to find out if a devorse father living in California, that has shared custody. Does the Mother have the right to take our kids out of state, because she wants to move out of state because of her boyfriend is retiring from work, with out my Ok.
Name: Eric
EMail: enj01@adelphia.net
Comment: My Ex wife is now after 7 years is filing for divorce. I have 2 childern with her, I was paying her child support to her directly and she was so supose to let the Dept of Social Service no that I was giving her Childsuport, she never did instead she was getting both from me and Social Services. I have some canceled checks not all but alot. Now I have to pay all this back support back to the state. What do I do? This is in Maryland.
Name: jason
EMail: jasonbgood@pacbell.net
Comment: hi i have a daugter.she 13 years now.my daugter live in ny.i live in san rafael .i pay chid supp now.the daugter mom cant give me when i can see my daugter.i want to met my daugter.i want to be a part of her life.i love my daugter.i call her all the time .help me thank
Name: Tony Rayford
EMail: daddysbooza@aol.com
Comment: I need to file for custody of our baby so the mother dose not move away and take our baby with her
Name: Timothy Boughner
EMail: tboughner2@cogeco.ca
Comment: Step father, and divorse.
Wife left to move out of province with stepchild, and now wants $$$. Thats all I wish to say for now.
Would like to start a dialogue with someone who has been through this.
And advice they would be willing to give.
Name: robert
EMail: robfbel@hotmail.com
Comment: dcf in ny is trying to make me pay 4 a child thats not mine what can i do?
Name: corey
EMail: COREYD1980@HOTMAIL.COM
Comment: I have two children with my ex girlfriend. She used the last name of her father when the children were born and that is the last name of the kids. She later changed her last name to the name of her mother. Now the kids have her old last name which is their grandfathers. How can I get these two boys to have my last name. I am their father and I think these boys need my last name. As it stands now they have niether their mother or my name. please help thanks.
Corey (Washington state)
Name: tommy
EMail: tjd954@aol.com
Comment: i have two kids one is going to be 12 one is 19.i pay child support but my ex wont let me see them i feel she is turning them against me if i call their house to talk to them someone will hang up.i am meeting all of my obligations but she the ex wont let me see them or talk to them.what can i do?please help me..thank you
Name: Timmy Roussel
EMail: ladinggaling@hotmail.com
Comment: i need advise. im 25 and have a 4 month old child. the mother and i have been together for a year but we just recently broke up. we have had domestic violence problems,the first 4or 5 arguments she hit me ,threw things at meand i did nothing,eventually it got wurse and ive had to restrain her by pushing her down or holding her down. we both were on drugs at the timebut have stoppedusing.she every fight calls cops claiming i beat her so now ocs is envolved with our child.as fights went on later i started getting agressive back towards her,and thats not like me. she cant take her medications because she is breastfeeding. she blames everything on me, i take blame for my faults but she want. i love her ,my daughter and her 5 year old daughter more than anything. i now am not allowed to be around when her daughter is down by her fathers dowing this causes problems because the 5 year old has lived with us in my home for a year and i was taking care of both of them. the mother is going threw counceling for custody of 5 yearold,she feels that im doing nothing to change,i am still waiting for my ocs worker to set up mine. i want to try to work things out so that i can be with my 4 month old and try to be a family again, but ex says shes scared of me ,said that maybe after i get counciling and prove to her im changing maybe we can work things out but she doesnt know.she is now i find out dating someonelse sordof and i dont know what to do we used to have a great relationship and i want it back so we can have our family and raise our children in a loving environment.i dont know what to do because nothing no matter how much i try seems to be good enough.
Name: John
EMail: jdfields@sbcglobal.net
Comment: when i got divorsed my x wife got moore then by law they can take out of my pay and know childern services has locked out my checking account. i am remaired and have 3 kids to care for on top of the 2 from my x. so far i have 4 bounced checks and i have no way to get money to live on un till i get the money to pay off the system for back allimoney i owe. i have allways payed her it comes out of my check each week how can a system that is supost to help kids hert them like this .can my new wife breng leagal proseding agenst the system for not holding her harmless sens she is the primarey on this account and all i am is a secondary on it thanks
Name: robert+
EMail: robfbel@hotmail.com
Comment: dfs in ny is tryin to get money frome me for a son thats not mine
Name: andre
EMail: mmldriggi@aol.com
Comment: help to remove child support liens, and reduce payment
Name: Gbariel Asamoah
EMail: lazybone4u2@yahoo.co.uk
Comment: have now completed my secondary school andwant to start with a small business but am truely sick financially and want someone to help me in the name of the living good.
Name: Donald Amos
EMail: donald_amos@hotmail.com
Comment: My son has a 4 year old son that lives with him.
The problem is ths, He is not divorced and has no legal
seperation papers
Name: Matt
EMail: ACandel433@aol.com
Comment: I am about to be a new father and I really need some help or advice. My baby is about to be due in a few weeks and I was wondering how I would be able to take a week off work while my child is being born? I am not in a union and my supervisor is an ass. Do you have any suggestions? I am not able to get vacation time off at this time.
Name: Allen
EMail: llcoastal@aol.com
Comment: I need help. I was divorced in MS and the case was transfered to FL becuase neither my ex or myself live there any more. I work overseas and pay 2,000 a month to the ex who does not work to support my 2 children. I am ahead almost 10,000 in child support that is direct deposited into her MS account by direction of the MS court. I paid in advance in case I lost my yearly contracted account. I want to know if I can get in trouble if I just stop payments until the overage is caught up? Any suggestions or help would be appericiated.
Name: Mark Watson
EMail: watsonmarks@msn.com
Comment: Im looking to talk to a lawer about the new lawes in 2002 conserning paying child support and not being the real dad. I have been fighting this for years with no luck , It is imposable for me to be the dad as she was 6 months pregnet when we met and has also stated to the calaveras child support and the DA out there and they just say so , we got you why should we look for the father who resides in santa cruz and is only 2 hours from calavares county. Can some one please help me with this issue I really need it. thank you for your time,
Name: wilfredo velez
EMail: freddycat3333@yahoo.com
Comment: I LIKE TWO FIND A GOOD LAWYER OR LAW FIRM WHO CAN HELP WITH MY CASE . MY CHILD WAS WITH OUT LEGAL WRIGTH AND THE COURT IS COVERING THIS AT BY ORDERING ME TOO PLAY CHILD SURPORT
Name: jason
EMail: tattoowolf20@aol.com
Comment: please help i have a physco wife trying to keep my 3 monthold sone away from me and she has a history om abuse mental and physical and substance,i have a spotless record and she wont let me see his and i just need to know what i can do we are still married and i want it to work and im tyring every thing i can please help
Name: Joe
EMail: jrichardsj@hotmail.com
Comment: I am wondering in a non contested devorce can you and your wife agree to a certain amount for child suport? Or is that a state thing? She agreed to a price and I have been told I would be paying more if it went to court. is it possible to just pay what she has agreed to? We have been able to stay friends for the children and are trying to be nice as much as possible
Name: mike
EMail: mhroadkill@hotmail.com
Comment: my ex is in jail and my child is living with my ex in laws what legal rights do i have. i live in missouri and i have filed for custody but dfs is still taking money out of my checks.
Name: kURT kING
EMail: KKALICE2@MSN.COM
Comment: i HAD A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GIRL LAST FALL 2002. sHE HAD OTHER RELATIONSHIPS, BUT SHE LIKED ME. i HAD STOPPED SEEING HER, SHE 18 AND i 19 YEARS OLD. sHE BECAME PREGNANT AND WANTED TO HAVE A BABY. i DID NOT BELEIVE IT WAS MINE. i WENT BACK TO aUSTIN AND STARTED WORKING ON MY ged AND WORKING AT A REATURANT. wHEN MY PARENTS MOVED TO tn LAST aUG, THEY SUGGESTED TO BACK TO vIDOR WHERE THE PREGNANT GIRL LIVED WITH A FOR BOYFRIEND WITH A DRUG HABIT.YHE BABY A BOY WAS BORN 3 WEEKS EARLY AND WAS IN nEONATAL icu FOR 3 DAYS, AND THE BABY WAS BORN THE SAME DAY i ARRIVED IN vIDOR tX TO BE HERE WHEB THE BABY WOUKD BE BORN. i WENT TO THE HOSPITAL TO vISIT THE BABY AND TOOK PICTURES AND THE BOYFRIEND ASK ME TO LEAVE. i WENT BACK TWO MORE TIMES TO SEE THE BABY AFTER THE MOTHER WENT HOME. i SAW THE BABY AGAIN WHEN i PAID $440 FOR A PATERNITY TEST AND THE TEST PROOVED i WAS THE FATHER. i HAVENT SEN THE BABY AGAIN AS THE MOTHER AND HER BOY FRIEND WANTS THE BABY TO THINK HER BOYFRIEND IS THE DADDY, sHE WILL NOT LET HIM SEE THE BABY AT HER MOTHERS, BROTHERS, OR ME kURTS GRANDMOTHERS HOSE 6 MILES AWAY.
tHE lAW eNFORCEMENT VISITED cRYSTAL THE BABYS MOTHER AND CHARGED HER WITH A CITATATION FOR dRUG pARAPHNILLA . CPS was called and they refused entrance. She went back and did a drug test and the boyfriend tested positive. The baby is gaining weight and weighs 15 lbs and is 24 in long. It weighed 5 ,6oz when born. I am helping my grandson to maybe seek the Att Gen and ask for joint custody. My grandson went to work at Waffle House and made a small amount of pay 2.28 and hour and tips which were meager. He is attending a private home school and will graduate in May 2004, and after settling getting his babys ss card in the fathers alst name and the birth certificate in fathers name, and a amount of child support as to what he can make, untill he goes in to Coast Guard later in 2004, he wants joint custody of the baby, and to have the boyfriend of mother not to have access to the abay untill he is drug free. This boyfriend has a criminal record, of some sort, buys and sell drugs and pills. MY GRANDSON kURT kING WANTS THE jUDGE TO LET HIM HAVE JOINT CUSTODY UNTILL cRYSTAL MATURES A LITTLE AND GETS A LITTLE MATURITY. please answr as to is the best way to have a judge take care of the rights of the baby abd the father to have a relationship. My grabdson does not go to that side of town as that drug crowed has kikked in his car windows, and shot them out with a pellet gun.
Please advise, about what teh Texas Att Geberel could to help.
Kurt Kings grandmother, Kurt lives with me for the present.
Virginia Dorman
Name: Craig
EMail: looseslug@msn.com
Comment: I have a 2 year old daughter, who lives with her mother 10 minutes away from me, we are separated and about to go to court to finalise/agree a few details. One of these is a real sticking point and I need some advice. We all live in Spain but I am British. I want to take my daughter to visit her family in the UK but her mother won´t allow her to be away from her because she feels that our daughter is at a very emotionally sensitive juncture of her life and the fact that I dont live with her will have a detrimental effect on her if she was to stay for me for longer than a few days without her mothers presence. At the moment I see my daughter twice a week and she stays with me every other weekend.
Do you think that this is a valid excuse for not allowing me to spend any time alone with my daughter for more than a day or 2. I think not. Are their any child psycologists out there who can give me some advice before all this gets to court ? Please help me I would really appreciate the advice, thank you.
Name: Arran Davenport
EMail: arrandavenport
Comment: well everything is crazy , i dont understand ,y and how my x wife can be a stripper and admit doing drugs and still get my son, i dont make all the $$$ i need to get help , i love my son he is the world to me , but i dont make $50,000 a year ,and all the lies she tells makes it hard to focus on work and helping Arrian my son with what he needs ,i need something to hold on to and see and know that i am doing to the right thing ,he needs me and i can seem to help , him ,i need to wake up but its the same every day a nightmare ...
Name: Shane Seil
EMail: seil1998@yahoo.com
Comment: I need help getting my son
Name: lrAEL
EMail: lupe.rael@teamsp.com
Comment: I have a grandchild that has lived with me and my wife since she was born (11 1/2 years). The father my son visits and help with his daughter, but the mother has not provided nothing in 11 years that she has lived with me and my wife. Now she came up out of no where telling us that she is going to claim her in IRS Income Tax because she needs money, I said No and now she is saying that she is getting a lawyer and going to take her away from us. All this is just for the money so that her and her live in boyfriend can build a house. Can you advise as to what I should do.
Thank You
Name: James
EMail: jperk10@yahoo.com
Comment: Are there any laws about exwifes harrassing their exhusbands. I have moved on since our divorce. We both have joint custody of our daughter. She lives with her Mom
half the month and with me half the month. She is either harrassing me about something or harrassing me by contacting my office to check up on me. Are there any laws or case laws in that regard that would help me get her off my back????
Name: Jerry Comparin
EMail: jcomparin@lycos.com
Comment: HOW TO REGAIN CUSTODY OF MY TWO CHILDREN FROM A MOTHER WHO ABUSES THEM PHYSICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY. THE CHILD PROTECTIVE AGENCY EVEN STATES THAT THESE CHILDREN ARE IN BAD SHAPE AT THE HANDS OF THE MOTHER. I ONLY GET THE RUN ARUOND FROM FIA AND THE COURT.I ALSO HAVE BEEN TAKEN TO COURT SO MANY TIMES I CAN NO LONGER AFFORD AN ATTORNEY. WHAT THE HELL DO I DO KNOW? WHAT ABOUT MY KIDS? I NEED HELP!MY KIDS NEED HELP EVEN MORE.
Name: Greg Capel
EMail: gcapel@comcast.net
Comment: I have a dwi in nj on feb 1987. it is register with the national divers registry.For the past 17 yrs I have had a valid driver license from nc. I recently moved to indiana and the dmv here said I need a clearance letter from nj to get a indiana driver license. NJ wants over 10.000 dollors for the 1987 dwi with the surcharges.I do not have that kind of money.I am trying to find someone that went through something like this or have info to help me. THANKS!
Name: Marlin Beasley
EMail: fishsword@hotmail.com
Comment: Will you or someone contact me on how to receave a list or booklt contaninig the laws for the state of CA or child support thanks
Name: mark
EMail: maria1013@msn.com
Comment: i am a father who does not live with my baby mom or my daughter. what are my rights to her if i pay child support?also what are my visitation rights to her? if i dont pay and go to jail will that take care of my child support?
Name: Jay Bose
EMail: Bosejam@yahoo.com
Comment: Here is the ordeal. I have been married 11 years in Maryland. I have a son 7 and daughter 3. I work nights so I have always been home for my kids since they were babies, during the day while she worked. Now that its not working out we are going our separate ways. But iam not leaveing my kids. We are going to have joint custody. We have a 300k plus house that I want sold and she wants to stay in and wants me to play half of everything and still try to live somewhere else. And she feels if she has to leave her home that she will move away and I will be to far to be their for my kids. We both make about the same about 50k. Because she works from home the kids make to much noise when their out of school. So I want to still pick my kids up from school everyday like I do now, and we do our homework and any after school activity like football, basketball, and dance class. then i bring them home around 7:30 monday to thursday and every other friday which will be the one where i have them on the weekend. And when the kids get sick they will be with me during the day while she works and during the summer if they are not at play camp. All I really need her to do is watch them at night. And by me doing all of this why should I have to pay any type of child surport for the amount of time I will spend with my kids adn buy them what they need. And from all the time spent with my kids, I should be known as the primary care taker. So how does child support view thing as to how much you should have to pay in Maryland and would I have to pay any spousal support. Can someone explaine this to me. Thanks for any assistance... Jay
Name: Toby Tranchina
EMail: munchindigits@netzero.com
Comment: i really need help on custady regarding my daughter, Chloe. i cant afford a lawyer on my own and pay about $550 a month in support for my 2 kids. what can i do in florida?
Name: Don Coonce
EMail: donbudz@tampabay.rr.com
Comment: Hi,
Me and my fiance live in Florida, and have been together for
10 years. We have a 8yr old daughter, and now have a month old son. My fiance is the bread winner of the house. I am legally blind and get disability. We live together in a
house that were buying. My fiance works while I stay home.
To get to the point. My mother in law seems to think
i cant take care of the kids should something happen to
mommy. So behind my back mom in law is trying to get
my fiance to leave full guardianship to her should something
happen to my fiance. Mom in law seems to think they dont
need my consent to do so. Is this possible? Can they
do this? Dont i have just as much say in who guardianship
goes to when something happens to the parent(s)? Even
though were not married?
signed: fathers guardian rights outside marriage
Name: chris rose
EMail: devil1221660@hotmail.com
Comment: first i am a full time father 2 kids live with me naw i also have a newborn i live in il i get 583 a month to take care of my and kids needs she gets 1100 a month how much suport is required by law second is it to much to want my child with me the 40 hours a week she works please help me im heartbroke over this
Name: Donyelle
EMail: Donyelle75@hotmail.com
Comment: Hello, I am currently trying to help a friend of mine who has been contemplating divorce, however his wife keeps threatening to take the kids to Montana, which is where her family resides. They are currently living in North Carolina. He would love to have full custody of his children, however joint custody is always an option too. I guess my question is are there any laws that state that the parents of minor children have to reside in the same state, and if not; what would be the best option for him to take. Im not sure if this is relevant, but both parents are working, however her job will be laying off soon. The children are very young, ages 2 and 4. He loves them dearly, and they are the only reason he is still in the home. Please Help!!! Thank you!!!
Name: ras b
EMail: rastadread22@yahoo.com
Comment: because of a string of bad personal problems i have fallen behind on my child sapport plus she is impossible to talk to over the phone,because she lives in another state that is our only way to talk. plus the issue of finding legel help sense i dont have any money to pay child sapport let alone a lawyer.
Name: Bernard Pettigrew
EMail: knisha.hurt@ncr.com
Comment: I am currently trying to help a father that has been totally ruined by child support. He has fathered 4 KIDS is more than willing to take responsibility of taking care of the children. However the mother has went and filed child support and for some reason there is no record of his paying child support for the other children as well and now he cant even support hiself. He is about to be homeless and does not know what to do! He really needs help and in finding out information on child support and legal matters for low income fathers. PLEASE HELP!!!
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Name: mike sletten
EMail: ankalosing1@yahoo.com
Comment: How would I reduce ammount owed by removing late fees from 1995-present?
Dealing with Minnesota -Rice county Faribault.
Have not seen children since 1995!!!
Could/may I see them,they are 17,18,and 24 now(as far as I can remember)
Name: mario abukhader
EMail: marabukhader@msn.com
Comment: My ex-wife and her attorney have taken advantage of me by my own stupidity of not being able to afford an attorney at the time of divorce since then did hire an attorney and we have gone to mediation,dispute assessments,and court.I have paid atleast $20,000.00 in attorney fees.She does not work but has a wealthy family and is dateing a doctor and they are out for blood. I like my attorney however I dont think he is aggressive enough.Now we are headed back to court and i have exhausted all means financially i have been giving my attorney 400.00 every two weeks however he doesnt think it is enough i feel stranded and lost and the mother will not stop at nothing this was a threat and a promise by the boyfriend i need serious help 602-690-8113.
Name: jeremy
EMail: sxybastard1974@yahoo.com
Comment: I want a lie detector test done on my soon to be ex- she has agreed to take one, however I do not know how to go about getting one done. Any ideas for the state of calif
Name: robley
EMail: mad-max-mc@yahoo.com
Comment: has any one ever heard of create new law for child support?
Name: jeremy
EMail: sxybastard1974@yahoo.com
Comment: Me and my wife are seperated. I tried to serve her but due to the fact that she is active duty in belgium, I am unable to because of the hague convention. Can anyone help me. I need to know if it is possible to serve her or how I might be able to serve her while she is over there. I am unable to see my children until she gets served.
Name: Ken
EMail: kja328@yahoo.com
Comment: I am looking for advice on how to get full custody for my son. I do know it will take money and time, but if there is anything i could use to help this cause, i would like to hear any and allsuggestions.
Name: ROBERT PHIPPS
EMail: BILL SCHOLL@AOL.COM
Comment: I AM JUST TRYING TO GET SOME INFORMATION ON WHAT MY RIGHTS ARE AS A NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT AND TRY TO FIND OUT HOW TO BEST GO ABOUT BECOMING THE CUSTODIAL PARENT.PLEASE HELP ME.
Name: arena
EMail: arenaak@dshs.wa.gov
Comment: I would like to know what my rights are if my wife has left the household and wants a divorce and wants to take the children(2) periodically into her new place. we are not legally seperated or divorced and i have justified and documentated fears of her doing so...plus, my children prefer to be in their residential home.
Name: patrick m reynolds
EMail: husker_pat@msn.com
Comment: I was informed by email my x girl friend has 3 stage collun cancer we have a 5 year old child she refuses to give me her street address only email and told me that her mother will raise kayla on her death...what is my legal standing in this and can i get custody before she dies.she is no longer employed and bed ridden.her mother has a illness to.She lives in texas.I now reside in maryland.Do you have any idea what my rights are .My child has my last name .thank you
Patrick m. reynolds
Name: JOSH
EMail: JOSHUAHOURSCHT@MSN.COM
Comment: I have been in court every year for the last 8 years, trying to enforce visitation. The court has punished my sons mother but she continues to violate these court orders. I just want to see my son. I have purchased airline tickets to fly to iowa (apx$1200)each visit, just to return from cedar rapids empty handed. I am current with child support and telephone my son almost every Sunday. I am honest, trustworthy and do not let anyone speak negative about my sons mother. I am now up against the boyfriend Randall Brunson (Wholesale Feeds INC.)who neglegently complicates this situation. How do I know if my son is being brainwashed?
How do I get Brunson off my back? What comments should I suggest during my next court hearing?
Name: josh
EMail: jpmp1000@hotmail.com
Comment: my wife and i of 2 years are now having problems,she says she is not in love with me and wants to explore a relationship with a co worker of mine.we have a beautiful 2 yr old doughter and we both love her very much,she said that i should move out for a while(couple of weeks or months)so she can sort out her feelings.as of now we are in the same house and she is calling this guy while i am right here listening,she asks for privacy so she can talk and i know that they want to have sex.this fact is absolutly killing me i love her so much but she is being recklass with my heart.she says that she still likes me and has no problems with me,we agreed to share equil custody of our child.fact is i cant bear to loose hershe means the world to me and i have a problem with letting her go screw this guy..what am i supposed to do here???
Name: John
EMail: jmsms1@netzero.com
Comment: Two children one support one is not.
Name: paul amrtinez
EMail: tx_dreamer63@yahoo.com
Comment: My name is Paul and i was recently left by his wife after 19 years of marriage. we have three kids and they all live with me. she has not help in any way of financial support. I am currently a full time student at the communtiy college and she was working to support us while i attended.
Name: Tom
EMail: mcgriff@frontiernet.net
Comment: the gal how has my 13 year old has not let me see her and wants more money from me I am married with 2 kids . mother one is working part time and told are attorny that she was working full time when in realite she is working part time and will be doubleing her income because she will get almost 400 dollars a moth some tell us how to get this lower so my wife & kids can live with outwith put feeling treated by this .we have no rights to her and her sister by her mom have made very hard for us to have any thing to do with her . PLEASE HELP ME Tom
Name: Lewis Page
EMail: butch@kanab.net
Comment: I am paying to much child support. I do not have enough money to live on after my support is deducted from my payckeck. Also the mother will not let me have any contact with my two children. It has been almost ten years since I have seen them. She has also made false accusations about me to the courts.
Name: Joe
EMail: iris76slb@hotmail.com
Comment: I am in a situation which has been affecting me for around 5 years. My wife left me one day while I was at work and took our 1 year old son. We were living in Alabama at the time just across from Mississippi (which her & family were from). She returned home to her family in Mississippi. Things got so diffcult for me to deal with and she wouldnt let me see my son that I moved to Ohio where my family was so I had some support. She filed for divorce and pretty much twisted things around to where I wasnt a very fit person. Anyhow, she has since remarried for the 3rd time. She had 2 previous boys from a husband before me. I dont know whether or not she has had any children from this last marriage, nor do I care. My main concern is that I am paying child support out of my check every week and I dont see my son. I dont even know where hes at. The child support agency wont give me a address or anything even thought I pay my support. It was stated in the divorce papers that I had SUPERVISED visitations and that if either of us should move...the mover should contact within 5 days to let the other know. Last time I tried to get ahold of my son via the phone...the number was disconnected. Her family always had a dislike of me and they will do anything for me not to see him. He is 6 years old now and I havent seen him since he was a baby. The child support place tells me to get a lawyer but for me that is financailly impossible. Can anyone please help? What rights do I have? I am paying my child support!
Name: Rene lopez
EMail: Diablorl@aol.com
Comment: I need advice on parental right termination. My ex fiance doesnt wnat me to be in the childs life and she is married and says her husband is to adopt the child but they dont want to do this thru court. I cant find a lawyer to help me because we live in seperate states.
Name: David
EMail: www.novagato @msn .com
Comment: my glood has ben shid 3 times murder by police 9 8 02 and11 2 o2 in am 60 a cop all my life and in not getting
help mpd i koow someone is going to get hert.my one son
I dont konw my x wife never had to sak twoes she me dead.
Name: James Dubois
EMail: vannessa_01@hotmail.com
Comment: hi i was wondering if you had any ideas on a situation there is a child that dose not belong to me, and i have to pay health insurance on this child that dose not belong to me and the judge knows that its not my child but i still have to pay for this child that dose not belong to me maybe you can give me some info on what in the world to do
and i have another child i make 400 dollers a week i have a child and my wife and my brother to take care of and i pay 90 dollers a week out of my check and i cant do nothing about it i comes straight out of my check please give me some info or any help would be good God bless and thank you
Name: Anita
EMail: ambundy@hotmail.com
Comment: I am the Step-Mother! I am married to a wonderfulman, who
has a beautiful little 6 (almost 7) year old girl with a former girlfriend. We have been together 4 years. for the first 3 years we lived almost 10 miles away so when she got a splinter or needed clothes, food, asthma treatment or medication groceries, we would run right over and give it to her. We would have the daughter EVERY weekend, pick her up Most of the time on Thursday afternoon and drop her off
at daycare Monday morning for her mother to get her that night.The daughter had even stayed with us 3 weeks straight because the mother was stressed out! The mother has 3 other children from 2 other men. My husband is the ONLY father that has anything to do with his child. A year and a half ago we moved from FL to PA. which has been very difficult on all of us. Thank goodness for cell phones with no long distance! The mother since has filed for Child Support
even though we were sending her money! I now know that was stupid! So we are paying child support, we also go down to FL and pick up the daughter for the summer and pay for her to be in Daycamp during the summer. BACKGROUND- Mother is getting food stamps, daycare assistance, medicare, housing assistance. And she is living in my father in laws rental house for practically nothing for a 4 bedroom house!
FIRST- My husband works construction so he is unable to stay on hold for long periods of time with child support in FL. It took me calling them 4 times for them to send out a new child support letter to his new company, She filed for Child support 2 days after we told her we were getting married, she does not get and is not trying to get child support from any of the other fathers, she calls at least
once a month asking for us to send her money directly which we do not do, I have went online and payed as much as we can
towards the back support to help her out However It kills me to see the money we send down for his daughter to be spread out between all her kids and her boyfriend of the week. Then she comes back and askes for more money!!!
We send her down gift certificates to his Mother and she takes the daughter shopping for clothes and shoes. QUESTION-
How can we go about not paying support for the months she spends up here in PA with us, (While her mom is still collecting foodstamps for her)and also how can I get my part of a joint tax return since my husband does have some back support?
Name: charles
EMail: jlfreu@aol.com
Comment: my common law wife ran off to canada 7 years ago while i was at work in dec.of 96 i have not seen my son since,he is 17 now she has married her step father and i just gave up but i miss him very much he is my only child can you please help
Name: Kevin
EMail: wolfcrykd@comcast.net
Comment: My 4 year old girl is constantly testing me and will not do anything I tell her. If I say dont touch something, she will do the complete oppisite of what I say.If I put her in timeout and say dont move,be still, she moves just to spite me ,ever so slightly.
I dont know if there is a learning disablity going on . or she has ADHD.- She goes from angel to cant stand to keep yelling at her in about 2 min. Mom & Dad are stressed with thier relationship
Name: bryan hoopengarner
EMail: meccasdad@aol.com
Comment: im in school for humanservices my x wife has had me up for childsupport and we have already agreed to dismiss it until i was working agin i owe x amount of dollars in 2 weeks and cant pay i just started a job help
Name: steve
EMail: slowe17917@aol.com
Comment: my wife and i are in the process of adopting.we have since seperated and i no longer want to proceed with the adoption.can i sign off all legal rights to the child,so i would not be responsible if she still proceeds with the adoption
Name: steve
EMail: jeffcomale@aol.com
Comment: ANYONE KNOW WHERE I MIGHT FINNACIAL ASSISTANCE WITH CHID SUPPORT??THANKS
Name: Jim
EMail: jpkellyburbank@hotmail.com
Comment: I just learned that my only son (15 1/2 years old) is secretly involved with homosexuality. I am devastated. Does anyone know of a support group in the Los Angeles area for someone like me who believes that homosexuality is learned, not genetic?
Name: Keith Avery
EMail: wildc16@aol.com
Comment: I couldreally use your help right now. Well im 17 and my fiance isfixing to have a baby. Both of our talking about making us have an abortion, they cant makeus do thtcan they? My fiance is also 17. Two mor Quetions i have for you are one- since she is pregnant and were still 17 ca we both get married at 17 legaly without parents consent? Two- we live with my parents and i was wondering what was th legal age we could move out at? I kn ow 17 is an ealy age to have a baby but im actually looking forward to it. If you could reply A.S.A.P that would be greatly appreciated it. Thanks for yourtime and your support.
Sincerly,
Keith Avery Jr.
Name: tim
EMail: tim5566@aol.com
Comment: i really need too talk too someone who can talk and maybe bring my mind at ease and find a way too help find out if a sweet young girl is my daughter or not im if you like or just email i need someone too talk too.
thank you tim..
Name: james
EMail: james_nett@yahoo.com
Comment: I need advice! I have three daughters the youngest two live with me and my wife the oldest 13yrs is from a past relationship. from her birth i basically had to fight tooth and nail to get rights to see her. i always have had a close relationship with my kids (they are my life) MY oldest mainy times talked about wanting to spend more time but her mother wont allow it. this past spring she wanted to have friends over for sleepover but timing was bad due to an illness in family since than she has turned her back on me. she no longer wants to come for visitation and has said to me via email that if i love her i will sign off my rights. My kids are my lifeline and this is slowly driving my crazy i cant bare the fact that i am losing my little girl and she wants me out of her world. I love her and dont want to sign off rights even if i dont see her she is still my daughter. please help!
Name: George Muchaud
EMail: musicmarketer@worldnet.att.net
Comment: A separation is inevitable and joint custody is the question from DAD. What can or should I do to accomplish this for our 2 yr. old son. As of now , the female is not cooperative or will even talk on the phone. Can not afford all the legal fees.
Thank you,
george m.
Name: Daniell Adams
EMail: adam8440@bellsouth.net
Comment: My mom and dad broke up 5 years ago and i am living with my step mom and my dad. im12 now and i really miss my mom i dontknow what to tell my dad that i want to see her again please help.
Name: Neil Butler
EMail: nbutler27@hotmail.com
Comment: Hi there. I am looking to talk to someone whos partner, wife, girlfriend...whatever, has been pregnant and has a history of depression. My girlfriend is pregnant for the first time and has a history of depression, it is kind of a tough time for her right now, and for me too, she is in the first trimester and struggling with her depression.
Thanks
Name: donald m
EMail: colowolfelk87415@yahoo.com
Comment: how can i get my drivers licence back every time i get a job and start to pay on child support the take my licence. the money is there in the system but held back for months at a time. this makes me look bad to employers. i lost my latest job do to this this is the second time in a year
Name: Frank Story
EMail: thefactor@pennswoods.net
Comment: How can I give up my parental rights in the state of pennsylvania?
Name: casey mcdaniel
EMail: KJAKEELER@AOL.COM
Comment: not married living in separate quarters at mother home with girl frienD and 7mos old twin boys. girlfriend has been getting cal worKs $700 PER MONTH MAILED TO HER FATHERS HOUSE, I DID NOT KNOW UNTILL YESTERDAY SHE WAS GETTING PUBLIC AID. WE HAVE LIVED IN THIS ARRANGEMENT FOR OVER A YEAR. SHE FILLS OUT FORMS AND SAYS SHE AND THE BABIES ARE HOMELESS. THEY ARE NOT. SHE GOES TO SCHOOL NOW AND IS WORKING. i STAY HOME AND HAVE BEEN DOING ALL THE CHILD CRE(BECAUSE IF FEEL CHILDREN DO NOT BELONG IN DAY CARE) HAS APPLID FOR SECTION 8, I HAVE NO INTENTIONS OF PAYING FOR ALL THIS AID SHE HAS BEN HORDING. SHE NOW SAYS SHE IS GOING TO MOVE AND TAKE MY BOYS WITH HER, MY BOYS HAVE A HOME HERE , THEY HAVE THEIR OWN ROOM AND RUN OF THE WHOLE HOUSE. I FEEL I SHOULD NOT BE PENALIZED AND MADE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT OR ANY OTHER SUPPORT BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO MOVE. WHAT ARE MY LEGAL RIGHTS AS FAR AS CUSTODY, I NEED HELP REALLY BAD. i LOVE MY CHILDREN AND HVE BEEN HERE EVER MOMENT WITH THEM. HELP DESPERATE!!!!!
Name: Wayne
EMail: tamiamcp@yahoo.com
Comment: Can i a father who has not known about my child until they were 7. Mother refused me notification of this child being mine or not. After finding out this childwas mine I paid support no questions asked until, I aked to see the child. She said no so I asked to sign over my parental rights. Which I did over year ago. Now seeing the mother hd another failed marriage and went on welfare she is, through domestic relations is asking for child support again. Even hough 6 year ago she signed off all child support. I live in PA. Can anyone help me?? I am schduled for court in the begnning of Nov. I have a lawyer but any help from you is greatly appreated...
Name: Wayne
EMail: tamiamp@yahoo.com
Comment: Need to add a mistake in my request I did not know about this child until 1997 and they were 7 yrs old. Now signed off rights one month later and now child is 13 and mom wants support again, 6yrs later..
Name: Steven
EMail: steven_duggan2003@yahoo.co.uk
Comment: Sorry thats my NEW address
Name: Steven
EMail: steven_duggan2003@.co.uk
Comment: Hey there !! iam 16 and studying music at college in scotland ! I would like to have a step from the USA , he must me well bilt and with green eyes around 30-35 and be cooool!!!!i HATE my so called father hes a p*** and is bad to me .so i need some one who is will too have me ! if you want to see me i have a web site www.geocities.com/steven_duggan2003
Well Hope to here from a Some one! iam not joking Now
please E-mail me at anytime
Thanks Very much !
Name: Martin Phillips
EMail: martintphillips@earthlink.net
Comment: I have a 3 1/2 year old boy, we are now expectig twins. They are due in April next year. I am parcialy sighted and just finishinf up a three year term in the USA before returning to England at the end of October.
Anyone else in my position? What is having twins like?
Name: Brent
EMail: Bsingh6381@aol.com
Comment: Hey... I dont know if u guys can help, but if u can it would mean the world to me....
This is in reguards to my 2yr old daughter. She has lived wiht me for about 90% of her life, my wife and I have been separated (not legally) for about a yr... Now she is trying to file for primary costodian. Little info on wife..just about 3mo ago she met a guy on the internet and is pregnant with his child. I have reasons to believe that while my daughter is at their house she is being abused, in one way or another. However her mother is denying it now. In a world where mothers seem to have the upper hand where do I start... I must win.
Name: Brent
EMail: Bsingh6381@aol.com
Comment: Hey... I dont know if u guys can help, but if u can it would mean the world to me....
Name: Brent
EMail: Bsingh6381@aol.com
Comment: Hey... I dont know if u guys can help, but if u can it would mean the world to me....
Name: Rich
EMail: mccainsnuggles@aol.com
Comment: I lived in iowa and had vist with my son i am know liveing in or,amd paying child support I am nolonger getting vist because i am to far away but the vist still stand if i was there.how can i go about getting my son in the summer?She does not went him out here at all she siad she would byt me thow hell so it would not happen.please let me know what you would do or what can be done
Name: kellie trayer
EMail: KELLIETRAYER@YAHOO.COM
Comment: MY FRIEND IS GOING THOUGH A DIVORCE AND HIS EX IS A DRUG ADDICT AND IS NOW FACING JAIL TIME, SHE AND THERE SON ARE IN FL AND HE IS IN THE MARINES, SHE IS NOW REFUSING TO EVEN MEET HIM HALF WAY TO LET HIM SEE THEIR SON AND CALLS ALL THE TIME ASKING FOR MORE MONEY, WHEN HE TELLS HER THAT SHE IS ALREADY GETTING MORE THAN A COURT WOULD GIVE SHE USES THEIR SON AGIANST HIM. WHAT CAN HE DO TO STOP ALL OF THIS...AND GET HIS SON?
Name: Darin
EMail: Darin_Hueston@timeinc.com
Comment: I am recently devorce and i was told I have 60 days to go to a parenting class. I can not seem to find one where I live if you can direct me in the right place. I live in Bloomfield NJ
Thank You
Darin
Name: Tim
EMail: TMacDad73@aol.com
Comment: I live in PA. The courts are bias against fathers. I have been fighting for my daughter for the 8yrs of her life. The mother lies to the court and to my child. I believe my child is being abused. The mother has lied to domestic relations to gain more money from me. I am broke and can not afford an attorney. i have a 3or 4 day hearing coming up in 4 days!!
Name: ROBERT RICONDA
EMail: ONLY1GIA2@AOL.COM
Comment: I AM CURRENTY GOING THRU A DIVORCE AND I PAY 500.00 A WEEK IN CHILD SUPPORT FOR 3 KIDS, WHICH ISNT A PROBLEM IF IT WENT TO THE CHILDRENS NEEDS, I NEED TO KNOW WHAT EXACTLY IS CHILD SUPPORT ENTAIL, A DESCRIPTION FOR MY WIFE WHAT IT SHOULD BE USED FOR INSTEAD OF A NEW CAR
Name: carly
EMail: toyoungtoprowl2003@hotmail.com
Comment: i am about to be a teenager and my father wont talk to me or anything all he does for is my sister and my stp family witch arnt even his!!!! my dad treats mt stp family better than his OWN children!!!!!!!! SOME ONE HELP I WANT MY DAD TO COME TO MY BIRTHDAY BUT HE WONT TALK TO ME!!!!! I MISS HIM!!!! ~Daddys hands wernt alaways gental but there is ALAWAYS love in daddys hands!~ make that come true okay ~Carly
Name: Carly T.
EMail: toyoungtoprowl2003@hotmail.com
Comment: I would like all u fathers to help me..if u would my dad wont talk to me and i want to know if i did something wrong beacouse i dont know what it is unless it is that i dont wanna live with him i wanna stay with my mom......see when i waz 3 my dad almost killed me and i told him to fuck off basically and then like 2 years ago he tried again and then this year he has not talked to me and he is really hurting me.....i have another favor if u know where i can get the CD Daddys Hands would u please tell me.....e mail me beacouse i may not be able to come back! ~ The daughter of her father who is a jerk!~ ~*~Carly~*~
Name: Paul Johnson
EMail: none
Comment: I am a divorced father of two by my first wife. she lives two countys away and has leagal custody of both children, but the oldest child has been living with me and my parents for the last three years. I pay child support on both children and insurance in the amount of $215.00 per wk. leaving me only $85.00 wkly take home pay. I have gone to court 10 times in the last two years hoping to get the support stoped. I cannot afford an attorney and know very little about our legal system can anyone help me.
Name: Russell
EMail: Rusty1NY@aol.com
Comment: I live in NYC and have been divorced for about 10yr I am currectly paying child support and have been seeing my kids 5 out of 7 days a week for the past 8yr or more now my ex moved to New Jeresy with her boyfriend to be closer to his kids who just moved there She work in the city and was bring the kids in every weekend before she went to work and pick them up on Sunday after work For me to go and pick up the kids would mean a 5hr round trip I would love to take her into to court for my visition The kids claim when they area with me that they want to live in NYC but area not ready to go to court or too afraid to tell there mother were they want to live
Name: waldo
EMail: whereswaldo55555@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been looking everywhere for info. My girlfriend got pregnant and we decided that we wanted the child. we started to live together but 7 months preg. she decided to leave me. The baby is not born yet it is due Dec. 3, 2003. when she left she told me that she was not going to let me see my child. PLEASE! somebody help me. someone please tell me what my rights are as father.What can I do? I want to see my baby when it is born.PLEASE GIVE ME SOME INFO.
THANKS!
Name: jeffrie tripp
EMail: jtripp@nmu.edu
Comment: My wife and i just had a baby she is two weeks old and my wife decided to leave me and take the child and now she wont let me see her and i dont know what to do i have a place to live and a job and i go to school while she has none of the above so in my personal opinion i think the child would be better off with me but she will not bring her to see me because she thinks i wont give her back but i will i just want to spend the night with her and have her when im not at school or work which is in reality one day a week that i am free.
Name: George Blackburn
EMail: blackburn54@msn.com
Comment: Does anyone have experience with an ex and kids living abroad? I lived in Norway for six years. I inadvertently signed custody to my ex. I did sue and got joint custody. Part of the agreement was that I would not bring them to the states for four years. That time is now up. She seems to be fighting it though legally, my lawyer doesnt think she has a leg to stand on. Just wondered if any one has had or knows someone with experiences of this sort. Thanks
Name: Justin
EMail: n0name1961@aol.com
Comment: i am in the middle of a divorce and my name is on my childs birth cert. she was born before we were married, well she may or may not be mine which doesnt matter to me I love her and want to support her and have visitation. What rights do i have. My soon to be ex watns to divorce without children and change the babies name to her maiden name. Do I have any rights.
Name: John Thomas
EMail: prxman@yahoo.com
Comment: what are the legal limits of a restraing order in New Jersey
Name: larry
EMail: lawcmducks@yahoo.com
Comment: i am a disabled man and my oldest childs mother has removed are child from my home years ago and then hide the child and her wherabouts from me for 15 years. i have made thousends of complaints to the courts and srs and even the police about the kidnapping of my child. in the first 10 years i have found her 3 or 4 times in and out of the state of ks but before i can get any help in getting her in court she runs and hides again. then i am told that whith no address on her i cant do anything about it. i have made reports to the police and have been told that sence she is the mother she has the right to take the kild and hide. but the police the told me on every occasion that if i find the child and remove her from her mother thats kidnapping and theyll arrest me even thou no court papers for custidy has ever been filed or drawed. on office or agencey has ever told me of this locator service and has always refused to tell me where my child is or claim stupidity in the matter. i can prove that all the lies and failure to cooperate by the courts and other offices such as srs was basid on lies that have recently been discovered that she was saying and her moms freind whith the police and court personal has influanced 15 years of hardship for myself and my child. can you help me
Name: Aaron Jenkins
EMail: aw52936@hiwaay.neta
Comment: I have been paying child support and I have not been allowed to see my kids for almost 3 years. I am being told that it is because of my past. I have paid my debt to society and have been jumping through every hoop asked and I am still not being allowed to see them. She has made as many mistakes as I have but she is held to a different standard. Can someone help me Please.
Name: Pen
EMail: Deadbeatdad_in_Lbc@yahoo.com
Comment: i am finacially in a bind and not very educated.. i owe 1200.00 is childsupport but only make 1010 a month and my bills before food comes to 970... that includes rent, gas for truck(required for job),truck insurance (required for job , and phone(required for job),electric..we have discussed me giving up my parentel rights to0 her and letting her new husband adopt my child..i dont wnat to but i dont want to go to jail,and if they suspend my drivers liscence i cant work my job and will be in worst shape than i am in now..she doesnt want the money i owe in rears .. every lawyer wants a 1500 retainer and a 269 filing fee..i was wondering where i get ther forms and can i file myself..i dont see anyway out casue soon they will garnish my wages at 75 a month then i wont be able to live . PLEASE ANYONE CAN YOU HELP
Name: Manni
EMail: aztec186@yahoo.com
Comment: How can I get joint custody and half placement without paying the mom any thing?
Name: james jackson
EMail: corinneacv@yahoo.com
Comment: I owe$ 21,000 in child support in germany,and now pay over $300 a mo. for 1 child. Is it any way to get the back support down?
Name: Rodney Hamilton
EMail: rhamilton@provide.net
Comment: What is the legal percentage of child support that can be ordered by the court system in Michigan?
Name: brian mobley
EMail: brian_mobley2005@yahoo.com
Comment: My girlfriend and i had a son together and then broke up.
She put a 2 year order of protection against me. I would like to see my son sooner.
Name: Bert Medeiros
EMail: medeiros@26shaw.ca
Comment: Can my ex with hold communication with my children without a court order. I am in the process of getting one but first I have to come up with the $700 for a retainer.
Name: Bert
EMail: medeiros26@shaw.ca
Comment: I am having trouble keeping up with my child support and paying legal fees. I am not allowed to speak to my children or see them if i do not pay. They live in another province from me and I only see them twice a year. I am just starting the legal proceedings and am having trouble coming up with the $700.00 for a retainer.
Name: Iain Webster
EMail: iain_webster_glass@hotmail.com
Comment: I have a six year old son who I see for part of a day once a month.I am not on the birth certificate. The mother is married and has begun to ask for money for his upkeep. I would really like to help but feel I am being duped. I would really like to go legal and get real access time with my son. His mother is paranoid about me taking him from her, I have no reason to do so as I am in a happy relationship and we are considering having a child.
Name: DERRICK BANKS
EMail: BIGBANKS@BELLSOUTH.NET
Comment: I NEED A CUSTODY LAWYER IN MEMPHIS TN.
Name: quenten jasper
EMail: jaspermargaret@hotmail.com
Comment: i have a son who is 8 now and i pay support weekly to the state of utah welfare dept .hisd mother will not let me know where they are and if i find out they move i wnat to know how and who to talk to about finding and visiting him
Name: calvina davis
EMail: sezyblack45420082000@yahoo.com
Comment: I am 24 years old my mother and father was in the army when i was born. My father droped out to raise me and my mother stayed in. I never lived with her in my life and she never paid child support what can i do? She said there was a trust fund for me when I turned 18 I never seen it. I think iI should have been getting some kind of support from her or Uncle SAM all those years.
Name: richie parks
EMail: paulbullet75@msn.com
Comment: Please give me information on what my rights are to visit with my child. My wife and I are seprated and living apart. She will not let me see or visit with my son. She is not even keeping him with her, she is letting him live with her parents.
Name: michael
EMail: maryrawls@hotmail.com
Comment: Is there anyone that can tell me how to check if my ex-wife has filed her tax returns. I need to know if she has recieved a refund she owes back child support. I have this feeling she has not filed.
Name: albertocruz
EMail: brendaleecruz@aol.com
Comment: looking in how to lower my childsupport payments to the x, my payments are getting higher and higher, now i am haveing trouble supporting my current family the x keeps taking more and more of my money. Please help i have no money to hire a lawyer.
Name: Paris
EMail: rebornparis2yahoo.com
Comment: i have been divorced now for 4 years. my friend looks like he is going to be divorced soon as well.there are 2 children in the mix, and he is taking care of them now. his ex is talking about eventually getting her children, and he is very unsure about his rights. he is VERY responsible, and she is into drugs and what-not and is living with friends. can someone Please give me some information for the state of Nevada? This man is CONVINCED he is going to lose!!!
Name: shelton belin
EMail: believe_n_me2003@msn.com
Comment: i am a birthfather. my son was put up for adoption in the state of utah on august 4, 2003. i need help trying to get him back. what do i do, where do i go, who do i call. please help.
Name: Jason Gutierrez
EMail: J-ro3693@aol.com
Comment: By Explaining if my civil rights have been violated
Name: manuel
EMail: manuelturner@msn.com
Comment: Low income single Dad in Kentucky of two special needs kids needs help.
I dont know who or how to ask for help..
I need to make our home safe to live in, we are on a budget and we need rafters and a metal roof put over our trailer I had to drop back from a 40 hour work week to part time because of my kids needs, and our home needs alot of repairs before winter gets here I have never asked anyone for help before and I dont know how or who to contact.
Any sugestions Would greatly be appreciated.
Manuelturner@msn.com
Name: ccambell
EMail: duppy92@yahoo.com
Comment: i am a friend of a boy in his mid 30s, this is a long story, to make the story , hes the father of 6 and they came from mo. to ky. to live, got on the welfare line, they got the wife a job, good job. for (home health) wages were up to 8 something an hour. the father was the baby sitter and cook and all the works he done a very good job,sent them to school , she had told me about her good job in mo. at a nursing home etc. i ask her why was she here she said the welfare was beter here. at that time she was working. then she was getting off welfare. her rent thru hud and all the others that go with it.then she comes home , and asks the dad to leave. said she would even pay his rent at a motel. but he dont. then she files for a divorce , then he has to leave . and on and on .and the reason she wanted him to leave she found another man. the father goes back to mo. pays child surport for awhile . got custody , but they came up with something that he couldnt take them.he worked at a place that paid him 10 an hour they took every dime nearly. the divorce judge said for him to pay 300 a month ... then he was getting garnishes,double whammy...then he left his job .. for 5 years didnt pay and so he came here to ky, and gave his self up.to get this straighten out.. and it is worse than we thought... after been in jail for 3 months and ready to go home and set a court day for this court. but the family court had to see him that judge up his bond from 33,000 to 50,000. and set no date for court , we dont no what to do,, they said he had to pay that before getting out. and his new job, 8. something was waiting on him ,, but now i dont think so.and his x has told all kinds of lies about him and i know shes drawing welfare and has never worked again in over 5 years (before the divorce was final )her self and married this new boyfriend and he is also paying child surport to another child... she wouldnt let him see his kids either she would leave when he was surpose to go pick them up. for the summer vacation and holidays. so what is going on here. what should he do.this boy is no crook and he loves his children.and they love him and all the way this has went her way.he said he knows shes on drugs. but the judge wouldnt run a test. believing the mother... this is a bad out fit...here in ky. i think they should hear him out after all they do her the mother out.. do you have any answers for him our us to what to do.. we"re stuck.he said to get him a lawyer, but that take money. he had a court opointed one ,, but now shes gone..dont no what to do.has anybody went thru this before? he said that one boy is in there for 5 years for non-surport..do you think this will happen to him? will she still be on welfare after 5 years is up which has already been that.. and will he have to pay all this back when he gets out?,, i think the laws should check out this a whole lot better than they are.the mothers do wrong to ..after all this is whats in front of the kids.. this is what its all about....i think it should be 50-50 here. and this welfare is wrong .. this is still teaching the kids to live on the welfare system..they should have checked her out and stayed with it. instead of taking her word...these kids are her bread. i knew that since we talked about it..they should have made her worked too....and the self employed painter step father.. whos living on their welfare..why can"t they see this.. i can....hes also signed up on black lung ,,im sure he hasnt got yet. excuse to not to work... and im sure his surport is paid up to date...
Name: Mfahimuddin
EMail: mfahimuddin786@hotmail.com
Comment: I like to know if I can keep my son on labour day holiday. It is my weekend to keep my kid. plz let me know.
Name: Leroy Tard
EMail: Leroy186@hotmail.com
Comment: How do you catch up with arrears of child support. I have been paying every since 1992 and still not caught up. My belief is that they are just increasing to keep me paying. The children I am paying for are 20 and 21 years old. The balances just do not add up and the Lawyer that I have is costing a fortune. Help!!!!!!!
Name: Kelly Williams
EMail: kellywilliams198@msn.com
Comment: Need help to get alimony stopped in Missouri. Judge said for two years and has been seven and still not stopped.
Name: Jeffery A. Koehler
EMail: ctg4042@hotmail
Comment: I made the mistake of marrying my first wife a second time. She has five kids, the older two I have raised since they were 3 and 5,(now 16 and 18). The son we have together is now eleven (11). She has a set of twins by her third husband that are age 5.
We are now divorcing a second time and I have court ordered visitation which she has not followed from day one.
I have not seen my sons since March 4,2003 and visitation was set on May 12,2003. I still keep my schedule and have witnesses to that effect however, the courts will not or do not hold her in contempt.
There is ALOT MORE to this however, I need to know if there is ANYBODY out there who might have some insight.
I thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
Name: cane
EMail: twistedcane@hotmail.com
Comment: i need help,..... my ex lover (whome i wasnt married to) has changed the name of our son( he is 12) before i got parental responsibility is there anything i can do
Name: john
EMail: azizuchi@hotmail.com
Comment: i would like to stop my ex-wife from controlling me and to stop her freightenning me all the time that if i dont do what she wants she stop me from seeing my son. thanks
Name: jeff chapman
EMail: montecarslow@yahoo.com
Comment: I have no resorces and need an atorny to represent me against my ex for contempt of court (interfears with my visatation) and legal aid refuses to help.
Name: DINA
EMail: DALTIMA28@CHARTER.NET
Comment: I AM WRITING ABOUT MY FIANCES EX WIFE, THEY HAVE BEEN DIVORCED FOR 5 YRS. TWO YRS AGO SHE FILED BANKRUPTCY, WHEN SHE DID THIS SHE FAILED TO MENTION THAT SHE HAD WENT ONLINE PRIOR TO BANKRUPTCY AND OPENED ACCOUNTS IN HER NAME, BUT WHEN THE CARDS CAME THEY WERE BOTH IN HER NAME AND MY FIANCES NAME. WHAT THE CREDIT CARD CO. DID WAS JUST REINSTATE OLD ACCOUNTS THAT WERE CLOSED. WELL HE WENT FROM HAVING PERFECT CREDIT TO NOT EVEN BEING ABLE TO BUY A HOUSE NOW. WE CANNOT FIND A LAWYER TO CLEAR HIS CREDIT, DO YOU KNOW OF ANY IN THE ST LOUIS AREA THAT WOULD BE ABLE TO HELP? ALSO WE ARE HAVING ANOTHER PROBLEM. THE REASON WHY THEY DIVORCED, WAS SHE LEFT HIM FOR ANOTHER WOMAN. WELL MY FIANCE AND HIS EX HAVE A 6 YR OLD. THE EX HAS HAD ABOUT 6 DIFFERENT WOMAN IN HER LIFE, HAS MOVED 5 DIFFERENT TIMES AND HAS HAD THIS CHILD IN ABOUT 5 DIFFERENT DAYCARES. NOT TO MENTION SHE STARTED KINDERGARTEN LAST YR AT ONE SCHOOL NOW HAS BEEN CHANGED TO ANOTHER SCHOOL FOR 1ST GRADE THIS YR. SHE IS ALSO VERY DEVIOUS AND USES THE CHILD, FOR EXAMPLE SHE CUT THE CHILDS HAIR SHORT, WHEN IT WAS ALMOST TO THE MIDDLE OF HER BACK, KNOWING HER DAD ASKED SEVERAL TIMES PLEASE WHATEVER YOU DO PLEASE TO NOT EVER CUT HER HAIR SHORT, WELL SHE DID OUT OF SPITE. AND LEAVING HER WITH US SAYING THAT SHE IS HAVING A PROBLEM WITH HER GIRLFRIEND, AND SHE NEEDS TO GET THE CHILD OUT OF THE HOUSE BECAUSE ITS NOT SAFE FOR HER TO BE THERE, AND THEN TURN AROUND THE NEXT DAY AND ACT LIKE NOTHING EVER HAPPENED, AND PICK HER UP WITHOUT LETTING US KNOW WHAT THE SITUATION IS AT HOME. THESE ARE JUST A FEW EXAMPLES, BUT ITS AN ONGOING PROBLEM, AND WE NEED TO DO SOMETHING TO GET THIS CHILD IN A STABLE CONDITION. THEY HAVE JOINT CUSTODY RIGHT NOW AND WE GET HER AT LEAST 3 TIMES A WEEK FOR DINNER AND TAKE HER HOME LATER THAT EVENING, THEN WE HAVE HER EVERY OTHER WEEKENDTO, BUT MY PERSONAL OPINION IS, THAT THIS CHILD NEEDS SOME STABILITY. WHEN A CHILD IS KICKED OUT OF KINDERGARTEN FOR HER TANTRUMS, THEN THERE IA A REAL PROBLEM! WE ARE LOCATED IN THE ALTON IL. AND ST LOUIS MO. AREA. IF YOU KNOW OF ANYONE THAT CAN HELP, PLEASE LET ME KNOW.
Name: sam
EMail: hot4u19822002@yahoo.com
Comment: i have split with my ex girlfriend a little over 3 1/2 years and i have had my daughter living with me cause she didnt want anything to do with her but no out of no where she wants to have our daughter back what should i do i dont want to loose her!!!
Name: Scott
EMail: sb33778@aol.com
Comment: I NEED HELP TO GET TO SEE MY DAUGHTER I LIVE IN FLORIDA AND SHE LIVES IN OHIO.
Name: michael cortright
EMail: mcortright@tpwlaw.com
Comment: I HAVE A 1 YEAR OLD SON WITH A WOMEN I WORKED WITH WE NO LONGER WORK TOGETHER.SHE HAS A ORDER OF PROTECTION AGAINST ME AND ANY 3RD PARTIES WITH NO CONTACT.IT HAS BEEN 17 DAYS SINCE I SEEN MY SON.I WOULD LIKE KNOW MY RIGHTS.SHE LIVES PENNSLYVANIA AND I LIVE IN N.Y.C
Name: James Greenawalt
EMail: cvillekid@msn.com
Comment: I am trying to adjust to dealing with my fiances 3 boys.
I am 29 and she is 32, the boys are 15,13,6.
I love the boys but am having problems relating to them and trying to deal with them.
Any advice is really appreciated.
Name: Jack Ferguson
EMail: missy_march@msn.com
Comment: I need help in trying to lower my chiled suport do to a job changene I live in IN . I have not seen my 2 girls for over 2 yaers and i thin that my oldes is not living with there mother and my EX moved and did not notify me of the girls lokation the part of the girls not seing me I left up to them du to I did not want them forced to come to my house
Name: Chris Alzner
EMail: weelad92@hotmail.com
Comment: I am 21Me andmy feouncie are wanting to get married however we are not sure how much it costs to get married in the courts here in mi if anyone could help me by letting me know how much it costs for a judge to marry us i would be most apreachiative thatnk you
Name: john abbott
EMail: jabbott@cbi4u.com
Comment: i have had my workers comp settlement taken by da and now they have taken half of my income
Name: Kevin T Cobb
EMail: kvncobb@aol.com
Comment: i need help my wife will not allow me to have DNA testing done on our daughter we are getting ready now to be divorced witch i dont want either here is my problem My wife has been married 4 times and she is 33 yrs old I dated her between her seconfd husband and her 3rd I have papers proving the second husband is not the father and the 3rd husband wanst in the picture untill my wife was 4 months pregant but he swore in court without my knowing that my daughter was his and he is paying suport now I would like to get joint cust of my daughter she has CP and Brain Damnage and takes alot of medacation and One day she might need me to donate my organs or help in some way i have lost out on 11 yrs of her life because of the lies my wife has told I really want to be my daughters daddy can someone help meI am not a rich man but I have alot of love to give her the testing results that I have say that the father carrys most of the inherited bands so i could use someones help i am not a smart man but i will give my help back in any way i can Thank You for your time
Name: tom james
EMail: j33thro@msn.com
Comment: I need advice from fathers, that have been displaced and then replaced by a lesbian. this woman is now performing my fatherly duties and she has mannaged to make it so i cant even communicate with the exwife. i also need leagal advice i want to now how to fight back so that i dont loose my rights. I fear that i have already lost everything my home my wife i need help not to loose my daughter aswell. my life is nothing like ross on the television show friends.
Name: A. LoVerme
EMail: AP.LOVERME@verizon.net
Comment: How can I stop my spousal support of $450.00 a mounth untill I find a job?
Name: Brian Cline
EMail: woegie@earthlink.net
Comment: My exgirlfriend wants an abortion and i dont. I would like to have custody of my unborn child. I am only 16 but i have the support of my parents. How can i stop her from having this abortion and get custody of this child. She said if she is to far along to have an abortion she was putting it up for adoption not giving me any rights. Please HELP!
Name: mike arreola
EMail: michael-arreola@excite.com
Comment: give me info on how to gain cstady of my un-born child . my girlfriend has two children and can barly support them i can provide 100% more of a better life style financialy as well as lovingly. need answers to my questions. thank you
Name: ernie tingle
EMail: stingle@bfcompanies.com
Comment: i would like to file for custody of my son, but i live in Kentucky and he lives in Mississippi. He wants to live with me.
Name: Britt
EMail: bbigblicious@aol.com
Comment: I need advice about what to do with a divorce,ihave questions and need answers
Name: Di Salvo
EMail: It0107@usma.edu
Comment: I would like help coping with the decision of my son to marry a young lady that I do not approve of. I had a talk with him about it but he is due to marry her in October of this year. Do I grin and bear it and keep my mouth shut, or do I just let it happen and hope for the best?
Thanks
Name: Jason Bowker
EMail: ADB0219@aol.com
Comment: What is the age that a child needs to be in the state of Oklahoma to go in front of a judge and say whitch parent he wants to live with.
Name: david schroeter
EMail: ddvactiondd@msn.com
Comment: I need a cheap attorney. I live in Bowling Green Kentucky. I want to see my daughter.I pay support I have no visitation.
Name: kawi
EMail: kawi_usa@yahoo.com
Comment: How can I find out in dallas texas, if my wife filled petition for divorces, severl time some one tried to deliver petition to me to sign, with no secsses.
please show me how can I find out.
Name: Joshua
EMail: bizzybusmom@msn.com
Comment: I am 18 and my son is turning 3 this August, his mother has been letting me see him less and less, now she is moving out of state and I need help in filing for joint custody, can anyone help - I nlive in washington state, I also need someplace that can help as finances are low
Name: Guillermo
EMail: xxtherealistx@aol.com
Comment: I need some legal support on obtaining visitation or preferably custody of my child but I have no knowledge on how to go about it.
Name: Maribel
EMail: mperez143@msn.com
Comment: I am looking for someone willing to do pro-bono work for a co-worker whom has just lost his wife to a gunshot wound. She leaves behind a husband and five children. I am interested in setting up a trust fund for this family. If anyone is willing to help or can give me info or resources to contact or knows of a trust fund setup or in process please send e-mail to mperez143@msn.com
Name: tj smith
EMail: frank348@quixnet.net
Comment: I am in dire need of legal assistance in the Houston, Tx. area. I desperately need to take my three year old daughter out of the terribly unstable and potentially devestating situation she is in, as her mother has custody of her. Her mother, my ex-wife has an extremely unstable lifestyle, including but not limited to being incarcirated twice within the last four or five months only to end up on probation. She has has numerous abortions within the past year with countless men, only to continue to a trend of promiscuity around my daughter. She is currently without any mode of personal transportation, she has been evicted or "kicked-out" of numerous temporary residence only to currently reside with an old highschool friend whom herself lives with her parents. And she is currently imployed at the local Hooters as a waitress, with a schedule that renders her un able to care for my daughter as needed. I currently have a steady, well paying job, my own reliable mode of transportation, and a stable household for my daughter to live in. I am unfortunately still single, however my daughter has several strong female rolemodels in my mother and older sisters. So as i said, if any one has any idea as to where and how i can receive some sort of finacial or legal aid, I would certainly be greatful.
Name: Mike Quijada
EMail: qfamily@uneedspeed.net
Comment: Questions:
1 - how are arrearages in CA figured. Are they 10%? do you just take 10% of the annual unpaid balance?
2- How can I stop her attorney from sending me to collections for her attorney fees - the order states both parties to pay their own attroney fees
3 - Does it matter that my daughter got pregnant and had an abortion just before she turned 18? I continued to paychild support through high school. abortion november 2002, turned 18 Feb 10,2003, graduated high school June 2003.
Please reply
Name: bill
EMail: jeepcherokee8
Comment: i am currently 50,000 behind in child support i have been charged 250.00 a week based of a job i lost 8 years ago. i now face felony charges in state of michigan sad part is my ex-wife is pushing this forward because she wants me to let her current husband adopt my 2 children i refuse to give up she has denied me visitation for the last six months please help if any one has any advice
Name: DONALD G.
EMail: PNUTSG@AOL.COM
Comment: I AM RECIVEING NOTICES FROM A CHILD SUPORT COLEGTION COMPANY OUT OF TEXAS I SAW ALAYER IN 98 OWN THE ISSUE I WAS PAYING THE COLLECTION COMPANY AT THAT TIME THE AGRMENT THAT I MADE WITH THEN IS THAT THERE WOULD BE NO INTREST ARE PENALTYS ADD TO THE CHILD SUPPORT I TRIED TO TALK TO THE STAE OF TEXAS BEFORE I TALKED TO THE COMPANY BUT WAS TOLD AT THTA TIME THAT MY EX WIFE HAD TURNED THE CASE OVER TO THE COMPANY FOR COLEGTION SO I DELET WITH THEM BUT WITH IN A YEARS TIME I STATED TO GET NOTICES FROM THE STATE OF TEXAS THAT THEY WERE GOING TO HOLD TAX RETURN AND THERE WOULD BE INTREST ADD TO IT WHIC ALMOST DOUBLED THE AMOUNT I CONTACTED THE COLLECTION SERVICE THEY SAID NO PROBLEM THEY WOULD GET IT CLEARED UP IT NEVER HAPPEND SO THAT IS WHEN I SAW THE LAWYER MY DAUGHTER WAS 18 AT THAT TIME HE TOLD ME THE LAWYS THAT WERE IN USE AT THAT TIME AND NOTING HAD BEEN DONE IN THE INTREST OF MY EX WIFE TO COLECT BY THE LAW SO I WATIED TILL THE STATUE OF LIMATATIONS WAS OUT I KNOW THE TEXAS LAW HAS CHANGED BUT MY DAUGHTR TURNED 22 SIX MOUNTHS BEFORE THE NEW LAY WAS VOTED IN SO WHAT CANE THE COLECTION AGINCE DO KNOW THEY ARE OFCOURES TRYING ALL KIND OF THRETS I LIVE OUT OF STATE I SAW A LAWYER WERE I LIVE KNOW HE DONE SONE RESURACE AND SAID THERE IS NOTING THEY CAN DO AT THIS TIME HE WANTS TO WRITE THEM A SEACE AND DECEST LETTER AND ASK THEM TO SHOW PROOF THAT THE DEIT IS INFORCEABLE EVEN THOUGH IT MAY SOUND LIKE IT BUT I AM NOT A DEAD BEAT I HAVE RAISED A SON THAT HAS GRADUATED COLLAGE AND HAVE MOVED TO WHERE WEIVE KNOW TO TAKE CARE OF A SICK MOTHER. SO IS THIS IN FORCE ABLE I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW WHAT THE TEXAS LAW STAE IN THIS SITUATION MY LAYER HERE SAYS THTA THE NEW LAY WOULD NOT LET ANY ONE BE ABLE TO GO BACK IN TIME TO COLLECT THANK YOU ARE COULD ANY ONE GIVE ME A CONTACT IN DALLAS TEXAS TO SEE
Name: JACK
EMail: JANIE_ONEY@HOTMAIL.COM
Comment: I hired a lawyer and went to cort in Texas to get my visistation rights for my daughter. Both familys now live in texas
the judge set up new paymets here but Calif. will not release my case and is still trying to collect and taking my tax return
plus adding intreast each month, even though I am paying on time in texas and have been for over a year. My lawyer dosent
seem to be able to get any thing done to stop it. What do I do.
Name: Scott
EMail: sdf138@aol.com
Comment: Does anyone know how to give up full rights to a child in CA? And is there printable paperwork online for it?
Name: LISA SOLOMON
EMail: LMOVIEFAN02@YAHOO.COM
Comment: WITH ANY CHEAP OR FREE DNA TESTING TO PROVE IF MY SON IS THE FATHER OF A 2 AND A HALF MONTH OLD BABY
Name: luther brown
EMail: tauris2020@yahoo.com
Comment: ok my ex and i were never married so the child support office told me that she had all rights over our 2 year old son and now she is moving out of state with him and i cant afford a lawer please someone help me i havnt much time before she moves.
Name: vic beckner
EMail: limitedstock1@aol.com
Comment: My wife had an affair and left after 18 years. We have jount shared custody of a 9 year old son I have him half of the time. Against my will he is taking adderall(amphetmine). She now want to up the dose .She is tying to get the doctor to ok it. he is in a fog when he takes (adderall) I hate it. she said if i dont agree to let him have more she will take it to court and make me give it to him. HELP me please. I need leagal advice.
Name: Nicole
EMail: Foxylady19822003@aol.com
Comment: I need some Information on joint custodyand also what it requires.
Name: WESLEY
EMail: SANDERSKRS@AOL.com
Comment: i havebeen through a divorce in ok. and now i am having problems with ex. not letting me have my vistation of my 4yr. daughter. need the papers for child vistation enforcement
Name: Benny Leach
EMail: camcam@hypertech.net
Comment: I am a father of a 17 year old girl Who i signed over custidy or gardianship to her grandmother on her mothers side. Her mother passed away 6 years ago. She has had her for a year now and she wants to come home to me. How old does she have to be to make her own desision. This is in the state of Arkansas.
Her Father
Benny Leach
Name: Ken
EMail: kwilliams2766@msn.com
Comment: What is the age of a child in the state of Georgia, when they can legally decide what parent they want to live with.My daughter will be 13in September Ex Wife had one of my three children see a counsler because she wanted to live with me and after two session it was decided by her mother she was confused and need to come back to her home.
Name: richard burroughs
EMail: massdesires0002@yahoo.com
Comment: IM tring to find a pro-bono lawyer to defend me against false alligations of domestic abuse I live in eastorange NJ
Name: Glenn
EMail: gwaysack@hotmail.com
Comment: What is the age of a child in the state of Arizona, when they can legally decide what parent they want to live with??
Name: milton smith
EMail: free_bird_243@yahoo.com
Comment: need a copy of a patition to the corts to lagitamize so i can get my oldest son lagitamized in the corts
Name: james
EMail: cptavenger2003@yahoo.com
Comment: im looking for pro bono legal representation for a child support/paternity case in orange county, california.does anyone have any advice? thank you and God bless you. james
Name: MARY NANCY SILVA FOR RANDY K. SILVA
EMail: MARYS@MUPAC.COM
Comment: MY SON IS A CONVICTED FELON NOW SERVING TIME-HE HAD A SUPPORT LAWYER BUT BECAUSE OF EXTREME EXPENSE HE CAN NO LONGER MAINTAIN THAT LAWYER. THE PROBLEM IS THYE MOTHER OF HIS CHILD HAS BEEN WANTING TO EXCLUDE HIM COMPLETELY FOREVER FROM THEIR BIOLOGICAL CHILD-THEY WERE NEVER MARRIED-SHE IS REMARRIED-HER SOCIAL WORKER NOW BECAUSE MY SON WOULD NOT SIGN OFF THE CHILD HAS ISSUED A WARRANT TO THE PRISON AND HE WOULD BE TRANSPORTED TO THE BARNSTABLE COURTS IN SHACKLES WHICH HE DOES NOT WANT. WE LOVE THE CHILD BUT HE CANNOT SUPPORT HIM NOW. HE WOULD LIKE TO SIGN TO RELINQUISH CUSTODY BUT HE WANTS CONFIRMATION IN WRITING THAT THE DOR WILL NOT CONTINUE TO TORTURE HIM LIKE THEY HAVE BEEN DOING THRU DOCUMENTS. IS THIS POSSIBLE???????
Name: kim emon
EMail: veteranschoolboy@yahoo.com
Comment: Arizona CPS failed to inform me that what I said would be used aginst us, AZ CPS took our newborn from the hospital ,using a lie on the TC form stating our mental health endanger child. I am a student at asu at 45 years old, I am 3 credits away from entering my major I have used a boat full of financial aid in the last 2 and one half years. With 20 k commi9ng my way when fall starts, the only nut case is the CPS stooge. I just went over t6he bill of rights, To bring this person to justice , do I have federal mashals arrest the lying bastered. To have a hearing and watch The whole thing go down Made me sick. Given a direct and to the point charge can I have the judge the procecutor and the CPS worker arrested for the most diabolical coesion effort To keep our 4 the child from us. we have a one year old and a r yr, and 11 yr. they are happy and healthy and lonsome , I am pissed.I need the trigger words to excit the federal marshal , any ideas.
Name: J Carella Jr
EMail: jcarellajr@yahoo.com
Comment: I was arrested in 2003 for alledgely threating my wife with a steak knife. The police arrived at the house as I was leaving and arrested me down the street. She wote a voluntray stetment saying that i did threaten her with a knife. I was arrested for Aggravated Assault on a Family member.
Here is the issue. I came in the haouse from work and my wife was asleep on the couch and my 13 month old hild was walking around unsupervised. Whe I woke her up she became very violent towards me saying "stop trying to kill me" I tried to calm her down, but it got worse. She went to the neighbors tocall the police. The dispatcher asked if I had put a knife to her and I said "no" She then asked if I had anywere to go. I told her my parents and gave the phone back to my wife. i then left the appartment. The ignition was stripped on the vehicle, so we had to start it with a screwdriver or steak knife. That is what they found in the car, the police clain the found 1 but they found two. I used the knife to start she car as does she.
The problem is that my wife does not remeber a thing from that night. She was coming off of Zanax perscribed and was having dilusions. The night after the incident she satyed a few days with her cousin and he stated that she was seeing things that werent there. a few days afterr that she was hospitalized because she was seeing thing at her parents house and they had to bring her inside several nights, because she thought there were people outside. She is now seeing a therapist the assist her with these dilusions.
Is there any law that will help me and my wife overcome this. She made a grave mistake and was dilusional when the police arrived. They coerced her into writing the statement. The major fact in this is that I am a certied police officer and can no longer carry a gun in the state of Arkansas.
Please give me advise if you have been in a similar situation or are an attorney.
Thank you,
John Carella JR
Name: shawn warren
EMail: goatmth@yahoo.com
Comment: im a unwed father of 2,one boy one girl and a step daughter that i took on responsibillity of two weeks after being born.im spliting up with my girlfreind after 5 years.i recently moved from fl. to ky for a better enviroment for my kids to grow up in.iwent to court this morning to get a restraining order agaist her and try to get temp. custody of my two children,igot the rest.order but no custody she was there at the same time but i got mine first. ihave to go back to court for a cust. hearing in about a week she said she not going to battle me but im going to battle her.i dont have any money to pay for a lawyer right now and niether does she.she is a neglect full mother that in my oppinion does not need to be with the children. she lets them run wild.she told me last nite that my son took poop out of his diaper and was chaseing them around with it.she said she thougth it was the funniest thing i
thnik it gross and he should of been punished and told not to do that but i wasnt there. she does not disipline the kids at all and they run all over her when im not around.when im around they mind real good because they know ill punish them cause daady dont play that if thhere is anyone out there that is going or has gone through something like this please help me with some advise
thank you for taking the time to read this and helping
sinserly shawn warren
Name: ray
EMail: eldorado59@msn.com
Comment: my 14 yr daughter live with x in az. the devorce was file in az. we have 50/50. my x wants my daughter to live with me but not change devorce papers. she also wants me to keep the soport witch is garnished from my pay to keep going to her and then she will send me a check back. i live in tx and can my daughter file to live with me in tx. help me please.
Name: scott
EMail: qball21082@AOL.COM
Comment: MY EX GAVE MY SON TO ME TO RAISE SHE STILL HAS MY DAUTER BUT I STILL PAY CH SUP FOR BOTH WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO GET THE SUPORT CHANGED THX SW
Name: RAY
EMail: ELDARADO59@MSN.COM
Comment: HAVE 14YR OLD DAUGHTER, LIVE WITH X. WE HAVE 50/50 CUSTADY. DEVORCE WAS IN AZ I LIVE IN TX. I PAY CHILDSUPORT, NEVER MISS. X WANT TO SEND HER TO LIVE WITH ME BUT SAYS SHE WILL DRAW UP PAPERS not through THE COURT AND WHATS MY SOPPORT TO GO TO HER AND SAYS SHE WILL SEND THE $ BACT TO ME. DAUGHTER WANTS TO LIVE WITH ME. OTHER PROBLEM IS I HAVE A MEDICAL PROBLEM THAT I KNOW WILL NOT GET IN THE WAY OF ME RAIN HER. CAN I GO TO TX COURT AND GET THEM TO CHANG THE DEVORCE PAPERS? PLEASE HELP.
Name: Lost
EMail: david.shatusky@mastec.com
Comment: I am currently working towards filling for divorce. My wife is not the best of mothers and my son suffers from it. I have a 4 month girl and a 6 year old boy. I want full custody of my son and I am willing to do anything, money is not an issue. I will shortly after my divorce be marring a women I was engaged to before my marriage. Can you explain custody laws and give me any info on my possibilities of getting full custody of my son. My fear is my current wife is ruthless and will take everything out on my son. This is want I want to avoid; I watched her and her family destroy their niece to the point where the girl will not even talk to her father. This girl is now having sex, dropped out of school and is doing drugs. I will do anything to keep my son from suffering this way.
Name: LARRY LANE
EMail: L LANE 1953 @AOL. COM
Comment: I HAVE FILED FOR SSDISABILITY IN THE STATE OF S.C. I AM NOW WAITING ON MY HEARING, I AM COUT ORDERED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT . I CAN NOT WORK AND HAVE NO INCOME I PRESENTED ALL OF THE INFORMATION I HAD CONCERNING TREATMENT AND THAT I HAVE AN ATTORNEY REPRESENTING ME. JUDGE DENIED ANY RELEIF. I HAVE BEEN INCARCERATED NUMEROUS TIMES AND MY FAMILY HAD TO COME UP WITH THE MONEY FOR MY RELEASE ,NOW THEY CANT HELP ME ANYMORE. MY SON IS 17 YEARS OLD NOW AND I HAVE PAID CHILD SUPPORT SINCE 1991, I FINALLY HAD TO LEAVE THE STATE . I FEEL GUILTY FOR LEAVING , I AM PROBABLY 9 MONTHS IN ARREARS, IS THERE ANY LEGAL WAY TO RESOLVE THIS UNTIL I AM ABLE TO PAY I AM NOT A DEAD BEAT DAD , I LOVE MY SON VERY MUCH EVEN THOUGH I REALLY HAVENT BEEN ALLOWED TO SEE HIM DUE TO PROBLEMS WIT HIS MOTHER . WHAT DO I DO????
Name: richard
EMail: massdesires0002@yahoo.com
Comment: need a pro bono lawyer who will take my case in the NJ area to help change domestic violence proceedures and practices of the courts using my case as a foot hold to do so
Name: richard
EMail: massdesires0002@yahoo.com
Comment: would like to know if there are any mens groups in the NJ area that can give me support to defend myself against false accusations in court and would like to sue county for false imprisonment,i have a long list of documentation of be falsely accused in the past
Name: Joel
EMail: Dryve211@hotmail.com
Comment: Does anyone know how much child support for one child in the state of California is, I know it probably varies but approimate?
Name: david tatar
EMail: tate@microconnect.net
Comment: i live in pittsburgh pa. im trying to get custody of my son.the courts tell me i have to file a patition for custody but will not tell me how and i dont have the money for a lawyer.could anybody tell me how to do this?
Name: tyrone patton
EMail: Bbgurl2229@aol.com
Comment: help me please !!!!!!!!! i can`t pay for a lawer and my ex want let me see our 5 month old little girl . please help me
Name: Roger
EMail: LingerieLuvr001@hotmail.com
Comment: I am Remarried and ex has custady of two kids of Mine.
I also and Disabled and divorcing again.LOST mY DISABILTY iNCOME 1 1/2 YRS AGO JUST RECENTLY GOT IT back and ex has Known of all I knew of on disabilitys return.But once Prior she has Requested Relinquishment of Parent Right and I denied it ask for it Because was at time $1,800 behind.
Now she has the filed another petition to the courts and they are acting on it wanting a anwser to her aligations of behind child support and has come up with that My childrenand staying ine are being around People are home of disreptuable Charactor.. Constant attacks By her and I make 600 a Month when disablity starts back.Cant afford attorny are would pay childsupport. And she has cost Me My second Marriage with her attacks
Name: herbert pipersburgh
EMail: bgord1@lausd.k12.ca.us
Comment: the mother and grandparents of my newly born son will not allow me to see him. they wont even put him in my name this is really getting to me now. what can i do
Name: jerry waggoner
EMail: vancleve@cybertrails.com
Comment: My problem is my X-girlfriend she has my two boys. Im with someone else now the problem is they droped the child surport from my girlfriend and is now giveing 700.00 dollars to my x. They base it off of what I was makeing befor. I only work 3days a week now and dont make that much any more. What can I do I cant afford a lawyer and one of my x- girlfriend family works at the child surport place. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME? Jerry Waggoner
Name: jerald
EMail: reynolds6pack@cox.net
Comment: recently my 14y old son has come to live with me his mother has been remaired for 3 years now. my son has had lots of problems at home over the years with the new husband and both him and her drink at times alot and their have been three incedents with the step father and my son . so his mother agreed to let him live here for as she said ( a trial period ) my question is what do i do if i dont want him to go back again he doesnt want to go there either .
Name: Jimmy
EMail: topjimmy@everstkc.net
Comment: my son is 12. divorsed household. parents communicate well.
157 i.q. getting into problems.
Name: anthony sussex
EMail: daddyluvz69style@lycos.com
Comment: let me know what rights i have as a father becouse she keeps my 3year old son from me and i miss my son but she says that i have to pay child support to see him but i have done that and she still keep him from me
Name: roscoe
EMail: roscoe@doctor.com
Comment: can someone tell me how in gods living earth can the states put you in jail for oweing,you talking about CONSTITUTIONal rights being broke,it says in plain daylight that no man shall be imprisoned becuase of dedt,so how in the heck is the states doing this?
Name: michael
EMail: prouderebel77@yahoo.com
Comment: my son is about 4 months old and i have never seen him. i have tried many times to contact my wife concerning my son but can not find her. i only know that she lives in jacksonvill,Florida. i have tried finding through us search and came up with nothing. i dont even know my sons name. can anyone tell how to go about finding my son? i only want to be a father to my son.
Name: darryl thornhill
EMail: blkm4pnay@aol.com
Comment: im looking for any help on dealing with arreares and custody. im currently sleeping in my car because i pay 50% plus 100.00 a month for health care wich is requried by the state of ca. my pay is 49.00 a wk. after deductions and they want more. i have no home or able to pay for food. my daughter was kicked out of her moms and stayed with me but i sent her back, i didnt want her sleeping in the car.
i dont want to quit my job because thats what they exspect im at a loss right now and really feel like giving up. anyone that can help please email me im using my friends computer and she will make sure i get the message.
Name: André
EMail: andre@attcanada.ca
Comment: I have not seen my kids since half their life ago.They are 10 and 8 now.The government agencies have sucked me dry of 50% of any wages.Lay off from a job is out of my control,and is a test with my good will. I have stoped driving an automobile because it is of my reach at half a wage.The small joy I have is contacting my Kids via snail mail. It has been a cat and mouse game with the mother of our kids. What upsets me is when I am punished for falling in arrears, and the former wife has the government support to do what ever the heck she wants!!!! The Children where sexualy assulted be an incopentent baby sitter, both children have Failed a grade in school, My eldest is in grade 4 now and I have recently learned they have moved and changed schools again, this is the 5th new school for the kids!!!!!! I can not stop her from this insanity because the government tells me I must support this kind of crap. Once again the where abouts of my children is Unknown, and I am having a difficult time finding who can help me. I have heard and read horror stories of trying to make amends through the courts. %%$?%$%?$#@$&?(*(?%&?%#%#%God I do get frustrated with the system called family law, It aught to be renamed"a womans legal way to kill a spouse"
Name: djshinasty
EMail: djshinasty@msn.com
Comment: ok iam having a huge problem at the moment iam in the middle of a custdy battle with my little girls mother ....
well we went to tril and i won full put temperary custdy .becouse her mother said i was not the father so they told her that she had to get the dna test done well she didnt and now she is wonting to sign her over to with no problem .. well u are wondering what the problem is well in all that time my lawer told me to get a test done to have a heads up on things becouse i was a 100000000% sure that she is mine well it came back that she is not mine it has been 5 full years that my child has live with me full time every day she was 2 mounths preme on a heart monitor with out a mother i rasied from day one her mother was off marring some other man a stuff like that and didnt care .. well the test comes back that iam not the father yes not the father after 5 years well the thing is that my lawer said that we have to tell the judge about the test that we did even thow it was not curt oderd there for i will lose her in need to know if some one out there has some info on how or what law there is to help my keep my life my little girl with me for ever
Name: THOMAS
EMail: MANDOME1@EMAILACCOUNT.COM
Comment: I LIVE IN THE STATE OF CALIFONIA, AND IM LOOKING TO FIND OUT IF I CAN GIVE UP PARENTTAL RIGHTS AND CHILD SUSPORT. IS IT EVEN POSIBLE? IF SO CAN ANYONE HELP ME? THANK YOU.
Name: morris crawford
EMail: craw 2272@bell south .net
Comment: Im paying child suport but she has moved so for away im not able to see my son and darter . she wont anser her phone, or talk to me to see how to work this out. have not seen them but 2 time in 2 years
Name: javier
EMail: ezrichy@hotmail.com
Comment: need to know who i can talk to about chid abandenment.i have a son from a women who i am not seeing anymore,and is heavily on drugs.she drops him off anytime she wants and picks him up whenever she wants.her mother came down from out of state recently and she left my boy with her and hasnt been seen since.her mom had to go back and called me to pick hom up.i have him now and dont know where his mom is.this has been goig on for the past six months and im tired of it.i need to talk to anybody who can refer me to any legal representatives.thank you
Name: Jon Brandon
EMail: jonnybrandon@aol.com
Comment: I have custody of my 2 sons and my ex-wife is back 8 years on child support. Tried child support enforcement, but no luck. Do not have the money for an attorney. What I want to know is how I can request legal aid or a pro bono attorney.
Name: edward munn
EMail: sabnedd@hotmail.com
Comment: partner gone ,took our kids,allthe cash. dont know what my next step is,
Name: travis
EMail: standingwatchman@aol.com
Comment: please direct me in how to obtain visitation rights after a seperation from ex girlfriend. I live in California and she lives in Alaska. I would like to go back there to get some type of custudy in writing. She has an attorney and I cant afford one. please help me I love my son very much and he needs a Dad
Name: james
EMail: ucanfix@msn.com
Comment: my 15 yr old son recieves ( or should i say mother) his child support yet she does not enroll him in school at all
Name: Mr. Dayton
EMail: packratzannie@hotmail.com
Comment: I would like to know how this specific senerio would work out in court. state of washington. (no fault devorce) MARRIED 12 years 3 children, one home one car. wife works. husband is disabled.. Kids stay in the house. what happens to the disabled husband? no one has filed any legal actions.. husband asking for advice. Thanx in advance.
Mr Dayton
Name: Jerico
EMail: algers411@yahoo.com
Comment: Been divorced for 8-9 years. Un-expectedly, my ex -wife
brought with her a guy at a party that I also attended.
I felt this feeling which I dont know what cause I m happy for her at the same time upset. Pls advise me how to move on with this surprise event.
Maybe if there is someone in the Bay Area, California
that I can talk to maybe a divorced father too
around 38- 43 years. Pls email me.
Name: Roger Buccolo
EMail: cbuccoll@elp.rr.com
Comment: I joined the army about 7 months ago to give my faimly a better life, my wife supported this dissision. Know my wife is leaving me and wants to take my son. I am requesting joint custdy so he can stay with me for six months and then go with her. I even offered to fly her back to see him in a couple of months if she wanted to and also when i go home on leave to let him stay with her for the time we are there. She does not want to agree to this and is tring to use that I am in the army against me. Thank you for any help or sugestions.
Name: john
EMail: john3434@yahoo.com
Comment: gfftems[rths[
Name: scott rodgers
EMail: mrnice302@aol.com
Comment: i am having problems with the mother of my daughter and a new man who has come into her life over just the past few months.the mother of my daughter and i have joint custody of my daughter. she is having my daughter stay with, and sleep over with, a man who i have yet to meet. and when i tell her mother i am not in agreement with this i am being told it is none of my business and she is going to do what she wants. my daughter sleeping over another mans house is a violation of our current custody agreement, and i am furious here. it really makes me want to just go and get my daughter, but i dont want to be arrested for kidnapping my child from her mother, who has primary resdience. i am so furious about this, and need to know what my rights are in this situation. i live in the state of delaware, and my child is currently residing in maryland, 50 miles away from me, please help me, what can i do ????????
Name: David Cordero
EMail: Bob.Cordero@nau.edu
Comment: I need information on abandenment.My wife left the state about 2 months ago with my son.
Name: melissa
EMail: tmtn27@hotmail.com
Comment: My husband has been paying his child support through income deduction to child support enforcement.
his employer takes it out weekly and forwards it on a once a month basis.however sometimes the checks do not reach them until the beginning of the following month. they have tried telling us on several occasions that we were behind on his payments.I requested a printout from his employer and all payments had been made a copy was also forwarded to child support enforcement as well and they refuse to refund us any of our money.I do not know of any employer who would pay an employees child support at the beginning of the month before they have worked to avoid it being late in child support enforcements eyes. any help someone could give me on this matter would be greatly apprachiated
Name: JIM
EMail: woods_james@sbcglobal.net
Comment: I am greatly upset at my exwife and need some advice, I was awarded custody and she does pay child support, i am struggling with her theatening to use nasty messages i leave on her voice mail concerning her lack of care towards my daughter, are these admissable in court, I know I am in the wrong partly.
Please advise!
Name: Matt Turner
EMail: Monkeysatemybaby@hotmail.com
Comment: i am not a father but i do need advice from someone that can please help me....my father and mother have been divorced for over 10 years and i live with my mother now but she is bleeding my father dry of money because of child suport but she really does nothing for me i buy my own cloths, i usually eat away from home and the only thing i do when i am there is sleep because i work...now i will ask her for money and she will laugh in my face. i really feel that none of this money is there to help me while she goes to the bar every night...i am only 17 years old but i feel that i do still need help with money even though i work..i pay for everything i have and really cant do it anymore...i just want to know if there is really anything i can do leagal wise to at lest see some of this money..i would greatly apreciate your help if you can!
Name: Kari Henley
EMail: karihenley@earthlink.net
Comment: I am a doctoral student at UNC-Greensboro and I am conducting an online survey of fathers (married AND divorced) and their experiences for a class project. If you have 10-15 minutes, I would really appreciate it if you could fill out my online survey at http://www.zoomerang.com/survey.zgi?9YHDKB8MYKB6R8FL17A9L0EA
All responses will be completely confidential, and no identifying information will be requested, so no one will contact you later. Your participation is completely voluntary, and you can stop the survey at any time. Feel free to email me at karihenley@earthlink.net if you have any questions or want more information, and thank you for your help!!
Name: Josh Waller
EMail: joshwaller@hotmail.com
Comment: I am going through a divorce through no fault of my on. Because of situations that have arose my lawyer seems to think I have a chance of winning a full custudy battle. But i cant find a reputable lawyer that will take payments. The price is $4500.00. I just dont have the money and cant seem to get it. I know some people are more blessed than others when it comes to money matters. So if you can help and are willing please contact me. I Dont Want To Lose My Son. He is only one. I live in alabama but my wife is from California. If she gets the chance she will leave and go back to california. Thanks, A Father
Name: Sonia
EMail: Sonia.DeLeon
Comment: This help that I am seeking is for my son Alvino De Leon. My son is 21yrs old, he is not in trouble with the law, and does not do drugs. My son has problems with depression and paranoia, and fear of dealing with life. My son has asked for help with counseling. Please e-mail me some advise or suggestions. Thank You
Name: Eric Bonner
EMail: ejaybee01@hotmail.com
Comment: I would like info on how to give up parental rights in the state of nevada.
Name: chad greer
EMail: chadg1016@aol.com
Comment: hello to all you fathers out there. i am 26 year old father of a 3 year old daughter that my ex has not let me see in a year. we were never married and she has full custody of my daughter. i do pay child support but yet i can not find out where she lives or even get a phone number on her. does anyone know someone that could help me obtain this information and also help me out finacially? i anxiously await a response from someone that can help me soon and i wish all you fathers out there trying to get your rights back great luck. thank you.
Name: Michael wade
EMail: michaelwade_@hotmail.com
Comment: I need some advice on how I can leave my daughters mother and not lose my rights to my daughter. I love her to much to lose her.
Name: DADDY ENUINE
EMail: THEPOINTEDHEART@YAHOO.COM
Comment: WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO GET CUSTUDY OF BOTH MY KIDS i JUST MOVED TO ANTOHER STATE TO AVOID BEING SERVED DIVORCE PAPERS AND MY PREVIOUS FEMALE GETTING CUSTUDY OF OUR KIDS
Name: Shawn Stevens
EMail: JENIR245@aol.com
Comment: My wife and I were not married at the time our daughter was born. She had to get on welfare to pay for the hospital bill. So they told her she had to start a child suport case. We had since got married and she went down to get the child support stopped. They said they would stop the order but we owed welfare 1067 dollars fine we said we would pay that. But they never soped the order and they want my money but she is not getting any of the money sent back to her. We got a paper from the court saying it was stopped. But Its not and noone will answer our calls. Or they give us the run around we are from ohio. What can we do?
Name: abid baig
EMail: iduno@iduno.com
Comment: I have been working for a company for 14 years and already have 2 children. I am due a third in september 2003. Can you please advice how much time I can have off work for paternaty leave paid and also unpaid leave by law. I would like to take time out for my family. My wife has no job at the moment and of course will not be looking for work know until after birth.
Please advice Mr Baig.
Name: James Capek
EMail: paladin_99@msn.com
Comment: I am 68,divorced 39 years..transferred out of state and had a verbal agreement with ex. not to drag my daughter out of state on visitation rights and she would not press charges for not paying child support. She held to the agreement until 2 months ago. Now remarried for past 20 years and my 42 year old call girl daughter and she are now conspiring to collect 13 years of back child support + %!!! Ex lives in Illinois I live in Texas. Any comments that might help? Ex is going through Support kids Inc which is a collection agency...Jim
Name: ryan thompso
EMail: ryanthompson45@yahoo.com
Comment: I need some advice on what to do. Me and my ex-girlfriend are not getting along and she is due to have our baby in late may she sill lives at home but i dont want my kid living there. were still trying to work things out but her parents keep interfearing, Im not trying to keep her from the baby i just want it to brought up in a good home and i dont want to have to deal with her parent everytime i want to see the baby. can anyone suggest a good lawyer in michigan that can help me on what i need to?
Name: Josh Rouse
EMail: gnightmoon@hotmail.com
Comment:
Name: DAMDAM
EMail: DAMDAM1@SPRINTPCS.COM
Comment: I am seeking info on getting joint or full custody of my 3 year old daughter. I am living in new york city. I have visatation every saturday from 11. am until 7pm. I have been picking up my daughter on saturdays from 11am and returning her on monday evenings. I have let the courts know of this and the baby mother also confermed this to the courts. I would like to know if this will help me to get joint custody? if not what will help me in getting joint custody or full custody?
I hope you can provide me with some help.
Name: karen
EMail: kiwi@powerup.com.au
Comment: my dad is diying of cancer dose anyone no of a loveing poem from a daughter 2 he farther it would be great thank u
Name: blacktrasher
EMail: rcrunch@SBCGLOBAL.NET
Comment: WHEN YOU ARE BEHIND IN CHILD SUPPORT HOW CAN OUR GOVERMENT EXPECT FOR MOST MEN TO GET OUT OF THIS MESS,AND WHY DO WOMEN GET MAD THEY USE THE KIDS IN REVENGE, WHEN YOU TRY TO TELL THE SYSTEM THEY TURN THERE BACK ON YOU, WE HAVE A BIGGER PROBLEM FOR MEN THAN WE THINK. THANK YOU
Name: blacktrasher
EMail: rcrunch@SBCGLOBAL.NET
Comment: WHEN YOU ARE BEHIND IN CHILD SUPPORT HOW CAN OUR GOVERMENT EXPECT FOR MOST MEN TO GET OUT OF THIS MESS,AND WHY DO WOMEN GET MAD THEY USE THE KIDS IN REVENGE, WHEN YOU TRY TO TELL THE SYSTEM THEY TURN THERE BACK ON YOU, WE HAVE A BIGGER PROBLEM FOR MEN THAN WE THINK. THANK YOU
Name: Pamella Harper
EMail: pamharp2@aol.com
Comment: My boyfriend has a daughter from a previous relationship, and we want to get custady of her because the child is not in a safe inviroment and we feel that she would be safer with us. We contacted our local court house and they told us to file a patition,but we have to get the documents our selves and we do not know how to get the document for the patition nor do we know how to fill one out.
Name: Pamella Harper
EMail: pamhar2@aol.com
Comment: my boyfriend has a daughter from a previous relationship, and we want to get custady of her because the child is not in a safe inviroment and we feel that she would be safer with us. We contacted our local court house and they told us to file a patition,but we have to get the documents our selves and we do not know how to get the document for the patition nor do we know how to fill one out.
Name: william c jones
EMail: preciouslove90@yahoo.com
Comment: My names is will and Im 36yrs old Im going through a ugly custody battle. Ive been to court 4 times in the past two years,with my soon to be ex-wife. Ive filed for bankrupty, Ive lost my home and my job and the child-support is just i relentless, Im behind on every bill you can think of. and just cannt get my ex-wife to give me some time to get on my feet money wise. I have no surrounding family support. I could go on and on. help anybody will My mailing address is 303 w second st hummelstown pa 17036 717 566-1256
Name: william c jones
EMail: preciouslove90@yahoo.com
Comment: My names is will and Im 36yrs old Im going through a ugly custody battle. Ive been to court 4 times in the past two years,with my soon to be ex-wife. Ive filed for bankrupty, Ive lost my home and my job and the child-support is just relentless, Im behind on every bill you can think of. and just cannt get my ex-wife to give me some time to get on my feet money wise. I have no surrounding family support. I could go on and on. help anybody will
Name: Oscar
EMail: oscarteliz@netscape.net
Comment: 1234
Name: Donnie Tye
EMail: RhondaJ53@aol.com
Comment: My 16yr old has moved out of my exwifes home and i still pay exwife childsupport. What can i do to get help on this mader? Why should i pay my ex money when my daugther isnt living there. Please help
Name: jeff
EMail: badboyfed691@aol.com
Comment: I need information about an uncontested devorce and how to go about getting the process started without a lawyer kind of in a financial binde right now
Name: seth
EMail: matthew_76@msn.com
Comment: I am new to this devorce/ custody battle! please help me! this is driveing me crazy cos i dont know what to do!
Name: Maurice Gordon
EMail: maurice7131@yahoo.com
Comment: I need some info on organizations in nc that can assist with obtaining child visitation/custody. Parents were never married.
Name: brian j monroe
EMail: brianjr40@aol.com
Comment: I have asked a question and I do not know how to get my replys it keeps sending me to a nouther page .How do I ger replys?
Name: Brian
EMail: brianjr40@aol.com
Comment: I dont know if this where I am suppose to ask this question. I cant get to view the answers to qusstions.I Had asked one and everytime that I try to view it it sends me back to the main page. Please help.
Name: Kevin
EMail: kevin.berry7@verizon.net
Comment: Hello, My situation is this. I have a 16 year old son and currently and always have been current with my support of $447.00 per month. The problem is my Son will hardly ever come see me nor even call. He has decided to embark on a life of crime. He is currently serving 10 months in a Juvenile Facilty as a convicted felon. I plan on keeping the support going to his Mother even though she does not have him for 10 months. Tonite I received a letter from the state requesting financial info regarding paying for his incarceration. He has been completly out of my control and I have no say in in matters relating to his well being. Does anyone know of the legal ramifications regarding my responsibility to pay for his Incarceration since I allready pay for his support? Any help will be greatly appreciarted.
Thanks in Advance.
Name: Neri
EMail: coolshell79@yahoo.com
Comment: Well the story goes like this I have a son and I was very young and thought at the time it would be in his best intrest if I would let my parents adopt him they agreed to it and they said that they would teach him who his parents were and they would not force him to call them mom and dad. Well that was over a year ago and now they have went to court and legaly adopted him My father told me the other day that if i choose to tell my daughter that she has a brother that they would end all ties with me I would never see my son again and I want to know if there is any way I cant not let this happen other than me not teach my daughter the truth. Please help me asap. And what would be my chance of getting custody of him for here on out??
Name: David
EMail: DB0036
Comment: My wife leftme and went toanother state with my 5 year old son. to shorten a long story, my wife filed a tempory restraing order on me.Well we made up and here and my son came back to live with me as a family.Well my wife never went back to court on here court date,and how cold she ,The court date was for SEPT 23 , And she came backto me 3thousand miles from where they filed the order. she moved back in with me on SEPT12....Well for the last 5 months we have been doing very well as a family....Know comes the kicker...A friend and his wife were having a dispute, arguing and fighting. Me David the story teller,andmy wife Went out side were the couple were agguing just to bring the children in side and away from the arguing parents. Well a neighbor called the police on them. The police came and of course sence we had there children they wanted to talk to me and my wife.That was no problem, So we thought....The police asked our names and asked us for our I Ds No PROBLEM..The next thing i know im in HANDCUFFS and being arrested for VIOLATION of a TPO VIOLATION. were my wife had filed the order the courts gave here a 1 year extension of protection.She never appeared in court for this extension...Neither one of us was notified of this 1year ext.. we had no noldge this even exzisted..The officer told i was going to jail for 12 hours for violation then id be released.WELL that was 4 dayy ago.Know they say i need to see the JUDGE to see if i can be released.Every day i ask am i seeing the JUDGE today, they tell me NO ,i aks when, tHEY TELL ME THE THE JUDGE WILL SEE ME WHEN HE IS READY TO SEE ME. My wife has called the courthouse where she only filed for a tempory not a year.The court house told here that they had issued here a public deffender, which she never meet, or talked to him. Sence she wasnt there for court the layer Talked to the courts for here. And got the 1year ext.And i dont see how he could leagy do that.The clerk told my wife that she had to write a letter to the judge and FAX it to him,,And explain why she wants the year lonng ext terminated.giving good reason for this. Then if the judge agreas to terminate this order i can be released..But ONLY HE CAN SAY YES OR KNOW. If he says NOOOOOOOthem i can leagly spend 3 months in JAIL.. For something we never asked for... NOR were we ever notifed, or told about this EXT. order.....we still havent heard word back from the JUDGE.Allso if he dosentgrant us the TERMINATION I cant be anywhere near my wif or my child untill SEPTEMBER 23 of 2003.......................HELP PLEASE HELP US............We dont know what to do,,, IM stuck in JAIL cant see nor talk to my WIFE. MY WIFE is exausted trying to get me out of JAIL....... anyone out there have any ideas or advice.. I personaly think this is illagle and WRONG.Our funds are drained and gone we going into debt,, When we should of never been put in this spot, The courts had no right to issue the year ext, For the pourpes that my wife never appeared for court on which was 3000miles away. the JUDGE should have droped it and dismissed it and and tossed it out.The JUDGE had no RIGHT to a public deffender who my wife never meet,talked to,she dont even know his name or even what he lookes like...THE COURTS TOOK IT UPON THEMSELVES TO DESTROY OUR LIVES.........Thought this was a free country...............Any advice would be verry greatful
Name: drumdad
EMail: cjayp1@juno.com
Comment: I AM SEEKING SOME ADVISE ABOUT WHAT I CAN DO TO GAIN FULL CUSTODY OF MY 2 LITTLE GIRLS. I ALREADY HAVE JOINT CUSTODY. THE MOM IS REALLY POLLUTING MY BABIES WITH LIES AND HER PERMISCUIS WAYS. SHE IS GOING TO MARRY THIS MAN WHO HAD SEX WITH HER 17 YR OLD DAUGHTER FROM A PREVIOUS MARRAIGE. WHAT IS HE GOING TO DO TO MY LITTLE GIRLS WHEN THEY START TO DEVELOP.
Name: DRUMDAD
EMail: cjayp1@juno.com
Comment: CONTINUES: THE MOTHER OF MY 2 LITTLE GIRLS AGES 9 AND 5 RECENTLY OBTAIN A RESTRAINING ORDER AND TEMP CUSTODY OF MY GIRLS. FALSE ACCUSATIONS IS WHERE HER STRENGTH IS. HOW DO I REVERSE THE SITUATION AND GAIN FULL CUSTODY AND STOP HER MAN FROM MANIPULATING THE WHOLE SITUATION.? THE SYSTEM IN RI. HAS NOT BEEN TO GOOD TO ME AND MY GIRLS IN THE PAST. PLEASE HELP!
Name: ira weeks
EMail: kcmadman59@aol.com
Comment: after i pay child support iam broke and she uses the kids to get her way they wont talk to me enless shes has plans
Name: Tracy Clark
EMail: sunsetdigital@htcomp.net
Comment: Where can I find standard visitation rights for the State of Texas
Name: bruce w jaurigue
EMail: bat_52@lycos.cm
Comment: want to know ,,what are the requirements,,to get a devorce in the state of michigan,,,Im overseas married to a Philippino...and my home of record is MI....thank you
Name: Antonio
EMail: dont_hate_me210@hotmail.com
Comment: I need good legal advice on how I could get joint custidy of my daughter.
Name: john williams
EMail: jguilame@aol.com
Comment: My wife has taken my children from the state of Washington to Georgia. She accused me of domestic abuse against she and the children. I have many video tapes that demonstrates the opposite. She has 0 evidence. I think she has flipped out from the stress of her teaching job and three demanding children. I have not seen or spoke to our children in over 76 days. Help me!
Name: Anna
EMail: amccampb@indyradio
Comment: Hi, i am looking for any poems or books about absent fathers who have died. My father was not in my life very much, and he just passed away. I would like to know if anyone is in the same situation or has been.
Name: Rohan Williams
EMail: atac_3@yahoo.com
Comment: need someone in my corner to help me with false allegation of child abuse child visitation rights
Name: jason
EMail: jason230@bellsouth.net
Comment: tell me what laws are out there to protect me and give me a chance to see my baby
Name: JERRY TODD
EMail: FOORTRUCKS2000@YAHOO.COM
Comment: HOW DO YOU STOP THIS? IN 86 I LIVED WITH AND MARRIED X RESULTING IN DAUGHTER AND DIVORCE SHE REMARRIED 1YEAR LATER I REMARRIED 6YRS AGO SINCE THEN X FOLLOWS US AROUND CONTINOULSY, DRIVES PAST HOUSE 2 TO 6 TIMES ADAY,I ONLY GET TO SEE DAUGHTER WHEN X WANTS MONEY MAKES THREATS TO WIFE,ACCORDING TO X DAUGHTER HAS COME DOWN WITH KRONS DIESEASE,CANCER,HEART PROBLEMS,NERVOUS STOMACH,DEFORMED ARCH IN FOOT,AND A MYRIAD OF OTHER HEALTH PROBLEMS, OH YES THIS MONTH IT IS A KIDNEY DISORDER.CHILD IS PERFECTLY HEALTHY
Name: dominick guarneri
EMail: xxairmen@yahoo.com
Comment: my x wife is detroying my life
how can i stop her
Name: jason
EMail: shimrell2000@yahoo.com
Comment: a friend of mine has a 10 year old daughter. she is very smart and happy little girl and has a good lovig father. recently a man that my friend had a brief sexual encounter with has just gotten out of jail and he wants a paternaty test for her 10 year old daughter who he thinks it is possibly his child. the child father already has acknowledge paternaty of the child and is on her birth certificate. can this other man go to court and order a paternaty test for this child?
Name: jim dennis
EMail: jdennis@aipc.com
Comment: I am in my fourth year of my second marage. We do not have children together. I have two and she has three from previous marages. It is not working and I need out. Her children are the main reason. I need to know what will happen to my property and assets should we divorce.
Name: Mitchell
EMail: crazydcmom@aol
Comment: Childrens mother is incararated and I would li8ke to take over custody. I need mother to sign over temporary custdy
Name: jaymon
EMail: jamonus@yahoo.com
Comment: 21 yrs old, married, have 6 month old boy,
seeking the smartest steps in getting custudy (joint) to where it is better on my behalf.dont want to pay massive child support and want to see my son as much as possible.(state of residence is california)jamonus@yahoo.com
Name: jaymon
EMail: jamonus@yahoo.com
Comment: 21 yrs old, married, have 6 month old boy,
seeking the smartest steps in getting custudy (joint) to where it is better on my behalf.dont want to pay massive child support and want to see my son as much as possible.(state of residence is california)jamonus@yahoo.com
Name: M.A
EMail: curly571@echoes.net
Comment: I need to know exactly what rights of parents of a 20 year old son have.My friends 20 year old son who has never left the home has not made the iniative to go out and look for work, He has had a few low wage jobs but is now umemployed. His car insurance is due an unmfortunately in the area where he lives one needs a car in order to get anywhere.He has some money put away which my friend told him that he is not to take out of the bank until he moves. They have tried their best to suggest many options to him as far as going back to school, training program,or even the military to no avail. I suggested having them give him an ultimatum in wrtiting. Pehaps have him take the money out of his account to pay the insurance a with a time limit. For example He will need to have a job or be in school by the time his insurance is up(by that timne he will be 21) or he will have to find a new place to live and then they will have to do the hardest part which is stick to the plan.My question is this does anyone out there know exactly what a parent of a young man like this is liable for in the event the young man gets into an accident without insurance or in trouble in general? Any suggestions or ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Name: aaron
EMail: aausborn@hotmail.com
Comment: please tell me how this system is so screwed up they go for your child support to help raise the child the govenor talks how fathers should be in the childs life but the DHS does little for fathers like me who have very little money to live on to obtain visitation of their child im 27 years old and my x girlfriend wont let me see my dausghter she found out i was getting married and she hasnt let me see my daughter that was a year ago thanksgiving if anyone can help me find answers on this subject please let me know
Name: Dean Warne
EMail: Baldboy37@hotmail.com
Comment: Iam so lost at the moment,just over a week ago my partner tells me that she loves me but is not in love with me...we have been together for nearly 7 years and a little girl who will be 7 in march 2003..the trouble is when we met the little girl was 3 months old so i am not biologically links..but i am her father by all purposes and my partner is of that thought...she is my world she calls me daddy and has so much love to give.i feel no bitterness in this only love and loss...i am so scared that i will lose the daughter that i love so so dearly...do i have any rights? can we get something drafted to say in the event of anything happening to her mother i could become her legal guardian as my partner is fully supportive of this..Thank you for your time...i am so scared...Dean
We live in the U.K
Name: dan
EMail: danwillfixit4u
Comment: looking for a copy of a patition for custady form
Name: graham
EMail: -conan----@prodigy.net
Comment: help 2oo2
Name: Graham Lovelock
EMail: graham_lovelock@hotmail.com
Comment: I have been trying to access help from Mental Health QLD as there are many issues that relate to men that I can not talk about to women (who seem to make up most of the help areas) Where can I go locally for help as i feel inadequate while talking over the telephone to people I can not see. I have had bad experiences trying to get counsil from women who generally feel that most problems, that women have, are generally caused by men. Can someone please help me.
Name: chris detrick
EMail: cdetrick2000@yahoo.com
Comment: ineed documented info on how many women win custady battles aposed to men
Name: David
EMail: djennex@accesscable.net
Comment: My wife has threaten to take my two children out of the province.Can I get a court order or something to stop her from getting on a plane one day with them.We are just seperated.
Name: dean williams
EMail: deejayskinz@hotmail.com
Comment: i need help to track down my son who i have not seen it two and half years.
Name: william joel steinbach
EMail: steinbachwdc@msn.com
Comment: My ex fiance left the state of michigan with my one year old son and i am very sad a nd depressed becasue she is threatening to neverleeeet me see him and i have had no contact. i think they are in oklahoma
Name: darrin lipp
EMail: lipp750@buckeye-express.com
Comment: my wife started an affair,then started hating me,then punched me mondy nite in the side of the head as i was holding the baby she went to jail,got out next day took baby and wont let me see her,my lawer says that does not make her a bad mom enough to get a court order to get my daughter back before costody hearing in another 2wks.
Name: Robert Sydney
EMail: Souper_22@hotmail.com
Comment: I needed a couple of questions answered. I have a girlfriend who recently turned 17 and I have gotten her Pregnant. We have known each other for years and have been a couple for 2 years. I am 20 years old I and want to marry her. I need parental authorization to marry her. Both she and i believe we should be married before the baby is born. The question i have is: If we get married can her Parents or the Police Take her away?? What rights do the parents hold if we get married?
Name: David
EMail: Mamadingbat@aol.com
Comment: My wife is due with my son on the 15th of November,and she left yesterday. How old does my son have to be before I get regular visition? She is going to be breastfeeding if that makes a difference. Thank You!
Name: jonas
EMail: kelnjonas0701@aol.com
Comment: some how in my divorce both attrys ovrlookd the holiday issues she has had them for every holiday and christmas last year she is telling me that i cant get thm this year ethier if its not in the papers what legal rights do i have in florida w/out destroying my childrens x-mas through court battles and cops at there door.
Name: david
EMail: laflacadapapi@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been trying to get my ex wife to pay 7 years of back and current child support. I feel like no one is listening not child support enforcement not the govener not anyone. I remeber when the shoe was on the other foot i paid faithlyfull i even took three jobs. so my kids would not go without. I angers me to feel so helpless. Please give me any suggestions or steer me in the right direction. I live in orlando florida.
Thank you and God Bless
David Rodriguez
THANKS DAVID
Name: jim kraus
EMail: jim-marthaK @ Juno .com
Comment: I need legal counsel to lower child support in denver Colorado
Name: Mark
EMail: deejmoggy@madasafish.com
Comment: I am currenly in the middle of a split with my girlfiend and leaving two children, I am gutted and still think the world of them all, my ex? still says that she has feelings for me but not enought to live with me and has still asked me to leave, she is acting like we are still a couple, but is asking me to leave, do you think that she is putting this on, as this drives me mad. She seems to be able to turn this on and off, she is weird one minute and not teh next, I dont know if this is the right place that i should be posting this sort of stuff, if it is not tehn i appologise, it is a bit humbling to know that you are not alone out there in this subject, I know that I am not, but until you find something like this, you bloody feel it, thanks.
Mark
Name: bob 4040
EMail: bob41040
Comment: im paying child support but the mother wont let me see my daughter
Name: Tony
EMail: AFeezor291@aol.com
Comment: I am having problems with my ex. She moved out of state. Insists that I do all the driving and will not meet me half way. It was not laid out in the decree as to who had to do the drive. There are several other issues at stake as well. If anyone can help me with some of the easier issues as well as the driving issue please email me. Thanks
Name: Paul Rogers
EMail: paul80282002@yahoo.com
Comment: My wife left state with my son which i havent seen yet. Before she left she filled for a temporary protection order which she was granted but it allowed me to see my son an hour a week. She then filled for a domestic battery charge in which they held me for until court date which was thrown out. she did so to buy enough time to sell everything and leave with my brother. since she left state is the tpo void . she is now somewhere in st joseph mo waiting for my brother to get out of jail and im stuck in wy. working my way across country to find my son. If and when i find her can she keep me from my son.
Name: Armando R . Rodriguez
EMail: captcoors@msn.com
Comment: my daughter is 15 years old , she tells me her mother is having problems and its affecting the quality of care given to her and her sister. hol old does a child hve to be to chose and what legal steps aare needed?
Name: lee erickson
EMail: ericksonl75@yahoo.com
Comment: my husband has a court order for a home study for visition for his kids.we can not find no one to do the home study.
Name: Byron
EMail: Twlight_Zone@webtv.net
Comment: How could I get some help to get a lawyer to get my daughter? I as awarded custody Sept 5th,2002. This is my story .... I went to court to se about getting my so-called girlƒriend to bring my daughter back to Washington state ƒrom Calif and she failed to and the judge set another court date and she faild again.... and the judge awarded me custody. Chris took my daughter out of state without court permission and there is a parenting plan and everything....I do need some help!
Name: Peter
EMail: peterpotens@yahoo.com
Comment: help me
Name: R Dell
EMail: mady217@yahoo.com
Comment: I am struggling with visitation issues. My son is in Arkansas and I reside in Texas I am ordered to pay child support and I do and I am not having access to my child. I am unable to travel due to Bipolar Disorder and Anxiety. I am in need of Probono help Desperately. Thanks R Dell
Name: lkkjk
EMail: ioououo
Comment: ipii
Name: ANTHONY TORRES
EMail: IMBIGGNESS@AOL.COM
Comment: I am and always have been a good father, my ex and I were having financial trouble,so I took a job out of town, to make a long story short when I came home from work one day I caught her in my bed with her boss, my children were in the other room. ew split up and at first we had shared custody,everything was fine,for a while about 6 months after she started coming to my trailer at 3 am to try to get "cozy" with me, I would not and could not forgive her for her infidelity, I have had several oportunities to cheat on her and declined, I love my children very much now through evry bad thing that has happened , it was found out that we were never legally married, I believe she had this planned for a long time she ruined my credit I cannot even get a savings account, she came over to my mothers and started a fight with my new girlfriend and I and took my children, then shew got a restraining order stopping me from seeing my children, i subsequently stopped paying child support, I refuse to pay until I can see my children again, now I got notice from the court saying she is going to take my children to witchita kansa, if she is allowed to do this I fear I will never see my children again, I live my life for my children, they are my heart and soul they want to see me but she doesnt allow it,this has been one of the most greatest miscarriages of justice ever,please I am a proud man and I am now begging for assistance, if my children are taken from my ;life forever I do not know how I could deal with that, In the very first line of the restraining order it states"Anthiny has never physically punched hit or abused me," and still the judge ordered me a five year restraing order pleas if any one has enough heart and enough balls to go up against her and the judge(by the way the judge is a personal friend of her mother) plaese contact me at IMBIGGNESS@AOL.com thank you I am getting desperate
Name: Dave
EMail: c3ddecatur@aol.com
Comment: I had a baby outside my marriage and now the mother of my baby will not let my daughter visit with me and my family. What steps do I need to take to obtain visitation with my child.
Name: PARISH
EMail: HOTTFORSCOOBYDOO@AOL.COM
Comment: I AM ORDERED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT BUT I JUST MARRIED THE MOTHER AND I WAS WONDERING IF I STILL HAD TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT
Name: "POPS" Robinson
EMail: monapops@hotmail.com
Comment: Having trouble with local bureaus and State regarding enforcement against deadbeat mother. New computer user, never had this resource before...THX
Name: Beaudaddy
EMail: beauwatt@bellsouth.com
Comment: my son is six months old, I ordered pateterinty test when I was denied the father at the childs birth. The state manitory test declared me the bioligical father. They automatically stated for me to pay child support and back child support, which is fine. im having troubble with visitation. At first she would let me see my son and later keep him when i wanted to. --cont.-->
Name: BeauDaddy
EMail: beauwatt@bellsouth.net
Comment: I know my son can have a better life with me, he has a
Name: David J.
EMail: Mustang2bz@worldnet.att.net
Comment: Legal advice for either probono or little cost. Quiery: Divorce granted on 8-5-02. Wife who filed says she was taken by surprise and is stopping the divorce action or re-instating a new one. Help. She wants to change the whole original agreement that she agreed to and now wants custody, property and alimony.
Name: brandon baker
EMail: dd14130@yahoo.com
Comment: i do not know what to do, my wife said i physically assulted her and my kids and put an order of protcect on me even though i feel as she is the abuser she called the police first any way i met with the law gaurdian and she treated me like i was lieing the court date is tuesday and i dont know what to excpect my lawyer and i have only met 2 times and i feel like i am all alone in the battle with onlymy lawyer believing me as long as shes paid any advice would be appreciated brandon.
Name: matt c madison
EMail: cazpa4life@yahoo.com
Comment: i need to know what to do my daughters mom is refusing me time with my kid and i am 22 live with my dad and am currently not working but i am in a alt. school for my ged is thier any thing i can do
Name: Sherry Robinson
EMail: kcrobinson@nebi.com
Comment: Yes I am a mother of a son who has been hit by his father called names,telling him they make prisons for boys like him. the councelor of my son said it was time for my son to be heard but the judge wont hear him. My son is so angery hurt mad. How are us mothers to fight for our kids? I have no money and the father is rich and the lawyer said his money is talking. I need to find some way to get some money to help my son. Some mothers are not good for the kids and some fathers are not good for the kids. Do you know of some group that would help my son with the finacial end. He is 14 and worked detaseling to help pay for the lawyer but they need 5,000. to fight for my son. May God Bless you good fathers and help you.
My Son and I would like to thank you for your time and help.
Name: Tommy Robison
EMail: borr89@aol.com
Comment: I got cusdoy of my son, but his mother kinnap him from my home, the police will not go to her house to get him. She sign over cusdoy to me own her on.But since I want pay for her habit, she took my son, will I still have to pay childsupport?
Name: Pedro L. Rodriguez II
EMail: plrod7@hotmail.ocm
Comment: 1. Representation in court to help with visitation.
Name: sean
EMail: sean29609@hotmail.com
Comment: i am 22yrs old now, My son is 4 yrs old. when he was born his mother and i fought about everything.And eventually we left eachother. In short,myson was born i did not see it her mother disapproved she left me i left her i lost my mind on illegal drugs and regained it 3 years later. I have no relationship whatsoever with myson and he calls another man daddy. WHAT DO I DO?????????
Name: Joseph
EMail: joethat@yahoo.com
Comment: I hope this site my problem will be solved.
My father is not really involved in my life and more over he is dead -- I long for a mentor, friend or father figure to talk, To help me with education and job.listen and to help me grow to be the very best father that I can be (if I am blessed with children)! I have a hole in my heart right now which I need somefather who is wise and caring to help. Thanks,Joseph
Name: MIKE GRIFFIN
EMail: MIKEGRIFFIN@BTINTERNET.COM
Comment: WHAT ARE MY RIGHTS AS FAR AS AN ABORTION CLINIC GIVING ME INFORMATION ABUOT AN ABOTION THEY MIGHT HAVE CARRIED UOT ON MY DAUGHTER
Name: tony long
EMail: along1@vtown.com.au
Comment: we have been sharing custody for two years one week each now all of a sudden she wants the kids all the time with me having them for just a three day period and she wants full say in the day to day care. I still want to be able to have some say 50% I need any suggestions for keeping the kids or obtaining full custody myself.
Name: exco kennedy
EMail: biddisan@aol.com
Comment: i need to know my rights as a single father about my daughter.im sruggling right now and cant pay support and my baby is almost 2 now.her mother and i dont get along well and she wont let me take her to visit with for a few days
Name: marty
EMail: mlw727@aol.com
Comment: i would like to get custody of my children .the oldest do not want to live with their mother any longer they are of the age 12,10. the mother menatlly abuses the children daily .once in a while she steps over the line and beats them .at that time the children and very scared to call me in case she beats them again . how do i get them from this monster ,or what steps can i start with to help them and myself .....
Name: dean
EMail: wankows@aol.com
Comment: i forgot my meber name and my password i need to know if you can tell me that???
Name: Ken Nies
EMail: freedom2002@sbcglobal.net
Comment: Dear Sir(s):
I am facing some real challenges with the effort to be a responsible father in my daughter’s life. I have made some big mistakes that have cost me dearly, including being incarcerated for a period of time and having a mental illness to struggle with.
The above in no way has a bearing in how much I love my daughter and desire to have a parental relationship with her.
My problem is that her mother is being relentless in throwing one legal action after another at me. The very day I was released from incarceration she served me with child support papers. I went to court before I even had a chance to get back on my feet. I was working a commission only sales job at the time and was ordered by the judge to pay an amount based on minimum wage. Sense I am not very good at sales most of the time I was making far less then minimum wage. So 8 months have past and I just (7-30-02) was able to get to a point where with my current job I could get the DA to assign my wages and also have worked out a workable amount for the arrearages.
In June my Ex filed for adoption, so that her new husband (with priors of spouse abuse) adopts my daughter. I am waiting for a court date on this as I am obviously contesting. Now my most recent legal serving from my ex is to small claims court for an amount that is already being paid through child support arrearage and through restitution for my mistake that incarcerated me for 10 months.
I feel that I am in the hardest fight of my life. I love my daughter with all my heart and desire to be the dad that I should be.
Due to being on parole I am prohibited from driving to the city that my daughter is in to file my own petitions with out permission from the parole office. My agent tells me to just go to the court dates and let the judge decide for the time and then start my counter fight in 2 1/2 years when I am off parole.
I feel that it well be too late by then.
I am looking for my rights in this matter considering my circumstances. Any resources on low cost or free legal representation would be a great help.
Name: bill
EMail: chevymanof2@yahoo.com
Comment: well to cut the storie short ,i am a very good father ive always been there for my kids right from day one.but in last october i caught,my (now ex-girlfriend) and my friend that lives next door coming out of the woods at 4.00am 3 days after my birthday.and they were holding hands.well i confronted her about what i had seen and she replied that i do not trust her.well we split up with intenion of getting bach together.but in the meantime she was seeing the guy next door. i was going to let her stay in my house intill things worked out ,but they didnt.she said she would not take me to court for support as long as she can stay in the house.i agreed to that under one condiotion that he is not allowed here on my property,well she would not listen so i had to take her to court to get her out. well now she lives with him and has been since march of 2002.well her new boyfriend ,works as a meat cutter at a grocery store making 14-16 hr and she make 320.00 aweek .the courts think she still lives here at this address and they are going by when she file the paper work.to me this is false,and that they just want more money to build there dream home right now its a small 2 bedroom house and my kids share a bed room and they put locks on the cuboards.so i called the child welfare to turn her in for this stuff plus many other things of intrest but ,they told her and the kids that it was ok forr them to be that way towardes the kids ,i think that the state even covers up stuff for woman and thats not fare.plus my son was going to counceling for things in school ,i had takin him right up intill november,the doctor asked me how things were going and i told him that i didnt know how things were going because his mother and i split up ,and he said that he wanted to see his mother on the next visit and not me he wanted to talk with her well that was in november ,my son has not been seen since.just the other day i had asked my son if he wanted to go back to the councling ,he said that his mother and her boyfriend told him that he didnt need councleing that hes not crazy like his father .i need some help if there is any for a good father.thank you very much..........bill stewart of pa
Name: Ron
EMail: ron121970
Comment: I need help on what steps to take with joint custody & Visitation rights?
Name: Daniel Hogan
EMail: sportsman@stny.rr.com
Comment: i live in Elmira, NY my wife wants to kick me out of the house and take the kids she had me served with papers and lied about me i found out she has a boyfriend from work and he was there at court after court he said he was going to kick my ass help Dan
Name: Richard J. Bray
EMail: rick197131@aol.com
Comment: Iamafatherof a5yearoldboythatI will not get to see because he watched me die and I have no way of finding leagalhelp because for one Iam a man and I have no way of proveing that her familytried to kill me and made it look like I tried to kill my self. howeverIwould not do that because I have more and better morals than that.Ineed some help very baddly.Ijust want to be in my sons life before he groes up so that Ican be a real father to my son.Im from indianapolis I.N. AND Icant even find any help anywhere if any one can help me please email me at rick197131@aol.com because Ineed help with this because without my son in my life Id rather be dead.please help me!
Name: David
EMail: businessdev2001@yahoo.com
Comment: Could you please remove my request for advice from your site. Thank you for your help.
David
Name: Nathan Grundl
EMail: NJNtheGs@aol.com
Comment: I Have been recently raising my 9yr old daughter who has been living with her aunt. While her mother has been taking my support checks and using my money for her other kids. I need help i live in milw,WI and dont have money for a lawyer but need to figure out how to get half custody if not full but also stop my support checks.I have made numeris calls to the court housees but can not find a answer .Can you please help me?
Name: Cynthia Pankey
EMail: cpankey@hrha.org
Comment: I serve a small group of men who are currently dealing with back child support issues as well as current support requirements. Their ability to maintain housing and employment is affected by the courts decision in such a way that they feel hopeless and a lack of understand of their rights. In attending court with one or two of them I can identify with the unfair treatment they have recieved. Being locked up for not appearing when they are incarserated and the local law office forgets to transfer them to court. Being left to live off of $100.00 a week, when housing cost are at a high. Having to pay back government funds for mothers recieving ADC/TANF and choosing not to work. It is the opinion of the DSS that the father is financially responsible for the child when the mother has custody and does not work. The mother hold no responsibity to DSS, yet the father is hunted down strip of his livilyhood and labeled as a deadbeat. This is why many men choose not to acknowledge their children. The consequences can become overwhelming. Can recommend some who works with father who has large amounts of back child support and needs to appeal or do not have the ability to pay do to penalties imposed by the courts.
Name: Dale Ryman
EMail: labratlives@aol.com
Comment: needing to talk to someone about my situation,,, which is, my ex-has supervised visitiation, and my mother has temporary custody because of a failed urine test ( since then i have gone through the court advocate program, and have been clean) my problem is that my mother is acting my 10 yr old daughters mother rather than her grandmother.. causing major rifts with myself and my fiancee, my daughter, my mother. most based on religious chioces
Name: Tim West
EMail: tjwest23@mail.com
Comment: Me and my fiance just ended our relationship. Because she refuses to work. She thinks men should support women... She is pregnant with my child. I want her to work 4 months after the baby is born... Because it takes two to pay the bills now a days... She is threating to take her away from me. Or give me very little visition rights, she also thinks that I will pay more than 250 a month in childsupport. She thinks the courts will give her custidy, and make me pay 600 amonth in childsupport. Can you help give me answers
Name: Tim Hill
EMail: timhill@carolina.rr.com
Comment: Wife and myself are looking for a legal seperation. I have helped her raise a daughter from another man since birth. Two years after her birth we married. That was three years ago. We also have a 17 Month old daughter together. We are looking for the cheapest (i.e. free) way to file for seperation. Financial can be completely not an issue. Custody is agreed that she have custody of both children with me to have unlimited unsupervised visitation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Name: nick
EMail: Nhansom@aol.com
Comment: im looking for work but its hard to apply for work if you have a feloney conviction i paid my dept to society so why wont they hire me im a dovoted father to my doughter and wife i fuction very well in my community and well liked
i also need advie on how to clear my record or drop my conviction to a lessor charge. thank you
Name: Jon Dasilva
EMail: jondasilva@hotmail.com
Comment: I am looking to acheive joint custody of my two children and would like some advice from groups in the UK. Could you mail some information about such groups in the UK?
Name: William A. Blake
EMail: will@blakegraphic.com
Comment: I have found that I have a daughter near Salt Lake City, Utah. I am located in Houston and would like more assistance with possible job postings. I am currently a Computer Services Coordinator (Graphics, Layout, Help Desk, Troubleshooting). My complete resume is available upon request. Thanks!
Name: kenneth finney
EMail: www.kennystang68@aol.com
Comment: im looking for help for my legal fees please help me by the time i get my daughter i will be homeless
Name: Tammy Rosa
EMail: rosafamily1@msn.com
Comment: My brother-quilty of loving his wife & staying with her too long.
His wife-guilty of taking drugs in the last 3 months, told the judge she has not done cocaine in 1 1/2 years, child abuser, in anger management classes for 1 year for throwing a beer can at my brother & cracking his tooth, plus pulling his hair out in some areas. She was his bookkeeper for his very profitable business, at this time $46,000, is unaccounted for, (cocaine??) taxes were not paid so they have put a lien on his home. He has closed his business & must leave his house. After proving the drug intake the court still granted her physical custody. There are more things that have happened but it would take me all night and then some. If anyone can help me or him, please email me and I can talk with him. At this time his attorney has filed an appeal & is going to file a grievance with the Attorney General. She is still going out every night partying??? My knowledge of the law is not limited but I am not sure I understand the reasoning in giving her custody. For the last 18 months my brother had to come home from work to take care of the children from her staying out all hours of the night. He has had the care of the children for approximately 11 years, and he adopted her son who is now 17 years old and testified against his mother,.(child abuse, taking a knife to him & a hammer, when coming home from school if she was in a bad mood she would take it out on him, etc.) I could go on but would like to speak with somebody.
Name: Bill M
EMail: jjjfffjf@mail.vu
Comment: somethings wrong with our legal system. The pendelum has swung way too far to the other side,the side of mothers.
Name: bob
EMail: robertkrout@msn.com
Comment: I need help in determining how to keep from losing my house as my wife asks for spousal support. I am paying child support (gladly), but feel that spouse support will put my home in jepardy. Please advise me. thanks, Bob in Pa.
Name: frclimber
EMail: frclimber@aol.com
Comment: I need help, financial, legal, and emotional support. I have been fighting for 5 yrs. To keep my visitation rights with my daughter.
Name: Johnny Galindo
EMail: johngalindo_68@yahoo.com
Comment: struggling with trying to vist my 18th month old daughter
and letting my ex-wife not use our daughter like a gambling
chip or a pawn to use against me
Name: Jim baker
EMail: rolliefingers27@hotmail
Comment: Need to know about back child support for a child I just found out about. The child is now 12 years old. The mother never inform me that this child was mine. Did not find out until a levy was put on my bank account on Dec 5, 2001.
Now the court wants child support back to Aug of 1999.
Please Help!!
Name: William Blake
EMail: will@blakegraphic.com
Comment: Recently (April 2002) found my 15 yr-old daughter. Visited her in another state; went great. Want to live close to her now, need advice. Thanks -
Name: Bob J.
EMail: bjaiyx@aol.com
Comment: I am not combative by nature. I am a commited and observant Jew. I am now financially devasted by unemployment for more than 9 months and an unrelenting assault by the legal counsel of the mother of my 2yr old child.
The Ct. has ordered me to appear monthly documenting attempts to find work with ledger and emails and detailed contact information and writing up a declaration. I am living off of credit card debt with only a house and retirement savings left, no liquid assets. I am 52 years old. Atty. fees went through the roof with inaction of the court and opposing counsel chronic assaults. Once I earned $150K. Today $0 hoping for my industry to come back, but seeking *any* appropriate alternative work, including options with compensation half of that figure and positions with responsibilities below my capacity.
Is there any way for someone to function as an ombudsman to set the stage for stipulations that bring us out of this nightmare, bring an end to assaults, punishing court orders, and allow me the time to focus on finding work. The mother acts to achieve my economic destruction, not to support her child. There is a values gap that offers an opportunity to change the course of things Ct. continues to order over $700 per mo. in child support and childcare for me to pay despite that it must come off credit cards. ...Counseling is required, yet the ct. has refused to order it. My atty. now suggests considering a motion for recusal. ...This is all out of hand
I rather anticipate a response from you that mediation requires both parties to agree. I would so value concern to open up this nightmare, create some direction that makes ethical and moral sense. No law code or child was ever created with the intention to be used as a tool to destroy another human being and the father-child bond. Yet that is slowly and surely being accomplished.
I hope to hear from you.
--Bob
Los Angeles, CA
Name: Alix Brown
EMail: wadeich@yahoo.com
Comment: my husband has walked out becouse he has fallen out of love with me .we have been marred 9 years + i also have 4 beautiful childrenthat i fear he will take becouseit is me he wants to go but i refuse to leave its he wants the kids butnot me.i have no atturney and cant find help + not avalablefor financhule aid. PLEASE HELP
Name: Charles Montgomery
EMail: montgomery22@aol.com
Comment: I fathered a child out of wedlock with a woman that is illegal alien. She has heard from INS that she may be getting deported. Do I have any rights? Would I be able to gain custody of this child. I am married and have one child with my wife.PLease someone help me.
Name: Charles Montgomery
EMail: montgomery22@aol.com
Comment: I fathered a child out of wedlock with a woman that is illegal alien. She has heard from INS that she may be getting deported. Do I have any rights? Would I be able to gain custody of this child. I am married and have one child with my wife.PLease someone help me.
Name: Robert Flanagan
EMail: Bigsmoothrobwf1@aol.com
Comment: Since my daughter was born I have had problems with her mother and how see has not let me see my daughter and the outrageous child support that I have to pay. I try to get some help and everyone seems to give me excuses and or have no answers.
Name: joseph
EMail: sexyk34@hotmail.com
Comment: well for the last couple years i have been unemployed which doesnt help me at all.i havent seen my children in these two years as well.the mother of my children is living and sleeping with a convicted child molester and he sees my children where i cannot.i was found in contempt of court,the first time i became unemployed,and i served 3 months in jail.again i was found in contempt shortly after being released from jail,and i was ordered to pay support whether i was working or not a very large injustice to say the least.anyway when i lost my employment,my family and my freedom i was in a state of confusion for a very long time . i may have a warrant for not paying my support order ,but if i am not able to do so, or have not been able to do so,then i shouldnt be inprisoned for it i think i should be helped not punished for my inability to pay,i love my children more than anything in this world and i want to be a part of their lives if someone would just give me a fair chance that is all i ask.it is not right to be punishe dfor loving your children, is it fair that a child molester can spend time with my children and not me?. is it fair that the granparents say i dont have the right to buy my children shoes or toys if am able?. i think not,what do i do?.wage war on the people that are so intenet on keeping me from my children,if so, then i am more than willing to fight if that is what i have to do to be with my children,god have mercy on the people that try to keep me from my children any longer. i know that may not be the way to win my case but i have been ignored by the courts and the mother and the grandparents,i am just running out of options is there anyone that can help me fight my battle with the courts and the other individuals involved so that me and my children can have a happy and loving relationship?. if so please please help,sincerly your,a man who not alone loves his children more than life itself.
joseph ames.
Name: chrissy
EMail: chrissy81279@yahoo.com
Comment: i know your supposed to be a dad but i need some advice. my sons father believes its better for our son that he stays away and im trying to tell him the importance of how much of an impact he would have on our sons life. our sons 9 months and i want him to develope a relationship. what can i say to help him change his mind??? thank you very much for the help you may be able to provide
Name: Ken Logan
EMail: Kenlogan69@hotmail.com
Comment: help please keep my son and my home what is first after catching her cheat and so on
Name: Tony
EMail: dowfour@aol.com
Comment: Please tell me how to establish my rights as the father of a new born child. I am being denied access to and information about my child born las Friday.
Name: Tarrell Easter
EMail: Teaster@LandAm.com
Comment: I am trying to get custody of my 2yr old son. Because his mohter is not fit to take care of him and I have had him for about 6 months straight now and before that it was off and on for a while. But I wanted to know if someone can give me advice on that, because all I know is that I have to bring up a case for it and the cost of the case. Help Please!
Name: bill l. clark
EMail: big bad bill2@hotmail.com
Comment: Would like to know if i have any rights to prevent my ex wife from moving the children away being i have joint custidy.
Name: Chris
EMail: genofxcorp@netscape.net
Comment: I want to have custidy of my 18 month old daughter...move out of state to be with my relatives and have a better income.
I live in fl. an it sucks. The only reason I am here is so my daughter can be with here MOM..we share time 50/50. I am a freelance Graghic designer an have a hard time showing my income. My whole Family lives up north an I just want to get out of here. What is the right procedure to do so?
Name: William Howell
EMail: williamhowell2001@yahoo.com
Comment: My wife and I seperated over a month ago after she committed adultry. Since then I have moved to from our house in Cooper, tx to Dallas and she has moved home with mom so she says. In texas I know that you have to be a resident of the county for 6 months before filing for divorce. Do you have to be a resident for six months to file for legal seperation?
Name: kirtan
EMail: kpurecha@yahoo.com
Comment: thanx for having this site,i have some problem in my penis i.e i have just one ball below my penis can any one help me what is that because of i am 20 of 20 years and in tensoin regarhind what is this problem,hope u will reply me at kpurecha@yahoo.com
Name: William Howell
EMail: williamhowell2001@yahoo.com
Comment: Can you legally request the name and address of the person your spouce committed adultry with in the original pettition for divorce suit if you are wanting to file suit against this person?
Name: William Howell
EMail: williamhowell2001@yahoo.com
Comment: When filing for seperation can you stipulate that the mother can not take the child around any place or location such as home or club where men she has met are living?
Name: William Howell
EMail: williamhowell2001@yahoo.com
Comment: Does anyone have a legal seperation form for use in texas i can view.
Name: William Howell
EMail: williamhowell2001@yahoo.com
Comment: If you file for seperation and spouce gets pg will I be responcible for that child when I file for divorce?
Name: David
EMail: businessdev2001@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a 39 year old father of 3 children ages 9, 8 and 6. My Wife seperated from me on December 2nd of last year. I have tried to give her the room she needs but she will not communicate with me. I have no idea where my children are. I have spoke with individuals in her family who have insured me that my children are fine and my wife is trying to decide whether or not to stay married. I have never seen this before and I am not sure how to deal with this. Should I continue to wait or should I see an Attorney? Can anyone advise me? Thank you very much.
Name: Robert
EMail: Dadrobt@aol.com
Comment: Need to know how old children need to be to decide which parent they want to live with.We live in Oklahoma. Thank you.
Robert
Name: daniel boyd
EMail: dbboyd@rectorarkansas.com
Comment: i have requested from my kids doctor, info on medications they recieved. I am constantly getting things on my insurance saying my kids have had docs visits. the office said they would forward the info I asked of them 3 moonths ago. I am still waiting. Since then I learned that the state investigated them and my ex about my kids health. Its like the clinic is hiding info from me to protect the mother. what can i do?
Name: fernando sainz
EMail: chainmale69@hotmail.com
Comment: I am a father of two wonderfull boys and have lost all rights to them, at the request of an x wife that uses the florida child services as her personal ATM as well as myself. I am in need of some guidance as I so desparately wish to be a part of my boys lives.......
Name: Jeremy Norman
EMail: jjayspeppers@aol.com
Comment: From Denver, Colorado I have recently took over custody of my Two year old son for six months and am going to be filing for full custody at the end of the six month period have a lawyer retained and need to get a counsler involved with my son because of the way he was treated while living with his mother (no home her mom and dad are drug addicts, ect.), and the catch is that we talked to a diffrent lawyer on this and he said to wait till the six month end got closer to get a counsler but now I fear that time is running out and we need to get a counsler that is willing to go to court and testify, and all the counslers I tried will not go to court, any help would be greatly appreciated!! Jeremy & Robert (my son).
Name: sprater
EMail: stevenprater59
Comment: I need a valid email address
Name: steven prater
EMail: stevenprater59!
Comment: Need advice regarding child support laws
Name: Michael Lauria
EMail: malmatra@aol.com
Comment: My 5 year old daughter has recently moved from Boston to San Francisco. Her mother is getting married to a guy living there.
Name: Bill Hart
EMail: hartart@bestweb.net
Comment: I am experiencing problems with my fiftennyear old son. He and I have entered a "new" period within our relationship where he sees me as mean, unfair and an embassassment to him. Any suggestions as to how to deal better with this?
Name: BILL
EMail: lam658@yahoo.com
Comment: florida vistation law,when was it set up.Does a father have a chance if his wife has a child from another husband,to get custody or joint custody if she only wants him to have vistation.
Name: David Kelbach
EMail: kelby@vbe.com
Comment: I am seeking legal advice in the Oshkosh, WI area.
Name: Mike
EMail: gordonme1@yahoo.com
Comment: Hello again
I was wondering if there are any father support groups out there who can help in custody matters in the Virginia Area.
Thankyou
MIke
Name: J.J. Boyle
EMail: idlaberynth@yahoo.com
Comment: I have been grossly misslabled by the social/judicial system and have had my rights taken from me. My son and I have been wronged, and his mother is just as lost as I am. I need to find a way to go back to the system with help to exhonerate me so that I can get My rights back. A fearless lawyer would be the best help.
Name: Carol Sutton
EMail: csutton@visuallink.com
Comment: MY NOW EX HUSBAND ABUSED ME LEFT ME AND DIVORCED ME ALL WITHIN A YEAR. I HAVE GROWN CHILDREN WHO HE RAISE FROM AGES OF 3&4 AND NOW ARE 20 & 21. HE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM AND IS HIDING HIS WHERE ABOUTS FROM ALL OF US. I HAVE MAILED HIM THROUGH A PO BOX A LETTER ASKING HIM TO CONTACT THE BOYS AND NOT TO ABANDON THEM. HOW CAN A MAN DO THIS TO CHILDREN RAISED AS HIS? THE SONS ARE SO HURT THAT THEY CAN NOT CALL HIM AND JUST SAY HEY, LET ALONE CALL HIM FOR HIS BIRTHDAY OR EASTER. I AM BIPOLAR BUT I THINK HE IS THE ONE WITH THE BIGGER PROBLEM.
Name: carlos santos
EMail: cssbs627@aol.com
Comment: need somehelp on getting vissations with my daughter havent seen her in 5 years. she will be 11 years old in june and i will be 33 in june her mother is 28 just foundout that she is living in thomason or torrington in ct. I live in Bridgeport ct.I have bin paying child support since day one. I miss her very much and think about her every day if anyone knows of a # or someone who can help me please e-mail me at cssbs627@aol.com THANK YOU hope to here from someone!!!
Name: Jon Nicholson
EMail: Dahak_22@hotmail.com
Comment: I was told a few months ago i was a dad and i think sumthin goin on we lost contacy i think i know the reason but im worried i will never get to see my child and i really want to see her and take care of her and the mother please help me i tried all i can think of to contact her im on a fixed income and cant do to much spending like i know i would do if i could i am asking for help anyway i know how
Name: Joseph Boyle
EMail: idlaberynth@yahoo.com
Comment: I need to find out how to get my rights back.
Name: Al
EMail: adboulter@yahoo.com
Comment: I have three sons: 24; 20; 17. The 20 year old is the challenging one. He has always pushed me and my wife to the edge. His mom is the perfect mother; very compasionate. I am the one who is trying to make him stand up, be a man, and take responsibility for his actions. He is continually pointing the finger everwhere but towards himself. Recently his girlfrind became pregnant and had an abortion but never told anyone about either issue until after the fact. My son even blames me and my wife for this situation due to the Christian upbringing we gave him. He acts like he hates me and has caused his younger brother to barely tolerate me. He is away at college and is very popular. He is dringing way too much alcohol, too. Whats a father to do. Is it tough love or give in and be his friend (which would make my wife real happy). I am very concerned that I have lost him for life. Because I love him, this makes me very sad.
Name: bvreserve
EMail: bvreserve@aol.com
Comment: I have a 14 year old boy that lives in Colorado with his mom. He want to move in with me in San Diego. We have joint custudy with her being the custodial parent.What do I need to do if she dose not want to let him move?
Thanks, Robert
Name: Oddy Hansen
EMail: sssuzi24@hotmail.com
Comment: I need help getting access to my 3children in the supreme court . I have had 2 spousal assaults on the mother and she is in hiding for the last 5 years
Name: Chris Millier
EMail: laceygrammy@cox.net
Comment: I would like information to assist in gaining custody of children back to a father after divorce when:
the mother is emotionally unstable and not able to be an effective parent, cannot care for her self, let alone young children.
And what recourse is there when the mother uses the children as a tool to simply have control over the father?
Name: Chris Millier
EMail: laceygrammyAt cox.net
Comment: I would like information to assist in gaining custody of children back to a father after divorce when:
the mother is emotionally unstable and not able to be an effective parent, cannot care for her self, let alone young children.
And what recourse is there when the mother uses the children as a tool to simply have control over the father?
Name: Bruce Andujar for Brent my brother
EMail: bmandujar@earthlink.net
Comment: Please help with rights advice for these circumstances. Respectfully Bruce & Brent 404-427-4892 or 404-421-6888
Name: Steve
EMail: Slash@ckt.net
Comment: I have a very important question,what are the laws for fathers that sign over all rights to a child,and then after many years,since 1996 and now has found out that he owes child support.Is this legal in most states,does this person still pay even though he has had no relationship with this child or mother for years? The mother and father were not married,as for the father,had been in prison and knew of the child,but had no contact becouse the mother took the child and left the area. When the father was released,he had a court date and there he signed over rights to the child,due to the mother not wanting the father to have visitation and that she had taken all responsibility for years,and the chid never knew the father.They did agree for rights,now just this week,the father has found out that he owes back support for the child,he can not re-new his licence becouse of this,he has just found out that his licence has been suspended.He is very upset that after all this time,that this is happening,he has his life togther now,and he cant move on with this over his head.What can he do,does he have to pay even though he signed over rights?This happened in Rhode Island,what are their laws on this? Any help would be appreciated,thank-you.
Name: George Alvarez Sr.
EMail: gabroncofan@inebraska.com
Comment: I live in NE. I need someone who knows Ks.{Wichita} laws Will xplaine if someone can help me PLEASE!!! Must talk over phone, alot of bs has happen. 402-601-4361 PLEASE!
Name: Mr Benson Chege
EMail: bensonnjengac@aol.com
Comment: IS ANYONE OUT THERE WITH A GOLDEN HEART AND GENEROUS ENOUGH? HELP IS BADLY NEEDE BY A SINGLE DAD OF TWO BOY AGED 2 & 4, WORKING P/T AND TRAINING TO BECOME A DRIVING INSTRUCTOR. ALL WE NEED IS A PLACE WE CAN CALL HOME, WE ARE AIMING TO RAISE FUNDS TO BUY A TWO BED ROOM FLAT/HOUSE IN WEST SUSSEX. ALL HELP WILL BE VERY MUCH APPRECIATED, (2 bed properties prices is around £70k to £85K) IF ANYONE WANTS TO HELP, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO E-MAIL ME, THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR TAKING YOUR TIME TO READ MY E-MAIL, AND GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Name: mike l.
EMail: tireguy7@hotmail.com
Comment: how can my soon to be ex wife be working and getting support from me but still be on publicaid, and since shes been on aid shes bought a new car a big screen tv and paid a lawyer 800. to get the devorice started. isnt there such a thing as public aid fraud??
Name: Robert Martin
EMail: Bizybiz1@yahoo.com
Comment: My ex wife is taking me to court on back child support. Only because of her husband she has now.
they say im 12,000 in the rears.she has not counted the times every year the christmas that i have gotten my son ( over 1000.00 ) each year buying him school close birthdays and money when he needs it for school trips and things like that.
She has not attempted to do this untill her husband now is complaning about it.
Now she has no choice but to go throught it.
In our divorce agreement it says that the father is to claim his son on hs income taxes.
Well this man that she is married to has claimed him on his taxes since 1990.
My Question is should i mention to the courts about getting my rights of claiming my son refunded back to me if i have to pay back child support they should have to pay back taxes.
I hope i here from someone soon for i have to goto court on the 19th of march 2002
Thanks
Robert
Name: norman
EMail: normanmilano@rcn.com
Comment: give me an idea on how to make the mother pay for her with-holdings of my visitation whenever she feels like being vindictive.....
Name: Paul
EMail: pcherry73@attbi.com
Comment: Anyone able to offer some suggestions on my legal rights? My wife recently left me for a friend of mine that I gave a job to, a ride each day as well as provided food and shelter for free to. I am trying to keep my kids. I have not found a lawyer yet. She wants to come to the house, while I am not here, to see the kids. I do not trust her. She could take things and sell them or whatever. Anyone know if I have to allow her this? I offered to arrange a mutualy agreeable meeting, but she refused. Any suggestions?
Name: Michael McMurray
EMail: michael_mcmurray@sierramicrowave.com
Comment: There are two entries in your guest book that need to be deleted, both are on 5/31/01 one has my e-mailon it, michael_mcmurray@sierramicrowave.com and the other is something I do not know, e-mail ncaap.com or something like that. This entry were made by someone using my name and playing games, please erase them from you web site. Please contact me when this is done. Thank you for your help...
Micheal McMurray
Name: Jose Pol
EMail: j-pol@att.net
Comment: I am trying to contact other men that are paying alimony and child support while the ex lives in a common law marriage with her boyfriend but the courts do not consider this a reason to stop the alimony payments. We should unite and try to make some kind of case to stop this abuse!
Name: Darren Cook
EMail: dkraven@velocity.net
Comment: I am currently, simply, trying to formalize a coustody agreement between my ex and I pertaining to our 7 year old son. She has blown things out of porportion and thinks that I am trying to achieve full coustody. What can I expect from her and what can I do to plan ahead to fight this out.
Name: hibo
EMail: qadro2002.yahoo.com
Comment: how to write affidavit
Name: roy nelson
EMail: royboy2867@usadatanet.net
Comment: i have a 16 yr old daughter that i have never seen since she was born,i have been child support on a child that im not sure is really mine.i got this girl pregnant back in my high school days. i have been to court years ago over my child support ,but this girl never showed up for our hearing so i could get rights to see my child if shes really mine.i have been laid off for 5 months now and the registry of motor vehicles is threatning to take my license away,i told them i have never seen this girl since high school nor my supposid daughter.i have no idea where they are,or if the girl is really my daughter. what are my rights and how do i keep from loosing my license and my rights to know if this 16 yr old girl is really my child. in the past i have tried to get a paternity test but have no idea where they are, do i pay or not. thank you, roy nelson
Name: Steve
EMail: steveandsheri@msn.com
Comment: I am a fosterfather dealing with a lot of discrimination from the systym who is used to the women in the family takeing on all the responsibility in the careing of the children .Has any body else out there been through any thing similar sitiutions
Name: Charles Erickson
EMail: cme1965@aol.com
Comment: I am a proud father, hard worker, and well educated man, who is facing the very real possibility that my daughters will be forced to live three hours away from me, with absolutely no fault assigned to, or suggested of me by anyone, because my wife has opted to end our marriage and continue her affair with a coworker.
Briefly - Here is my story. Approximately two years ago I lived in South Bend, IN with my wife and two daughters (now ages 3 and 5), when I discovered my wife was involved with a coworker (she was 33 and he 43). After going through marriage counseling for a year, we decided I would get a job in Indianapolis and that we would have a fresh start. Once I had a good job offer in hand, I asked my wife in the presence of our marriage counselor if she was okay and onboard for beginning again in Indianapolis. At that time she agreed. I quit my job (also a very good job), started work in Indianapolis, and commuted home on the weekends to spend time with my wife and children. My wife subsequently quit her job. We sold our house. On the day we moved out of our house, and the last of our belongings had been loaded on the moving trucks, my wife informed me that she could not go down to Indianapolis. I have learned that my wife could not come down to Indianapolis because of her attachment to her coworker she had been (is now, and probably always was) involved with.
Since that time I have been living and working in Indianapolis. We are in the midst of a prolonged divorce and custody dispute. I am fighting with all my might for the custody of my daughters who are my life and soul. I have concerns about my wife taking care of our children over the long-term, and have paid to have a custodial evaluation performed. While neither the custodial evaluation nor my wife had anything negative to say about me as a parent (or as a husband), I am quickly learning why so many fathers who enter the family court system are dismayed by the inequality with which the family courts and others treat them. The court and the evaluator have ignored my concerns and bent over backwards to help ensure my wife is awarded our children. I have some evidence/proof in the form of testimony, a transcript, and tape recorded conversations that substantiate my concerns…to which neither the court nor the evaluator has given any credence. In addition to ignoring the concerns I have of the children being raised by their mother, the evaluator failed to document and report factual items correctly (such as our current visitation schedule, the number of bathrooms in my residence, etc.). The concerns I have with my wife raising our children range from her having said she has had thoughts of committing suicide, to the fact she has no means of income, to placing her own interests above those of our children, to a lack of care for the children when they are sick.
I think I am a terrific father, my wife agrees, and she has readily confirmed that that is her opinion to the court, the evaluator, and others. I have always taken care of my daughters on an equal footing with my wife (feeding, changing, nurturing, dressing, bathing, doctor visits, medications, playing, reading, etc…). When our children were born, I took family leave under the FMLA to help my wife, and spend time bonding with my daughters. I was in the delivery room for the birth of both children, and assisted to some degree with the birth of our first child. During both of their first years of life, I visited the daycare they were in everyday at lunch to feed them, play with them, and put them down for a nap. I carried frozen breast milk to the daycare and thawed it out during lunch to feed to my daughters. My relationship with daughters is very strong. I moved down to Indianapolis for the betterment of my family and I am now facing the very real possibility that my daughters will be forced to live three hours away from me, with absolutely no fault assigned to, or suggested of me by anyone.
What really gets my goat (to put it mildly) is when I begin to hypothesize how things might be if the circumstances were reversed. What if I had become involved with a divorced woman ten years my senior who had not raised (or had) any children of her own? What if my wife cared enough about our children, me, our marriage, and our family, to relocate solely in hopes of starting again to strengthen our marriage and family, for the betterment of our children and ourselves? What if based upon the fact I agreed to relocate, my wife had given up her job, her friends, and moved further away from her family? What if at the last possible moment I changed my mind, and then attempted to keep the children with me some three hours away from where my wife relocated to? What if I changed my mind because I wanted to continue my relationship with the other woman? What if I had no concerns about my wife as a mother? What if I had no means of income? What if my wife had the same concerns of me as a father, as I have of her as a mother? And, she had some evidence to substantiate her concerns? While what I have described in this paragraph is not the case, and hence I cannot know how the courts and/or the evaluator would be handling the situation, I believe my hypothesis, that I would stand no chance of being considered for, let alone awarded, custody of my children, has a high probability of being accurate.
I am in a state of disbelief. I have been trying to work with the system, and am feeling more and more like the system is working against me. I no longer know where to turn. I am hoping that someone might reads this and 1) finds my story interesting, 2) is able to give me advise on what avenues are available for me to pursue, and 3) potentially be able to help me out.
Thank you for the time you have taken to read my letter.
Sincerely,
Charles Erickson
Name: Jeremiah Coggins
EMail: slopfest62@earthlink.net
Comment: Am a father of three daughters. I am also in the us army. Three yrs ago I was sent to Egypt for 6 months with the army. At that time my ex wife had my three daughters in Alabama. She was unfit to take care of our children and her mother wanted to take custody of the kids. Her mother retained custody of the girls since their mother was unfit to do so, and I was detained with the military for 6 months in egypt. Since this time, I have remarried, bought a brand new home that will accomidate my three kids, and the two new ones. I want to get custody of my three daughters back, I have paid support for the last three yrs and fly to see them as often as I can. Their mother is not allowed to see them, and has not supported them finacially or emotionally. This last christmas while back with my wife and daughter, the other three girls made it perfectly clear they want to come live with us... and not with their grandmother. I need to know how to go about this, and if anyone has gone thru something similar to my predicament.
Name: Nicole Donaldson
EMail: nechol@hotmail.com
Comment: I need to know what visition rights does a father have with a child he just found out was his. The Mother will not let the father have any visitions unless he reorts to a relationship with her. He does not want that at all, he just want to be with his child. please help!!
Name: DCARRITTI
EMail: TCARRITTI@AOL.COM
Comment: WEVE BEEN THROUGHT THE ROPES WITH F.O.C. OUR DAUGHTER
LIVES LESS THAN 2 MILES FROM US SHE IS 13, WE DON NOT GET ANY VISITATION ALTHOUGH ITS COURT ORDERED, WEVE RECENTLY SEEK AN ATTORNEY HOWEVER VERY COSTLY, THIS HAS BEEN AN
ON GOING SITUATION FOR 8 YEARS NO X-MAS NO EASTER NOTHING!!
LOOKING FOR ADVICE TO DO THIS WITH OUT COSTLY ATT. FEES
PLEASE HELP IF YOUN CAN
Name: Craig Boyden
EMail: trittlover@hotmail.com
Comment: Can I give up parental rights on my son and not pay support anymore. I cannot make the payments the court orders and I keep going to jail. Please help me!
Name: Nicholas
EMail: justinianona@3maw.usmc.mil
Comment: I need help finding out my rights for visitation of my daughter! I am in california and my ex is denying me visitation of my daughter.
Name: Dominique
EMail: Uneekeme1@aol.com
Comment: I am trying to find the support group for single dads in Chattanooga , Tennessee. I hear they advise you on custodial situations,finding legal help,and more.
Any help will be helpful,thank you,
Dominique
Name: mark smith
EMail: markjeanniewinter@yahoo.com
Comment: i am being charged with a feloney domestic violence charge even though it was all verbal i have a drinking problem and this is my third offence and i am trying to fight the feloney charge and get a misdeameanor my wife is on myside and is also trying to find way to fight it there are programs i can go to that need to be court ordered that i belive would be helpful but do not want the felony conviction do you have any ideas
Name: Curtis
EMail: cvdb549@aol.com
Comment: tell me about how a court is allowed to make me pay more than I can afford ruled on because of a prior job
Name: james davis
EMail: trdav1@netscape.net
Comment: i live in ca.my 3yr old son lives in mo.with his mother.her and i were never married.i had dna testing done to prove he is my son.his mother has made it clear that she does not want me to be the childs father.she has made false allegations changed judges changed attorneys and has stated to me that she will do what ever it takes to keep me away.i am a great father my wife and i are foster parents.is thetre anyone who can help with this maddness?
Name: victor
EMail: grey_gris@msn.com
Comment: i wanted to know if someone can recommend a good lawyer in chicago to help me get joint custody for my son and also get visitation rights. please help me i want to get a lawyer in which i can trust and not just want to get paid
Name: gloria
EMail: glovar@hotmail.com
Comment: hi
Name: Jeff Pierce
EMail: hshsyd@aol.com
Comment: DSS has prevented me from having ANY contact with my two children for more than three years. They have done this without giving me a trial for the false statements made by my ex during our divorce. I have reached the end of my rope in ALL areas and I need help quickly.
Name: aboyle
EMail: aboylej@home.com
Comment: My brother was released into probation, that probation was rescinded due to back child support, an enormous sum. There will be a warrant issued for his arrest because of non-payment. He is currently unemployed, living in the middle of nowhere, no transportation. His parole officer is, lets say, "not helpful". He lives in Kansas. I am looking for help for him in this situation, wether its in support groups for dads in Kansas or support groups that can help with legal advice. My brother was taken to court while he was incarcerated by his ex-wife and was trying to take away his rights as a father by having his daughter adopted by her boyfriend. I need help helping him. Thank you for any help you can give us.
Name: TROY ALAN CAMERON
EMail: TCALAN1017@AOL.COM
Comment: GIVEING INFO ON HOW TO COMBAT ARREARAGES THAT ARE OUT OF SITE. EMPLOYMENT IN MICHIGAN IS NOT GOOD. THEY WANT TO CHARGE ME WITH A FELONY FOR NON PAYMENT.
Name: bill martin
EMail: BillMart06@hotmail.com
Comment: my ex wifes husband is beating my kids and nobody will help
Name: Ben
EMail: woodywp@collegeclub.com
Comment: Reffussed visitation
Name: robert eller
EMail: bird@area-net.com
Comment: Robert Eller
PO Box 83
Chilhowie, VA 24319
276-646-3467
Cell Phone: 276-685-3216
I am writing concerning my two kids that live in Portsmouth, Ohio. My little girl, Rhonda Eller, is 14 years old. My son, Robert Eller, is 12 years old. In 1992, their mother, Sandra Proudfoot, and I separated.
From 1992 to 1997 I did not get to see my kids at all. In 1998, Ms. Proudfoot filed for custody in Batavia, OH. I tried to get custody of my kids then. I pleaded with the judge then to let me have my kids. He told me that Ohio law prevented me from getting my kids because I had not seen them in such a long period of time. I had police records with me in court stating that the police has been to their residence over 50 times. Most of the calls were involving domestic disputes with boyfriends. A few of the calls even directly concerned my children directly. Her own adult daughter called the police one time because she was afraid her mother was to drunk to care for the children. It is obvious from the 911 records that I obtained that Ms Proudfoot has a drinking problem. I proved that she had been convicted of a DWI. Everything that she claimed against me I had proof showing that it was not true. In the end all the judge could tell me was that he couldn’t give me my kids. After court was over the judge started a conversation with Ms. Proudfoot’s mother. He knew her personally. Ms Proudfoot’s mother retired from Social Services in Ohio. I believe this had an influence on the case.
I was granted visitation for the last Sunday of each month. The judge told me that I had to establish a relationship with my children and prove to him that I wanted my children by visiting them for 12 months. For eleven months I traveled 5 hours one way to see my kids from 9 a.m. to 7 p.m. the Saturday of each month. After the 11th month she then moved back to Texas for a while. She is now back in Ohio. I have seen my kids once since then. I have not seen my kids in almost 2 years now.
Ms. Proudfoot has lived at 5 confirmed different addresses. I have done some investigating of my own and got the 911 reports for 3 of the addresses. The 911 reports I have obtained are at the bottom of this letter. I am still missing reports for 1113 Borin Avenue, Portsmouth, OH and 407 Stonelick Woods Drive, Batavia, OH.
There is 50 times the law was called that directly involve my kids. Every time the law is called it affects a child, but 50 times…. What about the other times that wasn’t serious enough to call the law. Common practice is not to call the law unless there is a serious problem that can not be handled any other way. There is several calls where my children called in themselves claiming they can’t find their mother or because their mother was fighting or because somebody had assaulted them.
If you take time to go over this very long list you can see that things are getting worse and worse. I have been talking to some of the neighbors and found out that Ms. Proudfoot stabbed a guy, Reese Frazier, in the eye in the Summer of 2001. My two kids live in a house of disruption constantly. Neither of my children are doing good in school and now they are starting to get into trouble with the law, but the reason why is seen in these 911 reports. I am missing reports from at least 2 counties. Scioto County for the 1113 Borin Ave and Batavia County for 407 Stonelick Wood Drive. I am requesting these reports now.
Children First Services has been doing an ongoing investigation. Needless to say not a very good investigation. They were not aware that the police had been called to kids home that many times until I told them. I live in Virginia and was able to get these reports. Children First Services is located right there in Portsmouth, OH looks to me like they could get these records easier and faster than I could. On January 2, 2002, I spoke with Alice Bauer with Children First Services in Portsmouth, OH, she agreed with me that she believed that Rhonda and Robbie were being mentally abused but said she wasn’t going to do anything. She even laughed at me for being concerned about the safety of my children. All she would tell me was to get an attorney. I am not asking Children First Services to fight my custody battle. What I am asking them to do is their job. They are allowing my children to stay and live in a dangerous home when they have a father that would give them a peaceful home in a stable environment. If the courts or Child First Services don’t want me to have my children then I believe they would be better off in a foster home. My main concern is NOT me having custody but the welfare of my children.
I went and seen an attorney in Portsmouth on January 2, 2002. He told me that the judge would not let my have my children because I had not seen them in such a long time. This is not my fault. I have lived in the same place for 9 years. Ms. Proudfoot has moved my children from place to place for 9 years. Every time I get close to seeing my kids she moves some where new. The court system of Ohio is punishing me and my children because Ms. Proudfoot has not allowed me to see them.
On January 2, 2002, I was going to try and see my children. I rode by their home twice. There was not a curtain hanging in the front picture window and I was not sure if I was at the right place. I called Ms. Proudfoot’s mother and asked her if she was aware that the police had been to her daughter’s home that many times. Some how she knew I was in Portsmouth and told me that if I went by there the police would be there one more time for me. I decided not to go see my children because I was afraid they would call the law on me and I don’t want my children traumatized anymore than they already have been.
The first time I went to court I did not have a lawyer and basically got screwed. I am in need of some serious help. My kids need out of this dangerous environment. My main concern is getting my children out of such a dangerous home. Ms. Proudfoot has had convicted felons living in the house with my children. They are constantly around violence. Yes, I want my kids, but if I can’t have them they would be better off in a foster home. The mental abuse these children have been through is apparent in the police reports. Who is to say that they have not been physically or sexually abused. I am not accusing anyone of this, but it makes you wonder if they have been exposed to anything else harmful besides mental abuse. No one should have to live like these 2 kids have lived the past 9 years.
And yes, I am paying child support, but apparently is to help her keep these kids in a dangerous environment.
Please, please, someone help my children, Rhonda and Robbie Eller!
Sincerely,
Robert Eller
416 Market Street A, Portsmouth, OH
Day of week Date Time Complaint name Complaint Status Report # CALL#
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SUN 5-1-94 9.25 2 SM JUVES 5YOA 6YOA CALL SAID THEY CAN’T FIND THEIR MOM AND HER BOYFRIEND THEY CAN’T GET HIM AWAKE BOTH SUBJS WERE THERE AND AWAK 9404607
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MON 10-31-94 9.21 SANDRA PROB W/ DAUGHTER DV CARD SIGNED 9419349
SUN 11-20-94 2.11 ROBERT ELLER CHECK WELFARE OF CHILDREN RONDA 7 AND ROBBING 6 FATHER BELIEVES THEY ARE ALONE MO SANDRA MCDANIEL 9420896
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SAT 1-28-95 11.51 MICHAEL OWENS CHK APT FOR RUNAWAY CHILDREN SERVICES JAMES HADDING SUBJ TURNED OVER 9502098
MON 1-30-95 17.10 SANDRA FEMALE SAYS A FEMALE JUST HIT HER/SHE WANTS TO SEE OFF ADVISED SUBJ 9502239
SUN 2-5-95 2.04 ROBERT ELLER CHECK ON ROBERT ELLER, 6 YRS OLD, POSSIBLY ILL, MOTHER MAY BE DRUNK CHILD OK, MOTHER ABLE TO CARE FOR HIM 9502693
SUN 2-5-95 3.38 ROBERT ELLER ADVISE RESIDENT TO STOP CALLING HER EX HUSBAND SPOKE W/SUBJECT, SAID RESIDENT HAD NOT CALLED EX AT ALL 9502705
SAT 3-4-95 0.34 SANDRA 17 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER KNOCKED COMP DOWN AND SOMEONE TRIED TO RUN HER OVER MOTHER IS DRUNK/PPD DOESN’T KNOW WHAT PROBLEM IS 9504943
MON 3-6-95 19.00 SANDRA COMPL SAYS SHE HASN’T SEEN HER 17 YR OLD DTR DANIELL OWENS SINCE FRIDAY REPORT 9505210
SAT 3-18-95 20.26 ROBERT ELLER CHECK ON ROBER 5 & RHONDA 6 - THEIR MOM CALLED COMP (DAD) & SAID THEY WERE SICK - HE WANT PPD TO CHECK & SEE IF THEY ARE 9506261
SUN 4-2-95 15.12 SANDRA THEFT OF $200 FM PURSE 9507500
MONDAY 10-2-95 16.33 SANDRA WANT TO TALK TO OFF IN REF TO EX-BOYFRIEND MAKING THREATS TOOK PLACE IN GREEUP COUNTY ADVISED COMPL 9524221
SAT 10-21-95 15.38 SANDRA FRIENDS OF EX-BOYFRIEND BEATING ON DOOR TO GET SOME PROPERTY ADV COMPL 9525836
THUR 11-23-95 20.34 GEORGE CASSIDY WANTS TO GET HIS CLOTHES EXCHANGE MADE 9528458
FRI 11-24-95 22.32 SANDRA ADULT DAUGHTER DISTURBING 9528544
FRI 12-22-95 16.25 SANDRA MALE THREATING TO SLAP COMP & HER CHILDREN SUBJS ADVISED TO STAY FROM EACH OTHER 9530604
MON 2-5-96 0.26 DANIELLE OWENS CHECK ON KIDS OF SANDRA PROUDFOOT-MOTHER REPORTEDLY VERY DRUNK, UNABLE TO CARE FOR KIDSS CHECK ON KIDS, OK, MOTHER HAD BEEN DRINKING, NO DANGER 9602656
TUES 2-20-96 9.45 SANDRA PHONE HARRASSMENT REPORT 9603826
SUN 3-17-96 14.33 SANDRA WANT TO REP THAT HAD SOME JEWELRY STOLEN AGG BURG REP 9505953
THURS 4-4-96 0.40 SANDRA FAMILY DISPUTE W TEENAGER 9607319
THURS 4-4-96 1.12 SANDRA WANTS TO SEE OFFICER IN REF TO DAUGHTER TO ASSAULTING HER 9607323
WED 6-26-96 20.15 LARGE FIGHT IN AREA NO FIGHT ON ARRIVAL/ADVISED ALL TO STAY AWAY FM EACH OTHER 9614881
THUR 8-15-96 21.15 SANDRA 911 HANGUP/BUSY SIGNAL ON CALL BACK SUBJECT CALL BACK/WANTED THE SHERIFF’S DEPT/TOT TO THEM 9619717
THUR 8-15-96 21.41 SANDRA COMPL SAY HER CAR WAS STOLEN ON CAREY’S RUN/SHE HAS IT BACK BUT SHE WANT TO TALK TO OFF SUBJECTS DRUNK/NO REPORT 9619720
THUR 9-5-96 23.05 MELISSA MCCOY SEE COMP ABOUT PROWLER AROUND APT E NOT A PROWLER/WAS A CAT 9621689
SAT 9-14-96 19.25 SANDRA SOMP SAY CHRISTOPHER BYRD BEAT HER UP AND TOOK MONEY/HE’S HEADED TOW WOLOHANS ARREST #34478 2 DV REPORTS 9622532
SUN 9-29-96 1.18 SANDRA SUS VEH DK BLUE WITH MALE OCCU PANT PARKED IN FRONT OF APT WATCHING HOUSE SPOKE W COMP 9623897
SAT 10-26-96 1.54 SANDRA CHRIS BYRD AT RESIDENCE/HAS RESTRAINING ORDER ADV TO LEAVE AREA 9626042
SAT 11-9-96 2.36 SANDRA CHRIS BYRD REFUSING TO LEAVE 9627256
MON 11-11-96 21.42 COMPL SAYS MALE SUBJ BEATING FEMALE OUTSIDE #34828/2 REPORTS 9627454
TUE 12-17-96 15.50 SANDRA DEATH THREATS BY COMPLS BOYFRIEND ADV RE CRIMINAL DAMAGING THREATS 9630189
THUR 1-23-97 2.19 ROBERT ELLER CK WELFARE OF 2 CHILDREN 7 & 8 YRS OLD/FEMALE HAS BEEN CALLING FM THAT LOCATION/HE’S WORRIED ABOUT THE KIDS KIDS ARE FINE 9701663
SAT 3-29-97 0.03 SANDRA COMPL HAS INFORMATION ON THE SUICIDE UNIT 6 RESP TO SCENE AT REQ OF UNIT 49 9707060
THUR 4-24-97 3.13 SANDRA COMP SAYS SHE WAS THREATENED TONIGHT/ WANTS TO SEE OFFICER 9709246
TUES 5-20-97 18.56 SANDRA BLACK MALE THREATENED RESIDENT WITH SOME TYPE OF HAND GUN HE WENT INSIDE APT D/ HAS ORANGE T SHIRT WHITE SHORTS AGG MENACING REPORT TAKE PROBLE GOA 9711607
TUES 5-20-97 19.53 SANDRA SUBJS DIST 1M 1F ANTHONY POSS HAS GUN 9711614
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1625 Robinson Ave, Portsmouth, OH
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1920 6th Street, Portsmouth, OH
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Name: test
EMail: alan@newsolutions.com
Comment: this is an application test for maintanence
Name: Edwin
EMail: emorgan@vsu.edu.com
Comment: My relationship with my daughter has deteriorated to being one that is strictly based on cash and gifts and her mother has sought to have a rehearing again on the amount of child support one pays, she has reduced my child to nothing more than a paycheck essentially and I guess I am looking for ways to stop the madness and add some balance to our lives?
Name: Gregory Hunt
EMail: Closina@intellex.com
Comment: Can a vacated visitation beoverturned? Is there an appeal? Can another Judge be appointed? Is there monitary assistance?
Name: JuanJ.Rodriguez
EMail: HouseOfRodriguez@ev1.net
Comment: I found out that my wife had been cheating on me and have proof on paper can i sue her and get full cosatady of my 7 year old daughter please help i love my daughter so much and fell that i losing her
Name: scot mumma
EMail: mason@pa.net
Comment: i have a son to a women who has a 20.000 drug habit who has be keeping my son from me the courts took my son from her when thay found out about her drug habit thay gave costody to her mom/dad with out tell me ineed help some please help me before something happen to my son
Name: charlie
EMail: charlie73161@aol.com
Comment: my x dosenot let me see my dother
Name: charlie
EMail: charlie73161@aol.com
Comment: my x dosenot let me see my dother
Name: MARIE
EMail: MARIE.THARP@TESCO.NET
Comment: IM NOT A DAD CAUSE IM FEMALE BUT MY PROBLEM MIGHT BE ABLE TO BE ANSERED BY A DAD MY DAD LEFT ME WHEN I WAS TWO HE WAS AN ALCOHOLIC DOES ANYONE THINK HE COULD HAVE CHANGED WHAT MADE HIM LEAVE M WHAT MAKES A FATHER DO THAT DO YOU THINK HE CARES ABOUT ME I WANT TOO KNOW HIM IM NO 16 DOES ANYON KNOW ANY WAYS OF FINDING PEOPLE PLEASE HELP ME THANKYOU
Name: Angel Bachstein
EMail: angel4slim@aol.com
Comment: I live in Carson City,NV I am trying to find out how I can file visitation papers so my husband can see his 3 year old daughter. We are going to court for child sapport on January
17th of 2002 and I would like to address the matter of visitation while in court but we cannot afford a lawyer. My husband has not seen his daughter for approx. 10 months. The mother of the child feels if he is not with her he cannot see his daughter. If anyone could help me write up the papers I would be ever so Thankful.
Name: alhayat98
EMail: alhayat@yahoo.com
Comment: i cant make chating .how plz
Name: Jon Jensen
EMail: jjensen@dominoamjet.com
Comment: I am required by Illinois Law to pay a potion of my daughters continuing education (1/3rd). The problem is her mother keeps telling her she can go where she wants, my lawyer says I am only responsible for in state tuition, and my new wife is tired of it all and keeps threatening devorce.
Help.
Name: shakima viera
EMail: shagah@aol.com
Comment: i need to get the paper work to bring to cort to file for custudy
Name: Kevin 5th part
EMail: kevkev@popmail.com
Comment: #1 What do I do to keep the 2 children in contact with eachother, the other father is really an asshole and does not care the effects of keeping the children apart is having. Oh, Yeah he was all buddy buddy with me when I was helping him to get his daughter back, but I think he is resentfull of how attached his daughter had become with me during the time(8 years) that he neglected to make contact with or pay child support for his daughter, what an idiot (HE HAD JOINT CUSTODY THROUGH THE COURT, AS SOON AS SHE LEFT CA 8 YEARS AGO HE COULD HAVE FILED KIDDNAPPING CHARGES AGAINST THE MOTHER)
#2 WHAT DO i TELL MY SON WHEN HE ASKS ABOUT HIS MOTHER, I tell him that "She is in time out", He knows she is in jail but he is only 7 and cannot comprehend everything so I choose not to confuse him any more than he already is. I NEVER, EVER, EVER, BEAT DOWN HIS MOTHER TO HIM OR SPEAK BADLY ABOUT HER, I WILL SAY SHE HAS MADE MISTAKES BUT NEVER THAT SHE IS BAD, REMEMBER, HE WILL ALWAYS BE HER CHILD, AND WHEN SHE IS BAD YOU ARE TELLING HIM THAT HE IS AT LEAST HALF BAD.
Name: Kevin 4th part
EMail: kevkev@popmail.com
Comment: Now for me, it is not all roses and icecream for me now as it may seem, I NEED HELP.
Name: Kevin 3rd part
EMail: kevkev@popmail.com
Comment: #1 Keep a calm head, when you blow up at authority you come accross as unstable and YOU WILL LOSE.
#2 As much as it sucks, BE PERSISTANT WITH THE COURT, DONT GIVE UP.
#3 BE READY, When it come to the court deciding who can care for the child, the will investigate you and make sure you can provide a SAFE, HEALTHY and NURTURING enviornment for you child.
#4 If at all possible, TRY TO MAKE SOME ARRAINGMENT WITH YOUR SPOUSE THAT WORKS IN THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD, PUT THE HATRED ASIDE FOR THEM, REMIND YOU SPOUSE THAT EVEN THOUGH YOU WILL NEVER BE TOGETHER AGAIN, YOU WILL ALWAYS HAVE A COMMON BOND AND IT IS FOR THE CHILD THAT YOU MUST KEEP YOUR PERSONAL FEELINGS ABOUT EACHOTHER ASIDE.
Name: Kevin 2nd part
EMail: kevkev@popmail.com
Comment: What I did was this, I left North Carolina with my son and headed home to CA where my real family was and a healthy supprot system was waiting. I kept contact with my X so she would know where I was with my son
I left all my belongings there, (MEN, IT IS ONLY STUFF) I left my job on a 1 day notice (I HAD ALWAYS KEPT THEM AWARE OF WHAT WAS GOING ON AT HOME SO WHEN IT ALL CAME DOWN THEY EVEN SUPPORTED ME, THEY EVEN GAVE ME A GOOD REFFERANCE AFTER LEAVING ON SUCH SHORT NOTICE)
I started a new life with my son, and kept contact with the mother. I knew she had her hands tied, she was on probation in North Carolina and was forbiddon to leave.
She called me up one day and begged me to send an airplane ticket for my stepdaughter, my x had informed me that she was investigated for alll her drug usage and the daughter was on the verge of being taken to foster care, I sent a plain ticket for my step daughter of 15.
All seems great for me at this time, I have found work, My son is with me and in shcool, (allowed to keep contact with the mother) and now the step daughter that I have always loved as my own but never had any legal rights to is on her way to live with me for a while, everything sounds great huh, Then the shit hit the fan.
I had never filed papers in California at first arrival there, Why would I, court sucks (when you are a man with children and there is a mother in the picture, it does not matter if she killed the pope, they court will side with the woman)plus, there is no way she would drive 2500 miles, with no money, against her probation in NC to come to a state that has pending felony charges against her to pick up my son and kidnap him away. "THAT IS WHERE I WAS WRONG"
She did show up one day, I was at work and got a call from my mother, WHERE ARE THE CHILDREN? My stepdaughter was watching my son while I was at work, it was legal she is 15 and it was summer, Yhe mother had come from NC to CA used the stepdaughter to get to my son and picked them both up and left without a trace.
I was distraught after this happened, I actually became a detective for about 6 weeks, I had to. T make a long story short, I followed her paterns that I learned about her over the years and concluded a drug using prostitute (my X) yep, she in in Vegas, so I went there, I had no clue to where she was, I looked everywhere, I remembered that I had given my X a calling card to be able to keep contact with the children, well that was her mistake, I called sprint traced the calls to the Hotel she was working at (in Boulder City, 40 miles from vegas) and explained the situation to the police there, It was deffinatly more difficult than I am writing, and took weeks to get the Nevada, California and North Carolina police on the same page, but after hard work, and CALM, RATIONAL, PERSISTANCE, my son was handed to me and my step daughter was handed to her father (asshole) My soon to be X was sent to CA via extradition, found guilty of fraud, pleaded guilty and then sent to NC and is currently in Jail until 11/2002. Nevada has no pending charges against her even though she changed her name to her daughters name and was illeagally employed by a casino (goes to show that everyone in Vegas is a crook)
the moal of this story is that if you are a jilted father that is being screwed buy the system or all the systems for that matter take my advice.
Name: Kevin 1st part
EMail: kevkev@popmail.com
Comment: I am not sure how to get help in my situation, First I would like to say to all fathers that are being screwed by the system, "HANG IN THERE, YOUR DAY WILL COME" I have recently obtained a restraining order against my wife and have been granted full physical and legal custody of my son (MEN SOMETIMES DO WIN THESE THINGS), she was located in North Carolina living with a Crack Dealer/Pimp and his Junkie Prostitute at the time of out final seperation, I say final because I kept going back to work it out with her until I finally realized she would never change. In 1991 I married her and became the father figure to her and another mans daughter, the daughter knows me as dad and has for the past 10 years. I left everything I worked for to finnally get away from my sons mother who amongst other things:
#1 violated her origiinal custody order for her daughter by leaving the state of CA for North Carolina.
#2 Left the state of CA with pending felony warrants for wellfare fraud in 1993.
#3 Commited Welfare fraud in North Carolina in 1996 and placed on probation.
She habitually shoplifted, commited identity theft, perjury, drug perscription fraud and I am assuming she was prostituting herself at the very end.
I decided after 5+ times of being arrested for bogus Domestic Violence Charges, that I would finnally write her off.
We had no formal agreement in court at the time that I did this so no laws were broken by me.
I took my son to a co workers house when things were completely out of control and there became no other solution, I confided in family and friends, co workers and my attorney. I took control and fixed the situation my self.
I told her that she had 1 of 2 choices.
#1 We would agree to do things my way.
#2 We would not agree to do thins my way. but either way I was leaving her and taking my son.
I am not a rich man, but I am very lucky, I have the greatest family on earth and they have helped me ever since.
Name: Kevin 6th part
EMail: kevkev@popmail.com
Comment: You people that run this are laim, I wish I would have known there was limited space in this field before I started, You want to really help people, give them enought fucking room to write there stuff
Name: Kevin H. Pues
EMail: Jeepdude90@hotmail.com
Comment: I am seperating from my spouse. I still plan on trying to make things work out. I need advise on how I can make thing work during the seperation, i.e. finance, time, etc...
Name: Al
EMail: ellitone@aol.com
Comment: We cannot afford the CVS test. If it is not my child she will have to resort to welfare to deliver and support her baby. I have excellent benefits and am ready to step in if it is mine.Please let me know of any resources or help getting this test and keep this woman off of welfare.
Name: Lindsey
EMail: babygirltx1@hotmail.com
Comment: I know this is a fathers service but I was hoping that you could help me, I am a single mother that wants very much for his father to be involved,and his father wants this as well,but his new wife wont have it.We dont know what to do because he loves his wife and his son. We live in two different states,I in Texas and him in Florida? Please help for the sake of our child.
Name: Stephanie Reynolds
EMail: SReynolds@WOCHS
Comment: Where would I go to write a grant to impliment such a program?
Name: Stephanie Reynolds
EMail: SReynolds@WOCHS.ORG.
Comment: Where would I go to write a grant to impliment such a program?
Name: Al
EMail: ellitone@aol.com
Comment: u there
Name: Al
EMail: ellitone@aol.com
Comment: We have explored options in prenatal DNA testing AKA CVS paternity testing or amneo**(however you say it)PROBLEM This test is way beyound reasoning finacially for us. They start at about $1300. We cannot afford it.
Name: Al
EMail: ellitone@aol.com
Comment: I have recently been told that baby is on the way. However, she admits that there is one other alleged father. I am ready and willing to support this woman if it is my child.
Name: Mike
EMail: ffemt129@aol.com
Comment: I have read some of the ariticles and archives, now I need to know where i can find some good advice and direction on how to be a good father.
I come from a broken home, and this is kinda hard to say but I dont know how to be a good father, or husband for that matter. I have been married to a wonderful women and have 2 wonderful daughters that deserve alot better than what they have now and I want to be a better father and husband.
I never had a male role model around, as my father wasnt around much at all after my parents divorce.
Name: Phillip M. Kerry
EMail: pkerry@entergy.com
Comment: Attorneys have found a loophole in the “Joint Custody” laws in our country!!!
I need information for an interim study proposal in Arkansas to draft a bill to close the loophole.
Attorneys are treating custody and visitation as two separate elements. Basically, the same 24 day/4 day visitation schedule is still being forced upon our children.
I am among the millions of dads who feels that their children are being denied their constitutional rights to equal protection under the law by being denied equal time with both parents. The best interest of the child is the premise that attorneys are hiding behind in order to systematically exploit the non-custodial parent as a source of supplemental income for the custodial parent. At the same time, they are denying our children their right of having both parents in their lives for an equal amount of time. Attorneys are motivated by money, plain and simple. There are also those within the judicial system who are still living in the 19th century. Attorneys and judges believe the 24 days/4 days visitation arrangement should automatically be skewed in favor of the mother, without regard for the psychological needs of the children or whom may have been the nurturing parent in the child/parent relationship. Joint custody DOES NOT mean equal visitation
I have contacted the President of the House of Representatives in Arkansas, Mr. Shane Broadway, about the problem we face everyday in this country where children are systematically denied equal nurturing time with both parents. Mr. Broadway has agreed to recommend an interim study proposal to the Judiciary Committee of the House so that a bill can be drafted to close the loophole.
Public input will be heard on this matter in early 2003. I am seeking reputable expert testimony, evidence, studies, data, etc. that supports our assertion that children are entitled to equal time with both parents. I need supportive material such as clinical studies that show children prosper better when they have equal time with both parents rather than 4 days a month with one parent and the rest of the time with the other. I need anyone who is an expert in this field to come and testify before this committee along with me.
Please, anyone with any information, material, experience in the matter, or who is willing to participate in the testimonial session before the committee, please contact me.
Phillip M. Kerry
pkerry@entergy.com
501-490-4795
Name: John
EMail: johnroberts67@hotmail.com
Comment: I have a son with a woman who lives abroad, - we met when we both were married - and she decided to have the child.
She and her husband got an agreement - and now my son is in the birth-certification the son of her husband.
She never asked for money and now I want to know which rights I have. I find it quite difficult to handle this situation. I confess - it was my own fault because when I heard about the pregnancy I was not able to believe it - and I left her alone. Something which I regret now deeply.
Does anyone know the "law-side" - or is there someone in the same situation? I am thankful for every support.
John
Name: mooter
EMail: nlusiddhu@hotmail.com
Comment: please provide me some material on the rights of a child born by Medically Assisted Reproductive Technique i.e. not born naturally to the parents, to know his actual biological father i.e. the man by whose semen the child is born.
Name: Michael schmidt
EMail: graywolf112062@yahoo.com
Comment: My wife is talking about a possible divorce and taking my sons out of state to live.We currently live in Minnesota and she wants to move to Phoenix Arizona.Her reason for this is after 13 years of marrige she feels she is not in love me anymore.
Name: Charles Hauk
EMail: Chauk1@earthlink.net
Comment: I have my 4yr old daughter 8 hrs a week less than her mom and have been on this schedual for 3 yrs now I have provided a permanent residence food and clothing in addition to paying 87.50 per week in support. I got behind in payments but have a modification hearing set for 12-21-01 I am seeking joint custody but cannot afford legal council. Can you help me? Desperate Dad.
Name: Rob Mertic
EMail: clarkdog@quik.com
Comment: Hi, I was arrested a few months ago and have not seen my child (2 year old boy)since. I was in jail for a couple of weeks and this really traumatized my son. I was released on bail, and thought my trial would happen soon. Nathans mother and I felt I should go to trial, do my time, and then return to Nathans life. I was just indicted for my crime and was advised by my attorney that it would be a couple of years before I even go to trial. O.K. I feel I should see my son during this time, his mom feels it would be less traumatic to wait until I am done with everything. I would like to hear opinions on which would be best for my son. I would also like to find some research or statistics that may help me make a decision. Thank You.
Name: mark
EMail: pamsprimitives@msc.net
Comment: i am writing to you in hopes that you can help. i have a boyfriend that has not seen his daughter in almost 7 months. the reason is because he is seeing me. the mother has always done this to him, every time he has started dating someone she would tell him that either he get rid of them or he would not be able to see his daughter. this time it did not work. his daughter is going to be 9 on the first of december. he has always taken care of his daughter as the mother owns a bar here in town and she would have him take her while she was at work so she has been with her father since she was a baby everyday except sunday. he really wants to see and have his daughter back it is tearing him apart. the mother also file a restraining order against him just so he would not be able to get to his daughter as easy. they are messing with her head and telling her that her father chose me over her. it is a very vicious thing that is going on. this woman is just evil, she also has a brother that is an attorney so she can fight him for free forever. i would appreciate any help you could give us in this matter. thanks so much.
Name: alan
EMail: naftela@netscape.net
Comment: i need to know the laws conserning step fathers rights when a step son is out of control
Name: anthony Sienzant
EMail: geozipper12@hotmail.com
Comment: What would you recommend to a father from Northampton co. Pa. pursuing joint custody who is denied a copy of the home study evaluation that he paid 350. dollars for... the clerk cannot cite a law supporting this, but asserts " these are our rules"
Name: anthony Sienzant
EMail: geozipper12@hotmail.com
Comment: What would you recommend to a father from Northampton co. Pa. pursuing joint custody who is denied a copy of the home study evaluation that he paid 350. dollars for... the clerk cannot cite a law supporting this, but asserts " these are our rules"
Name: NutWitMe
EMail: Nutwitme@aol.com
Comment: I need help with learning how to communicate with a 18 year old step-child?
Name: Ted
EMail: johnm1792@aol.com
Comment: Well, I lost my kids to my wife. She lied to the courts about herself and me to gain an order of protection. The courts also included our children. Nice, she never said I did anything to our children only to her. The courts ASSUMEs she was the primary care taker. Everyday I woke my kids up, made b-fast for them, prayed with them, put them on the bus, did homework, played and put them to bed. I have been tied up with the courts spent to much $$$$.$$ and after 7 months still do not know when I will see them. I hope someone there can help.
Name: jason
EMail: olskoolchaos@hotmail.com
Comment: when i try to go to chats I get a blank page. can someone help?
Name: Brad Adams
EMail: badams03@tampabay.rr.com
Comment: My wife is going through a dark depression and feels as if she needs to separate from the family to heal. My fear is that she will never come back for me and completely change the lives of my children. I love her very much and desperately want to support her in this troubling time. She says that she has no issues with me and that if she could overcome her problems, then everything would be o.k. at home. She wants to get an apt. for 3 to 6 months to work things out. I know that parenting is harder than hell and there are many times that I know she and I support each other. Sometimes we have to correct each other for being impatient or to loose with boundaries. How am I to know how to do this on my own without her support. She is my spiritual partner and I have no idea how to go on without her love. We have both started counseling. Please help!!!
Name: Paul F Riviere
EMail: djman1@grics.net
Comment: I have a 3 year daughter thaT I HAVE NOT SEEN IN 6 MONTHS I PAY MY CHILD SUPPORT BUT I CAN NOT AFFORD A LAYWER TO GO BACK TO COURT IS THERE ANY ORGINNAZATION THAT CAN HELP ME WHITH THIS IN THE STATE OF ILLINOIS PLEASE RESPOND ASAP
Name: Juan
EMail: aztec07_1999@yahoo.com
Comment: can i sue my wife for adultery or send them to jail
Name: Jeff Wyatt
EMail: wyatt0815@aol.com
Comment: I need help in getting over the fact that a judge is discrimminating against me because im a male and because i dont make a lot of money. Its been five years and i still dont have visitation with my daughter. If anyone could help i would appreciate it.
Name: Clifton R. Gray
EMail: rgray9@bellsouth.net
Comment: I am a father who makes $6.75 per hour and after taxes and child support there is only enough left to pay rent and utilities. the problem is that my wife left when I was at work and took the children to another state. I have been ordered to pay support but the D.H.R. will not tell me where they are. they is no court order preventing me from visitation. they stated they did not know where there address was. Some how my support payments are sent to them every month. Also one of my daughters have married and moved away from home when I contacted D.H.R. about reducing my support payments I was told that the court order did not show how much was ordered for each child so I would have to continue making the same payments no mater what. From what I hear in Alabama that when a child marries they are no longer suppose to receive support by a parent. they are supported by there spouse. I cant afford a lawyer and there are no organizations here to help with something like this. I have asked the DA to help but I received a letter telling me to hire a lawyer. as it stands there is nothing I can do. I have also tried to file the paper work to request a modification of the order but was told the paper work was wrong and needed a lawyer to file for me. The clerk then threw the paper work in the trash. I really want to be part of my daughters life but no one will let me. it has now been 3 years since I have see or heard from either one. if any one knows what I can do please let me know.
Name: Tim Blendheim
EMail: t.blendheim@angelfire.com
Comment: I am a father of one child that I have not seen in about two or three years I do not know where the mother is and I do not have the money for a lawyer I have been paying child support and the state takes my income tax return each year the woman that handles the case gives me the run around all the time I need some information where I could get a lawyer or just steps to see my daughter because to her I am nothing but a piece of paper with a dollar amount on it.
Thanks
Name: Mr. T.G
EMail: ratt2u@pinn.net
Comment: looking for help in my area that I can get in contact with, I live in the Norfolk, VA area. I pay child support to my ex-wife, we share joint-custody of our two children, however she will not let me see them. HELP.
Name: James Busby
EMail: jbusby@constellation.navy.mil
Comment: I am a father who has not seen his daughter for 2 1/2 years due to her mother not wanting me to have contact resulting from me not wanting to give my daughter up to her new husband. I am in the military and finally at a point in life after paying off bills from my marriage to this woman where I can afford to fly from San Diego more frequently to see my child and interact in her life. I am not sure what it is I have to do to be able to use my right to see her and how extensive is my custody of my daughter is. I need help.
Name: christopher olszanecki
EMail: gilligan991@aol.com
Comment: anything about nevada st laws and ifo very many issues not enough space very emotional also
Name: Christopher Bourgeois
EMail: DOIKNOWGUYS@hotmail.com
Comment: I NEED HELP, with legal issues attempted to get my son.
Name: John
EMail: sterite@mediaone.net
Comment: How do you deal with a woman that tries to control and gets away with it in court?!?!? ex: child#1 called dad to pick the kids up earlier, 4:15p on Friday instead of 5p.impossible due to work, mother told child#1 to tell "your father" to look at the agreement that she made with the court. (involving the kids again!!!) Mother told child#1 to tell "your father" to read the court agreement to child#1 who would then repeat it to mother. Dad refused and asked child#1 to put mother on the phone. child#1 said mother would not get on the phone & to just read it to her.(The agreement stated 5pm) Many other instances recorded since May 2001.
Name: Mike Walter
EMail: hpr3448@hotmail.com
Comment: Not sure if you can help or not. However, I have three children that were removed from me 2 1/2 years ago. Their mother moved them to GA, where they resided til last month. I have seen my children a total of three days in 2 1/2 years. There is currently a court order for their mother to deliver them to me every other Friday for visitation, and I to return them to her on Sunday. She has not complied with this order, and I do not have the resources to fight to see them. Do you know if there is any organization that can assist me with minimal to no cost?
Name: Linda
EMail: jojodancer2@juno.com
Comment: I am inquiring information for my younger brother. He is struggling with major problems dealing with his ex-wife, who hauls him into court consistantly either for more money, and visitation right. It has turned into total harrassment. He needs a support group that deals with the same issues to help him cope. This has interferred with his second marriage and has created such problems that his children are affected.
Could you please provide any information that I can pass on to him. Is there any support groups in the San Francisco Bay area that he can turn to?
Name: Steve Bates
EMail: Steve Bates@zwallet.com
Comment: I recently found out that I have a 7 year old daughter through the child support office. I have paid child support for 2 years now, I have never seen the child. When I ask the child support office about how to get visitation rights to see my child, they tell me that they are only there to collect the support. I have no problem supporting my child. I would just like to see her. She was five years old when I discovered that she exists. Can you give me some advice?
Name: Denise Donaldson
EMail: donaldsond@mail.doe.state.fl.us
Comment: Can you give me a contact person in the state of Florida? I know a group of men that are interested in forming a chapter. They are located in Jasper, Florida. Can you help me get them started?
Name: keith frazier
EMail: indentured_servant_420@yahoo.com
Comment: I have a child on the way and the mother wants to keep me at a distance. I need to make a better person out of myself so theres no way a judge can deny me some custody.
Any advice?
Name: travis vines
EMail: lmille30@bellsouth.net
Comment: i am being railroaded in camden south carolina by the family court system.my mom and i hace tried everything.we need help despertaely.please email or call at 8034328151.
ask for travis or sonya vines
Name: Anil
EMail: anil@mail.datanet.hu
Comment: I have a Hungarian speaking wife and am English speaking myself, though I speak Hungarian as well. We have a 6 month old son and I am not sure how we should speak to him. Currently I speak to him in English and she in Hungarian. We would like him to be bilingual. Can someone with similar experience help? Are there any books on the subject that I could refer to? I am based in Budapest, Hungary.
Name: gary
EMail: gwtaylor18@yahoo.com
Comment: Yes, I need help in trying to change the withholding amount of child to support to be based on my current earnings. Not those of three years ago, This has all been brought on by the local chapter of the Child support division here in San Antonio TX, and their unwillingness to look at the big picture. I have a new job and am enrolled for the upcoming fall classes,(junior college) and I also have a 2-yr old from my new wife.I have been divorced for six years now. My family needs my income here at home not trying to send over 30% to the mother in California. Please advise me.
Name: Casey L. Danner
EMail: danner1@prodigy.net
Comment: The issue I am struggling with is my relationship with my son. I am 23 years old and have a 4 year old with a 34 year old woman. My issues run deep and I would like to involve others in my experiences. I would like to be involved with you cause and would appreciate any input and from others in my situation.
Name: Brad
EMail: borosey@houston.rr.com
Comment: My 12 year old son has a friend of his that is continuously playfully hitting, slaping, etc. my son. My son is getting extremly anoyed by this. Any suggestions on how to get this friend to stop.
Name: andrew koppie
EMail: andy62@optonline.net
Comment: I have sole custody of my 2 sons 9 yo & 10 yo. The mother rarley excercises her visitation. My 10 yo is suffering because of her. She is abuseive mentally and phsically to both kids. This past week visitation was for summer visitation. My 10 yo was there for 4 days before there was a problem and she wanted him out of her house. The 9 yo stayed. 2 days later the 10 yo calls to see if he can go back, and she flatly says no. My 10 yo is devistated,depressed, crys alot. I have been doing things he likes to do to keep his mind off her. When I call she hangs up on me. I really think she knows how she is hurting the 10 yo. He has called her 4X and she hasnt returned his phone calls. I am sick I cant sleep. I feel so bad for my son. I tell him that I will always be there etc. , how do you deal with a miserable mother like this. PS this isnt even 1/1000 of the past. If you can help us I appreciate all input. PSS I live in New York(Nassau County) And I am a retired NYC Police Officer. Peace andy
Name: Marissa
EMail: mlogan79@hotmail.com
Comment: HI
Fathers needed for storytelling study! I am a research
assistant at Suffolk University in Boston, MA and am in need of fathers
with preschoolers to read a book to their child (3,4, or 5 years-old) and
record it. I feel that fathers deserve much more credit than they get
and hope to disprove some of the stereotypes against them. If you
want more info, or want to help, please email me at mlogan79@hotmail.com
Thank you so much
Name: David Bobadilla
EMail: david_bobadilla@hotmail.com
Comment: Need to locate my child who lives with his mom in Emporia, Virginia. Would like to resume visitation with him.
Name: lilly
EMail: lilly_lou2002@yahoo.com
Comment: I was never married to my son father. He has not had a good relationship with our 6year old son. He spent a year away from his son and not supporting him. He went to the army for 3 1/2 yrs. In that time my son and I moved 2000 miles away. There were no visits on leave and not many phone calls. Not even a Christmas card. Now that he is out of the army he want to see and spend more time with him. I want that for my son and his father. My son feels worried when we talk about him visiting with his father. How can I talk with his father about our son’s feelings without him getting defensive with me? How can I get him to see our son as person with feelings too?
Name: stuart bryson
EMail: Wo0Kk@aol.com
Comment: well i have an ex wife that just wont let mee see my child. she took me to court for contemp but the judge found me not in contemp.she fired her lawyer which from what my lawyer told me i had to pay some more money to make everything the judge said in court legal.well i just gave up because her mother hates me so much that it reflects on my child.i ahve three other children which i love with all my heart.i love my first born with all my soul but i rather not be around her if she too fells the same way as her mother .she is 13 now i havent seen her in two years.she has never called me dad,how sad this is. there is a little more to this story but i would like to converse with some one that has had a similar experience.
Name: Oreste
EMail: rodoreste@yahoo.com
Comment: Me parece muy interesante su sitio Web, y me gustaría interactuar en él; por qué no brindan la opción de ver sus páginas en Español? Gracias por su atención.
Name: William
EMail: Scoobypatrol
Comment: I am a divorced father of a 15 yr old boy; I have also remarried. We each have one male child from previous marriage. I love my current wife and I love my son. The problem is that my present wife gets jealous of my son whenever he and I come in contact.How can I get her to stop feeling that way while maintaining a relationship with my son whom also gets jealous oh her?
Name: Sal Maystein
EMail: terrapintrip@hotmail.com
Comment: I currently live with my girlfriend of 6 years, we have two beautiful daughters, 4 years and 6 months. I love my babies more than anything. In the past before my second daughter was born, I tried to leave my girlfriend. She threatend to take my daughter, so of course I stayed... but am not happy in the realtionship. Now I have two little angels who need a daddy.. I will not give them up... But the should not see their mother and myself miserable either. What should I do? Do I have any chance at keeping them in the area? Can she just leave the state with them? I live in NY. Thanks for the help.
Name: Ed
EMail: brittanyk123 @yahoo.com
Comment: I was looking for some advice. I just lost my court case of sole custody for my daughter. The judge told me I was obessed with my daugher, even though the mother had neglected my daugters medical attention I had all the doctor offices on my side saying that she went against doctors recommendation, and that I inquired about her medcial needs. It was even proven that she had missed 41 out of 71 homework assignments. The school teacher testified on my behalf, and told the courts that she had tried to contact my x on several occassion and was told she was to busy to meet with my daughters mother. Than the school teacher testified that I had called the school requested my daughters report card and once recieveing gave that school hell, and meet with my daughters teacher immeidalty. And you know what happened to me. MY VISITATION WAS TEMPORALY SUSPENDED. See my ex is living 2 1/2 hours away from me, Her father use to be the balif in the family court system where I have to drive. Any advice or incourgaging words would be apperraited.
Thank you,
Ed
Name: James
EMail: emalepc @masterlnx1.net
Comment: The burden placed upon me from support is hurting my relationship with my children.
Name: netgeek
EMail: netgeek2k@yahoo.com
Comment: i am in a custody battle these days.
In the next month or so i will be going through a custody evaluation in Jacksonville, FL
Are there any Fathers who ahve been through the same and if so could you please give me some advice as to what to expect
Regards
Name: William
EMail: WChlwlly@aol.com
Comment: IVE notseen our children in more then 28 months I have a TRO on me because of child abuse with my oldest son the police will not charge me nor will C.P.S give me a lie detector test IM inocence Iwas married to a very jealous person and now that IVE got on with my life it is killing her she started this SHIT June of 98 .Ive spent over 5.000 inlawyer fee the lawyer says I should just give up or make the police charge me what do I do I miss my boys ????? can anyone out there HELP!!!!!!!!!! ALOHA THANKS William
Name: Kevin
EMail: kevinhav@yahoo.com
Comment: I would like help recarding the issue of getting help with gaining access to nonsupervised visits with my children. I have been doing this since Jan.2001 because I had not seen my children for 3 yrs due to circumstances that would take me to long to discribe in this space.(sexual abuse of a child). The court system is taking to long to look at this. I also need help with issue of support. I have no money to live on after they take out the support. Any help at all would be greatly appreciated.
Name: Kevin H.
EMail: kevinhav@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a noncustodial father of 2. When I divorced my exwife accused me of sexual abuse of my girl. I had not seen my children for 3 yrs. prior to Jan. 2001. I now going thru the steps of supervised visits with my childern. I have a lawyer who is helping me pro bono as long as he keeps it out of court. The problem is it is taking so long to do this.I have very limited monry due to the child support that I was told I had to pay. I need some suggetions to help me move things along in ref. to getting my support lowered & gaining nonsupervised visits again.
Name: john
EMail: jcy21901
Comment: I am involved in a court proceeding with a woman who is trying to control my, our Son. She has previously and continuously accused me of abusing him Motherhood is ownership to her she named the child after her father who was without a son The court has allowed her to call the shots for almost three years we are now involved in a hearing I am very unsure of the legal process and have had my relationship with my son suffer dramatically as well as it effect me personally and financially dramatically I am concerned about her care for him additionally as it was her mother who has previously spent most of the time caring for my son and additional factors as well any advice would be greatly appreciated thanks john
Name: Mark
EMail: Win7mag@aol.com
Comment: Help me to find resources to assist me in my struggle for custody of my 10 yr old stepdaughter and 6 year old daughter.
Name: G. Tatterson
EMail: litloff@aol.com
Comment: I am going through a divorce and my soon to be ex-wife has been very difficult. We have son that is wonderful but his mother is always trying to cause trouble. We have joint custody with her having phsycial. Example of what she does is as follows:
1. She promised that I could that I could have him the Friday after Thanksgiving through Sunday. She was to have him Thanksgiving to spend with her family. Then, I could have him Friday through Sunday to go out of town to spend with my family. On Thanksgiving morning she causes a sceen and says I cannot have my f--kin kid and that she is the one who says when and where I can see my son. So, my family had to miss seeing him.
2. I had him his birthday weekend. My mother had planned a birthday party with the neighborhood children for Sunday afternoon(12:30 - 3:00). She calls Saturday morning and says she wants him back home at 12 noon. I told her no that it was my weekend and that we had planned a birthday party for him. We told her she could pick him up at 3pm and she said no and would have me arrested for kidnapping. Of course I called my lawyer to see what exactly my rights were and he said I did not have to return him. She finally said I did not have to return him after upsetting everyone.
3. I work as a service repair person and do not always know what time I will get off work and if I am five minutes late pick my son up for my visit them she says sorry you cannot have him because you were late. She would not let my family pick him. She would call at the last minute and say you have to pick him up at 4 pm. That meant I had to take off from work (job)at 2:30pm to return back to the office. I get paid by the hour and cannot afford to leave work early. I have told her if I leave work early by pay is cut and then I have a hard time paying child support but she did not seem to care. Finally, I have now gotten her through my lawyer to agree to let my mother pick him up and keep him until I get home.
This kind of behavior happens all the time. If the State of Virginia wants fathers to be more responsible then some of the laws have to be changed to protect the fathers rgihts. If it was not for my mothers support I would have given up a long time ago. But she keeps telling me that my son needs me. Plus she is helping me financially with the lawyer fees becasue that is the only way my soon to be ex-wife will listen. What can be done to help fathers in the legal part of raising a child? Are there law makers working on this problem? I want to be in my sons life but it is very difficult. Plese help!!!
Name: Rev. Robert P. James, Sr.
EMail: robert.james@phila.gov
Comment: My ex-wife recently died and her mother has filed to void our joint custody agreement so that she can get full custody of my son Robert Jr. I am not against my son living with her. She is a seventy-one year old woman with one arm and she needs his help around the house. I simply want to be assured of quality time together with Robert and she has been uncooperative regarding our meeting to discuss issues financial, curfew etc. in a neutral zone-not my home or hers. I even suggested our church and she declined by saying if the meeting does not happen at her house there will be no meeting. How should I approach this custody issue?
Name: Jack Florek
EMail: jflorek1@yahoo.com
Comment: I am going to court to get shared custody of my daughter. I need an expert who can testify that it is a good thing for daughters to have a father in their life.
Name: Sean Whiting
EMail: Swhiting1@yahoo.com
Comment: Need advice on how to handle mediation and court in respect to custody of my child. Currently a court order with joint custody(mother has full physical, father has partial physical) mother continuously denies rights to see child (child sick on my days and weekends consistantly) mother taking me back to civil court to change the visitation/custody order. I guess my biggest question is how do i protect myself and son. how do i get full custody of my child. how do i prove that my child is in a hostile environment. how do i guarentee my right to see my child.
sincerely,
a very sad dad.
Thank you!
Name: Todd Gagne
EMail: sumcait27@aol.com
Comment: How can i get some legal help to establish visitation with my children
Name: Rob Camboia
EMail: bullwinkle_rd@yahoo.com
Comment: How do I tell my five year old daughter that I am moving to another state because of my job? I am divorced and see her every other weekend now.
Name: Lance
EMail: saletobe@aol.com
Comment: I am desperate to find out how can i get custody6 of my6 children and keep them in a good school, good home, and in the suberbs with me the breadwinner, and stop them from going with there mother who wants to move to an apartment in a bad area of the city?
Also how can I find proof that she is having an affair other then the little things I find? Does this really6 matter when it comes down to custody and financial support? My attorney is telling me if I dont have enough then drop it I can still get divorced But I need toi know this I still have to deal with her right and the money6 also? Thank you
Name: Nathan Ebe
EMail: neberpgh@aol.com
Comment: After 3 years of marriage my wife left me to stay with a fiend.I love them both and want them back but I dont think she want me or any professioal help.I just got out of the mental hospital over severe depression.I want to be giid father without letting my feelings for my wife get in the way of our relationshp.How do I get my wife back?
Name: Tom Mullholand
EMail: king01@bright.net
Comment: Would like to know if someone could help me with my visitation battle with my ex. The first time I went to court they ask me if I would get evaluated,Iagreed to do so with the advice of my lawyer. Then I come to find out it is at the same place that she has been taking my children.The first few times I went the doctor said she thought there was nothing wrong,and that I just missed my children.Then the doctor took it upon herself to look at the kids files,from another docter,and decided that I had anger problem. Well I guess you could say I do ,angry at the system . please help me ,desperately missing my kids, Tom Mullholand
Name: Kevin
EMail: Klearjet@aol.com
Comment: I am having marriage problems and have had an affair and need some one to talk to.
Thanks
Name: C.D. Benjamin
EMail: benjilovesong@webtv.net
Comment: My son is a father of two. He was having a difficult time here in New York making ends meet. So he went to Florida to see if things would be better for him. In the meantime his kids or without his input in their lives. He does have a job at McDonalds but he is not able to find permanent shelter. Does your organization have any time of program that could assist/train a young man in gettng on his feet?
Name: C. D. Benjamin
EMail: benjilovesong@webtv.net
Comment: My son is currently a father of two. He is having a difficult time making ends meet. So he dicided to go to Florida for a fresh start in the meantime his children are without his financial, spritual or emotional support. He is currently trying to find permanent shelter and a decent job. Does your orgainization have any type of trainning program for an individual in this situation?
Name: Ruben
EMail: antisocial068@aol.com
Comment: i have 5 year old daughter who is wonderful child.But she is very cruel to other children and sometimes animals for instance while bathing with with another little girl she was rinsing out her hair and for some reason grabed her and held her underwater and asked the little girls brother to help. I was so upset i gave her a good spanking and she didnt even shed a tear.My daughter lives with her mother,and i am very upset. i have noticed her also being cruel to animals. i dont have any idea what to do.could you please offer some advice. Sincerly R>S>
Name: Elton Schenk
EMail: ARSRECOVERY@aol.com
Comment: I am 25 year old father of two. My son is 5, and I have a six month old daughter. Their mother and I are currently going through a divorce, and we have to go through mediation(required by Wisconsin law), and presently our case in the hands of a gaurdian ad litem. During the mediation session, she would only agree for me to have my son every other weekend, overnights on Tuesdays and every other Thursday. She would allow me to see me daughter for 5 hours on every other Saturday and Sunday. Why does this country allow mothers to kick the fathers out of the childrens lives. My son and I have a tremondous bond and he cries every time he has to go back to his mother, and I am so fearful that my daughter will not know who her father is. Has anyone else been in this situation, or know how to help me get the time I deserve with my children.
Name: Steve Fortine
EMail: SFortine@kscable.com
Comment: I am looking for advice concerning my current battle for visitation with my newborn son. I live in Kansas and our court system is geared towards women. I am at my wits end, and could use some guidance. I have only been to court once, where they established three supervised visits per week through the wichita childrens home. But the mother is able to cancel at any time.
Name: Gayle Walters
EMail: prayamerica@yahoo.com
Comment: I am the grandmother of 3 grandsons growing up without a father. What can I do to help? What support groups does
my daughter and the kids need to be in?
Name: Joseph Holpuch
EMail: jholpuchrec@yahoo.com
Comment: The mother of my children (shania4) (natalee8months) has run off with another man and is keeping my children from me.
I have chemical dependancy of witch Im in recovery for. I belive the guy she is with is also a addict or alcoholic. She is in full flight
wont talk to anyone even her parents. I have not seen them for around 90 days. Im worried of danger towards them I dont want to
push to hard or she may flee the state. But at this point im exgasted. I have a good job a place to live of witch she has neither.
I love the women I marrried but she is sick and making very poor choices. I dont want to be a weekend dad and want to raise my kids
with or with out her. I NEED HELP about my rights. There is so much more to this it would take a hour or two.
But what it boils down to is that I love my kids more then anything and I want what is best for them. What do I do??
Joe
Name: Valerie
EMail: bruces_angel_2000@yahoo.com
Comment: We are in the state of Virginia , we need legal help , probono or monthly payments, his ex wife, after 10yrs decided she wanted all back and future child support, she wouldnt let him see the childern now ages 17 and 16. The 17 yr old is not his biologically, the 16 is, and wants to see his father but she says no. Because he didnt pay for almost 10yrs at her request and him trusting she dropped the case, we have to pay 791 a month, only 100 goes towards the arreage, we have only 700 left to live on,I have 2 childern of my own and dont get anything, we are literally in major finacial trouble !!!!!! By the way, she makes by herself almost 80 grand a year not counting her husbands salary. We dont make that much in several years of work. I am not employed due to having cancer. Someone please help.
Name: James
EMail: Vicious_4_life@hotmail.com
Comment: My wife just found out she was pregant with triplets.....we already have 6 kids (Quints and one regular birth). We make great money but still. I mean we have to feed and cloth six kids already and the eldest has a high IQ and we are having to get tests ran on her and now we have five more kids to take care of and we have two cars and a big old farm house (inerited) And we have horse and all tese animals to take care of and I am wondering what this is going to do to my wife and myself I mean I am working two jobs as is and she is in a mangaging position. And I am aslo worried about my wifes health she is smaller weight and this pregancy is giving her more trouble. What should I do????
Name: steve munson
EMail: smunson@camasnet.com
Comment: I have known Bernie for 5 yrs. and am like a father to her(her real dada abandoned her early and has died).I Have talked to her about adopting her. my concern is her lifestyle, partying, sex, and men realtionships...We talk alot about her relationships, what she wants, etc...but she is headed to a hard destructive future, her family is beside themselves in concern and i fear terribly for her future...all I know to do is be there for her and not try and judge...what more can I do..I pray and pray, hope and worry...any advice would be helpful
Name: gayle
EMail: sapceman2001@webtv.net
Comment: child suppot,why wont he pay but will pay for his other son. sent my son to visit him out of state, it annoyes me when his girlfriend is around when he should try to spend this time with our son. should i be mad? we cant communicate because he still refused to accept responsibility for his son and blames me and my family for his 5 yr absence. he also tries to use his own emotional problems as an excuse for his lack of involvement with his son. I am so tired of aruing and not getting anywhere.I just want our son to have a healthy relationship with us both. but it seems that hsi father is interested in money and his personal life first. Should I just stop trying?
Name: gayle armijo
EMail: sapceman2001
Comment: im the mom. my son just started seeing his father after a 5 year absence.he has refused to accept financial responsibility. he has been telling my son to live with him. offering a home with a pool, new car, a new girlfriend with two kids ( instant family) with the possibility of a new brother or sister. he already has another son in LA. we live in another state so visiting is hard. I allowed my son to go to LA to visit. I always have to be the one to initiate vistits and emails between them. I dont know how to get his father to understand that he is hurting our son with empty promises. every time i bring up that im filling for child support he threatens he will take my son, because he has more money than me. while my son was visiting him he surrounded himself and my son with his girlfriend her son and the other son. he and our son never were alone to talk or just spend time. he promised to buy our son a computer. instead he bought a new truck, even though he already has two cars. he constantly argues with me about his lack of money. he also reminds me that his profession as a real estate appraiser, works for his brother, is all under the table pay, so all i can claim as his income is from his bartending job. i am about to explode! i dont know what to do! should i just be nice to him so he will email my son now and then, send my son during the summer hoping his FATHER will send him back? HELP!
Name: Leslie J.
EMail: leslie726@msn.com
Comment: I’ve been looking for my daughter sent she was 2 ½ years old. Her Mother and Lawyers after the Divorce there came to my employment and toke all my money except $100.00 dollars. From that day till now December 30, 2000, I’ve not seen my daughter. She, my daughter is now 16 going on 17 and she and I have missed all these Years.
Name: Ted Fitzpatrick
EMail: twbd0630@msn.com
Comment: I would like to speak with someone about an equitable parenting plan/find a father-friendly mediator in the Portland, Oregon area. And I would also like information about whether if my ex-wife wants to be a stay-at-home Mom in Maine then am I still obligated to pay her daycare expenses?
Name: rappy
EMail: scooby1970@webtv.net
Comment: My problem is the mother(staci) of my daugter(Leah) is giving me a real hard time with visiting with leah. What can i do to show staci that i truly do care for and love my daghter?
Name: fred mccarty
EMail: fmccarty@coresource.com
Comment: I need to find a psycoligist to do a mental evaluation for my selt and my ex and my child for a court ordered custody case. I am afraid that this system is so slanted out here that I wont find any one fair to fathers. Is there any one who could recomened a fair and impartial Dr. to do this evaluation. I live in Lancaster county Pa.
Name: Damir
EMail: turist-info@zg.tel.hr
Comment: Is it possible that child has blood rhesus factor (-) minus
and both parents has blood rhesus factor (+)plus ?????????
Please very simple answer.
Thank you in advance. A Father.
Name: Tyler
EMail: gavinanddad
Comment: HELP! HELP! HELP! My sons mother is neglecting him. She has left him for days at a time in drug houses, or at her friends. She has a substance abuse problem. I need legal forms to file in the state of Oregon to show abandenment. To cease all her parental rights and to give me sole custody of my son. If anyone can help or has info to help lead me in the right direction it would be appreciated, From one father to another parent.
Name: Roy
EMail: rdgratton@hotmail.com
Comment: I need help adjusting my support and clearing of a past non-support .I can not afford to pay a lawyer,or would have done so. Any help would be great.
Name: RICHARD
EMail: formatzone@hotmail.com
Comment: i am a househusband and a father of 2 young girls aged 3 and 7, i am after residence and want to stay in the matrimonial home. my wife claims although i have been looking after the children full time, that she is the primary carer. She also cliams that i do no housework, do nothing, have nothing to do with the chidren`s schooling. MY wife has been the income provider and this is a total role reversal situation.
i do feel that she might win, because she is a woman, and the courts are baised this way. Is there any adivice you can help mw with?
Name: HOMER SIMPSON
EMail: smc@datawest.net
Comment: The issue I am struggling over is what I read about stacy keach. Its a TV show. You should grow up and find something else to do instead of complain about everything
Name: John Deason
EMail: Yanko313@yahoo.com
Comment: I am doing a paper on fatherlessness in the U.S. for my social work class and i have plenty of stats on the results of fatherlessness but reasons for or solutions if some one could send we some web address or other resources i would apprecate it greatly thank you -john
Name: kai
EMail: ksyte@att.net
Comment: How can I find out how to get order changed for parenting time of which I get none now, and the orders were made originally without my input. Thanks
Name: keith coleman
EMail: keffee331@aol.com
Comment: haven"t seen daughter in 2 yrs mother and daughter moved and never gave me the new address would like to know how i could excersise my perential rights for visitation
Name: David Casarez
EMail: d.c.enterprisesinc@juno.com
Comment: Visitation rights
Name: darron west
EMail: agapeguy@hotmail.com
Comment: need to know laws concerning supervised visitation in california
Name: I NEED ADVICE
EMail: LUCK3@PRODIGY.NET
Comment: MY BOYFRIEND IS A FATHER OF 3 BOYS AND THEY LIVE WITH HIM. THERE MOTHER POPS IN ONCE IN A WHILE AND HAS NEVER GIVEN HIM A PENNY TO SUPPORT THEM. HE LET HER SEE THEM,BECAUSE UNFORTUNATELY SHE IS THE MOTHER AND THEY HAVE JOINT CUSTODY BUT HE NEVER KNOWS IF HE CAN COUNT ON HER TO PICK THEM UP(her priority is going out and having fun,its all about her)BUT EVERY TIME THEY GO WITH HER HE START HAVING TROUBLE WITH THEM,AT SCHOOL AND AT HOME.SHE DATES A GUY THAT HAS HIT THE CHILDREN BEFORE,SHE JUST MOVED OUT OF THE STATE WITH THIS INDIVIDUAL AND HAS BEEN CALLING THE CHILDREN AND TELLING THEM SHE IS GOING TO TAKE THEM WITH HER. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO OR WHAT TO TELL HIM.HE WORKS REALLY HARD TO HAVE A ROOF OVER THERE HEAD AND FOOD ON THE TABLE.PLEASE IF ANYONE OUT THERE HAS GONE THROUGH THIS SITUATION PLEASE, PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. YOU USUALLY HEAR OF THE MOTHER HAVING CUSTODY OF THE CHILDREN AND THE FATHER NOT CARING FOR THE THEM,WELL THIS TIME THE TABLE HAS TURNED,BUT IT SEEMS SHE ALWAYS ENDS UP WINNING SINCE SHE IS THE MOTHER AND YOU HAVE TO ADMIT IT,SHE ALWAYS SEEMS TO MAKE IT LOOK LIKE SHE IS THE VICTIM AND HE IS THE BAD GUY.
Name: Dave
EMail: dl1324 @msn.com
Comment: The Catholic school that my daughters attend refuses to send me any info, report cards etc. i have been told that they do not have to forward anything to me. I am taking legal action, but I would like to assemble a group protest outside the church to increase awareness. Any suggestions on this issue?
Name: RON KALKSTEIN
EMail: RONK612@AOL,COM
Comment: MY WIFE AND I MARRIED 3 WEEKS AGO,MY DAUGHTER FROM MY PREVIOUS MARRIAGE CALLS SHARI (HER NAME ) ..MY WIFES CHILD FROM A PREVIOUS MARRIAGE CALLS ME "POP"..HOW CAN I EXPLAIN TO MY DAUGHTER THAT WE NEED TO COME UP WITH SOMETHING BETTER THAN SHARI. I NEED HELP WHAT HAVE OTHER FATHERS DONE? I THINK HER MOTHER HAS DRILLED IT INTO HER HEAD NOT TO CALL ANYONE ELSE MOM... HELP
Name: James Bollman
EMail: jbollman@cfl.rr.com
Comment: I am trying to prevent my ex fiancee from putting our baby up for adoption when the baby is born. We were never married and i want to assume the resposibility of raising the child. She has also stated that she has found acouple that wants to adopt the baby but wont let me have anysay in what happens.
Name: joey tarkington
EMail: tarkington1@juno.com
Comment: how can i go about getting childsupport from a dead beat mom? i have had my 2 boys 14 and 12 for 8 years and have only received about 500.00 dollars....we have joint custody custody and i was ordered to pay child support. i cannot afford to take her to court to get custody changed please help......she has 2 other kids now and was never married to their dad and has forgotten that she has 2 other kids....
Name: chris
EMail: birdiegram@yahoo.com
Comment: im interested in finding out how i can get legal rights to see my daughter and how i can set up my child support with the courts so that it is on paper that it is getting paid. i have been inconsistent with my support up until a few months ago. my daughter is 4 yrs old now. i live in californis and she lives in mississippi. her mother refuses to let me talk to her or see her. until this is all on paper and i have some sort of visitation rights i cant do anything. i just want to know how to straighten everything out so i can be a part of my daughters life now.
Name: Jay Bender
EMail: jay@bahaimail.com
Comment: My kids, Nuriyah, 15 and Rahmin, 12 live in North Carolina with their mother. I live in Virginia. They just moved last summer. I want to be the best father Jay Bender can be. I just starting working after being unemployed, is it possibel to waive the $35.00 until I can pay it? Please.
Name: keith davis
EMail: davis4@dwsd.org
Comment: THERE ARE PLENTY OF STUDIES DEALING WITH SINGLE PARENT MOTHER HOMES. I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF THERE ARE ANY
THAT SHOW HOW CHILDREN FAIR IN SINGLE PARENT FATHER HOMES? DO THE CHILDREN DO ANY BETTER?
DO THEY HAVE THE SAME PROBLEMS? PLEASE LET ME KNOW. THANX
Name: DAVID RICHTER
EMail: star44@bellsouth.net
Comment: I AM GOING THROUGH A TOUGH TIME WITH MY EX-GIRLFRIEND, WE HAD A CHILD TOGETHER AND SPLIT UP WHEN HE WAS TWO. EVER SINCE SHE REFUSES TO LET ME SEE HIM. I HAVE BEEN TO COURT SEVERAL TIMES, I HAVE ORDERED VISITATION. I STILL HAVE NOT SEEN HIM IN OVER A YEAR. SHE MAKES FALSE ALIGATIONS OF ME STALKING HER EVERY TIME THE JUDGE ORDERS HER TO LET ME SEE HIM. SHE AGREES, THEN TRIES TO PUT ME IN JAIL, THEY HAVE NOT PRESSED CHARGES FOR STALKING YET BECAUSE THERE IS NO PROOF. I AM SCARED TO GO BACK TO COURT, BUT I MISS MY SON. CAN YOU OFFER ANY ADVICE OR RECOMEND A GOOD FAMILY LAWYER.
Name: Matt Roach
EMail: roachm@db.erau.edu
Comment: help with child visitation/custody being denied by mother in violation of a court order..
Name: bill willis
EMail: ruggerquilts@hotmail.com
Comment: I need someone who can help me get my daughter out of a drug infested environment. my ex-wife refuses to let me have my visitations, i pay my child support, i have joint custody. I live in missouri and she lives in kansas. she is a pot smoker and drives a school bus for gardner, has now divorced her 4th husband and men are always infornt of my daughter smoking pot..she also smokes sigarettes around my daughter, making her ill. she physically and mentally abuses her constantly, my daughter failed pe last year because she did not have pe shoes. I have been to court several times trying to enforce visitation and change residential custody, but get nowhere. the gardner police dept knows that she smokes pot, and does nothing.
Name: Cliff Schoppman
EMail: ajschopp@hotmail.com
Comment: My son lives out of state and my ex refuses to grant me visitation unless I pay for all of the transportation(flights), despite the custody agreement. How do I enforce my custody without a lawyer?
Name: David
EMail: gumbydc1@aol.com
Comment: I am a divorced father of 2 daughters, which live with my ex-wife and her new husband. They have insisted that my daughters call her new husband "Dad". Also, they have put his last name, against my wishes, on all sorts of documents such as enrollments in activities (plays, gymnastics), as well as church documents, bank accounts for my daughters, health insurance, etc. I have always paid my child support on time and faithfully seen my children every 1st and 3rd weekend for the last 5 years. I have very limited financial resources. What, if anything, can I do about these situations? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Name: DAVID LIVINGSTON
EMail: DURANGO_D@LYCOS.COM
Comment: I NEED AN ATTOURNEY THAT WILL TAKE MY CHILD SUPPORT CASE PRO-BONO OR AT A REASONABLE COST SO I CAN PAY THEM.
Name: thomas alex valentine
EMail: valentine8997@aol.com
Comment: how to fine my daughter
Name: Edmund S. Aguilar
EMail: edmund_gc@yahoo.com
Comment: I am working in a school setting. I am interested in promoting a deeper bonding among fathers and sons in our school. Before making a program, I need to make a survey of the quality relationship of the fathers and sons. Can somebody help me in securing a material to test this ?
Name: lee sargent
EMail: cyberpunk15857@aol.com
Comment: i would like someone to give me some information on how to go about getting a paternaty test.(where do i go,how much does it cost,how long does it take?)
Name: Walt Taufen
EMail: captunderdog@lewiston.com
Comment: Custody litigation, and, Pro-se representation, and, psychological problems with thier mother.
Name: Chris VanHyning
EMail: chrisv@cosmedic.com
Comment: I need som help on geting custady rights on my two sons their mother is in jail and she says when she gets out she is leaving state currently my name is not on either birth certificate i have my boys now but when she gets out im sure she will take them from me! Can You Help!
Name: Phil
EMail: pmartinez1@juno.com
Comment: My daughther never wants to read or do anything constructive for herself any suggestions?
Name: John Coffey
EMail: coffey55@msn.com
Comment: How can I stop a wife who has pursued a course of destroying our marriage and has succeeded in taking our 3 children and keeping me from being their father? I am a good and loving father. She is an alcoholic, adulterous neglecting mother. She has taken everything I ever owned as well as the children, and is determined to keep me away by having me imprisoned by false testimony in court if necessary. The courts and police are manipulated by her because she is a professional actress acting like an abused victim. Her accusations are all lies. Can anyone help me?
Name: Jorge Gavarrete
EMail: jorgegava@usa.net
Comment: I need to understand mi daugther, she simply does not want anyone to laugh in front of her. I see this as a future social problem or is normal (She´s 2 years old). But she has this since she was born. She cries everytime anybody laughs hard.
So, I need someone to help me with this.
Name: janice mason
EMail: jmason@ccc.edu
Comment: I am a single mother of two small boys, ages 7 & 8.
I live in chicago, illinois.
Is there a local area chapter of fatherhood initiative program I can contact?
Name: Nick Morris
EMail: Lyotropic@hotmail.com
Comment: Due to legal troubles...I was away from my son for month 2-7..I really feel that this has created a space between us even though he is so young..we were just re-united recently..any advise as to what would make this coping process a little easier would be much appreciated...
Name: BRIAN MCCOY
EMail: BRIAN.MCCOY@NATIONAL-CITY.COM
Comment: HOW DO I COPE WITH MY TWO SONS CALLING THIER NEW STEP-FATHER DADDY
Name: eddie
EMail: lalito7634@webtv.net
Comment: my court ordered child support is over and completed even 10 additional months , but 6 months later now I have receivedaletter stating I owe an additional 22,000 dollars this is immpossible. what can i do I know when I was younger I paid directly to her but in latter years I had the money garnished.What are my options. It seems this mone is unaccounted for
Name: john grzeszczyk
EMail: jpantheman@.aol.com
Comment: legaly seperated at present I found out the wife is seeing someone and brings the children to his house. I informed the wife that I felt it would be in the childrens best interest if we would meet someone not to involve the children. I believe that we should put our efforts to our childrens wellbeing wntil they reach 18 years old. however she seems to have found some one despite my efforts to try to reunite our marrage becouse we have 3 children.
Name: ryan robertson
EMail: dymond-1@webtv.com
Comment: I am 19 and have a 4 month old little girl and I love her I realy do I just have a hard time doing things with her like changing her dipper or playing with her I worryed some one is going to acoues me of something so I dont feel comfterbl doing any of those things and it kind of bothers me and my wife because she loves me so much as soon as I walk in the room she stares and smiles at me this is realy hurting me and my family what should I do?
Name: Raider
EMail: RaiderM18@aol.com
Comment: I am in need of advice. I am 21 and suing my ex-girlfriend (20) for joint custody of my 8 month old son. My lawyer has told me that fathers have few rights in Texas when it comes to custody. Is this true? I know my ex-girlfriend loves my son but she does not put his needs first. I have offered to babysit our son while she is at work instead of her sending him to a babysitter but she refuses. While we were together my Mother was babysitting my son but, since our relationship has ended she refuses to let anyone in my family babysit. Just this past weekend she has decided we can visit but only when she is present. Please tell me what kind of rights I have as a father. I would love to have full-custody of my son but my lawyer says that the judge would think I was being greedy and hateful. My sons Mother refused to breast feed and works all day. I can be home to watch my son all day and all night. Do you know of anyone in a similar situation or that has dealt with a similar situation? I love my son and I am willing to do what ever I can to do what is best for my son. I am also looking for a good lawyer in South Texas.
Please help.
Raider
Name: Wayne Brock
EMail: saint-jude@apexmail.com
Comment: What are your views on what the Bible says regarding the role of the father with children, and your views on the attitude of the wife regarding the same subject. Thank you!
Name: Wayne Brock
EMail: generic@apexmail.com
Comment: this is a test to see if this will get posted. My other was not.
Name: Kevin Farmer
EMail: gwichin@acninc.net
Comment: My ex-wife got a devorce in Caif. in 1994 and I was never served our notified . Till my income tax was held for back child support in 1997 . and then our son came to live with me in 1998 and has been with me sence and I have been trying to get the support stoped . But I live in WA. And my ex-wife lives in WYO. the devorse was donn in CALF. and I dont have any money for an Aterney plus see toled the corts I was makeing three times more then I was makeing and thay want payments for the past 2.5 years our son has been liveing with me ! So what can I do ? It is over $40,000.00 thay want ! This is going on in Sac. Co. Calf.So any advise our help I would like very much Thanks Mr. Farmer
Name: Jeanne
EMail: JeanneGebhart@aol.com
Comment: Hi my husband heard about this program on the radio and we are hoping that maybe some one can help us he has been paying court ordered child support for a child that we do not get to vist or we dont even know if this child is his child there have been no blood tests done thats anouther long story but any way what he would like to know is how do we go about getting vistation and how do we go about getting those dna blood tests done so that he can know once and for all that the child he supports is his he is a great dad we have 3 boys are selfs and if this boy that he pays suport for is his then I would like to see that he gets to vist with him thank you for any and all advise
Name: ivette martinez
EMail: ivymanny@gate.net
Comment: i am a mother of 22 & 24 year old son. The father of my two soon
allways pay on time his child support but the institucion supost
to received the money in Puerto rico and send to my always
send my the money late. So I talk to him and he star to pay the money in money
orders direct to me, he never pay late or miss any payment. Now after so
many years this institucion is in the proces of auditing and
wants to suspend his driver licence and put him in the jail
for nothing. If some one own money to my two son is this institucion
in Puerto Rico. Puerto Rico request to my and Affidavit seal by the court the court said
he never open any case because he paid. So I and a ping ball
between Florida And Puerto Rico, and one man is going to jail for NOTHING.
PLEASE HELPME..
Name: Andy
EMail: parasol@gte.net
Comment: I am putting together a website designed for fathers. It will
be dealing with all sorts of issues, but will be focusing on
entertainment and informaion to help fathers with their difficult task.
If anyone would like to submit stories about being a dad, concerns, topics
to be discussed, questions you want answered, or anything else you may
be interested in regarding the art of fathering...please feel free. Thanks.
Name: oscar rimola
EMail: oscarrimola@hotmail.com
Comment: Please inform me how I can find my missing child. Her mother is on AFDC and has violated my court visitation rights. I have an ongoing paternity suit which she has failed to filed an answer to. What is your advise?
Name: Thomas Woolley
EMail: tmouse62@yahoo.com
Comment: My daughters mother is being charged with a Califorina P.C.
#11550,a drug related charge,What is it,I have hired an attorny to help me.
Can you answer my Question please,Thank you!
Thomas woolley
Name: boyd
EMail: schuyler539@cs.com
Comment: I need advice on how to handle my x-wife destroying my
relationship with my daughter and I.She has had me arrested
false several times.Now she is accusing me of mental abuse to my daughter.she is also trying to get full custady of her,by means of her new husband filling for adoption.I also
need advise on raising my stepson.
Name: james
EMail: jesse33159@yahoo.com
Comment: i would like to know if any onehas been in my position before, I live 285 miles away from my three children, so I have to go to court in the town 30 minutes from my ex wife s house. Her attorney was the judges campain manager, The attorney atlidem her attorney got here to ask for is also a good friend of the judge and her lawyer. I have had many court dates cancelled because her attorney and the adliem can never get a date when they are all free to go to court, So for over three years I have been trying to get my kids before the judge they have already signed papers asking to live with me. I have had two attorneys on the case and I have gotten no where, my ex wifes husband spends many hours on the phone to all these lawyers and my children are captives of these people, Ay body been there before?
Name: shane
EMail: ctmallard@aol.com
Comment: me and my wife fight alot and argue about everything and she wants too have another baby and im not to sure about please give advice
Name: james
EMail: jtownsel1@hotmail.com
Comment: Is there legal help for fathers who are married w/ children in the home, not surviving due to outstanding childsupport payments?
Name: Bill Winward
EMail: AZBROKER@IX.NETCOM.COM
Comment: basically, i have joint legal custody, i want to see my son as i have been, but was given some advice and want to find out if it is true. my ex-wife is planning on moving out of state, can i stop her some how from moving (her desire is for me not to see my son). does anyone know what kind of rights one has with joint legal custody. please help, i would like to have a responce before 3-20-00, thanks
Name: C. ROLLINS
EMail: sassy-the-cat@hotmail.com
Comment: I NEED TO KNOW LAWS ABOUT ABANDONMENT
Name: C. ROLLINS
EMail: sassy-the-cat@hotmail.com
Comment: I NEED TO KNOW LAWS ABOUT ABANDONMENT and fathers rights when she commits adultry and then leaves kids with me, then after 7mths. comes back and before devorse is filed, she takes kids.when i called cops they said there is nothing they could do.please respond A.S.A.P.
Name: Nick
EMail: jetstream16@hotmail.com
Comment: I am a 28 year old parent of a 17 year old boy, named Skye.
Name: Larry123
EMail: l.laflam@worldnet.attnet
Comment: My girlfriend and I recently seperated. We have a 2 year old daughter. She left the state in the middle of the night last week and gave me no advance warning. Her family in Massachusetts will not answer nor return my calls. What can I do? I spoke with a lawyer and was told that I need to seek legal advice from an attorney in Mass. We have a support order filed in Colorado but nothing regarding custody or visitation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Name: yjh
EMail: ehgv@aol.com
Comment: gterhgethyg
Name: Rob
EMail: rggboy@yahoo.com
Comment: My ex-wife has assisted and supported our 16 year old daughter in securing a parttime job on the weekends when she is legally supposed to be with me. Beacause of the need for money my daughter took the job without looking in the area where we live. My ex and I live 45 minutes apart, and my daughter would have to drive back and forth all weekend. I have joint legal and physical custody of my daughter and 10 year old son. Obviously the relationship between my daughter and me is strained, and it was a wonderful, loving relationship. I cant believe this has happened behind my back at a time when I thought things were going so well. Any help, please!!
Name: nigel langsford
EMail: nigel1@coscom.ne
Comment: please forward australian contacts N.S.W. I am in singleton
i have access every week but the x partner is trying to stop me.My daughter is nearly three and very smart.she is also being led up the wrong path by her mother. thanks
Name: marc cohen
EMail: boxman@netvision.net.il
Comment: my problem is many folded:
first i have a son with an israeli woman that i am not married to or ever plan on marrying and she seems determined to deny my access to him according to the law.
stubbornly she insists that only she will raise him and that i have no say in anything
this is not an money issue its more of a disappointment in the failure of our relationship and even though she is still deeply inlove with me there are mixed signals
i tried immigrating thinking that if i was closer that she would be more open
on the other hand she feels i am a threat and that i intend on stealing her son away from her
the fact is i would never even think the thought and now i am stuck
my finances are never steady and it makes it difficult to pursue legal recourses
my son at the mere age of 3 and a half has witnessed many negative moments between his parents
i was raised in an abusive family and i dont want the same for my only son
do i pull back give up and just become another abse nt father
my heart is too in it for that alternative
i need advice
support and direction
i love my boy more than anything but ame deeply perplexed and concerned that it affects him and that this nurturing will have an indelible and damaging effect
Name: RJ
EMail: rjohn@yifan.net
Comment: I am looking for a good Italian American Female Lawyer in Missouri. One in KC or St. Louis. Please Help!
Name: Richard Conrad
EMail: tdavis@hasimages.com
Comment: I am having problems receiving my visitation rights. From the time my ex and I split up, she has kept my son from me . We have been in court numerous times. Everytime I try to get her for contempt, she comes up with
some bogust charge to fight me on. Now my son is 6 and she never encourages him to go with me. When it is time for my visitation she always has something else for him and then he would rather go with her instead of me. I
can not compete with her. I just want my son when I am supposed to visit with him. Please offer me some suggestions. I can explain things in greater detail if needed.
Name: mark
EMail: markdam@earthlink.net
Comment: single dad dealing with a 12 year old daughter. Wanting to be
a "cool" dad yet trying to get her to see that some clothes are inappropriate
in light of the fact that she has developed real early
Name: Anthony
EMail: Anthoman1@hotmail.com
Comment: I need help or advice on legal custody/rights of visitation rights for my son.
Name: saher tawfik
EMail: sarahazem@AOL.com
Comment: my wife died 8 years ago and i have achild from her after 1 and half year i remarried and i have 2 more children the uncle of my daughter from my first wife claim that my new wife neglect my children and treat my daghter very bad and threatered her to kill her which is not true and the judge gave him temperary custudy order till we go to trial please advise me .
Name: tom
EMail: tom jr @ big t oil tools
Comment: how to fight arrers am paying 50%of income
Name: Abdul Zawadi
EMail: azawadi@rogers.com
Comment: I want shared custady of my children but my wife thinks the only reason i want shared custady is so that i dont pay child support ever since she started talking to a lawyer and that shared custady 1 week on 1 week off does not work is this true.
Name: Charlie Young
EMail: Chasyoung72@hotmail.com
Comment: I am divorced. There were allegations that I was an abusive father. These were wrong and proven so. My daughter has been taken to a Christian school. I have to find her and talk to her. I will gladely talk to who ever is in charge of the place. I have visitation rights. I went to court without a lawyer and won them myself. Does anyone know about such a place and where it is. I live in Indiana and my daughter lived in Indianapolis.
Name: James Weaver
EMail: myrickweaver@yahoo.com
Comment: Ive got three kids by different women. I have to pay child support on two of them, the other lives with me.My first kids mother stopped letting me see her, going on a year know.I got behind on my child support , my own fault, know I dont know what to do. I want to get this straightened out for I can take her back to court for I can see her.I know I need to come up with the money to pay it but once you get behind its hard to catch back up. Is there anything I can do so that Ill have the chance to pay it. Ive got to do something so that I can get back to work regular.
Name: Matt Ullman
EMail: matchyoo@hotmail.com
Comment: Wife left last night after attacking me, took both young kids with her. Left me for another woman. She is very mentally unstable. I want my kids back! Seeing a lawyer tomorrow, any local Tampa, FL support groups? On verge of nervous breakdown, worried for my kids safety.
Name: Marc Gray
EMail: Greenisourkind@exite.com
Comment: I need advice on my case against my ex-wife. Preferably from a lawyer. But any smart person can help!
Name: Clinton Moore II
EMail: cypherwulfe@yahoo.com
Comment: Hello. I am a single 22 army man stationed in Korea. I am getting married to a lovely young lady in April who is also 22, and has a 9 week old saon named Gage. The idea of becomming a father somewhat frightens me. What should I do to get ready for this commitment? I am looking forward to it, dont get me wrong, I am just, to be blunt and honest, scared out of my mind of not being a good father and husband.
Thanx in advance for your help.
Name: chris panizzoli
EMail: nrp1957@cs.com
Comment: I need help finding a lawyer to help me fight back against the mother of my child. She is trying to take full custody, and I would like joint custody. I am looking for an affordable person.
Name: john nacci
EMail: Lizzyb1@home.com
Comment: my ex girlfriend and her ex husband want to give my unborn
child up for adoption, and I have been informed that since
the child was conceived while they were still married, that
I have little or no rights. Even though they are now
divorced, I have been getting conflicting stories and
answers to my questions about my rights. I need to know
what, if anything I can do to stop this adoption process.
I want to at the very least have visitation with my child
and am willing to pay child support. I have been informed
due to my past brushes with the law, that I would never gain
full custody. All I want is to be a part of my daughters
life, and adoption will make this virtually impossible.
Please, if anyone can give me some advice on this matter,
it would be greatly appreciated. The baby is to be born
January 25th, and am running out of time to gather up a
defense against this adoption. I live in Florida, and have \
no idea of the state laws and such.
Thank you very much,
John Nacci
Name: Doug Bryan
EMail: dougsmax@bayou.com
Comment: I would like any information I could get on fathers who have had there children abducted by there spouse during there marriage ie:(before divorce). I have not seen or heard from my children in over two months.
My wife took them and will not tell me where they are.
Name: Scott Beaudry
EMail: keeper04974@yahoo.com
Comment: My ex wife is dying of cancer, we have shared custudy with her being the physical caretaker. I have been very involved with the sharing of parental responcibilty and have always paid child support. She recently told me that she has appointed an executer to make decissions about what will happen with physical custudy when she dies. It was my understanding that when she dies my son would aotomaticly go to me, apparently Im wrong?
Name: andrea_whipple
EMail: @hotmail.com
Comment: Hi I work for a headstart program and I am trying to get some help for our fathers,by setting up a Dads and me program. I would like any help with this. So this will get our fathers envoled because they play a important part in a childs life. If you have any suggestions please let me know would like any imput. thank you!!
Name: Joe McEvoy
EMail: jmcevoy@newsguy.com
Comment: Shoot me! Just kidding, I am a new dad I got maried 1 month ago my new wife already has 2 kids 1 is 4, 1 is 1. I am all the 1 year old knows thats no problem he loves me! but the 4 year old girl knows who her dady was and is having a hard time with me. Now when I say hard time it is not what you would think she calls me dad she excepts all that but she has never been disaplined ever not even a little bit because her dad was never really around and when he was he was playing against mom and she got everything she wanted. But now that thats all over she has me who disapines her and mommy dont like that because she says 4 year old had a hard life. Well my responce is it will be even harder in the long run if we just let her do what ever. I think I am right. And when I disapline Nikki (4 year old) she calls me mean and cries like 4 year olds do but she forgets in a half hour or so and she still loves me the same. Her mother says that she doent want nikki to hate me, I think that it is my wife not the child what should I do ease off the child or stand firm with mom. Also I find myself correcting nikki for the things that her mom already corrected her on for example mom puts nikki into room she is punished she says now you go in your god damn room,(I know you shouldnt swear at kids but it happens sometimes) mom proceeds to take go down stairs to finish laundry nikki comes out of her room because she knows this but doesnt know that I am still hear. I say get back in you room, she starts screaming and tells me no so I pick her up in the same fashon that her mother did and yell now stay in your god damn room, now here comes mom what happened? Now I bet you think she was talking to me wrong walks right past me and asked Nikki what happened are you O.K. I almost died then it gets better nikki explains exactly what happened the hole truth and in front of the child she turns and yells at me for the thing that she did not ten minutes before. The point is it is O.K. for her to do it but I cant. Nikki excepts the disipline as much as expected from a 4 year old its her mom.
Name: T. McCarthy
EMail: mctqtq@aol.com
Comment: I have been a single father for almost 8 years. Now my ex-wife is accusing me of false accuations. She has been in 4 mental hospitals. My final court date is Nov. 3rd 1999. I am afraid that the judge will appoint my ex-wife custody. My daughter is my life. I have raised her since I was 20 years olds. Any help, would be very help full. I will, tell you more later, if someone resonds, quickly!!
Name: Evan
EMail: elerman@Scholl.Edu
Comment: great relationship w/children, very involved in their lives, ex does everything she can to sabotage my relationship w/children. She has only hurt herself w/them by being angry and vindictive. Kids begging me to get custody of them. I cant afford it. Any suggestions?
Name: rich
EMail: jlhinchr@rochelle.net
Comment: help me stop getting messed up
Name: bob
EMail: 105363.750@compuserve.com
Comment: I am completly disabled and would like to know if disability insurance is considered income for child support.
Name: julie
EMail: jgora10200
Comment: getting father interested in his children
Name: Scott Upchurch
EMail: lildove1@gateway.net
Comment: I am writing for my husband and stepdaughter. She would like visitation with us, and her mother is not agreeable. They live in S. Dakota, we live in Illinois. The post dissolution order was written in Minnesota where they were divorced. It states that the minor can not be taken out of Minnesota. Is the ex wife in violation? What state do we petition to modify? What age does the child have to be to have her wishes heard, and how does that come about? She has expressed her thoughts along this line.
Please help. We feel she is not being guided very well, and this is a very critical age for her. She knows her mother gets "stoned", etc.
Name: Robert Burgess
EMail: az_bob@hotmail.com
Comment: I stuggle with my sons homosexuality
Name: Craig A. Milliman
EMail: Craigart@peachnet.campus.mci.net
Comment: I need an attorney in the middle Georgia area (Atlanta close enough) who has actually won custody of a minor child for the father. My ex-wife, in a fit of anger, gave me custody of our daughter on June 13. On July 11 she spirited Kelsey away for a two week vacation, and today I was served with papers in which she demands full custody, despite the fact that our shared parenting agreement is just over year old. Our daughter hates her, and she is accusing me of alienating her affections. Any suggestions? Thanks. Craig
Name: Thomas Schliskey Jr.
EMail: umpappa@neo.rr.com
Comment: Give any and all info regards to CSB to help regain custody
of daughter from an admitted drug using mother; and also returning to family home without putting said child out on street; JUST PLAIN AND SIMPLE HELP ME PLEASE
Name: Chris & Suzi Kaska
EMail: suzette@tranplaneng.com
Comment: The mother of my son moved him out of state (from Seattle to Denver) with the promise of visitation. We sent an airline ticket (he is due to arrive this Saturday) and agreed initially to 1 month. Now she is negating that agreement and is threatening that she will not send him unless we agree to 2 weeks and send his return flight ticket to her prior to Saturday (which we cannot do until the second week in July). What can we do to ensure that she will put him on the plane? Thank you!
Name: Joe Dauginas
EMail: j.dauginas@intmail.att.net
Comment: I need help with not being able to see my soon to be one year old son on a regular basis. We are unwed, yet trying to keep daddy in the picture. Jamie lives with her mom who is controlling, divorced twice, and does not like me to be around. There is even more to this story. If someone ouy there could help, maybe mentor and meet in chat room I would greatly apprecite it. I want to be not only a good dad to our son, but also a good husband to Jamie.
Name: Brian Macon
EMail: galery1696@aol.com
Comment: I am 41 years old with three kids ages 14,12, and 4 months. The four month old is with my second wife, who I am recently separated from. We are going to court on Friday for support and custody issues. She is demanding that I have supervised visitation. I am not a felon, drug user, or abusive person. She is saying that the baby is too young to spen time with me alone. I live just 20 minutes away, and am only asking for a few hours twice a week to see him alone so I can establish a relationship with him. She wants to be there the whole time, which is extremely stressful. Anyone with any ideas I need to use to help my attorney make my case will be appreciated. What type of visitation does the court normally award to the father of a four month old?
Name: Bob Hatton
EMail: cometcaliente@hotmail.com
Comment: I have gone through a bitter divorce In ID. And lost about all I had. I have had numerous protection orders (cpors) put on me, and many false accusations made even molesting my daughters. I spent last two years studying law and also found an aggresive attorney. I modified decree and now have primary physical custody of my daughters. It can be done, but be prepared for a long hard battle and you need to do your homework. Law libraries in your courthouse and online are available to the general population.
Name: robert richardson
EMail: robert.richardson4@worldnet.att.net
Comment: I am employed as a Fatherhood Coordinator for the state of Georgia.I help non-custodial parents get the training to obtain gainful employment. I need ideas on how to reach these guys,and ideas on how to promote fatherhood month
Name: Gene
EMail: flyboy23n@aol.com
Comment: What can be done about DEAD BEAT MOTHERS! The legal system in Maryland has me believing that mothers are immune to the child support laws. Over a year has passed, along with thousands of dollars in legal fees, and not one cent of child support has been collected. I have filed with Domestic Relations and even talked with State Attorneys, but still this "mother" avoids payment. Please forward any material that could be helpful. Thank you for your concern in this matter.
Frustrated
Name: Charles Sparks
EMail: advocate@pennpals.org
Comment: Request submitted in behalf of Giles Kadri 25408-013, Unit M/B, 37910 N. 45th Ave, Dept 1700, Phoenix, AZ 85027-7055.
"Where can I go for divorced fathers searching to find their children? I have been writing letters of help to every agency I know to get help. So far no luck. Could you help me with this? "PLEASE???"
From Charles- you may leave an email w/ me if you know a credible resourse and prefer this method. Thank you for your kindness.
Name: Raymond Wallace
EMail: arctic_one@hotmail.com
Comment: How if possible, do I go about finding out my daughters address so I can at least send her a letter.? I do not have visitation rights or anything, kind of long story, her mother and I were never married or anything. I was in Army when mother became pregnant with our child, She did not bother to inform me
until about four years later when the state wanted to know if I was in fact the Father. Other Than hiring a attorney, is there any other way ? Do not have alot of funds at this time. story of my life , anyway my daughter is now 13 years old. I have seen her one time when she was four.
Now, I have two girls from present wife of six years, my girls are three and four , I cannot imagine not being a part of their life, and coupled with the fact that my own father left my brother and mother and I when I was seven, I now no longer care how hard it is , I will find a way to at least
be able to tell my daughter in NC what happened to her Dad, and give her the chance to at least tell me off if she feels so inclined. And to hopefully get to know each other. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you.
Name: maxwell sears
EMail: saveyou@hotmail.com
Comment: my wife run off with my two daughters in Atlanta, ga ? should I file kidnapped charges or give her time to set time for me to see the children. she has left since December, 18th, 1998. it has been hard because my children have never been away from me. what is the best legal way for me to get my children back? or do i have to go to Atlanta and get myself?
Name: meme
EMail: www.mikeebl2@aol
Comment:
Legal advice on a child support hearing that did not go well at all. I really do not want to go into details but if someone could email me so we can get together and talk I would really be greatful.
Thank You,
Name: Giselle
EMail: giz2000@yahoo.com
Comment: Hi...I am a counselor who has a client that needs help and support. He is in danger of losing his parental rights in California, and I am looking for support groups/ legal help/etc. for him. Does anyone know of any good support groups in the Sacramento, CA area??? Thanks for any and all help received.!!
Name: Warren Tabolt
EMail: Tabolt@aol.com
Comment: Leslie, my x-wife, refused to give me the kids this weekend. I was supposed to have them from 2-12 - 2-21 so I made reservations to take them to Disney.She said she was not making them available until Monday 2-15 at ten. I have a flight reserved at 1 pm that day. The airport is six hours from her house. I called the police. They agreed with me. But said they would not get me my kids. How can I make her give me my kids when its my time?
Warren
Name: Bradley Boston Sr.
EMail: bj428@juno.com
Comment: First I need a good stable job on the bus line to help
provide for my son that I have not supported in 10 or more
years. Second I will need some counciling or group meetings
to help strengthen my parenting skills. Third I will need
some dependable transportation for my son and his mother
do not live on the bus line. I can be reach at (404)363-9272
Thanks,
Brad Boston
Name: Peter D. Uva
EMail: PeterDUva@aol.com
Comment: My 11 year old son wants to live with me, after living with his mother for the past 3 years. Please send information or reference material on the rights of children for the state of Florida, and the name of a good attorney in the Tampa area.
Name: Jimmy
EMail: m.richards@edaptive.com
Comment: My fiance and I have been together 2.5 years. Her son was 3 when I came into the picture he is now 6. He loves me a lot, and I love him a lot too, the problem is not him, it is me. I am constantly yelling at him because he does not listen, have have little or no patience. My fiance trys to help but it makes me feel like they are teaming up against me. It is not only me that he does not listen to, it is everyone. I just feel like he is spitting in my face and laughing at me.
Name: lamont
EMail: 104139@aol
Comment: i need information on how to gain partial costdy of my son
my son
Name: Shane Adkins
EMail: sadkins4@juno.com
Comment: My chrildren have live with thier mother, and she has refused to
let me see them. I have never been late with my child support
but I am a person of limited finances. I need help with visitation
sugestions, courses of action, things I should be doing to
secure visitation. If someone out there can please help me I
would very much appreciate it. Thank You
Name: markus
EMail: mark_908@hotmail
Comment: if i become a member, do i get access to the real info. I need something like easypro or eqv. thanks.
Name: john p
EMail: jtpulliam@yahoo.com
Comment: i am a disabled vet. and have been retired from active
service. 20 days after my retirement my wife decides that
she is not happy and wants to get a divorce she has gotten
domicile custody and i get her every other weekend but the
problem is that i can provide full time parienting for my
daughter but she thinks that she is right and my point of
view does not matter due to me ding disabled i cannot afford
a lawer so therfor i am hoping to find out if ther is any
low cost/free leagl avalable for someone in my postion.....
please help
thank you!!!
john t pulliam
ssg. usa. (ret)
Name: Norman C Moore
EMail: nmoore@gte.net
Comment: I know someone that had a child out of wedlock and lived together as man and wife for several years in the state of Florida. The mother ran off to Illinois with the child. The father has received a independant proceedings summons to appear in Illinois court on 1/20/99 the mother stated a large number of untruths about the father in forms and is requesting full custody and no visitation by the father. It is further stated if the father does not appear in Illinois court that the order of full custody and no visitation will go into effect for 2 years. Is this legal to have the father to travel to another state in which they did not live. And what are the fathers options? Any help on this matter would be greatly appreciated. I am trying to help the father who as you can imagine is extremely distraught.
Thank You, Norman C Moore
Name: mark
EMail: markdam@earthlink.net
Comment: Ihave sole physical and joint legal custody of my 11 year old daughter
whom I didnt know existed untill she was 6 years old. The problem is
that she is very disrespectful of me and my side of the family and although
Ive given her more stability and love than she ever had, we
dont hold a candle in comparison to her moms side of the family,
in her eyes. Is this just a cross I must bear?
Name: ron scott
EMail: ronald.scott@cibasc.com
Comment: help obtaining child support from out of state mother. I am in alabama and ex is in North carolina. divorce was in south carolina. divorce did not include child support info if child lives with father.
Name: maquade
EMail: jledford@webtv.net
Comment: I need advice for my teenage brother. He is 18 and his 17 year old girlfriend is pregnant.He wants to raise the baby himself but she wants to give it up. Her parents are pushing that way. He has had some problems with the law like stealing. He promises to stay out of trouble if he gets the baby. Does anyone know about unwed fathers rights? Her family is going to get a, lawyer she has been offered 3000.00 and a car to give the baby up. My wife and I have offered to help him raise the baby.
Name: Michael Ferraiuolo
EMail: mferraiuol@aol.com
Comment: I am a resident of NJ, was divorced in Hampden County Mass. nearly six years ago,my children live in CT with their mother. In what state is jurisdiction over continuing disputes? Thanks to anyone who knows.
Name: Ernie Weeks
EMail: zqsllc@usit.net
Comment: I am Ernie Weeks, board member of DADs in Tennesee. We are interested in
sending out the NFI media kit to legislators and local media as part of
a campaign to push our pilot program legislation state wide.
Someone can help by providing pricing info to me,
at zqsllc@usit.net, or by phone. (423) 281-7080.
we have slightly over a hundred legislators, so I am blatendly looking
for a discount in price (please).....
/ernie weeks
Name: nitewalk
EMail: nitewalk@well.com
Comment: I need to learn how to get the best, cheapest legal advice and representation possible as I barely make enough to cover my day to day living and pay 18 percent to the mother, who has fiscally powerful parents who are doing everything in their power to remove as many of my rights to my child as they can. The mother and my daughter both live with moms parents and she works for her step-father out of their home, which is completely on the other side of town. I am a very good-hearted man, and very gentle. The mother has severe emotional problems but is shielded by her parents, who do not like me and are subtly enabling and very nasty. I love my daughter. I want to be part of her life. I need help defending myself as the mothers family is starting court proceedings. Help!
Name: Richard
EMail: Zauric@MSN.COM
Comment: My ex-wife was supposed to pay child support begining last april.she has not paid anything.My lawyer wants $750.00 to pursue the case. Is there any way I can file without using a Lawyer?
Name: Michael Rogers
EMail: mr331@msn.com
Comment: My ex-girlfriend got pregnant on purpose when we were just about to breakup. Even though we agreed she would have an abortion if this ever happened, she kept the baby. I resent her very much and have not spoken to her since she was 6 months pregnant. Please help.
Name: Mathew Schulz
EMail: schu0967@tc.umn.edu
Comment: I am a freshman in college doing a sociology report on
fatherhaood and how it is changing. Any information,
tips, or comments are welcome, please!!!
Name: Norm Liverpool
EMail: Nliver2617@aol.com
Comment: The children have their own lawyer and he believes they should live with me. The court councelor believes their mother should be.How can I get the Judge to decide.
Name: Phil
EMail: Lb46@hotmail.com
Comment: I am looking for a mens rights group where I can get legal help. I am a student and I am getting totally bent over with my child support.
People are telling me that there are mens groups out there that I can get help from but I have yet to find them. If you have any ideas that
you think could help me I would like to hear them.
Name: dad
EMail: dad@
Comment: how do i tell my daughter about sex?
Name: Christopher
EMail: chrisp2156@aol.com
Comment: I have been divorced for 2 years and need help to customize or redo my custody in Pa. I dont have a lot of money and I am not allowed to drive with my daughter because i dont have a licenses. My family will go with me to pick up my daughter but my x wife wont let my daughter stay overnight. I live with my mother and going to be remaried soon and my daughter wants to stay with me on a weekend now and then we also live within 30 miles of each other or so. Thank you in advance for any help in this matter
Name: slim harmon
EMail: stlcards@sprynet.com
Comment: My fiance left with my 2 children about a year ago
I have not seen or heard from them in 2 months
What are my legal rights / options?
Is there someone is St Louis, Mo I can contact
lkm S. Harmon
Name: Tim
EMail: grim613@yahoo.com
Comment: I am a recovering alcoholic. I am trying to establish a relationship with my children ( and reestablish a relationship with my wife). I have two daughters, 13 and 10 and two sons, 8 and 5. How do I begin being a part of their lives when I have been ignoring them (or they were wishing that I was) for years?
Name: craig
EMail: soleim@aol.com
Comment:
Im away from my family due too my job, and I feel real guilty about that. Im very depressed.
Name: steven g. perk
EMail: sperk50673@aol.com
Comment: custody
Name: rick
EMail: ROAMIN98@HOTMAIL.COM
Comment: My wife and I do not seem to get along anymore and have talked in detail about a divorce but i fear for my children. I think that staying home is the best thing I can do for my kids because I do not want them to blame me totally for the failer of my marriage. Is is worth sticking things out for the benifit of my children. I am very confused and struggling with this issue..Please help me.
Name: Brian
EMail: bdw@net1plus.com
Comment: I have no idea where to go at this point. My wife
has started to make arrangements to take my 15
month old son and leave. Her reason: She wants
another child but I do not. I want my son to grow
up in a stable household with my wife and I, not
on the road while my wife seeks a sperm donor.
Where do I stand morally and legally in this matter?
Name: DAVE SPELLMEYER
EMail: spellmeyer@earthlink.com
Comment: NEED TO MODIFY MY WAGE ASSIGNMENT, THE EX IS GETTING MARRIED
ON SATURDAY. I THINK I JUST NEED THE FORMS FOR CALIFONIA???
Name: Emily Casper
EMail: casper@pce.net
Comment: Hi. I am not a father but i am the mother of a beautiful baby girl whose father has chosen to be absent from her life. We were in a 5 year relationship which he decided to break off when I became pregnant. I am going to encourage him to explore this site but I was wondering if anyone has any helpful suggestions for me. Thank you.
Name: Tim Newland
EMail: newlatb@utah-inter.net
Comment: I am in a custody battle, I am being falsely accused, I am pursuing custody of my 7yr old son, my ex was convicted of 7 drug/weapons related charges last year, incarcerated and released. she has threatened my life for pursuing custody, now she has accused me of doing drugs, I have worked for a company who randomly tests for drugs for 11 years as an engineer, her lawyer and her are requesting that I must now submit to drug testing before I can visit or see my son. I have never been in trouble in my life for alcohol or drugs, she is still on a 3 year intensive probation, and has physical custody of my son, we share joint legal custody, I am being denied my court ordered liberal visitation rights on top of that by my ex, I have a good lawyer (I think)
Name: Thad Tietsort
EMail: tietsort@hotmail.com
Comment: I am requesting a modification to custody of my daughter.
The jurisdiction is in San Bernardino, California.
I know that I have a good case, I am afraid of the bias of the courts. Is there anyone who can give me some information that could help me to believe that I do have a chance, considering all of the bias I read about in the courtrooms. I am feeling quite discouraged.
Name: mcgee
EMail: mcgee@aol.com
Comment: legal visitation of my child without mother interfering
Name: howard baker
EMail: baker hd@valuenet.com
Comment: i want changes in the way this country deals with fathers .i dont know how things got this way but we need change now .i have so much hate and anger for government and courts something has got to happen.i need information on where to go andwhere to begin.
Name: Bruce Larson
EMail: ockelbo@aol.com
Comment: Please visit my page for an explanation of what is going on with my case: http://members.aol.com/ockelbo
Any suggestions and support would be greatly appreciated...
thank you
Bruce Larson
Name: Mark Clinton
EMail: MClin39037@aol.com
Comment: I need assistance with legal research with false sexual abuse allegation(s), specifically lewd & lasivious conduct in Florida. Or advice from someone who has faced this or a similar situation.
Name: frances griner
EMail: frances.griner@mci2000.c0m
Comment: Has anybody had experience with the Dept of Revenue
and getting them to do an administrative review and
downward mod of child support. So far they are refusing to
do one.
Name: Rick
EMail: newstart@hta.net
Comment: I am a 28 year old father to a 3 year old daughter. her mother and I were not married but lived together for 2 years, I have not been able to have even minimal visitation since her mother and I seperated (her mother wants nothing to do with me and wont allow it!) Together or not she is my daughter too and I love her and want verry much to be a part of my daughters life. Finances are extreemly limited and my attorney has gotten no place. the state of CT. seems to feel that fathers are not important. What can I do? Can any one help?
Name: athcoach
EMail: athcoach@aol.com
Comment: advice on how to gain visitation privileges...unable to see children for past 4 yrs
Name: Michele
EMail: mkaczmer@cccr.com
Comment: I am about to get married to a wonderful man who has joint custody of a beautiful 3-year boy... how can I support both of these men?? His ex makes things so difficult and I want to help my future husband as much as possible!!!! How can I deal with the frustration and anger I have for her and the way she treats him?
Name: Karen E
EMail: erickson@net-info.com
Comment: I am looking for a copy of the document "Seven Things States Can Do To Promote Responsible Fatherhood." I would like to use it for an class debate in support of fatherhood at the U of MN 10/15/97.
Name: Tim Poage
EMail: http://fiest.commsheryl@feist.com
Comment: If Someone could advise me on how my visitation is denied, my son having his mothers ex husbands last name, her blatant, easly proven lies to the court, my $500.00 retained attny fails to show up in court twice,(Bench warrant issued, ordered to pay her attny)her bankrupcy followed by a $110,000 inheritence, my child support behind $1800.00 from termination of employment due to personnal duress, her loss of custody of 3 to her ex who fathered 1, Warrants me being a deadbeat dad????? After 35yrs my morning promise of not allowing my generational tradition of fatherless children to continue. Please someone help me out???
Name: Steve T
EMail: tollef@broadcom.com
Comment: Has anyone had any experience using the Hague Convention
or the State Dept. in trying to get a child returned
from France? My wife absconded with my 6 year old
daughter to France and has filed for divorce there.
Our home has been in California for the past 3 years.
Can France have jusrisdiction just like that?
Name: Dan
EMail: bassmandan@hotmail.com
Comment: Anyone know the child support payment formula for
the State of Califorina?
Name: Jason
EMail: Jasons@ryback.com
Comment: Trying to med. cust/vis of my 9 month girl. Mom: history of depression, violence, we
lived (not married) in Clev.OH; I moved in Feb back home to St.LMO to stop fights.
Then mom moved w. baby to Philly. difficult to sort issues of changing locales, mom
uncooperative. I did my homework and wrote a joint custody arrangement,
Name: Jason
EMail: JasonS@ryback.com
Comment: She agreed at first and then months later turned. Not getting
anywhere with lawyers either. Frustrated, miss my baby. Advice on out of state
cases welcome, as are contacts for Cleveland and/or Philly based fathers orgs or pro-father lawyers.
Thanks, good luck to you all.
Name: James
EMail: jsaxon@pacbell.net
Comment: Single dad, 2.5 year old boy. Mommy is pushing for
mediation and wrote an agreement that I am not totally happy with.
For instance she wants me to get written consent for taking a trip
with him. ALso she wants full legal custody. This does not sound
right to me. Seek a lawyer????
Name: David Kurowski
EMail: Repeat@iols.com
Comment: The judge gave temp. custody and child support to my
wife. I then had to let my lawyer go and file bankruptcy.
We are currently going to a concilliator. Her lawyer
shorttened the time needed for her report. The judge
is biased against me for not having a lawyer, and repeatedly
tells me to shut up when trying to plead my case. Is there
any free legal advice out there?
Name: maureen kappler
EMail: 103705.1162@compuserve.com
Comment: I am looking for a curriculum for fatherhood development. I work with adolescents in detention and many of them are fathers. thank you.
Name: Bill Crowley
EMail: b@wlca.com
Comment: I need help dealing with my ex-wife and mother of my two
teenage children. In a word, she has made my life as
difficult as possible in performing my role as a caring
father.
We have joint custody and I have lived up to conditions
beyond those specified in our divorce agreement. She and
her male friend have consistently played down and twisted
my efforts as a father to the point where my 17 year old
daughter refuses to speak to me and the relationship
with my 14 year old son is a constant struggle to keep on
course.
Can you give some advice.
Sincerely,
Bill Crowley.
Name: Mayeen Clayton
EMail: Mayeen72@aol.com
Comment: I would like to receive some information and some advice.
I recently lost a court order with welfare. I got divorce in 1990. During the last 7 years, I have had joint physical and legal custody of my son. My son is now 8 years old. My ex wife has bee
Name: Robbie Dickinson
EMail: ICNNVRHID@AOL.COM
Comment: I am going through a very bitter divorce right now and cannot afford a retainer for a good lawyer. My wife has had varioous affairs with men she has met on line. I have proof of these and know I could get my children and myself out of this situation.
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